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Topic: Pisces Moon vs. Sagittarius Moon
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RedScorp
Knowflake Posts: 1371
From: The Capitol
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted March 26, 2012 03:53 PM
  
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Hehe well I've got a Gemini rising to balance things out..  And RedScorp, yours is in Capricorn, right?
Must be why you get along well with your friend 
SHE HAS A GEMINI RISING TOO OMG...If you are a Libra, I will flip. And yes, Capricorn Moon, right here! Her Gemini Rising exact squares my Virgo Rising. WE SOUL MATES, YO'. IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka
Knowflake Posts: 127
From: Toronto, Canada
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted March 26, 2012 04:25 PM
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Originally posted by RedScorp:
SHE HAS A GEMINI RISING TOO OMG...If you are a Libra, I will flip.And yes, Capricorn Moon, right here! Her Gemini Rising exact squares my Virgo Rising. WE SOUL MATES, YO'.
hehe lol IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka
Knowflake Posts: 127
From: Toronto, Canada
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted March 26, 2012 04:25 PM
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Originally posted by RedScorp:
SHE HAS A GEMINI RISING TOO OMG...If you are a Libra, I will flip.And yes, Capricorn Moon, right here! Her Gemini Rising exact squares my Virgo Rising. WE SOUL MATES, YO'.
hehe lol IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
Moderator Posts: 1362
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Registered: Dec 2010
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posted March 26, 2012 04:26 PM
Duh, you have a Virgo ASC, that can only add to the connection!And no.. I am not a Libra! I do have Venus and Jupiter there though. I'm a Scorpio gal IP: Logged |
inthemisosoup
Knowflake Posts: 178
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Registered: Aug 2011
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posted March 26, 2012 04:36 PM
I know you feel your relationship is something others won't understand but the fact of the matter is what your boyfriend is doing is hurting you, it is rude and inconsiderate, and completely selfish. As you are a Pisces moon, you have the tendency to be selfLESS and can get walked all over. Make sure you let him know that out of all the freedom you allow each other to have in the relationship, there ARE limits and boundaries, otherwise the relationship would dissolve into nothingness or be completely one sided. I understand both of you, as I have a Sag sun, Pisces moon, and Aqua ascendant. I sort of personify your relationship.  But seriously you shouldn't let him get away with the one thing that truly bothers you. It is not necessary you know where he is at all times, he's a grown man and you are not trying to stifle him. You just want common courtesy to let you know if he's coming home late. How is that so much of an effort? The thing is, often times Sagittarians can be defensive if they feel they are being criticized; I would guess Sag moons in particular react that way. You need to make this more about you and the way his actions make *you* feel; rather than saying he's so inconsiderate or focusing on what he's doing wrong; simply say you worry and would just like a text knowing he's okay and will be home late? And don't nag about it; bring it up once and leave it at that. If it happens a couple more times . . . I don't see how you can live with someone who blatantly disregards how he makes you feel--intentional or not--once you bring it to his attention he should try and modify his behavior.IP: Logged |
Planet Queen
Knowflake Posts: 75
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Registered: Jul 2011
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posted March 26, 2012 10:52 PM
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Originally posted by Aquacheeka:
Our relationship is not exactly conventional - I have four planets in Aquarius and he's an Aquarius rising/Aquarius Mars. In addition, we have a Sun/Uranus conjunction... in many ways our relationship is characterized by freedom and immaturity (lol) and I know that most people aren't going to get it...Mainly, I want to know how to approach him about it when it happens because my moon puts being considerate and keeping the peace above and beyond all else.
I say give him a dose of that Aquarian detachment. Go out and party and give him a taste of a fun loving Aquarian that you are. What do you mean by unconventional, my mind went straight to polyamory... Whenever I feel clingy or lack self-esteem, I try to go out more and let my Leo Sun shine. Having Pisces moon can put a damper on things, but hey at least there is a duality to having a masculine sun and a feminine moon. IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka
Knowflake Posts: 127
From: Toronto, Canada
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted March 26, 2012 11:20 PM
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Originally posted by Planet Queen:
I say give him a dose of that Aquarian detachment. Go out and party and give him a taste of a fun loving Aquarian that you are. What do you mean by unconventional, my mind went straight to polyamory... Whenever I feel clingy or lack self-esteem, I try to go out more and let my Leo Sun shine. Having Pisces moon can put a damper on things, but hey at least there is a duality to having a masculine sun and a feminine moon.
You know, I did consider that too, just giving him a taste of his own medicine, having a sleepover at my Gemini friend's place and not bothering to tell him anything about it until about 8am, see how he likes it, lol. Pisces moon DOES put a damper on things but I have my Leo rising to balance it
And all I meant is that we're weird and don't always act completely normal in public, we can be pretty boisterous. We also attract quite a bit of attention as I'm a Leo rising, he's a very good-looking drummer and we're an interracial couple. We probably seem kind of detached to strangers as when we go out together with a group of friends we mingle quite a bit, we definitely don't cling to each other's sides, but we're actually a very intimate and affectionate couple. He has a Cappy Venus so that formalizes things in public too a bit, I think. inthemisosoup, you've given me invaluable advice. You're definitely right about the defensiveness to criticism. I think there is a lot of wisdom in your suggestion that I tell him how his actions make me *feel* rather than framing it as what he's doing wrong. I have felt this intuitively in the past but - it's kind of hard to explain - I don't know, I guess it just made me feel overly exposed or vulnerable to approach it that way. Like I'm more comfortable with a matter-of-fact approach. I think I'm so used to trying to suppress the expression of my moon that it just comes naturally to me and my moon sign doesn't find expression until my emotions have boiled over completely. I'm living with a very blunt, sometimes kind of harsh person and I guess I try to embody that quality more because I respect it but if there's one thing I've learned about dealing with a double Sag is that one's ability to dish it out does not always coincide with one's ability to take it back, lol. IP: Logged |
Planet Queen
Knowflake Posts: 75
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Registered: Jul 2011
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posted March 27, 2012 12:02 AM
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Originally posted by Aquacheeka:
And all I meant is that we're weird and don't always act completely normal in public, we can be pretty boisterous. We also attract quite a bit of attention as I'm a Leo rising, he's a very good-looking drummer and we're an interracial couple. We probably seem kind of detached to strangers as when we go out together with a group of friends we mingle quite a bit, we definitely don't cling to each other's sides, but we're actually a very intimate and affectionate couple.
Weird, your relationship sounds like mine. Although were not boisterous, just plain goofy. We're also interracial and my Boyfriend is a Basist in a band. We don't cling to each other either and he has Aquarius ASC. like your guy only he is a Taurus Sun. My boyfriend has many friends he is definitely a guy's guy. He gets free stuff all the time because of all the people he knows. I'm not really popular at all, but thanks to him I've met a lot of cool people. IP: Logged | |
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