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Topic: Venus in Capricorn, Mars in Scorpio - shy?
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hannaramaa
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posted March 15, 2012 07:45 AM
  
How do these people pursue? Is pursuing indirectly (and slowly) something common or unsurprising with them?The person in question is an Aquarius with a Taurus moon, Venus in Capricorn, Mars in Scorpio. Aspects he has are Venus sextile Saturn and Mars, Mars conjunct Saturn, Sun square Mars, and Mars square Midheaven. IP: Logged |
s4nd
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posted March 15, 2012 07:55 AM
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hannaramaa
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posted March 15, 2012 08:08 AM
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feb 84 taurus or scorpio rising?
I don't know. His "energy" is overwhelming (reduces me to fits of giggles and twitching. Ugh.) but it's not intense like a Scorpios. It's palpable but different. If I had to guess I would say he has Taurus or Cancer rising. Even though he's fit, his face is pudgy/stocky. His closes IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted March 15, 2012 08:19 AM
Very interesting Combo.I could see where it would be hard to figure.I think his the way he pursued would be Mars in Scorpio *sigh*. However, he would want quality in a partner. He must respect you. That is the most important trait with Venus in Cap.------------------
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hannaramaa
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posted March 15, 2012 08:28 AM
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Very interesting Combo.I could see where it would be hard to figure.I think his the way he pursued would be Mars in Scorpio *sigh*. However, he would want quality in a partner. He must respect you. That is the most important trait with Venus in Cap.
Respect is easy for me to earn. When you get down to it I'm very mature for my age. I wish I was more refined, but at least I'm mature.  That's just it though - I've never dealt with Mars in Scorpio before. I'm sure that's what has me just all nervous and giddy about him even though he's just a dude.
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Betty Boop
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posted March 15, 2012 08:46 AM
What you should keep in mind about Mars in Scorpio is that they are highly emotional! Sex for them is a very emotional thing... and everything sex-related.. including even just flirting is taken seriously.
Your Gemini Mars is about 20 times more lighthearted.
This could be a good thing. Maybe you can relax him a little... I think you guys are basically different but complementary. It can work if you both want it to!One thing to watch out for would be - if you are TOO light/airy with him.. he might just fall under the impression that you have no feelings and you are too detached. And if he gets this idea - he might not be considerate enough towards you. Water Mars people are most considerate towards those they see as emotional. So if things ever go wrong & you need to get on his good side fast -- get yourself some tissues and cry your heart out. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted March 15, 2012 08:52 AM
I agree with Betty for the most part, but on the other hand, he's an Aquarius, with a Taurus Moon and strong Saturn. That to me, would indicate that he's not that into emotional stuff. He may be sensitive himself but I'm not sure he'd like emotional expression. I think you should just show him that you're serious and not a flirt, and be honest. IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows
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posted March 15, 2012 09:53 AM
I am very emotional cmpared to myh mars in fire sign counterparts. I'm an air sign and they're earth and water signs. He may not be into your gemini mars. Scorpio is about merging...sharing secrets with a trusted person.... gemini mars makes friends with a lot of people and socializes a lot. That is how they flirt. Scorpio mars attracts by being themself...being cautious, slow to trust, acting sexy bcause this mars sign is surprisingly confident. In other words, if he goes to a party and he doesn't know any one there , he may not be the kind to fake it. He does life at a slow speed compared to gemini mars. Remember how scorpios have good memories? Well unlike gemini mars who likes to constantly create memories and go out and do fun activities , scorpio finds value in few past experiences. They're not the outdoorsy type that goes by looks or topic of the day... they want to know what you're about. They're very interested in people and the way the work. You being a gemini mars can easily reel them in, problem is you may not beright fo him. This sign has trust issues for reasons. Be yourself. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted March 15, 2012 11:24 AM
Thank you so much for all the insightful replies so far! It's appreciated and it's helping me understand him more. I'm an Aries with lots of Aries in her and for awhile I've been scratching my head like, this is a grown-ass man and he's... SHY? What? But to confirm some of your statements, yes he is sensitive! For the longest time I bought his macho act (he kind of has to put one on but he had one even when it wasn't necessary) but my friend who's a Pisces with Cancer rising (I'm jealous.) said he's sensitive. When he was in the same room as me I could actually picture that being true. He has such a baby face for such a buff guy lol. He's quiet and only sticks to people he knows. He doesn't like stupid stuff. For instance, a couple of my "frenemy" co-workers told him I was basically obsessed with him and wanted his shirtless pictures on Facebook. My Pisces friend defended me to him and he got mad at the nasty co-workers! For some reason I've always thought he got mad because it wasn't true and he's got that ego thing going on with the Mars in Scorpio. Speaking of Facebook though, he's very open with his feelings on his updates. Not in a Leo kind of way where they just let it hang out but a lot of it is emotional and a LOT more soft-hearted than I ever expected from someone who looks like him. Lol. Three cheers for stereotyping to avoid being rejected! I figured Mars in Scorpio would be direct, but it IS Scorpio so perhaps this whole telling my Pisces friend I look pretty today, is normal. She says he's too shy to talk to me. Still thinking "He's a grown ass man who's a security guard... he needs to grow a pair." I'm thinking he's just not that interested. As for my Mars, yes it's in wretched Gemini BUT it's in the 12th house. I also noticed him and I have similar aspects like Uranus in the 7th, Moon trine Neptune, and Moon opposition Pluto. Wonder how that will play out... IP: Logged |
matt
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posted March 15, 2012 01:06 PM
im an aqua and i have this venus/mars combo.im not shy as such; when i like somebody, a lot, i probably won't openly flirt with them, i would most likely be civil. however, i will let them know i mean business some way or another. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted March 15, 2012 01:14 PM
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Originally posted by matt:
im an aqua and i have this venus/mars combo.im not shy as such; when i like somebody, a lot, i probably won't openly flirt with them, i would most likely be civil. however, i will let them know i mean business some way or another.
How would you get to know someone? Would it take you months, or you're pretty arrow-like?
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matt
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posted March 15, 2012 01:28 PM
yeah, if i really liked somebody i would make it clear some how, but i do tend to be less obvious and more discreet in my delivery.in fact, come to think of it, i more or less work her into making the first move! but sometimes i can be quit full on. it really depends the girl in my approach because every situation is different. i go on m instincts. sorry, i don't think ive answered your question!
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athenegoddess
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posted March 15, 2012 01:38 PM
My bf has this combination. Venus in the first and Mars in the 10th conjunct Moon and Pluto.
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matt
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posted March 15, 2012 01:57 PM
i have those same aspects except my mars is conjunct saturn and not the moon.IP: Logged |
IamLoved
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posted March 15, 2012 02:03 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
How do these people pursue? Is pursuing indirectly (and slowly) something common or unsurprising with them?The person in question is an Aquarius with a Taurus moon, Venus in Capricorn, Mars in Scorpio. Aspects he has are Venus sextile Saturn and Mars, Mars conjunct Saturn, Sun square Mars, and Mars square Midheaven.
My ex had that exact sun, moon, venus and mars..... shy? hardly..... he was more of a social butterfly and a flirt, but then again he did have a gemini rising
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hannaramaa
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posted March 15, 2012 03:19 PM
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My ex had that exact sun, moon, venus and mars..... shy? hardly..... he was more of a social butterfly and a flirt, but then again he did have a gemini rising
This guy is picky about his friends it seems. He only talks to upper management at work come to think of it. Sigh. I don't know, I think I should just move on because regardless of sign if a dude is into you - you'll know. But I've seen him staring at me and giving me sideways glances as he walks by like he's trying to catch me looking at him. I guess I shouldn't stress over anything, though. IP: Logged |
IamLoved
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posted March 15, 2012 03:36 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
This guy is picky about his friends it seems. He only talks to upper management at work come to think of it. Sigh. I don't know, I think I should just move on because regardless of sign if a dude is into you - you'll know. But I've seen him staring at me and giving me sideways glances as he walks by like he's trying to catch me looking at him. I guess I shouldn't stress over anything, though.
I think he likes you... maybe he is shy.... I doubt he has a gemini rising though... well at least from his actions. Gemini risings seem so outgoing and friendly to me. Maybe you can try to strike a convo with him and kinda see where his head is at. But don't stress over him. If he's not lucky enough to get you another man will! IP: Logged |
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posted March 15, 2012 03:58 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
How do these people pursue? Is pursuing indirectly (and slowly) something common or unsurprising with them?The person in question is an Aquarius with a Taurus moon, Venus in Capricorn, Mars in Scorpio. Aspects he has are Venus sextile Saturn and Mars, Mars conjunct Saturn, Sun square Mars, and Mars square Midheaven.
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posted March 15, 2012 04:02 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
How do these people pursue? Is pursuing indirectly (and slowly) something common or unsurprising with them?The person in question is an Aquarius with a Taurus moon, Venus in Capricorn, Mars in Scorpio. Aspects he has are Venus sextile Saturn and Mars, Mars conjunct Saturn, Sun square Mars, and Mars square Midheaven.
Moon is exalted in taurus AND highly sexed in fact jont second place with aries, after scorio. Now Aquarius sun needs friendship, long and slow first and foremost. It's intellectual, needs freedom and independence, and stubborn. IP: Logged |
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posted March 15, 2012 04:05 PM
My ex bf who was a Sag Sun had Venus in cap and mars in Scorpio.He was not at all shy, but the way he pursued me at first was almost stalker like (but it was a cutesy funny way I guess?) He would ask to look at my photos...from my friends. Then he would make these sly excuses for more pictures of me. He would save them too, secretly, on his PC.
He flirted with me alot too and when I suggested officiality, it took him some time because he really thought about it. His reply to me back then was "I don't wanna promise things that I don't know if I can keep." It was hard to win him over, he was very cautious. But after he decided, we went on for 4 years strong. IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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posted March 15, 2012 04:17 PM
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This guy is picky about his friends it seems. He only talks to upper management at work come to think of it.
hmmm The whole - hanging out with management is more like Capricorn.. As you know I have Cap Moon and Mars. There have been times in my life, usually when I was very tired and stressed and had too much on my plate... when I just tried to focus on what was a priority and what was not. Sometimes people can drain me when I really need my energy to get things done. So when I'm in this kind of mind frame ^ I will only pay attention to those I absolutely *have to* pay attention to.
He would feel this way about people in management because he needs them to work his way up - for networking.
But I am sure - if it makes you feel better... he is not doing this for kicks. He probably sees it as part of "doing the best he can for his career". So he sees it as a chore. IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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posted March 15, 2012 04:29 PM
hannarama - you have no reason to be jealous over Pisces girl. He would like you guys in very different ways.It's true that on a pure emotional-compatibility level - his relationship with a Pisces/Cancer girl seems easier and maybe more close-knit.
But the reason he stares at you and he seems interested.. is probably because he admires you.. and he sees things in you that he does not have. I was telling you on a different thread - this can happen when someone lacks an element - like he lacks fire.. and you are very fiery.
So he is probably impressed with you in some ways - but at the same time reluctant to get too close. Your relationship would not be an easy one.. but if you managed to get past this initial repellent vibe...(caused by your differences) - you would probably have an interesting friendship at least, if not more.
I think this is something that will happen gradually, since neither Capricorn nor Scorpio nor Taurus jump into things.. and those signs are all prominent for him.
So let him watch you for now ^ and see that you are OK... and slowly he will move on to talking to you more etc..
Don't act impatient about it... I know that's difficult with your Aries stellium.. but it’s really best considering his signs to just let him do his thing in his own time.. rather than push things in any direction.
Channel your patient Taurus Moon since this side of you is very compatible with his chart! IP: Logged |
matt
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posted March 15, 2012 05:30 PM
Try tell him your interested, if you haven't done so already. I'm sure it will establish how he feels once and for allIP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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posted March 15, 2012 05:46 PM
I wholeheartedly disagree ^
What kind of advice is that?They work together. That would be a very awkward situation. I mean I can't understand what you could possibly be thinking to advise her something so silly? Capricorn-influenced people need to watch you and get to know you. They do not just LIKE you overnight... and they definitely do not react well to someone expressing interest - just like that - out of the thin blue sky - when now the two of them barely even talk!! And he lacks fire - so he would be worse than I am when it comes to this ^ because at least fire is more spontaneous. IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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posted March 15, 2012 05:48 PM
Matt - is your Capricorn Venus afflicted in some way?I mean I am so stumped by your reply right now.  Would you seriously just jump into something romantic when you barely know the person - at WORK of all places??!!! IP: Logged |
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