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Topic: True love vs Lust
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Doux Rêve
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posted March 25, 2012 10:08 AM
  
VenusDiSirius, you must be one of those folks that cannot separate the two, then 
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Love is when you wake up in the morning and you hear him snore, you smell his bad breathe and smelly armpits, see his unwashed socks and his booze stained outfit, and yet you rush into the kitchen and fetch him a full breakfast. If that doesn't happen , then you just woke up from your lustful nightmare.
Haha, that's an awesome way to put it!
My Libra Venus cringes at the thought, though 
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Doux Rêve
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posted March 25, 2012 10:11 AM
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Originally posted by Taineberry:
Hey Doux! Your moon is exactly conjunct my sun/moon midpoint AND my mars and uranus. Must be true love.
 Seriously though, my best friend has venus in this placement.
Aww cute!
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MataMoros
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posted March 25, 2012 10:15 AM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Love is when you wake up in the morning and you hear him snore, you smell his bad breathe and smelly armpits, see his unwashed socks and his booze stained outfit, and yet you rush into the kitchen and fetch him a full breakfast. If that doesn't happen , then you just woke up from your lustful nightmare.
Maybe this is why I don't do the love thing. IP: Logged |
MataMoros
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posted March 25, 2012 10:16 AM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Love is when you wake up in the morning and you hear him snore, you smell his bad breathe and smelly armpits, see his unwashed socks and his booze stained outfit, and yet you rush into the kitchen and fetch him a full breakfast. If that doesn't happen , then you just woke up from your lustful nightmare.
Maybe this is why I don't do the love thing. IP: Logged |
s4nd
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posted March 25, 2012 10:20 AM
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s4nd
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posted March 25, 2012 10:25 AM
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Doux Rêve
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posted March 25, 2012 10:32 AM
LOL s4nd, you funny thing I wonder how they do the calculations though, it's probably not very accurate because they don't use the exact time of birth (yeah, I'm totally being a Virgo Moon right now, all about details ya know) Edit: I've tried putting in different data of people I know and so far it's always come up with around 80%, they're very optimistic there! haha. IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
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posted March 25, 2012 10:43 AM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
VenusDiSirius, you must be one of those folks that cannot separate the two, then
Yes,I just may be...
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s4nd
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posted March 25, 2012 10:45 AM
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Doux Rêve
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posted March 25, 2012 10:53 AM
lmao, 97% with yourself! Haha maybe you don't need anyone, just be in a relationship with yourself Oh really? That's weird. They're all rainbows and butterflies there, it's all so beautiful and perfect, I think they sugarcoat stuff (obviously.. who'd want to hear that they're not compatible with their crush?). Or maybe I am just lucky and I'm compatible with everyone around me IP: Logged |
VenusdeIndia
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posted March 25, 2012 10:55 AM
Lust = Intense desire to " have" the person, consume them and thus fool oneself into thinking that you have embodied whatever attracted you irresistibly to them, by penetrating or being penetrated - thus acquire them. Period. Love = Intense feeling of harmony, bliss and oneness with someone, intense desire to merge with them physically because you already feel one with them in spirit, a deep, burning desire to give yourself to them in every way possible, without thinking about what you get in return - sex included. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted March 25, 2012 10:58 AM
OK Let's take love a notch further.Love is volunteering to wake up at 3 am to take care of twin infants with diahrrea in diapers smooshed into the sheets and the bed toys, screaming their heads off because they are hungry. Clean the babies, clean the sheets, wash the sheets (you aren't going to leave the poo poo sheets on the floor are you?), feed the babies and rock them to sleep. Meanwhile, your spouse is fast asleep in the room down the hallway because she/he has the morning shift, and you have to get up to go to work at 6 am. You ain't be loving till you get there. The rest about googly eye gazing and heart-felt infatuation is pure BS. My cousin and his wife had triplets. Both are surgeons. IP: Logged |
s4nd
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posted March 25, 2012 11:11 AM
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Doux Rêve
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posted March 25, 2012 11:16 AM
Oh wow RAS's thread is huge!Oh my, yes, we've totally hijacked this thread.. We should probably start a new one, just for ourselves, in PR Let me create it.. Ps. Yeah, I can be quite Virgoish, can't help it  IP: Logged |
MataMoros
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posted March 25, 2012 11:33 AM
Love to me would be going to the vatican or the synagouge with my significant other dressed as muslims and making out on the front row in the middle of the sermon or whatever they call it. That is love to me. So far I haven't found a girl like this.....they are too conservative. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted March 25, 2012 11:39 AM
^ Wow, haha.Do you have a strong Uranus/Aquarius influence? (totally not being stereotypical here..) IP: Logged |
MataMoros
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posted March 25, 2012 11:54 AM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
^ Wow, haha.Do you have a strong Uranus/Aquarius influence? (totally not being stereotypical here..)
Nope. lol IP: Logged |
Dreaming111
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posted March 25, 2012 12:30 PM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Love is when you wake up in the morning and you hear him snore, you smell his bad breathe and smelly armpits, see his unwashed socks and his booze stained outfit, and yet you rush into the kitchen and fetch him a full breakfast. If that doesn't happen , then you just woke up from your lustful nightmare.
LOL....yup that's love for ya. And even though he's stinky, hairy, and not so good looking...he becomes cuddly, cute, and lovable. lol IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka
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posted March 25, 2012 12:37 PM
For me, quite honestly, love and lust are intertwined. Long-term love is a conscious decision. It is not always easy to love your partner. Sometimes they're grumpy. Sometimes they're messy. Sometimes they're boring. If you have a basic camaraderie and physical attraction, you can draw on those in those moments when the emotional connection has dwindled. Love is meant to be all-encompassing. If it's lacking any one component (affection/friendship, Eros/passion, or emotional intimacy/love), it will not stand forever. It may endure for awhile, but it will inevitably fall apart.IP: Logged |
Moonfish
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posted March 25, 2012 12:38 PM
I just wanna say... Betty Boop and Aquaguy sitting in a tree k-i-s-s-i-n-g  i know that was yesterday but i just wanna give out Kaarrmma IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted March 25, 2012 02:21 PM
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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
Doux - These day dreaming tendencies of yours.....
Now I know it's your Merc conj Neptune! 
lmao @ Dreaming
hahaha blame it all on neptune IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted March 25, 2012 02:46 PM
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Originally posted by s4nd:
some cannot really separate it iz my theory. i cannot. doubt i ever will. some might disagree but to me earth water cannot. water rules my asc, my h5, and earth rules my h7..
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RunAroundScreaming
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posted March 25, 2012 02:49 PM
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Originally posted by MataMoros:
Sorry about the topic. You can delete it. I meant to post that here. Has anyone ever given a clear definition of Love. I can't work on abstract concepts, I need something solid with a foundation. I am not knocking those who love because I claim to 1ove others but what does that word really mean?
things are pretty simple. why complicate them? Love is just when you want to say to someone "I love you" =)
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s4nd
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posted March 25, 2012 03:33 PM
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seeleah
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posted March 25, 2012 04:07 PM
Humm...I might be chiming in a little late. I didn't read ALL the comments, but astrologically I feel that venus and mars aspects usually are kinda lust filled as where venus and sun aspects are pure love filled. I could be wrong, and I am not including astroids at all which can flavor the picture...thoughts?IP: Logged |
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