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hannaramaa
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posted February 13, 2012 01:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How good are double water signs at reading people?

I have a Cancer rising Pisces friend, with her moon in Libra and although she seems pretty accurate I know other Pisces placed people (say that three times fast, lol) who are completely off in their own world.

I know aspects and houses factor in when you're getting to the nitty gritty, but in general what has been your experience when it comes to their accuracy?


I'm wondering if Fire/Earth signs see the reailty and truth of a situation faster than a water sign, but water signs are able to see what's going on in THAT precise moment.

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posted February 13, 2012 02:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think all water sun sign people can read people incredibly well despite moon sign. I think cancer is probably the best placement at reading people. I know the famous one is scorpio, but i know way too many cancer moon, sun and rising people who are great at reading people and way too many scorpio sun, moon, and rising people who either seem to be oblivious or look too deep into things looking for a fly in the ointment where there is none. I think pisces are good at it too but not as good as cancers. Pisces tends to trust everyone though and see the best of everyone

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posted February 13, 2012 02:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
I think all water sun sign people can read people incredibly well despite moon sign. I think cancer is probably the best placement at reading people. I know the famous one is scorpio, but i know way too many cancer moon, sun and rising people who are great at reading people and way too many scorpio sun, moon, and rising people who either seem to be oblivious or look too deep into things looking for a fly in the ointment where there is none. I think pisces are good at it too but not as good as cancers. Pisces tends to trust everyone though and see the best of everyone

I agree about Pisces and seeing the best in everyone. Pisces love to trust people, and even when they get hurt they are optimistic it's for a purpose. And THANK YOU about the oblivious thing and Scorpios. My BFF is like that, or can be, and I have to sit there and spell it out ... and then she gets offended lol. She acts somewhat Piscean trying to see the best in everyone instead of the truth.

Anyway, so if my friend has Cancer rising then she's probalby better than most Pisces at reading people and being RIGHT, right?

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posted February 13, 2012 02:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Capriquarius     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lol

Cancer is the first water sign on the zodiac wheel. Least advanced of the water signs, subjective, defensive. Ruled by the Moon, which revolves around us (I.e. dependant).

Scorpio and Pisces are ruled by powerful IMPERSONAL planets.

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posted February 13, 2012 02:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Anyway, so if my friend has Cancer rising then she's probalby better than most Pisces at reading people and being RIGHT, right?

Lol yeah...I guess that's an exception to my "theory"
ha.. But yeah I think so for sure. I mean all the cancer rising people i know are fabulous at reading people. I think it's more of whether someone is "trustworthy" or not though or i guess another way of putting it is that it's a more superficial reading into people. I think cancer sun people are great at seeing someone's "true" nature and the reasons behind why they act they way they do. Almost like being able to know someone pretty well after only talking to them a few times. That's bc cancer suns are very complex themselves, so they easily understand and see the conplexity in others and understanding others is where they get all their
compassion from. Or rather, they have so much compassion, because they innately understand others.

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posted February 13, 2012 03:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Rosalind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm Cancer Sun, Scorpio Rising. I read people and very accurately. I have been told that I'm good to be a psychic. Scorpio Rising is conjunct with Pluto in 12th house (house of Pisces)

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posted February 13, 2012 03:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
Lol

Cancer is the first water sign on the zodiac wheel. Least advanced of the water signs, subjective, defensive. Ruled by the Moon, which revolves around us (I.e. dependant).

Scorpio and Pisces are ruled by powerful IMPERSONAL planets.


Actually, I would say the moon, because it rules emotions itself, would be the one to understand others' emotions the best. And by the way, Saturn, the MOST impersonal planet, makes Capricorns terrible judges of character simply because Capricorn is the worst at understanding its own and, as a result, others' emotions. Conversely, that's what it needs to learn from it's opposite, Cancer, who happens to understand it's own emotions really well, and as a result can understand others' really well, too.

And, by the way, it's dependent, not dependant. It's like confident and confidant. Dependant is a noun. And actually, wouldn't you say the moon has pretty strong power over the earth, as it rules everybodys' emotional states? Doesn't seem very "dependent" to me.

It bothers me that you would rank on Cancer suns so much in one post, so I had to. Sorry. And just to add a final touch .........


Lol.

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posted February 13, 2012 03:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Xiiro     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I agree that Cancer is best at reading people initially, but the Cancers I have met, have a tendency to fly off into selfish land (AKA okay enough about you, how do I feel and how can you make me feel better?) once they believe they have figured a person out or paid their emotional dues. Scorpio excels at reading people over long periods of time, maintaining emotional connections and keeping the energy of relationships going in a specific direction. Pisces on the other hand may not shine at feeling out people initially, or maintaining an emotional connection with more than a select number of people, but they are the best at understanding how to feel out and manipulate situations. If someone threatens a Pisces, they can turn the tide so everyone in the room wants to chase their perpetrator out of the buildings with torches and pitchforks. If a Pisces is caught breaking the law, an hour later the cop is giving them a ride home and telling them to call him directly if they need help. I think the reading ability is equally situational.

Fire reads through sensation, the energy that radiates off people is translated to fire signs through feelings in the body (similar to how heat outside your body can cause feelings of cozy and contentment inside the body). It is the reason Aries can react so quickly when they sense danger. Leo rules drama, because they are master manipulators of the "flavor" of the energy that radiates from their being. Sag is capable of changing the mood of a room and inspiring others to join them in general mayhem.

Earth reads through intuition (oddly enough), It is one of the reasons Virgo rules the gut. Earth signs utilize all their physical senses to collect data, but their final decision is based on how that data feels. Taurus only participates with things that their senses feel are best quality, Virgo analyzes their environment and tests the data against their gut to determine the appropriate approach to each situation, and Capricorn uses an intuitive impression of their environment to determine what actions and materials can be used to yield the most beneficial results.

a water ASC should equip the person with an emotional filtration device; they walk around with their feelers outstretched. Add a Water Sun and the person's individual identity relies on the emotional impressions they pick up from their environment. Mercury in water should be very helpful to a person when it comes to the capacity for reading the emotions of others.

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posted February 13, 2012 03:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for anongrl10     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
Lol

Cancer is the first water sign on the zodiac wheel. Least advanced of the water signs, subjective, defensive. Ruled by the Moon, which revolves around us (I.e. dependant).

Scorpio and Pisces are ruled by powerful IMPERSONAL planets.


That to me makes a lot of sense.
I'm biased with Cancers because my mom is one and she's very much like you describe Cancers above, Capri. But you gave good reason. Neptune may also be a bit foggy with reality even though impersonal. Pisces often sense things and people rather than logically think about them. Scorpios to me are taking the prize here. Pluto gives them the depth and the curiosity to get at it. Of course it's very important to know the sign Pluto is in, but in general we can all agree that Pluto is less foggy than Neptune and less volatile than the Moon.

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posted February 13, 2012 03:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Pisces love to trust people, and even when they get hurt they are optimistic it's for a purpose.

Yeah...Neptune and their love of seeing the beauty and idealism in everything. Neptune definitely equals oblivion. But, even so, I still think pisces are pretty perceptive into people's true nature AT TIMES. Then they go back to being all idealistic. It's like they can't ever stay thinking badly of anyone.

I agree that Scorpios can be pretty oblivious. I think they understand human nature very well, but arent good at understanding people individually. They tend to put individuals on a pedestal and be blind to their faults. It's interesting how they can be so idealistic about individuals yet so pessimistic of human nature in general at the same time. Shrugs.

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posted February 13, 2012 03:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for appleberry     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm very good at reading people. Much better than the average person but I tend to see the bad first and later see the good.

I have Mercury conjunct Jupiter in Pisces (in the 5th).

Other than that I have very little water in my chart. Nothing in Scorpio, only MC in Cancer and Neptune in Sag in the 3rd. I also have nothing in Earth but my POF and IC.

I trust nobody and I am pessimistic in a hopeful way if that makes sense.

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posted February 13, 2012 03:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Xiiro

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Cancers I have met, have a tendency to fly off into selfish land (AKA okay enough about you, how do I feel and how can you make me feel better?)

What does that have to do with Cancers' ability to read people? Huh? But, by the way, that is true about Cancers. You don't understand the reason for the behavior at all and seem to be putting it in a negative light. But that is true. Cancers do that to connect on a deeper level with people.

I think all signs and all people use their intuition, it's just that Water signs have a harder time putting their intuition into words.

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posted February 13, 2012 03:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Appleberry, wouldn't not trusting anyone show that you distrust your own ability to read people?

I would think the person who is a good judge of character would trust some and also distrust some, but not just distrust everyone.

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posted February 13, 2012 03:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Betty Boop     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hannarama - When one of these friends share their thoughts, feelings, hunches and judgements with you - try to check their accuracy. Don't mistrust them and think they are lost in a dream world - based on your gut feelings alone.

I have an airy friend who lacks water for the most part. I have Cancer AC and Pisces stuff. We had a conversation way back in September last yr when she asked me what I thought about a particular guy. The truth is I thought he was creepy.. and not just slightly creepy - I mean I got really bad vibes from him. I had a strong feeling that he was a mysoginist but the feeling went further - I could actually see him being physically abusive towards a woman. At the time I didn't get to tell her these things. Having a Pisces Merc I can also intuit people's reactions to what I might say and I knew that my friend would not hear me out and that she'd completely take it the wrong way. So all I said was "I'm not sure. He doesn't really seem like my kind of person. Something about him makes me think he might be a womanizer, but obviously I don't know him." I toned it down basically. But even so she instantly overreacted to what I said: "What? Him? No! He's a really nice guy. I'm sure you must've just misinterpreted something." So I backed off 100% and said "ya I guess...." and then I went quiet because I don't believe it's ok for me to interfere in someone else's life. I thought that maybe it was really just in my head. I'm positive judging by her reaction at that time and her facial expression that she could've easily written this thread herself if she was into astrology. I'm positive that in that moment she thought "what an exaggerated thing to say" - and had she known about my Pisces placements she might've thought: "Must be typical Pisces behaviour making stuff up etc. not being able to distinguish fact from fiction."

Months later, about two weeks ago we had a conversation about the same guy. She told me that they were at a formal dinner together where she found out he had a gf (this is after he made out with my friend and went on two dates with her and never mentioned being in relationship). At this dinner he was apparently very rude to his gf. He kept flirting with other girls, putting his arm around them and doing really inappropriate things. And this wasn't like a party. It was a more formal work-related event. His gf was upset and crying in the bathroom. Plus he completely ignored my friend all night as though he had never met her. My friend was now very angry with him -and telling me how much of a jerk he is. She didn't seem to remember our convo in September at all nor did I bring it up. I'm pretty sure that if a similar thing happened again she would think I was delusional all over again. People have a way of remembering only those things that go along with their pre-existing beliefs about the world. As a Pisces influenced person I'll never say "I told you so" nor will I try to prove something or explain myself because I don't feel like this would help the person in any way. I don't start arguments when it's basically futile.

What I'm getting at is that - your watery friends probably won't explain themselves to you or try to prove the accuracy of their beliefs.. unless they have other fiestier placements. So if you want to check their accuracy you have to remember what they told you and be patient enough to figure out if they were correct - as time goes on.

I doubt that they will always be accurate. I'm not always accurate but I'm close enough most of the time.

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posted February 13, 2012 05:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Xiiro     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Xiiro

What does that have to do with Cancers' ability to read people? Huh? But, by the way, that is true about Cancers. You don't understand the reason for the behavior at all and seem to be putting it in a negative light. But that is true. Cancers do that to connect on a deeper level with people.

I think all signs and all people use their intuition, it's just that Water signs have a harder time putting their intuition into words.


Apparently Cancers are good at reading people, but not so great at reading quotes before they accuse people of not knowing what they are talking about. That sentence you only partially quoted started with, "I agree that Cancer is best at reading people initially" which means I actually agree with you that Cancers are the best out of all water signs at reading people in their day to day lives. You stated that I don't understand the reason for the behavior (though I was raised by a Cancer mother and a Scorpio father, have close relationships with Cancers and my Sun's ruler is in Cancer), yet agree that my comment was true. I admit I'm a bit confused.

To answer your question, that applies to Cancer's ability to read people, because reading a person requires more than a first impression or one's "comfortable idea" of who that person is. The Moon still has astronaut foot prints in it's face, from almost 50 years ago. In the same way Cancer gains an impression and builds the rest of their view around that impression. Regardless of how deeply a Cancer reads someone initially, the lack of ability to maintain that read, renders them only partially informed. If you feel that process in someway connects Cancers to others on a deeper level, then yes I admit to not understanding Cancers deepening process. Being a cardinal sign and built to initiate, (not maintain or transform) is not a "negative light', it is a characteristic Cancer shares with three other zodiac signs.

Scorpio can be accused of discriminating against people before getting to know them, or not accepting a person when they want to change, but when it comes to knowing how to continuously maintain an emotional read on people, Scorpio wins. In Pisces case, it is easy to say that Pisces has unrealistic ideals of people and can be flaky when it comes to maintaining a presence in the lives of everyone they care about. The moment someone changes or faces great upheaval, Pisces will be the first to notice, encourage, and accept them, not Cancer or Scorpio. They all are equally great at reading emotions, they just do it best under different conditions.

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posted February 13, 2012 05:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for L0veLess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
And by the way, Saturn, the MOST impersonal planet, makes Capricorns terrible judges of character simply because Capricorn is the worst at understanding its own


In my little astro book it says:
Capricorns are not very good judges of character. If a friendship goes wrong, because of bad judgement in the first place, Capricorn may turn hateful. If a Capricorn suspects a friend of deception, he or she will start to suspect all friends. Sometimes Capricorn tests the trustworthiness of friends several times.

you just reminded me of it haha. I've read it a million times and i never understood it. i think i even got mad at it. Like how is this book telling me I cant make friends! but i think i understand it better now.

Also to add to things, I'm starting to rethink the whole scorpio moon piercing through everyone thing. I mean the moon in scorpio is in its Fall which is the worst placement for it. A lot of people have it conjunct pluto too, it seems, and i wonder what other negative effects that has upon it's supposed abilities.

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posted February 13, 2012 05:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Capriquarius     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Actually, I would say the moon, because it rules emotions itself, would be the one to understand others' emotions the best. And by the way, Saturn, the MOST impersonal planet, makes Capricorns terrible judges of character simply because Capricorn is the worst at understanding its own and, as a result, others' emotions. Conversely, that's what it needs to learn from it's opposite, Cancer, who happens to understand it's own emotions really well, and as a result can understand others' really well, too.

And, by the way, it's dependent, not dependant. It's like confident and confidant. Dependant is a noun. And actually, wouldn't you say the moon has pretty strong power over the earth, as it rules everybodys' emotional states? Doesn't seem very "dependent" to me.

It bothers me that you would rank on Cancer suns so much in one post, so I had to. Sorry. And just to add a final touch .........


Lol.



LOL yeah Saturn is impersonal. Love having it as a ruling planet! Keeps me from taking things personally, ya kno? Prolly not, being a Cancer lololol

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posted February 13, 2012 07:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for VenusDiSirius     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This type of conversations always remind me of a brilliant lalalinda's conclusion about Water signs - Water needs container.

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posted February 13, 2012 09:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Apparently Cancers are good at reading people, but not so great at reading quotes before they accuse people of not knowing what they are talking about.

Well, gee. You don't need to be so uptight.
I'm not "accusing you of not knowing what you're talking about."

I was just doing that with Capriquarius because It hought her post was rude. I just meant you dont seem to understand it because I'm a cancer sun so I know why we do that. It's not because we want to leech off people for their advice. That's kind of a negative way of putting it. We do the behavior but it's not because of that. But it's okay. You're a masculine sun, you wouldn't understand our ways. Haha :P

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posted February 13, 2012 09:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lol, really good points, L0veLess

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posted February 13, 2012 11:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for VenusDiSirius     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Reading people is about perception and insight (and this is connected to intuition,which is a Water trait).

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posted February 13, 2012 11:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Moonfish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm Sun Scorpio 8H
Moon Pisces 12H
Pisces ascendant
Scorpio mars 8H
Scorpio pluto 8H

I can read people pretty well... i guess lol

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posted February 13, 2012 11:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Fondue Knight     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have Cancer Sun and Virgo Moon. I read people off the bat and then analyze them to see if my reading holds water.

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posted February 13, 2012 11:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
[B]Hannarama - When one of these friends share their thoughts, feelings, hunches and judgements with you - try to check their accuracy. Don't mistrust them and think they are lost in a dream world - based on your gut feelings alone.

Oh, I don't. I meant some Pisces I know are "out there" and some aren't. I didn't mean I don't trust my friend's hunches in general just because she's double water.

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posted February 13, 2012 11:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Moonfish:
I'm Sun Scorpio 8H
Moon Pisces 12H
Pisces ascendant
Scorpio mars 8H
Scorpio pluto 8H

I can read people pretty well... i guess lol


Haha! I would never try to hoodwink you, ever.

I also wonder if a Scorpio rising is stronger when it's not coupled with other Scorpio placements. It sounds weird, but I'm baffled as to how my BFF has 4 or 5 Scorpio placements and I wasn't hesitant about approaching her at ALL (whereas girls truly don't like her and think she's a Bish.) And yet my Libra co-worker has Scorpio rising and THAT I can feel. He also has Pluto in the 1st though, so I think I answered my own question but... I'm still posting it lol.

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