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posted March 21, 2012 12:38 PM            

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Which of the two placements do you think has a bigger impact on the way a man deals with his relationship?

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posted March 21, 2012 12:43 PM            

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I'd say the moon plays a bigger part in fidelity. It can determine the impulse / control in a man, whereas Venus only shows how he flirts. I mean, better a man to flirt and come back to you than to sleep with another one impulsively I suppose.

I used to know someone whose Venus was in sweet Virgo 4H, but whose moon was in Aries 11H. God, did he flirt a lot before. Haha

Biggest thing for me though is Mars.

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posted March 21, 2012 12:43 PM            

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I think they both play a role. It takes a while for some people to let others "see" their Moon. So until then, Venus is the main operative.

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posted March 21, 2012 12:44 PM            

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I share Amowl`s opinion.

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posted March 21, 2012 12:46 PM            

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I think they both play a role. It takes a while for some people to let others "see" their Moon. So until then, Venus is the main operative.

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Ahh right, now I do remember a guy who had a moon in Leo/Cancer and a Venus in Sagittarius who was already propositioning other women for sex even while he still had a girlfriend!

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posted March 21, 2012 01:20 PM            

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posted March 21, 2012 01:45 PM            

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Moon for loyalty and how they deal with relationships of all sorts. Whether those are close emotional bonds would be scorpio or many casual friends would be more sagittarius moon.

Venus for how they flirt and make themselves attractive to those they like.for example; A naturally spontaneous and fun outgoing mars in leo becomes shy and quiet when flirting and their venus is in a sig like virgo.

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posted March 21, 2012 02:06 PM            

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Hello Aquacheeka! Welcome to LL

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Thank you!!

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posted March 21, 2012 02:46 PM            

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Neither. Look at Mars in his chart.

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posted March 21, 2012 02:57 PM            

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Originally posted by Summersunshine:
Neither. Look at Mars in his chart.

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For emotional loyalty/commitment? I don't know about that. Maybe for his sex drive...

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posted March 21, 2012 02:58 PM            

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Originally posted by Summersunshine:
Neither. Look at Mars in his chart.

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You think ? I thought it would be the Moon

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posted March 21, 2012 03:35 PM            

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Originally posted by Aquacheeka:
For emotional loyalty/commitment? I don't know about that. Maybe for his sex drive...

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I have thought about loyalty in general and not only emotional or sexual. Mars is about taking action. Isn't commitment an action ? From my personal experience, Mars position describes loyalty or lack of it.

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posted March 21, 2012 03:43 PM            

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I think it's a combination of all these factors.
But generally speaking, it seems that fixed signs are loyal.

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posted March 21, 2012 03:53 PM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
I think it's a combination of all these factors.
But generally speaking, it seems that fixed signs are loyal.

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i agree, aquarius sun,ascendant,and venus here,with taurus moon,and i am very loyal.

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posted March 21, 2012 06:04 PM            

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I think they both play a role. It takes a while for some people to let others "see" their Moon. So until then, Venus is the main operative.

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i agree with this, especially when it comes to men. i didn't really see my bf's moon come out until he declared his feelings for me; i was struggling to deal with his venus (aqua) but once in love his leo moon took over. they are both fixed signs and he is really loyal - to everyone

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posted March 21, 2012 06:34 PM            

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When it comes to sexual fidelity - I would look at Venus and Mars.. On a more emotional level - the Moon would be important. Some people cheat emotionally and not physically and some people cheat physically whilst still being in love with their partner.

I agree with Doux. The least likely to cheat are the fixed signs.

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posted March 21, 2012 07:00 PM            

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So Venus Aqua is loyal?

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posted March 21, 2012 07:06 PM            

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So Venus Aqua is loyal?

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usually,but every sign can be a cheater,but the fixed signs are usually more faithful.just from what i have observed being an aqua sun ascendant and venus with taurus moon,and being friends with scorpios and taurus and leos. i would say the most likely fixed sign to cheat would be leo simply because they must have attention at alltimes,and if their lover isnt there they may seek attention elsewhere.

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posted March 21, 2012 07:13 PM            

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Yes Venus in Aqua included! Because here we are talking about people who are in a *relationship*.

Venus in Aquarius is famous for their experimental streak - and as far as I've seen, it's true that they want to try several different things sexually, and preferably also with different partners. But the promiscuous streak is there only when they are *single*.

Once they are sure they have found "the one".. They don't cheat easily. Fixed signs take their time to make a decision and once they have made it - they want to stick to it.

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posted March 22, 2012 02:25 AM            

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I definitely agree somewhat with the whole Venus/Moon thing... My Venus is in Scorpio and I definitely use it and can be very obsessive and clingy are the beginning. But, once I feel secure my Moon in Taurus opposite Moon comes out- give freedom within the relationship. But I also act like my Sun in Sag conj Neptune too.

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