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Libreo Knowflake Posts: 744 From: Australia Registered: Sep 2011
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posted March 15, 2012 09:57 PM
Why are they your best friend one day, and give you the cold shoulder the next? It's hard to take.IP: Logged |
RedScorp Knowflake Posts: 1308 From: The Capitol Registered: Jul 2011
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posted March 15, 2012 09:59 PM
What is their moon sign?IP: Logged |
Libreo Knowflake Posts: 744 From: Australia Registered: Sep 2011
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posted March 15, 2012 10:00 PM
Taurus, and Venus in Gemini, Mercury in Cancer, Mars in Virgo.IP: Logged |
ail221 Knowflake Posts: 107 From: New York, NY, US Registered: Feb 2012
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posted March 15, 2012 10:01 PM
quote: Originally posted by Libreo: Why are they your best friend one day, and give you the cold shoulder the next? It's hard to take.
Ok I am guilty of that LOL.
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Nine Knowflake Posts: 911 From: The Cusp of Love Registered: May 2009
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posted March 15, 2012 10:02 PM
Confession: I'm moody. Understanding it doesn't help me change it no matter how hard I try.IP: Logged |
Libreo Knowflake Posts: 744 From: Australia Registered: Sep 2011
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posted March 15, 2012 10:04 PM
ali221 & Nine, why do you think you do it? Is it because you don't like the person every 2nd day? Is it a personal thing? Not judging just want to understand better.IP: Logged |
SmilingHeart Knowflake Posts: 475 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted March 15, 2012 10:04 PM
don't take it personally. There are some Geminis out there even moodier than any Cancer. But! They're awesome and worth not making a big deal of it.IP: Logged |
Libreo Knowflake Posts: 744 From: Australia Registered: Sep 2011
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posted March 15, 2012 10:06 PM
This guy is really messing with a very close friend of mine. Inviting her someplace one day and getting her all excited then retracting his invitation the next day, then flirting with her the next then not responding to messages the next. He's all over the place. Hard to get angry with him though because he is absolutely adorable. She really doesn't need this treatment though.IP: Logged |
ail221 Knowflake Posts: 107 From: New York, NY, US Registered: Feb 2012
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posted March 15, 2012 10:11 PM
quote: Originally posted by Libreo: ali221 & Nine, why do you think you do it? Is it because you don't like the person every 2nd day? Is it a personal thing? Not judging just want to understand better.
Well I'd say its because I am more sensitive then I realize. Usually I interact with the same group of people because I am comfortable around them to some degree, also within that group I am usually the first one to ask how their day was or surprise a friend with breakfast or treat them lunch if I know there down on their luck, constantly listening to whatever issues with their other friends, family, work, body issues etc. But the people I am around aren't necessarily as receptive or if they say something insensitive I usually even wittily respond back and then over the day I re analyze everything said in my head, which just makes me angry so I go into Ice man mode. IP: Logged |
Geminisquared Knowflake Posts: 449 From: nyc Registered: Nov 2011
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posted March 15, 2012 10:18 PM
Does she go out of her way to avoid you? My best is also a gemini sometimes we do not talk for months. We still care about each other thou. I know some gemini's who may seem like a good friend, but just see you as an acquaintance. IP: Logged |
Nine Knowflake Posts: 911 From: The Cusp of Love Registered: May 2009
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posted March 15, 2012 10:24 PM
quote: This guy is really messing with a very close friend of mine. Inviting her someplace one day and getting her all excited then retracting his invitation the next day, then flirting with her the next then not responding to messages the next. He's all over the place. Hard to get angry with him though because he is absolutely adorable. She really doesn't need this treatment though.
He's not worth it. Sounds like a game to me. IP: Logged |
Leonine8 Knowflake Posts: 130 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted March 15, 2012 10:35 PM
The descriptions usually mention a constant need for variety and new stimulation, lots of things going on mentally at once. Not known for consistency, right? Or maybe used to getting away with it due to charm?IP: Logged |
Libreo Knowflake Posts: 744 From: Australia Registered: Sep 2011
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posted March 15, 2012 10:36 PM
quote: Originally posted by Leonine8: The descriptions usually mention a constant need for variety and new stimulation, lots of things going on mentally at once. Not known for consistency, right? Or maybe used to getting away with it due to charm?
Even with a Taurus Moon and Mars in Virgo? I guess the double Gemini wins.
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aquaguy91 Knowflake Posts: 682 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 15, 2012 11:04 PM
i have had several gemini friends and they all do this kind of thing, one in particular wont respond to a text i sent him then suddenly 3 days,a week,or month later he will blow up my phone and say we need to go drinking this saturday,so we plan it and when saturday rolls around i text him and he is off doing something else when we had plans, such is the way of the gemini,and they say us aquas are bad...-_-IP: Logged |
inthemisosoup Knowflake Posts: 160 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted March 15, 2012 11:10 PM
mutable signs are known to be a bit flaky (Virgo to a much lesser extent). I can admit it, I am sometimes. But it's something I'm working on. Yet a moon in Taurus and being flaky does surprise me, though.IP: Logged |
ail221 Knowflake Posts: 107 From: New York, NY, US Registered: Feb 2012
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posted March 15, 2012 11:12 PM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: i have had several gemini friends and they all do this kind of thing, one in particular wont respond to a text i sent him then suddenly 3 days,a week,or month later he will blow up my phone and say we need to go drinking this saturday,so we plan it and when saturday rolls around i text him and he is off doing something else when we had plans, such is the way of the gemini,and they say us aquas are bad...-_-
Aquarius are just as bad. IP: Logged |
Leonine8 Knowflake Posts: 130 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted March 15, 2012 11:20 PM
quote: Originally posted by Libreo: Even with a Taurus Moon and Mars in Virgo? I guess the double Gemini wins.[/B]
Surprising, but yes, it can be what Aquaman described above.
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aquaguy91 Knowflake Posts: 682 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 15, 2012 11:21 PM
quote: Originally posted by ail221: Aquarius are just as bad.
i disagree,we are very loyal to our friends, true all air signs are a little aloof,but aquarius takes most of the heat for this, i am an aqua and have had gemini friends and dated libra girls,and from my experience they are way more distant. IP: Logged |
Betty Boop Knowflake Posts: 2821 From: Betty Boop Land Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 15, 2012 11:24 PM
I don't see this with Gemini. One of the only two friends who have been in my life since I was 13 is a Gemini with a Gemini Moon! IP: Logged |
Betty Boop Knowflake Posts: 2821 From: Betty Boop Land Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 15, 2012 11:26 PM
I don't see it with Aquarius either. The most unstable ones are Cancers imo. IP: Logged |
Fondue Knight Knowflake Posts: 669 From: NY Registered: Nov 2011
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posted March 15, 2012 11:30 PM
quote: Originally posted by Betty Boop: I don't see it with Aquarius either. The most unstable ones are Cancers imo.
Whenever you hear a Cancer say, "I don't feel well," it means, "I really don't want to hang out with you." IP: Logged |
mintgirl123 Knowflake Posts: 2168 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted March 15, 2012 11:31 PM
It must be the cancer mercury. They are usually really moody.IP: Logged |
ail221 Knowflake Posts: 107 From: New York, NY, US Registered: Feb 2012
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posted March 15, 2012 11:32 PM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: i disagree,we are very loyal to our friends, true all air signs are a little aloof,but aquarius takes most of the heat for this, i am an aqua and have had gemini friends and dated libra girls,and from my experience they are way more distant.
Loyal to a select few with a in a cloud of superficial friendships. IP: Logged |
Leonine8 Knowflake Posts: 130 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted March 15, 2012 11:34 PM
Some aquas are friendly but not overly warm.
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aquaguy91 Knowflake Posts: 682 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 15, 2012 11:35 PM
quote: Originally posted by Betty Boop: I don't see it with Aquarius either. The most unstable ones are Cancers imo.
they are just really moody, i dated a cancer girl who would sometimes go a week or more without talking to me and her excuse was she was in a bad mood,but if i didnt answer her calls or texts within 5 minutes she would be interrogating me. IP: Logged |