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Ceridwen
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posted February 23, 2012 07:36 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Now, I know that ALL conjunctions are true, but what I am actually talking about is bi-level conjunctions / occultations.

Two planets that are simultaneously conjunct AND parallel (cause only these will really appear as "one" or "merged" from the perspective of a viewer on earth).

The orbs for the synastric conjunctions would be 3° and the parallel 1°.


In a second step I am also interested in other aspects like trine or sextile or square of planets who are simultaneously parallel or contraparallel.

1) how many of these "true conjunctions" are there?
2) which planets are emphasized by these?
3) Are these especially indicative of a pattern / important theme in the relationship?

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mir
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posted February 23, 2012 09:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mir     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This with my ex;

Within the allowable orb just ONE;

- Sun/Asc. conjunction (1'30) and Parallel.

Well, I can only say; sooo true... his asc. Leo on my Leo-Sun .. naturally we did fit so well! Man, I still miss that part of us.. I have to think of other bad aspects to NOT miss him right now! OR.. maybe too much pride towards *me*? Hm could be..


Not within the allowable orb;

- Saturn/Venus conjunction (at 3'30) and Parallel (within 1*)
- Moon/MC conjunction (at 3'50) and Parallel (within 1*)

(by far not as obvious as Sun/Asc. I admit)

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posted February 23, 2012 01:42 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you, Mir.

I think these occultations may still be felt, even if one of the aspects is a tad out of orb. But when within this pretty tight orb, they should be very obvious.

The Sun/ASC-one in your case sounds really strong. And in Leo. Makes me think like you generated a lot of warmth when being together.

I definitely saw a lot of these"true conjunctions" with Saturn as well, so the SAturn/Venus-one makes sense to me.

Probably the other "true aspects" will be informative too, but I just thought that a conjunction and parallel might be the most apparent one.

My parents for example have two of these:
my Mum`s Venus is parallel and conunct my Dad`s ASC (both under one degree).
my Mum`s Saturn is parallel and conjunct my Dad`s Mars (also under 1 degree).

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posted February 23, 2012 03:35 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
when planets are conj in natal chart in tight orb they will always be parallel to.

what is important with parallels is when two planets don't have ANY aspect but do in parallels. It's like adding another aspect to your grid of aspects.

so if a planet is in square aspect in natal and in parallel the effects of the square are helped and the energy 'not as tense' or problematic. I use 1'30" for parallels

for example, I'm 1' Aquarius rising 7th house Angular chart ruler, square to luminaries therefore conj sun/moon midpoint.So you may expect me to be quite rebellious, independent or erratic. But i have not of these as saturn/uranus are contra parallel which acts like an opposition. Now I've found anything linked to saturn will dampen, delay and limit and give a dose of reality...

basic astrology forum, parallels in declination http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum12/private-jjLYZw161/HTML/000675.html

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Ceridwen
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posted February 23, 2012 03:44 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"when planets are conj in natal chart in tight orb they will always be parallel to."
No, not always (though often it is the case). At least not in synastry. Of course it occurs always with conjunctions with the Sun though.


w"hat is important with parallels is when two planets don't have ANY aspect but do in parallels. It's like adding another aspect to your grid of aspects."
I agree.

But that was not what I was intending to "research" here.


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posted February 23, 2012 04:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenegoddess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Can someone help me out with these? I'm not exactly sure how to do it..

Is this right?

My Sun 23'11 N
My Saturn 22'18 S
My Uranus 23'38 S
My Neptune 22'9 S
My Osiris 22'43 N
My Isis 23'28 N
My IC 22'9 S

His Asc 22'56 S
His Sun 23'21 S
His Venus 22'58 S
His Saturn 22'10 S
His Uranus 23'34 S
His Neptune 22'17 S

Natally his ASC/Neptune are conjunct my IC in Capricorn..

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posted February 23, 2012 04:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mir     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If Asc/IC is the only conjunction in your synastry (within about 3*) then you have ONE "true conjunction" as it's also Parallel.

The question would then be; can you feel/see this Cap-aspect as a very important theme in the relationship? Does it jump out?

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posted February 23, 2012 05:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Betty Boop     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If I go by these rules, I actually don't have almost any conjunctions with the people who are most important to me - family, friends etc..
I'll check the other aspects though!

In my longest rel - We only had Mars/Neptune and Pluto/Pluto as true conjunctions. But my first love & I had exactly the same conj. and the relationship was entirely different.

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posted February 23, 2012 05:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I only have that natally, with my Moon/Venus as one example - both conjunct and parallel.

It might also occur with my dad's NN, which was conjunct my Moon/Venus/South Node. He pointed out a couple of weeks ago, "We've always had that connection." We almost always get along.

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posted February 23, 2012 05:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenegoddess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes It is the most important aspect of our connection.

More specifically it's 13 Capricorn.

My IC Capricorn 13
My Moon/Neptune Capricorn 8
My Draco Moon/Neptune Capricorn 22
My Draco Saturn/Uranus Capricorn 12
My Helio Mars Capricorn 13
My Amor Capricorn 25

His Asc Capricorn 11
His Neptune Capricorn 7
His Draco ASC Capricorn 13
His Kaali Capricorn 13
His Sumeria Capricorn 8
His Venus Capricorn 24

His Antiscia Sun Capricorn 5
His Antiscia Mercury Capricorn 7
His Antiscia Saturn Capricorn 4
His Antiscia Uranus Capricorn 5

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Ceridwen
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posted February 24, 2012 01:28 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by athenegoddess:
Natally his ASC is conjunct my IC in Capricorn..

I find a tight conjunction between angles to be extremely significant. With t he involvement of the IC this looks like a real soulconnection.

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posted February 24, 2012 01:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh, that reminds me of the taurus. His sun/moon were conjunct my descendant - I think the moon was within one degree, but I'm not sure. I don't like him anymore, but I had a strong reaction to him, that took a lot to break.

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quote:
Originally posted by Betty Boop:
In my longest rel - We only had Mars/Neptune and Pluto/Pluto as true conjunctions. But my first love & I had exactly the same conj. and the relationship was entirely different.

Well, I wouldn´t count the aspects between Pluto and Pluto, as they are still generational.

As for Mars/Neptune - there is always a certain range of possible manifestation? Did you feel that the Mars/neptune-aspect manifested in both relationships, ev en though in different ways?

Also, of course there is still the whole chart to be take into account, especially the other aspects to Mars/Neptune and also most probably the Mars or Neptune (depending on who was Mars or Neptune) of the guys might have ruled completely different houses and brought a different flavour with it.

Oh and one word on the orbs: I think that a conjunction with 3°30, when within 1°-1°30 for a parallel, will still be valid. I just wanted to make sure people wouldn´t point out 10° conjunctions with 3° parallels.

As a matter of fact I think that IF also in parallel, even conjunctions up to 5° can be somewhat felt.
though the keyphrase here is *somewhat*. I doubt they will be anywhere as strong as within 3°.

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posted February 24, 2012 01:37 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Teasel,

do you feel the Moon/Venus-aspect strongly, also taking the house it falls in and thehouses Moon and Venus rule, into account?

The nodal connection with your Dad looks like a very pivotal aspect.
though it does make sense to me that children and their parents would share strong nodal ties. Maybe not in each and every case, but generally children and their parents are an important part of each other`s lifepath (even if there are disagreements).

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posted February 24, 2012 01:37 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Betty Boop:
I'll check the other aspects though!

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Yes, I definitely think those will be important as well.

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posted February 24, 2012 09:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mir     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My parents (both passed away/great marriage/true love);

4 "true conjunctions" (small orbs);

- ASC/ASC
- ASC/NEPTUNE (DW!)
- NEPTUNE/NEPTUNE
- PLUTO/PLUTO

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posted February 24, 2012 10:10 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Ceridwen:
"when planets are conj in natal chart in tight orb they will always be parallel to."
No, not always (though often it is the case). At least not in synastry. Of course it occurs always with conjunctions with the Sun though.


w"hat is important with parallels is when two planets don't have ANY aspect but do in parallels. It's like adding another aspect to your grid of aspects."
I agree.

But that was not what I was intending to "research" here.


I was talking about natal rather than synastry aspects. ....

sorry I must have mis read your first post..

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posted February 24, 2012 10:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Starlover     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I had that synastry with someone.

1) His Venus-Sun was conj my Moon-Mars (and opp'd our Plutos).

2) His Moon-Jupiter was conj my prog Venus, all of which trined #1.

3) Our Neptunes trined #1 and #2.

It was the most harmonious and equal relationship I've ever had. It was so fun and easy to be together. Of course there was a lot of attraction. We were on the same wavelength.

We were engaged, but I left him when I met my future husband - someone who was challenging - although we didn't date for another two years. The new relationship ended up being a relationship in which there was much growth for me, whereas the easy one there would've been very little growth.

The first relationship, there was no nodal contact. There was nodal contact in the second one.

I think things worked out for both of us. He had a CAP NN and ended up having many children, while I didn't have any. If we'd stayed together, he may have ended up feeling unfulfilled.

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posted February 24, 2012 10:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenegoddess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Ceridwen:
I find a tight conjunction between angles to be extremely significant. With t he involvement of the IC this looks like a real soulconnection.


Yes, I believe he is my twin flame...

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posted February 24, 2012 06:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
With fishy...
We have
Mars sq Moon
Mars parallel moon 0.12

Thats the only thing I see right off the bat, that we have both a parallel and synastry aspect.
Im the Mars in synastry
He is the Mars in parallel.

I guess yes we both do things and hurt the other's feelings... Its both of us..
But we dont get mad and argue about it... We just pull away for a bit, then just let it go...

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posted February 24, 2012 10:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
oo In natal.... LOL

In my natal I have
Sun conjunct moon 1.89
sun parallel moon 1.05

venus quinx neptune 0.13
venus CP neptune 0.02

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now parallels that I have that I dont have conjuncts with in my chart
moon p pluto 0.17
NN P satrun 0.13
mars cp moon 0.97

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posted February 24, 2012 11:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
????

A conjunction and a parallel are from two different schools of astrology.

If you're asking for "true conjunctions" and parallels which would imply mathematically exact alignments... why is there a 3 degree orb allowance??

hmmmmm???

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posted February 25, 2012 05:52 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by mir:
My parents (both passed away/great marriage/true love);

4 "true conjunctions" (small orbs);

- ASC/ASC
- ASC/NEPTUNE (DW!)
- NEPTUNE/NEPTUNE
- PLUTO/PLUTO



Mir,

sorry about your los.

the Neptune/Neptune and Pluto/Pluto one are generational, but will have been "personal" in regards to the houses Neptune and Pluto ruled.

The other two are very interesing. The ASC-Neptune one sounds pretty dreamy. I wonder what houses Neptune ruled (in Placidus).

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posted February 25, 2012 05:54 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Starlover:
I had that synastry with someone.

1) His Venus-Sun was conj my Moon-Mars (and opp'd our Plutos).
[...]

It was the most harmonious and equal relationship I've ever had. It was so fun and easy to be together. Of course there was a lot of attraction. We were on the same wavelength.


Starlover,

were your Moon and Mars also parallel (in declination) his Sun and Venus?

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posted February 25, 2012 05:56 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by athenegoddess:
Yes, I believe he is my twin flame...

Can you do me a favour and check if you have any antiscia/contrascia-connections within at most 2 degrees (preferably within 1°) with him, which involve at least one personal planet or angle? And can you also list, if those appear, which houses they rule in the natal (placidus)?

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