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Topic: karma in synastry: how do you know which lessons you're supposed to learn?
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ueharaa Newflake Posts: 8 From: Paris, France Registered: Sep 2011
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posted March 22, 2012 01:02 AM
Me and this guy have a lot of "karmic" synastry aspects, and I've been wondering for a while what I am supposed to learn from meeting him. I was wondering if there was any way this could be shown through the aspects and house overlay or even by using technics like draconic synastry, draconic to natals...The most exact aspects in the synastry include his north node conjunct my descendant, moon, mercury his moon, pluto and venus square my north node my venus conjunct his saturn and my saturn trine his venus my neptune square his sun my pluto opposes his venus (he has it natally) and my saturn square his sun. I'm not in a relationship with him, he's taken and now a father, but meeting him sort of turned my world upside down emotionnally and I was wondering if from the synastry I can know which lesson to learn and finally learn it, because right now, I just don't understand why I had to meet him. IP: Logged |
lalalinda Moderator Posts: 2118 From: nevada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 22, 2012 01:07 AM
Hello ueharaa! Welcome to LL IP: Logged |
ueharaa Newflake Posts: 8 From: Paris, France Registered: Sep 2011
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posted March 22, 2012 01:12 AM
aw, thank you !IP: Logged |
mintgirl123 Knowflake Posts: 2188 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted March 22, 2012 02:14 AM
Think your lesson is learning to let go, and putting others before your own desires? Yeah I think you do have sth karmic with him, but since he's taken, think your lesson is to learn to be ok with that and move on?IP: Logged |
ueharaa Newflake Posts: 8 From: Paris, France Registered: Sep 2011
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posted March 22, 2012 12:28 PM
wow, I guess you litterally hit the nail on the head. To be honest I had thought about this experience being a path for me to learn how to let go. The year after I met him, I changed my major, starting my studies over. I had been stuborn during 4 years, holding on to something just because "I'm not a qitter and I'm not going to give up on what I chose to do" I then realized that it wasn't all about the goal but that the journey was important too, and that there was no point in keeping on doing something that wasn't fulfilling me on the inside. So it did, in a way, led me to let go of something. But I had never thought about letting go of him, because he's already gone, it's not my choice, it's a fact. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 16666 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 22, 2012 12:53 PM
Welcome!IP: Logged |
Node Knowflake Posts: 1783 From: 1,981 mi East of Truth or Consequences NM Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 22, 2012 01:00 PM
Yes, welcome.as to the karma aspect I am with the Nodes as the most Karmic I had Venus conj his NN- sextile my natal (3811) Karma (exact) that to me is a D@W. IP: Logged |
mintgirl123 Knowflake Posts: 2188 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted March 22, 2012 01:34 PM
quote: Originally posted by ueharaa: wow, I guess you litterally hit the nail on the head. To be honest I had thought about this experience being a path for me to learn how to let go. The year after I met him, I changed my major, starting my studies over. I had been stuborn during 4 years, holding on to something just because "I'm not a qitter and I'm not going to give up on what I chose to do" I then realized that it wasn't all about the goal but that the journey was important too, and that there was no point in keeping on doing something that wasn't fulfilling me on the inside. So it did, in a way, led me to let go of something. But I had never thought about letting go of him, because he's already gone, it's not my choice, it's a fact.
Yeah I know it's hard. And sometimes you don't want to be in a situation like this, bc it's not just letting go of some random joe, it's with sb that you have a deep connection with that doesn't come along often at all. But having karmic experiences is all about growth really. Sometimes people have them and still remain emotionally and spiritually screwed up haha, sometimes you grow immensely and it leads to something much more beautiful. Just know that things do happen for a reason, sure there is something fantastic on the horizon there for you! You just haven't seen it yet. IP: Logged | |