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Topic: Are sagittariuses and libras typically vindictive?
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RunAroundScreaming Knowflake Posts: 5853 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted February 28, 2012 08:48 PM
just something i have observed in these signs, but fail to see in scorpio suns! lolFor the record, one of the libras had taurus moon and scorpio mercury with cancer asc. The other libra had either sag or scorpio moon with pisces asc, the last libra had scorpio moon and leo rising, and the sagittarius had scorpio moon with gemini rising. So i guess it's taurus and scorpio moons who are pretty vindictive..haha IP: Logged |
mintgirl123 Knowflake Posts: 2397 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted February 28, 2012 08:49 PM
They're not vindictive cos of the air and fire in them, they're vindictive cos they have water placements (esp scorp). For Leo, alot of the time, if sb does sth bad to them it's an attack on their pride and what they do is cut them out of their life. They don't seek revenge.Taurus moons aren't vindictive, I think it's cos that person also has a scorpy mercury and cancer asc. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Knowflake Posts: 5853 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted February 28, 2012 08:53 PM
Okay, that makes sense. I only have cancer sun and mercury and am very vindictive.But i do think taurus is vindictive, though. Most taurus people i know are. IP: Logged |
mintgirl123 Knowflake Posts: 2397 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted February 28, 2012 08:54 PM
That cos alot of taurus ppl have aries or gem placements haha.IP: Logged |
Delilah Knowflake Posts: 684 From: Registered: Sep 2010
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posted February 28, 2012 09:08 PM
Can be. Then again I have Moon in Aries. I put my last neighbour through hell before I moved out because of the non-stop noise that came from his flat late at night.IP: Logged |
sand Knowflake Posts: 6997 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted February 28, 2012 10:03 PM
quote: Originally posted by mintgirl123: [B] For Leo, alot of the time, if sb does sth bad to them it's an attack on their pride and what they do is cut them out of their life.
Kinda like banishing them from the palace haha! fixed signs r like that i think. no idea if aqua does that. taurus just remembers. so they might if given the chance. for a scorpio to take revenge you hafta get under their skin 1st and then betray them. mars? pluto is always doin something.. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 4500 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 28, 2012 10:50 PM
quote: Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming: just something i have observed in these signs, but fail to see in scorpio suns! lolFor the record, one of the libras had taurus moon and scorpio mercury with cancer asc. The other libra had either sag or scorpio moon with pisces asc, the last libra had scorpio moon and leo rising, and the sagittarius had scorpio moon with gemini rising. So i guess it's taurus and scorpio moons who are pretty vindictive..haha
i have a taurus moon and im not vindictive,i remember when people hurt or betray me though,moon opposition pluto, i have felt like being vengeful though but never acted on it,i guess its just a matter of choice. IP: Logged |
tautomer4314 Knowflake Posts: 659 From: Oregon Registered: Dec 2011
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posted February 28, 2012 11:15 PM
Scorpio moons will idealize being vindictive and getting revenge on those who cross them. In the end though, scorpio moons are quite sensitive, more then they want to admit . Thus they easily buckle under emotional pressure (I know I do). You poke them wrong though, then, well, all hell will break loose.In my experience, I believe libra moons have the potential to be the most vindictive (note the operative word here is potential), as libra could do anything it wants, as long as it's justified. If they seek to justify anything they want, watch out. Really, any sign has the potential to be vindictive. It just comes down to how it's done and to what level of depth. ------------------ It's All Elemental ----- My Chart if relevant IP: Logged |
Oliviaaa Knowflake Posts: 196 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 28, 2012 11:56 PM
I'm a Libra Sun/ASC/Venus/Mercury & Moon in Sag, and I ain't got a vindictive bone in my body! If someone does me wrong, it hurts me deeply, to my core.. since I don't trust or open myself up easily. But after that I'll just shut down. Won't open myself up to them anymore.. and usually cut them off.. place them completely out of my life. No want for revenge.Now, my mom!! WOW! She is CRAZY vengeful.. even if someone hasn't really done anything to her, yet in her opinion she thinks they did (?), she'll be hellbent on seeking revenge. She's a VERY spiteful woman. Don't know her ASC but she's a Scorpio Sun, Pisces Moon and her Mercury in Sag squares her Moon. She's got an evil streak a mile long is all I'll say..
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hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 2654 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted February 29, 2012 12:34 AM
Man, I keep trying to explain to everyone and get kaboshed but I'll try again...I still think something about Vedic and Western astrology intertwine. Running with that theory, YES Libras and Sagittariuses are vindictive - just not outwardly so. YES, it has to do with houses and aspects and blah blah blah - skip that. Notice what do both these signs have in common? Scorpio! What do the textbook descriptions of Scorpio always say? That they'll hunt you down, and hack your computer, and be waiting in your shower with a knife for you when you get home and all the lights are off... but never in my life have I ever met a Scorpio like that. Maybe some will say I haven't met one that's truly cared about me, or maybe I've just been lucky but I have met Libras, and I have met Sagittarius' (both suns and moons in that case) and they are vindictive. It's just that they will a) NEVER admit to the slight, and b) With Libras it's more of a *** -for-tat thing, you know because they ARE about balance and Sagittarians will take it to the extremes until you've crawled up and burned into a pile of ashes from the inside out. But what are you talking about? No, I don't know where your cat went.... IP: Logged |
Lava Flower Knowflake Posts: 391 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted February 29, 2012 02:14 AM
My mom is a libra moon, taurus sun but sadly i do not know her exact time of birth so i do not know what aspects are made to her moon. And im not sure how much it relates to this discussion but she very sensitive yet by far the most manipulative person i know. She can't exactly be outwardly vindictive since she is very religious but she definitely has that potential and she struggles with it. I was shocked to see she had a Libra moon.My best friend who is a Libra sun and mars, virgo moon, scorpio mercury and venus conjunct pluto tight. And i have seen her go after people who have wronged her, and especially those who have wronged those close to her. I personally believe it was justified every time even though im not like that at all. ** I have also been looking at Vedic vs. western sings and i discovered that their description of Libra is very similar to that of tropical Scorpio, yet most of the tropical Libra placements move over to Virgo in Vedic. In fact their descriptions of ALL the signs are different so they cannot be applied the way may think they should because they represent very different characteristics. So perhaps its aspects to the planetary placements that contribute to vindictive behavior, heavy Pluto and water placements. Water mercury, water in aspect to Pluto, moon in aspect to Pluto etc. http://shamanicastrology.com/archives/92 I have fount this article very informative in regards to Vedic vs. Tropical
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tautomer4314 Knowflake Posts: 659 From: Oregon Registered: Dec 2011
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posted February 29, 2012 02:21 AM
I've never really considered sag's to be manipulative until reading this thread. In reality, they can be. The difference is to me their methods are "messy" and I see through them quite easily. Much more so then other manipulative energies. My roommate is a perfect example of that. ------------------ It's All Elemental ----- My Chart if relevant IP: Logged |
anongrl10 Knowflake Posts: 4557 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted February 29, 2012 03:39 AM
I can only talk about Sags, and truly they could care less. They are incapable of holding grudges. True Sags, that is. They detest pettiness so most of the times they don't even speak up if something is off, they prefer to joke about things, in hopes someone gets a clue. And if they ever bring things up, they are quick to forget the whole thing, due to the fire. Can't hold grudges. Of course if they have strong water placements I can see the above being slightly "tweaked". But still the Sag essence is really not one to be vindictive. Personally, with a lot of earth and a fixed t-sq and I STILL am saved by my Sag sun, i.e. I truly can't hold a grudge. It's gone as quickly as it showed up. Life is too short for that cr*p. IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero Moderator Posts: 4367 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted February 29, 2012 06:50 AM
I'm a Libra sun/Merc (plus south node and MC), and a Sag rising (plus two other planets).I'm not normally vindictive. When I do feel that way, I usually act it out in my head rather than actually do something real. That is, I might fantasize or daydream about it, but not actually act on that impulse. When I do act on it, I usually do it in small ways. Like if someone is rude to me, I might decide not to do a small favor for them. I won't harm them, but I won't help them, either. When the situation is more serious, again, I usually just do what I want to do in my head and I don't act on thoughts that pop up. I simply cut the person out of my life completely and will have nothing to do with him/her. IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero Moderator Posts: 4367 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted February 29, 2012 06:58 AM
quote: Originally posted by tautomer4314: Scorpio moons will idealize being vindictive and getting revenge on those who cross them. In the end though, scorpio moons are quite sensitive, more then they want to admit . Thus they easily buckle under emotional pressure (I know I do). You poke them wrong though, then, well, all hell will break loose.In my experience, I believe libra moons have the potential to be the most vindictive (note the operative word here is potential), as libra could do anything it wants, as long as it's justified. If they seek to justify anything they want, watch out. Really, any sign has the potential to be vindictive. It just comes down to how it's done and to what level of depth.
I completely agree about the Scorpio moon comment. I'm fairly well-acquainted with someone who has that position, and the 'higher side' of this placement really is beautiful. MUCH more sensitive than one would think, and very perceptive.
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Malena Knowflake Posts: 237 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted February 29, 2012 07:20 AM
Ergh, I grind my teeth a little bit when people rush to blame their dark impulses on Scorpio. All signs have dark sides. I've met some SUPER-vindictive Libra individuals with no Scorpio influences; they were emotionally afflicted in other ways and it came out as a nearly psychotic need to balance the scales. (Please mind that I am talking about some individuals I've known, not saying every Libra does this.) Some of them could really give Scorpio a run for their money in the "eye for an eye" department.I feel like a Water or even Fire sign MIGHT possibly be swayed to forgiveness if you present an emotional reason for what you did. Whereas whenever I've seen Libras in "you must pay for what you did" mode, they are all Air about it - very cold, very indifferent to emotion and human weakness, to the point of almost cruelty. They will often present themselves as super-rational about it, even when they aren't really. I had a Libra friend who would recount point-by-point every favor she had ever done for you and DEMAND!! to know why you didn't pay her back, although she tended to conveniently forget the favors YOU had done for her. She had difficulty expressing true kindness - any gift or favor she offered had strings attached, and at any time she might demand you restore the balance or else you were a horrible soulless friend. She was particularly afflicted, her mother acted exactly the same way. It was kind of sad. Her Libra sense of balance plus low self-esteem meant that she could only conceive of friendship as a very, very literal game of give-and-take. I mean, all friendships are give-and-take, but she kept score down to the decimal point. I know she only got angry and lashed out for "balance" because her self-esteem was very fragile. Still... Sorry, I don't mean to go in on Libra here. It just frustrates me that there are legitimately dark aspects to this sign (as there are with all signs) that get blamed on other signs/placements. I should maybe add that Libra also happens to be my Saturn sign, so these kinds of experiences activate all that Saturn "goodness" for me. As for Sagittarius, my experience is that they'll blow up in your face and let you know *exactly* what their problem with you is, but then it's all over. This is my mother's sign, although it's possibly mitigated with a lot of Earth in her chart. IP: Logged |
FireWire Knowflake Posts: 370 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted February 29, 2012 08:20 AM
quote: Originally posted by Malena:
[..]I feel like a Water or even Fire sign MIGHT possibly be swayed to forgiveness if you present an emotional reason for what you did.[...] [...]in "you must pay for what you did" mode, they are all Air about it - very cold, very indifferent to emotion and human weakness [...] [...]As for Sagittarius, my experience is that they'll blow up in your face and let you know *exactly* what their problem with you is, but then it's all over. This is my mother's sign, although it's possibly mitigated with a lot of Earth in her chart. [...]
I am a strange combination of all of these things. Sag sun, Libra rising, mars in Libra, Pluto/Merc./SN in Scorp. If people give me a solid, genuine emotional reason for doing something I am VERY QUICK to completely let it go and even feel emotional for them. If you act as if you didn't do anything, I will completely go cold. Not in a vindictive way--I just shut off (but I also have some aspect with my moon that gives me this ability). It is not about 'you' but about my protecting my...hmm...balance and emotional harmony. But understand, it takes SOOOO much to make me do this. It has to be repetitive, nonstop hypocrisy and disrespect. I RARELY act on feelings of revenge. I might think about it, of course. The only time I've gone into 'you must pay mode' was a few weeks ago dealing with a Leo (and I love Leos suns, btw). Needless to say, she will never, ever cross me again. It wasn't revenge...no, not at all... ...it was more of having to bring down a racist, discriminating, self-righteous, hypocritical _____ to earth. I acted as if she didn't exist--literally. I ONLY stopped because I could feel she was really remorseful, and was actually being hurt by my indifference--which I did NOT like and did not want to be a part of...doesn't make sense, I guess, but it is how I felt. I will say that for the first time I was approaching a mode of revenge I've never 'acted' on before. It actually scared me, a little. I realized that is 'not' who I am, and I have to be in control of my responses to people no matter how awful they are. It gave me an opportunity to address how I handle anger, fear, hurt and my own ego dealings. I am one of the nicest people on earth. But I have 'one hell of a sting' as I read in a report about people with SN in Scorpio. It just takes so much to get me there, so I have rarely used that against people, because it feels abusive (to self and to other). Even with the lady I'm describing above, I just went cold on her. I didn't attack [read: seek and destroy]--I easily could have, though. What will Libra and Sag say it is not worth it and walk away (albeit freezing cold, lol). Don't know how helpful this will be, but there you go!
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pandacake Knowflake Posts: 322 From: Europe Registered: May 2011
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posted February 29, 2012 10:18 AM
I have Libra Ascendant, SN and three personal planets in Libra, . I also have two generational planets in Sagittarius.If someone crosses the line, emotions can run very high (Scorpio Moon in H1), but I don't act them out. It is a waste of time and energy plus it's bad for general health. I believe the universe will balance things out and although in some cases easier said than done, I do the very best I can to just walk away and lead a good and happy life. IP: Logged |
hippichick Moderator Posts: 1873 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted February 29, 2012 10:26 AM
Two of the most vindictive indiviuals I have ever let into my life were both Libras..One lady, one gentleman... Generally speaking, I just can not deal with the Libra energy, (was married to one and he enacted the most vindictive act of all, killing himself in spite of me...) I have known a few Aqua vindictors, Gem, no, but surely, maybe it is an Air quality~ Just asked my Aqua daughter, she says probably not so vindictive but arrogant and concieded. lol! And Saggies, no, heavens no. Love them to death, (ultra sensitive Pisces says ) IP: Logged |
SaggiMC unregistered
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posted February 29, 2012 05:44 PM
quote: Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming: just something i have observed in these signs, but fail to see in scorpio suns! lolFor the record, one of the libras had taurus moon and scorpio mercury with cancer asc. The other libra had either sag or scorpio moon with pisces asc, the last libra had scorpio moon and leo rising, and the sagittarius had scorpio moon with gemini rising. So i guess it's taurus and scorpio moons who are pretty vindictive..haha
instead of guessing Sun signs or Asc Signs, you should be looking towards generic *ASPECTS* that could describe this behaviour. Every sign is quite capable of bad behaviour... The point you seem to be missing here is Saggi and libra.... what is inbetween these two??? SCORPIO. They are the MOST vindicative signs going...... Now as mercury can ONLY be upto one sign away from your sun sign and Venus can ONLY be upto two signs away from your sun sign, it's VERY likely that either Saggi or Libra have something in Scorpio.... simples.. ------------------ I love the parable, “If you give a man a fish, you feed him for a day, BUT if you teach him how to fish, you feed him for life.” IP: Logged |
Fleurdelis Knowflake Posts: 185 From: A symbolic tree, Earth Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 29, 2012 05:51 PM
Female mars Signs are vindictive way more! Libra and sags don't purposely hurt others for self gain
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FireWire Knowflake Posts: 370 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted February 29, 2012 06:07 PM
quote: Originally posted by Fleurdelis: Female mars Signs are vindictive way more! Libra and sags don't purposely hurt others for self gain
Yup! Agreed, for me personally. I've had some grimy things done to me and completely walked away from it knowing the people were 'waiting' for me to be vindictive and vengeful--"because it is normal" they felt. And I'd also like to add, I would much rather walk away from something/shut off to not cause conflict (might be the Libra energy) and because it doesn't make me feel happy/good (might be the Sag energy). I also walk away from things when I know the pain I could cause would be worse than what someone has put me through. IP: Logged |
PhoenixFire Knowflake Posts: 953 From: The Crossing Registered: Jun 2009
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posted February 29, 2012 09:41 PM
I do initially hold grudges and feel vengeful, when someone has hurt me deeply. After my initial anger passes, I do my best to move on to better things. I take trust and loyalty very seriously, betraying either is the worse pain. With time, I try to forgive but never ever do I forget a deep wound. Sag Sun with Venus in ScorpioIP: Logged |
racole12 Knowflake Posts: 1035 From: the world is my home! Registered: Feb 2010
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posted March 01, 2012 01:11 AM
I have a Saggie Sun and Taurus Moon... I'm no where close to being vindictive. I just rather allow the universe take care of the person who treated me like **** , b/c I truly believe in karma. But my parents are and it's a HUGE joke between us all. They have TONS of scorpio energy- 5 planets each in Scorpio. IP: Logged |
moonlightx Newflake Posts: 7 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted March 01, 2012 01:36 AM
My brother has a lot of Sagittarius in his chart and isn't vindictive at all. He told me himself that he feels it's best to move on from a situation rather than mull over it.IP: Logged | |