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Topic: Is this true about Men with Moon/Venus in Aries/Gemini?
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IamLoved
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posted March 02, 2012 10:25 AM
  
Hey is it true that men who have a Moon/Venus in the sign of Aries or Gemini like women who play hard to get?Thanks IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows
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posted March 02, 2012 01:29 PM
I would assume they would.... I do it myself. Not be hard to get, but so I don't give up my freedom and so they have time to observe me being myself.Moon sagittarius
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tautomer4314
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posted March 02, 2012 02:37 PM
I have venus in gemini and I do NOT play hard to get at all. I honestly do the opposite. I make my intentions super clear as early as possible. I don't like beating around the bush. All it does is stress out both parties.------------------
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Desiring Shadows
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posted March 02, 2012 05:28 PM
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Originally posted by tautomer4314:
I have venus in gemini and I do NOT play hard to get at all. I honestly do the opposite. I make my intentions super clear as early as possible. I don't like beating around the bush. All it does is stress out both parties.
I'm kind of like you, except for I do make my intentions clear. What I mean is that I don't give in to them liking me easily... I string them on for a while, and let the liking grow until they actually do something about it. (Like asking me out.) lol
Or maybe that is leading them on. IP: Logged |
Nightingale
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posted March 02, 2012 05:51 PM
What someone says they want and what they respond to, are sometimes different.A guy might say he wants an upfront woman who expresses her desire for him etc... but he ends up preferring a woman who keeps him guessing. I suppose you've just got to judge it on a case-by-case basis, whether he likes to keep things simple or enjoys a puzzle/challenge. I don't imagine Moon/Venus signs will indicate this, sorry. IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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posted March 02, 2012 05:58 PM
Somewhat true for Aries.. except they actually just want to play games. They associate pain and combativeness with love... so if it is not emotionally painful for at least one of the people involved - then it's not really "love" - as far as Aries Moon/Venus is concerned.As per Rhianna's lyrics... (she has an Aries Moon&Venus): quote:
Just gonna stand there and watch me burn
Well that's alright because I like the way it hurts
And PINK's lyrics (she has an Aries Moon): quote:
You make me sick
I want you and I'm hating it
Got me lit like a candlestick
Get too hot when you touch the tip, I'm feeling it, I gotta getta grip
And it's driving me crazy baby don't you quit
Can't get enough of it
You got me going again
Baby, you got me going again
You make me sick
The Aries Moon/Venus guy can play both the role of the one who is pained.. and the role of the one inflicting the pain. But usually as far as I've seen the men with these placements are more into inflicting (more sadistic) - and the women are more masochistic. Either way - this is all way too melodramatic and insane for an earthy person like myself - even if I have an Aries Sun loll I think this is the absolute worst match for a Capricorn influenced person. :edit: The only other aspects that are similar to Aries Moon/Venus... are Venus square Mars and Moon square Mars (they have similar issues) -------- Gemini Moon and Venus are not at all like Aries. They are basically happy and fun to be around (in my experience). They see love as a mental connection - communicating with others, interacting - being friends.. They are very peaceful in their version of love... not 'combative'.
I don't think they want a challenge.. They basically just want someone who is intelligent and who is in sync with them - so that they can have interesting conversations into the wee hours of the morning. They love phone sex as well.. They basically like a person who can use words to convey allll kinds of emotions. They are not 'physical' about sex and love. They intellectualise the connection. IP: Logged |
Anjellyfish
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posted March 02, 2012 06:51 PM
Well, I'm not a guy- a female, and pretty girly. But I can think like a guy and often do.I have moon in Aries, and Mars and Venus in Gemini. I play hard to get all the time, and the more the person is interested, the harder I play. It's not always intentional...I don't know how to explain it? It just happens, it's just me. Also a bad sign if I'm not being extremely difficult to get  I'm attracted to the guys who are the hardest to get, and the easiest ones to get, have no appeal to me. I kindof view love and sex as games. IP: Logged |
Anjellyfish
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posted March 02, 2012 06:53 PM
I see Aries moon and Aries Mars/Venus as more likely to pursue someone they're sexually attracted to (or just want to date) as a "game" and something they're hunting. And also likely to make themselves hard to get so they can get that chase. I think Geminis are more likely to be fickle, unpredictable, flirty and if a person can't hold their attention long enough or stick around, they move on to another person. IP: Logged |
IamLoved
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posted March 02, 2012 09:46 PM
Thanks everyone!!!  IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted March 02, 2012 11:09 PM
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Originally posted by Nightingale:
What someone says they want and what they respond to, are sometimes different.A guy might say he wants an upfront woman who expresses her desire for him etc... but he ends up preferring a woman who keeps him guessing. I suppose you've just got to judge it on a case-by-case basis, whether he likes to keep things simple or enjoys a puzzle/challenge. I don't imagine Moon/Venus signs will indicate this, sorry.
im actually one of the guys who wants a girl who will actually tell me how she feels about me fairly early on, i dont want to waste my time to find out it was only a game,i give up on girls when they play hard to get,i mean i can tolerate a little bit,but most people take it too far,for god's sake if 2 people like each other they should be kissing each others face haha not playing games,all it leads to is hurting and confusing people IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted March 02, 2012 11:09 PM
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Originally posted by Nightingale:
What someone says they want and what they respond to, are sometimes different.A guy might say he wants an upfront woman who expresses her desire for him etc... but he ends up preferring a woman who keeps him guessing. I suppose you've just got to judge it on a case-by-case basis, whether he likes to keep things simple or enjoys a puzzle/challenge. I don't imagine Moon/Venus signs will indicate this, sorry.
im actually one of the guys who wants a girl who will actually tell me how she feels about me fairly early on, i dont want to waste my time to find out it was only a game,i give up on girls when they play hard to get,i mean i can tolerate a little bit,but most people take it too far,for god's sake if 2 people like each other they should be kissing each others face haha not playing games,all it leads to is hurting and confusing people IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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posted March 02, 2012 11:23 PM
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i dont want to waste my time to find out it was only a game,i give up on girls when they play hard to get,
I'm really happy you do that. Good for you!
I hope more people of both sexes dump them - so that they learn and change.
I also - dump guys when they behave this way. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted March 02, 2012 11:29 PM
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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
I'm really happy you do that. Good for you!
I hope more people of both sexes dump them - so that they learn and change.
I also - dump guys when they behave this way.
yea it sucks,unfortunately at my age thats all im going to find for the most part, i never have understood the concept,when girls start playing hard to get it makes me run the other way, i dont know maybe i am just too old fashioned. IP: Logged |
tautomer4314
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posted March 02, 2012 11:45 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
yea it sucks,unfortunately at my age thats all im going to find for the most part, i never have understood the concept,when girls start playing hard to get it makes me run the other way, i dont know maybe i am just too old fashioned.
I wouldn't call it old fashioned. Also, look at it this way; if they are hard to get in the beginning, would they even be compatible with you in the long term? Most likely not. There's something to be said of the personality of those who play hard to get and overall play games. They (usually) are not bad people, that's just how they are. A good friend of mine has venus in gemini and she is like that. Pours on the charm and plays hard to get. The reason she does that though, is because it totally will hook the guy for the long term. It works. It also attracts the kind of guys she works super well with. It's all about the social languages we speak. My venus in gemini manifests in a different way. Instead of playing hard to get, what I do is set up a maze in effect. I will push prod and pull who I am interested in and they won't be aware of where they are going but I am watching it all along. Those who fall into this will work with me. Those that don't will not work well with me, so it doubly acts as a filter. There's been a guy who has been playing hard to get with me for months now. Back in january I DIRECTLY told him I don't work like that. It's not an option. He sort of wilted and deflected it. Yet he keeps trying to play hard to get and egg me on. It's actually kind of sad. If he wants to get with me, he has to have clear intentions. None of these silly games. There's a reason I have not hung out with him for 2 months. Hah. I doubt he'll ever get it. ------------------
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lilithpluto
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posted March 03, 2012 01:41 AM
Hmmmm... I have venus in Gemini and my 7th house is in Aries... Well, I've never dated guys who wanted me.. I only dated guys who I wanted.. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted March 03, 2012 01:58 AM
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Originally posted by tautomer4314:
I wouldn't call it old fashioned. Also, look at it this way; if they are hard to get in the beginning, would they even be compatible with you in the long term? Most likely not. There's something to be said of the personality of those who play hard to get and overall play games. They (usually) are not bad people, that's just how they are. A good friend of mine has venus in gemini and she is like that. Pours on the charm and plays hard to get. The reason she does that though, is because it totally will hook the guy for the long term. It works. It also attracts the kind of guys she works super well with. It's all about the social languages we speak.My venus in gemini manifests in a different way. Instead of playing hard to get, what I do is set up a maze in effect. I will push prod and pull who I am interested in and they won't be aware of where they are going but I am watching it all along. Those who fall into this will work with me. Those that don't will not work well with me, so it doubly acts as a filter. There's been a guy who has been playing hard to get with me for months now. Back in january I DIRECTLY told him I don't work like that. It's not an option. He sort of wilted and deflected it. Yet he keeps trying to play hard to get and egg me on. It's actually kind of sad. If he wants to get with me, he has to have clear intentions. None of these silly games. There's a reason I have not hung out with him for 2 months. Hah. I doubt he'll ever get it.
i kind of get what you are saying but i still dont see how you can ever truly get to know someone who plays hard to get and plays games,and if two people who get together are both like that how do things ever get off the ground? haha IP: Logged |
AscTaurus
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posted March 03, 2012 02:15 AM
Betty Boop:The Aries Moon/Venus guy can play both the role of the one who is pained.. and the role of the one inflicting the pain. But usually as far as I've seen the men with these placements are more into inflicting (more sadistic) - and the women are more masochistic. The only other aspects that are similar to Aries Moon/Venus... are Venus square Mars and Moon square Mars (they have similar issues) This is actually quite profound.I have moon square mars but in Cancer and Libra respectively. I like to feel attractive and wanted and if someone does not reciprocate, I tend to feel more attracted to them until they do. When they eventually "succumb" and give me attention: tell me how attractive and beautiful I am, I lose interest. But I've consciously changed this by being aware of it and not let it ruin a good connection. IP: Logged |
IamLoved
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posted March 03, 2012 11:04 AM
This is all so interesting.IP: Logged |
SaggiMC
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posted March 03, 2012 05:48 PM
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Originally posted by IamLoved:
Hey is it true that men who have a Moon/Venus in the sign of Aries or Gemini like women who play hard to get?Thanks
first time I've heard this. Now venus in gemini is THE most flirtatious sign you can have it in. Moon in Gemini and ALL mutable moons are 'capable' of loving two people at the same time... I have moon in Aries and wouldn't have the 'patience' to play hard to get 
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YoursTrulyAlways
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posted March 03, 2012 09:51 PM
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Originally posted by SaggiMC:
Moon in Gemini and ALL mutable moons are 'capable' of loving two people at the same time...
Say what? It depends on the definition of "love" doesn't it? It doesn't have to entail physical intimacy or emotional infactuation. Affection should be universal among human beings, and adoration doesn't need to be exclusive.
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YoursTrulyAlways
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posted March 03, 2012 09:54 PM
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Originally posted by IamLoved:
Hey is it true that men who have a Moon/Venus in the sign of Aries or Gemini like women who play hard to get?Thanks
I'm a Moon in Gemini. I have zero patience for games. Everything has to be to the point. Yes. No. Its binary. Equivocation means I'll just walk away. I can't tell you how many women I've dumped because of the "hard to get" games or other infantile mind games. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted March 03, 2012 10:15 PM
I know an Aries with Moon in Gemini. He's ADD for one and seems to NEED the attention of a lot of girls or he gets depressed. He would never, ever cheat though (Venus in Taurus) and when actually interested in a girl he gets quite shy. He was in love with me and but I didn't feel the same. He didn't really understand "No," but seemed to enjoy my straight-shooting, no holds barred style of friendship. I don't know that he really "felt" love... his energy always came off very jittery and easily distracted but loyal. I'm an Aries with Gemini rising, Taurus moon, and Venus in Aries. I need you to be my friend first and then play hard to get. I need to be able to wonder what your doing ...but without the insecurity of not knowing your interest or intent. For instance I mentioned on another thread I was talking to a Gemini. I haven't even met him yet and have already lost interest... he's been texting me every day because we had a couple lengthy textersations while I was sick in bed. I'm totally turned off because he's making me feel like he already owns me and is being needy. Some may disagree but I'm only being honest with my point of view as a Venus in Aries person. I like the chase but will ONLY chase if I'm interested. My feelings get hurt when I find out your just wasting my time. IP: Logged |
Geminisquared
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posted March 05, 2012 05:44 PM
sun mercury and venus in gemini here, I also have mars in aries. I'm always the "seducer" in the role of dating, rather then the agressive pursuer, I analyze everything and gather information about that person etc. I only play hard to get if I see that person wants to be the pursuer and play the cat and dog game. Dating is pretty much like courting so Its funny when people are all stubborn about that, which probably the number reason why people are always single. Venus in gemini makes me very flexible, I don't mind games, however I'm pretty good at telling if the person is leading me on or just extremely flirty, so they usually do not last long. Pluto is in the 5th house so I tend to attract a lot of people with scorpio placements. The one thing I like about that is that scorpios hating playing around and they like you they will just tell you.IP: Logged |
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