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ueharaa
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posted March 22, 2012 01:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ueharaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Me and this guy have a lot of "karmic" synastry aspects, and I've been wondering for a while what I am supposed to learn from meeting him. I was wondering if there was any way this could be shown through the aspects and house overlay or even by using technics like draconic synastry, draconic to natals...

The most exact aspects in the synastry include
his north node conjunct my descendant, moon, mercury
his moon, pluto and venus square my north node
my venus conjunct his saturn and my saturn trine his venus
my neptune square his sun
my pluto opposes his venus (he has it natally)
and my saturn square his sun.

I'm not in a relationship with him, he's taken and now a father, but meeting him sort of turned my world upside down emotionnally and I was wondering if from the synastry I can know which lesson to learn and finally learn it, because right now, I just don't understand why I had to meet him.

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lalalinda
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posted March 22, 2012 01:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalalinda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello ueharaa! Welcome to LL

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ueharaa
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posted March 22, 2012 01:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ueharaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
aw, thank you !

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mintgirl123
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posted March 22, 2012 02:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mintgirl123     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Think your lesson is learning to let go, and putting others before your own desires? Yeah I think you do have sth karmic with him, but since he's taken, think your lesson is to learn to be ok with that and move on?

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ueharaa
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posted March 22, 2012 12:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ueharaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
wow, I guess you litterally hit the nail on the head. To be honest I had thought about this experience being a path for me to learn how to let go. The year after I met him, I changed my major, starting my studies over. I had been stuborn during 4 years, holding on to something just because "I'm not a qitter and I'm not going to give up on what I chose to do" I then realized that it wasn't all about the goal but that the journey was important too, and that there was no point in keeping on doing something that wasn't fulfilling me on the inside. So it did, in a way, led me to let go of something. But I had never thought about letting go of him, because he's already gone, it's not my choice, it's a fact.

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Randall
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posted March 22, 2012 12:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Welcome!

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Node
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posted March 22, 2012 01:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Node     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes, welcome.

as to the karma aspect I am with the Nodes as the most Karmic

I had Venus conj his NN- sextile my natal (3811) Karma (exact) that to me is a D@W.

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mintgirl123
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posted March 22, 2012 01:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mintgirl123     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by ueharaa:
wow, I guess you litterally hit the nail on the head. To be honest I had thought about this experience being a path for me to learn how to let go. The year after I met him, I changed my major, starting my studies over. I had been stuborn during 4 years, holding on to something just because "I'm not a qitter and I'm not going to give up on what I chose to do" I then realized that it wasn't all about the goal but that the journey was important too, and that there was no point in keeping on doing something that wasn't fulfilling me on the inside. So it did, in a way, led me to let go of something. But I had never thought about letting go of him, because he's already gone, it's not my choice, it's a fact.


Yeah I know it's hard. And sometimes you don't want to be in a situation like this, bc it's not just letting go of some random joe, it's with sb that you have a deep connection with that doesn't come along often at all. But having karmic experiences is all about growth really. Sometimes people have them and still remain emotionally and spiritually screwed up haha, sometimes you grow immensely and it leads to something much more beautiful. Just know that things do happen for a reason, sure there is something fantastic on the horizon there for you! You just haven't seen it yet.

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