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Topic: best/worst signs to be a women
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a_may_gemini Knowflake Posts: 375 From: Los Angeles, Calif Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 16, 2012 08:42 PM
quote: Originally posted by andstuff: glad someone said this. despite having a Cap sun (weak-ish) and Cap brother, I would NEVER date a Cap guy (just because they really are barely desirable). and I also cannot admit to having a Cap sun without adding really quickly "but I'm not a very typical one, I have lots of fire and water and whatnot" And look at this list! They all seem sexually messed up, insecure and unapproachable! This is what one reads off immediately at any rate http://www.librarising.com/astrology/sunsigns/sunincapricornfemale.html @ topic, my vote for the worst goes to Cap (just because I don't want people assuming I am that boring undersexed shy being with self-esteem issues, which is not even true ), my vote for the best.... from what I've seen Scorpio women are kind of harmonious and cool, but apparently there's all that envy/jealousy involved, so who knows. Taurus must be very good too, at any rate it must be on the easier side. favourite celebrities: PJ Harvey (Libra), Audrey Hepburn (Taurus), Kim Gordon (Taurus).... must be more but these just sprang to mind immediately. I'm not really a massive fan of celebrities.
LOL despite Caps being that way, I like and get along w/Cap women. They're usually pretty realistic and they can deal with some of the most harsh stuff life dishes at them. I give them props for being strong and solid, which is more than what most signs can handle. As a Gemini, I'll take realistic Saturn (Cap) over idealistic Saturn (Aqua) any day... but that's probably because I have Libra Saturn conj Asc. Cap people strangely find comfort friending me and they don't get emotional or offended when I tell them the truth, unlike Aqua. My best friend is a Gemini and her daughter (my god-daughter) is a Cap. The child is such a major know-it-all which cracks me up. Granted, her mother is a Gemini afterall, and even I had a hand in raising her during her formative years so that Cap child is going to be top in her class no doubt. I can just see my little god daughter running around and ruling over the other children. Heh Heh. IP: Logged |
a_may_gemini Knowflake Posts: 375 From: Los Angeles, Calif Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 16, 2012 09:04 PM
quote: Originally posted by sexyaqua30: I'm a mother and a damn good one because I was raised by a damn good one not because of my sign. I hate when astrology becomes a need to be a judgemental ******* . This goes for anyone who knocks a persons parenting skills because of some damn planets in the sky!
LOL I see an Aqua took it rather to heart with a general observation I've made. That's good you think you're a good parent but in the history of humanity, very few "good" parents have walked the Earth and even lesser of them are given credit. I don't think "good" parents want props that they're "good" simply because naturally, being a parent is a thankless job and it's not something that's meant to be awarded. Seriously, nearly every child will think or hold similar sentiments, "I can truly say my parents aren't psychotic, crazy, neglectful, or nutty. Oh wait, I was just theoretically speaking. Realistically, my parents are like the rest." I would say Scorpio parents are good parents...if they weren't so darn intensely abusive and harsh towards their children. But I had been raised by a Scorpio who showed extremely keen interest in me, so I can handle and understand Scorpio's controlling ways. I had a lot of friends with Aqua moms and those mammas were party animals too busy getting their drink on and party on to raise their kids. Aquarius... good friends but so damn stubborn and difficult on a very personal level because that requires a great amount of emotional investment and they have issues to giving into that side of them and have whacked out egos. All Aquas want to be like Leo and bask in the limelight but the wacky psychotic Uranus influence makes them seek attention by being deviants and weirdos and that in a parent sucks. That in a mate sucks. That in a female is just plain wrong.
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posted September 16, 2012 09:17 PM
I had a lot of friends with Aqua moms and those mammas were party animals too busy getting their drink on and party on to raise their kids. And? My dad is an Aquarius and he's a great parent. I'm old enough to know nobody is perfect and he's human. If someone isn't a good parent it's their character, not their sign...duh. IP: Logged |
Gray Knowflake Posts: 234 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted September 16, 2012 09:25 PM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: here's my honest opinion on that, its not that the guys have a problem with the girl making the first move, its just they aren't interested in the girl asking. i highly doubt a guy would reject a girl he's attracted to.
Trust me. Attraction and interest wasn't the issue. It was solely the fact that I wouldn't play a simpering maiden and wait for them to come to me first. IP: Logged |
Gray Knowflake Posts: 234 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted September 16, 2012 09:27 PM
quote: Originally posted by a_may_gemini: LOL I see an Aqua took it rather to heart with a general observation I've made. That's good you think you're a good parent but in the history of humanity, very few "good" parents have walked the Earth and even lesser of them are given credit. I don't think "good" parents want props that they're "good" simply because naturally, being a parent is a thankless job and it's not something that's meant to be awarded.Seriously, nearly every child will think or hold similar sentiments, "I can truly say my parents aren't psychotic, crazy, neglectful, or nutty. Oh wait, I was just theoretically speaking. Realistically, my parents are like the rest." I would say Scorpio parents are good parents...if they weren't so darn intensely abusive and harsh towards their children. But I had been raised by a Scorpio who showed extremely keen interest in me, so I can handle and understand Scorpio's controlling ways. I had a lot of friends with Aqua moms and those mammas were party animals too busy getting their drink on and party on to raise their kids. Aquarius... good friends but so damn stubborn and difficult on a very personal level because that requires a great amount of emotional investment and they have issues to giving into that side of them and have whacked out egos. All Aquas want to be like Leo and bask in the limelight but the wacky psychotic Uranus influence makes them seek attention by being deviants and weirdos and that in a parent sucks. That in a mate sucks. That in a female is just plain wrong.
You're gonna get verbally pile-drived for saying that and frankly, I don't feel all that sorry for you because you just made an incredibly ignorant statement. My mother was an Aquarius sun and she was amazing and pretty much the polar opposite of what YOU say Aquarius mothers are like. Which isn't to say there aren't some sh*tty ones out there - I know some firsthand - but to say ALL Aquarius women are bad mothers automatically, is the stupidest thing ever. Shame on you. IP: Logged |
a_may_gemini Knowflake Posts: 375 From: Los Angeles, Calif Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 16, 2012 09:49 PM
quote: Originally posted by Gray: You're gonna get verbally pile-drived for saying that and frankly, I don't feel all that sorry for you because you just made an incredibly ignorant statement.My mother was an Aquarius sun and she was amazing and pretty much the polar opposite of what YOU say Aquarius mothers are like. Which isn't to say there aren't some sh*tty ones out there - I know some firsthand - but to say ALL Aquarius women are bad mothers automatically, is the stupidest thing ever. Shame on you.
Hey, this thread asked for opinions and I came in with my opinion and observations. If you or anyone else take it personally and offensive, that's really on you. So what if my opinion isn't popular? So what if no one agrees with me? I don't offer opinions to be agreed with or get applause or accolades. If you're going to get your panties in a tight wad over someone saying something you don't agree with, then that makes you the ignorant and uptight one. You actually took offense to something that wasn't even direct at you or anyone in particular. That's really ridiculous. Just because I made a general observation that you don't agree with doesn't make it less true. Trying to prove being the exception is one thing, but going further by threatening me saying that others will jump on the band wagon to "pile drive" me and you "not feeling sorry" for me shows how childish and how my observations have hit a hard nerve for you. Get over yourself. You being angry/bothered/upset is immaterial and not of any consequence to me. I stand by my observations and opinions and I'm not going to retract anything I've said. IP: Logged |
greatquincunx Knowflake Posts: 172 From: Houston Registered: Jan 2012
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posted September 16, 2012 10:10 PM
Once again someone crawls under astrology with their stupidity.I hate when people do that. IP: Logged |
amowls** Knowflake Posts: 1948 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted September 16, 2012 10:13 PM
My mother has an Aqua Moon. I wouldn't call her emotionally detached from me at all. She calls me every day and wants to know all about my life. My best friend says she gets sort of jealous because her mom never calls her unless it's about something that needs to be done. She also went to every single one of my ballet recitals and theater performances despite working full time.I'm an Aqua Sun, though, so maybe we just mesh well because she gives me the support I need. IP: Logged |
amowls** Knowflake Posts: 1948 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted September 16, 2012 10:16 PM
quote: Originally posted by a_may_gemini: Hey, this thread asked for opinions and I came in with my opinion and observations. If you or anyone else take it personally and offensive, that's really on you. So what if my opinion isn't popular? So what if no one agrees with me? I don't offer opinions to be agreed with or get applause or accolades. If you're going to get your panties in a tight wad over someone saying something you don't agree with, then that makes you the ignorant and uptight one. You actually took offense to something that wasn't even direct at you or anyone in particular. That's really ridiculous.Just because I made a general observation that you don't agree with doesn't make it less true. Trying to prove being the exception is one thing, but going further by threatening me saying that others will jump on the band wagon to "pile drive" me and you "not feeling sorry" for me shows how childish and how my observations have hit a hard nerve for you. Get over yourself. You being angry/bothered/upset is immaterial and not of any consequence to me. I stand by my observations and opinions and I'm not going to retract anything I've said.
"All Aqua Sun mothers are bad" is essentially what you said. Even if you weren't addressing any Aquarius in particular, there are SEVERAL Aqua Sun ladies on this board who, OF COURSE, would take offense to that. It's akin to saying "All black people do this sh*tty thing, WHY ARE YOU GETTING SO OFFENDED, BLACK PEOPLE?" IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 12398 From: Rent Free in Grahma male's head Registered: Jan 2012
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posted September 16, 2012 11:01 PM
quote: Originally posted by Gray: Trust me. Attraction and interest wasn't the issue. It was solely the fact that I wouldn't play a simpering maiden and wait for them to come to me first.
well maybe its true sometimes,but In all honesty I have never known a guy to complain about it. I have known guys who have dated girls who asked them out. most of the time it boils down to whether the guy is attracted to the girl or not, he may say he doesn't like aggressive girls as a cover up for not being interested. I think its human nature to look for reasons to reject a person when we arent physically attracted to them. as a guy I know that women are the same. way, I have heard every excuse in the book lol. when it all boils down to one simple fact, they aren't physically attracted. IP: Logged |
mockingbird Knowflake Posts: 2128 From: Registered: Dec 2011
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posted September 17, 2012 06:21 AM
We Pisces Suns are mahvelous! Especially with a Leonine Mars. Keeps us modest.  In all seriousness, though, it may be *easier* to be Pisces Sun gal than to be many other types. Due to the prevalence of common gender stereotypes, people go in expecting you to be somewhat emotional and hard to pin down. It's like they're comforted when you are. And I've got to admit, despite my Aquarius Moon, I glow when a man (*my* man - Taurean Venus *snort*) opens my car door or insists on walking on the road's edge of the sidewalk. That same Aqua Moon's had exes tell it that I'm "too independent" (O_o), though, so I guess my damsel-nature's tempered enough to not be as annoying as shite. ------------------ If I've included this sig, it's because I'm posting from a mobile device. Please excuse all outrageous typos and confusing auto-corrects. IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero Knowflake Posts: 4367 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted September 17, 2012 06:34 AM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: I agree with Gray and Maira! Being an Aries woman is good for work, bad for love. Guys always seem to like the demure girl who gets attention for being pretty and girly (she can be smart, but she gets attention for her appearance. Not her personality) whereas Aries women, well, we're pretty much everything. I think guys feel one-upped by me/us when I'm just being myself.
A real man wouldn't find that threatening, though. A guy who is confident and secure within himself would feel proud of a woman who was on his level and able to best him at times/be better at some things than him. Guys who seek "subjects" that they can lord over are wimps--confidence impostors, really. If they really felt secure, they wouldn't need to be "the best" or "win" all the time. If they can't handle an awesome woman who holds her own, they don't deserve one. Personally, I think that people should be on equal footing, and it's only normal and natural that, in a man-woman couple (and any pair of people, really, be it friendship, family, or romance), one person will be better at some things and the other person better at others. To me, that's balanced and makes for a good team. If a man gets all bent out of a shape because the woman he's with beats him at some things, frankly she can do better and should move on to someone who appreciates her awesomeness.
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stillatlarge Knowflake Posts: 786 From: TX Registered: Nov 2010
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posted September 17, 2012 11:30 AM
It's very difficult for Leo women. Just look at the celebrity Leo's. Very few have lasting marriages, at least until later in life. You have to marry up or down. There is no equality. Lead or follow, nothing in between. It's really hard to find what you need in a man because we are so competent on our own and most men just don't impress us. It's also very hard for us to pretend because we are by nature sincere, so where most women can shine him on, we can't do it. Guy Ritchie and Madonna were one of the worst attempts at a Leo relationship. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 7206 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted September 17, 2012 11:46 AM
quote: Originally posted by stillatlarge: It's very difficult for Leo women. Just look at the celebrity Leo's. Very few have lasting marriages, at least until later in life. You have to marry up or down. There is no equality. Lead or follow, nothing in between. It's really hard to find what you need in a man because we are so competent on our own and most men just don't impress us. It's also very hard for us to pretend because we are by nature sincere, so where most women can shine him on, we can't do it. Guy Ritchie and Madonna were one of the worst attempts at a Leo relationship.
I married a Leo woman. Its going 20 years. Whatcha talking about? It's very possible to have a marriage between two competent leaders who are able to share leadership. Isn't that what marriage is all about?
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lola Knowflake Posts: 146 From: Registered: Jul 2009
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posted September 17, 2012 09:55 PM
quote: Originally posted by mintgirl123: Cappies are cool, calm n collected while some other signs are just so melodramatic. Being a virgo i like emotional stability so tis a plus for me haha.
yes Capricorns are cool, calm & collected but their path in life has a lot of "pain"
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bella_taurus Knowflake Posts: 810 From: Minneapolis, MN, USA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted September 18, 2012 09:35 AM
Taurus, we are the bakers of the zodiac!LMAO IP: Logged |
bluegreyeyes Knowflake Posts: 168 From: NC Registered: May 2009
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posted September 19, 2012 01:29 PM
quote: Originally posted by amowls**: "All Aqua Sun mothers are bad" is essentially what you said. Even if you weren't addressing any Aquarius in particular, there are SEVERAL Aqua Sun ladies on this board who, OF COURSE, would take offense to that. It's akin to saying "All black people do this sh*tty thing, WHY ARE YOU GETTING SO OFFENDED, BLACK PEOPLE?"
Well said. I'm an aqua sun but I can't be offended by that statement. It's so ignorant. Haven't we gotten past stereotyping by sun signs? Especially speaking of motherhood... is Sun Sign the best indicator of a woman's maternal instinct....? Plus, I wonder the age of the poster... I'm 29 and the women I know that have children are past the party & drinking years. Doesn't matter what their sun sign is - at a certain age the "party" thing gets old. Frankly, the only woman I know that chooses "partying" over her children at 43 yrs old is my ex-sis-in-law who is Capricorn, lol. ------------------ Aqua Sun Gem Moon Aries RIsing IP: Logged |
greatquincunx Knowflake Posts: 172 From: Houston Registered: Jan 2012
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posted September 19, 2012 02:55 PM
quote: Originally posted by bluegreyeyes: Well said. I'm an aqua sun but I can't be offended by that statement. It's so ignorant. Haven't we gotten past stereotyping by sun signs? Especially speaking of motherhood... is Sun Sign the best indicator of a woman's maternal instinct....?
I think its moon and venus. I think maybe Ceres also(quick google). I wish we had an in-depth thread on it.. not that it would be the end all to your mothering skills but to get a picture. The people on this site are too deep into their natal charts to take stereotypes of the sunsign... well most people..
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ElfinPisces Newflake Posts: 23 From: Chilé Registered: Apr 2022
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posted April 08, 2022 07:13 AM
Obviously Aries omg , Aries & Capricorn women have so much masculine energy to the extent they confuse men , Libra is kinda androgynous cos of Venus Saturn energy , I love Scorpio & Leo energy for both sexes , Taurus can be feminine but a little more on the masculine side cos of their bullheadedness..... Yes Pisces my sign is obviously a wonderful zodiac sign for females cos we’re the epitome of femininity Cancer is also a good placement for women as they’re motherly Virgo is quite a good zodiac sign for women cos they’re virginal and equally motherly as well , love how they love to take care of everyone IP: Logged | |