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Topic: Venus in Capricorn, Mars in Scorpio - shy?
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matt
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posted March 15, 2012 05:58 PM
  
Ok, calm down. It was not intended negatively. GeezIP: Logged |
matt
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posted March 15, 2012 06:06 PM
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Betty Boop
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posted March 15, 2012 06:08 PM
lollllSweetie - I'm stumped. Not angry! But I was actually asking you whether you would get involved so quickly in this situation.. because I think it is strange for a Capricorn Venus.
Maybe I shouldn't stereotype... but I feel like there must be something in your chart that would make you more - 'up or anything'.. romantically.
Because Capricorn is extra cautious.. not one to take risks.
And Scorpio-influence... well Scorpio is not cautious, but they like the emotional build up to sex.. so they don't *rush* into anything either. IP: Logged |
matt
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posted March 15, 2012 06:13 PM
How did you get ' up for anything' from my posts?Plus, I'm not your sweetie. IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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posted March 15, 2012 06:25 PM
awwwwwww break my heart and stomp on it 
Well from my clearly overly-cautious Cappy Moon perspective.. (and also Cappy Mars)... the idea of someone coming up to me and telling me they LIKE me romantically - at work... and this person being someone I barely ever speak to and I barely even know -- sends shivers up my spine & not in a good way.
So the fact that you would actually find this desirable ^ or that you would advise it ... seem like you are UP for a lot more than I'd ever be up for - in the same context. I mean I'd have to get to KNOW that person.. and then I'd figure out whether we can make it work. But there is NO WAY I'd jump into something.. and *no way* I would react well - to someone telling me they just "like" me. My reaction would be.. really? Well you don't even know me! So how could you possibly really like me? And who are you again? --- Also - this guy is in CLIMBING at work.. He is constantly networking with the management, if you missed that part.
A person who is in climbing at work - does not do anything at *work* that would jeopardize their position.
Being Cap-influenced my career means something to me.. so if I had a good job that I liked.. there is no way I would just date any random guy there... because these things can take a dramatic turn. I would have to trust him a *lot* to go there.. and trust that he is a reasonable person who will not STUFF things up for me at work. And it takes time to trust. So.. Agree? Disagree? Please discuss!
I am genuinely curious.. because I don't know many Cappy types who are unlike me. They are usually cautious as well.
So I'm really interested to see your opinion. IP: Logged |
matt
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posted March 15, 2012 06:36 PM
Well I didn't mean that she should sit on his lap and get her boobs out. I meant that maybe she should express her interest, maybe subtly, to find some feedback. You know; speculate to accumulate.I agree with you but sometimes you have to take charge to find answers. IP: Logged |
Nine
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From: The Cusp of Love
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posted March 15, 2012 08:34 PM
Telling a coworker how you feel about them romantically, w/o a clear signal from him, is a terrible idea. Definitely not an Aquarius. You'd be setting yourself up for mind-#uck.IP: Logged |
Nine
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posted March 15, 2012 09:17 PM
Touch Taurus. With his moon sign he should be susceptible to touching. Touch him/squeeze him. If he avoids you thereafter, he's not interested. If he keeps coming around he wants more. Touch him. To answer the question posted... Yes, I think he's "shy" or a little passive. I believe he's one of those types who will invite you to pursue and make the moves. Recollections... Aqua-Taurus, Venus at 29 Sagittarius, Mars in Aries insulted me. We flirted and ended up almost having sex, but I had/have a no Aqua policy so didn't put my heart into it. Capricorn-Taurus, Venus in Capricorn, Mars in Aquarius. I wanted this one. A delight to be around, but guarded and "in a relationship." opened up to me after a week of working together, three days later left the company. Suggestive but very subtle flirting. Sagittarius - Leo, Venus in Capricorn, Mars in Virgo. This one insulted me on first approach. Made a move, brushed it off. We're still top friends to this day. Scorpio-Virgo, Venus in Capricorn, Mars in Scorpio. I wasn't attracted, not my type. This allowed me to lower my defenses and be myself - talking about anything and everything... Scorpio: So I told my ex not to call me anymore out of respect for my current flame.
Me: oh!!
Scorpio: No, it wasn't like that.
Me: LOL!!
Scorpio: LOL!!
Scorpio: Are you seeing anyone right now??
Me: Not seriously.
Scorpio: What do you mean not seriously?
Me: There is someone, but you can hardly call it dating?
Scorpio: Do I know them?
Me: No.
Scorpio: Do you work with this person [we were colleagues; me & Scorp]?
Me: Forget it. You don't know them
Scorpio: Where do they work?
Me: I shouldn't say
Scorpio: why not?
Me: A bookstore [library]
Scorpio: Is it around here?
Me: No.
Me: LOL!!
Scorpio: LOL!!
Scorpio: I'm going to find out where it is... ...yea. weird encounter.
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hannaramaa
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posted March 16, 2012 12:33 AM
@Betty Boop - I don't think he's networking. He works IN our store but not for our store. However, I agree he's being professional by sticking to upper management. He doesn't know the intensity of my feelings (and really it's not feelings, it's like curiosity and attraction) but he knows I think he's attractive as of a couple days ago. However, he said I was cute first. And all of this is going back and forth between my friend, the Pisces. I'm concerned because you know how Pisces can manipulate the way someone feels to produce an outcome - I don't want it to be one of those situations and end up feeling like a dumb ass. Then again my Pisces friend has no reason to lie other than making me happy, which isn't a good enough reason for her Libra moon/Venus Aquarius self lol. Also Betty Boop, I'm not jealous of their relationship at all. It's just that he seems much more sensitive than I anticipated and I'm jealous of the piscean ability in general to convey, and receive emotions. Although my Mars is in the 12th, and I have Neptune in the 7th (which I don't even know is applicable) I'm still an Aries through and through. My Sun and Venus are horribly aspected while my Moon is beautifully. Hopefully it's strong enough to trump the odds (it's trine Saturn, Uranus and Neptune - all three in the 7th house) IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted March 16, 2012 03:49 AM
Apparently he messaged my Pisces friend to ask if I was going to her birthday party this weekend, it's funny/odd because when she invited him the other day she told me he asked her who was going to the party then. I feel like she's embellishing the truth (perhaps to us both) in order to get the ball rolling (which I hate.) otherwise I find it really weird that a 29 year old divorced single father is "too shy" to approach me directly, just because he doesn't know me.IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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posted March 16, 2012 04:37 AM
hannarama - I don't actually like that she is getting so involved... because whenever someone got involved in my romantic situations... they always ended up causing problems and miscommunication, even when they were well-meaning. It kind of reminds me of the saying - the road to hell is paved with good intentions.I don't know if you remember or saw my old thread about my Pisces friend who emailed Leo guy from my email address pretending to be me. Maybe you weren't on LL at that time. But anyway - she was definitely well intentioned... but it was a stupid thing to do and he ended up really upset.. It took me a while to fix things with him. My advice would be to try to keep her out of it... You can listen to everything she says.. and maybe ask questions so you get *her* talking about him... but don't say anything extra - that she could then -tell- him.
What I don't like about it is that if she is embellishing TO you... then she is also embellishing TO him.
So if you said "he's kinda cute"... it might've turned into.. "she really likes you!!" IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted March 16, 2012 04:45 AM
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hannaramaa
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posted March 16, 2012 02:16 PM
Thinking about this (naturally) and wondered what Geminis and Capricorns have in common, if anything?IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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posted March 16, 2012 04:29 PM
Humour! Once they get to know each other.. they like each other's sense of humour.. They both laugh at life for different reasons. But Capricorn seems more serious before you know them well.IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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posted March 16, 2012 04:35 PM
I understand that this brought back memories Teasel.. but my situation is so different, it could not catch a bus -back- to being different.
I don't do that anyway. I don't glorify romance at the expense of family or friends. Leo guy had already been in my life for a few years so he wasn't just some guy. And he did not know her at all, never met her. Besides she didn't email him as *herself*. She emailed him pretending to be *ME*.Also, I am not upset with her.. We are still friends. I just feel like I learned my lesson in terms of how much info I should & should not share regarding my love life. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted March 20, 2012 11:16 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Betty Boop:
Humour! Once they get to know each other.. they like each other's sense of humour.. They both laugh at life for different reasons. But Capricorn seems more serious before you know them well.
He seems too dull. Like his version of funny is a lot less high maintenance than mine, dare I say "simple." I don't know how to work with that. IP: Logged |
SaggiMC
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posted March 20, 2012 12:28 PM
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How do these people pursue? Is pursuing indirectly (and slowly) something common or unsurprising with them?The person in question is an Aquarius with a Taurus moon, Venus in Capricorn, Mars in Scorpio. Aspects he has are Venus sextile Saturn and Mars, Mars conjunct Saturn, Sun square Mars, and Mars square Midheaven.
sun conj mars shows a wilful, bossy, dominant personality.
Mars conj saturn, shows doing ones duty in a cautious and constructive manner, but also frustrations of actions, stop/go situations.Basic astrology forum, basic aspects http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum12/private-jjLYZw161/HTML/000693.html
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sambam
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posted August 21, 2012 04:13 AM
wow...his placements are EXACT to the guy i was "talking to"...he wouldnt happen to be a jewish,28yr old guy working finance in nyc, would he? lolIP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero
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posted August 21, 2012 04:46 AM
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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
[...]the idea of someone coming up to me and telling me they LIKE me romantically - at work... and this person being someone I barely ever speak to and I barely even know -- sends shivers up my spine & not in a good way.So the fact that you would actually find this desirable ^ or that you would advise it ... seem like you are UP for a lot more than I'd ever be up for - in the same context. I mean I'd have to get to KNOW that person.. and then I'd figure out whether we can make it work. But there is NO WAY I'd jump into something.. and *no way* I would react well - to someone telling me they just "like" me. My reaction would be.. really? Well you don't even know me! So how could you possibly really like me? And who are you again? --- Also - this guy is in CLIMBING at work.. He is constantly networking with the management, if you missed that part.
A person who is in climbing at work - does not do anything at *work* that would jeopardize their position.
Being Cap-influenced my career means something to me.. so if I had a good job that I liked.. there is no way I would just date any random guy there... because these things can take a dramatic turn. I would have to trust him a *lot* to go there.. and trust that he is a reasonable person who will not STUFF things up for me at work. And it takes time to trust. So.. Agree? Disagree? Please discuss!
I am genuinely curious.. because I don't know many Cappy types who are unlike me. They are usually cautious as well.
So I'm really interested to see your opinion.
I agree that I'd be freaked out if someone I barely knew/didn't talk to much liked me like that. I would be disgusted, freaked out, anxious, and afraid. I would report it immediately and let someone know about the problem. People shouldn't violate people like that. Dating a co-worker has the potential to become a very awkward situation. The best case scenario is that when you break up, it'll be uncomfortable at work. Worst case, they can make things bad for you. And under no circumstances should anyone ever date their boss or people in management--anyone who outranks them. Bad, bad, bad idea. IP: Logged |
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