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Topic: Spring Cleaning: 5 Guys To Dump
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aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 4474
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 28, 2012 05:47 PM
  
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Originally posted by Nine:
1. Mr. I'm Too Busy - Sagittarius/Aries 2. Mr. Panderer - Libra/Pisces 3. Mr. Mysterious - Scorpio 4. Mr. Know-It-All - Virgo 5. Mr. Apology - Aquarius
haha why is everyone putting aquarius as mr.apology? if anything we are mr.know it all,because we really do know it all..lmao IP: Logged |
Nine
Moderator Posts: 1263
From: The Cusp of Love
Registered: May 2009
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posted March 28, 2012 05:51 PM
^^my reasoning is "Mr. Apology" is a mind-screw artist, and that's the Aquarian M.O. IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero
Moderator Posts: 4367
From: Storybrooke, Mr. Gold's Shop
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted March 28, 2012 06:09 PM
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aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 4474
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 28, 2012 06:15 PM
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Originally posted by RegardesPlatero:
I agree.I also would not have sex someone just because he wasn't a predator. That's not enough. I hate the mentality that women owe men sex just because they are good or don't beat us. We don't. Me, I have my own beliefs, which I won't bore people with, but suffice to say that I just do not believe and am not OK with casual sex, even if someone is a decent person. So, for me anyway, I wouldn't just "hold off for 3 months". I'd hold off altogether. Just don't want a relationship--not a romantic or sexual one, anyway. Having guy friends who were truly just friends/buddies would be cool, but men seem to hate that, generally speaking.
lol you totally misunderstood what i said, i was talking about the 3 month rule being advice for women who are dating or seeing a man they like or are interested in,and the 3 month thing is for women to know that said guy is really serious about her, i wasnt saying a woman owes a man sex just because he was nice. IP: Logged |
amowls**
Knowflake Posts: 1914
From:
Registered: Dec 2010
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posted March 28, 2012 06:18 PM
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Originally posted by RegardesPlatero:
I hate the mentality that women owe men sex just because they are good or don't beat us. We don't.
I totally agree IP: Logged |
amowls**
Knowflake Posts: 1914
From:
Registered: Dec 2010
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posted March 28, 2012 06:19 PM
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Originally posted by Nine:
^^my reasoning is "Mr. Apology" is a mind-screw artist, and that's the Aquarian M.O.
Aquas don't do it on purpose, we're just... aloof I guess. Too aloof to ever apologize. IP: Logged |
FireWire
Knowflake Posts: 370
From:
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted March 28, 2012 06:21 PM
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Originally posted by RegardesPlatero:
In response to the original question:1) Sag, Leo, or Gemini
2) Taurus, Scorpio, Libra, Capricorn
3) Pisces, Gemini, Scorpio
4) Virgo
5) Pisces, Libra Honestly, I'd say that I act a lot like #3, and it's out of caution. Knowledge is power. Unless and until I have trust in a person, I don't feel like it's smart or intelligent to give out too much information, especially if it's of a personal nature. I believe in being very careful in relationships and keeping myself safe.
Sag is more like "Mr. Where Did You Go" or "Mr. I forgot" than busy (lol), because of the need for constant stimulation and intrigue. Sags are probably more apt to get distracted or forget things, but not because they are busy, lol. But I definitely agree with the rest of them...and in my experience... "...I'm busy," is like the number one phrase I've ever heard from a disinterested, evasive Leo (sun). I had to go down the list and yup, they have ALL used this phrase, with no exception. And they are busy, but they have mainly used it when they preferred to not be bothered [with me] at the time, lol.  IP: Logged |
amowls**
Knowflake Posts: 1914
From:
Registered: Dec 2010
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posted March 28, 2012 06:22 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
i agree, and i picked up a book not along ago called straight talk no chaser by steve harvey,its a book giving advice on how women shoul deal with men,and one piece of advice he gives women is to hold off on sex for atleast 3 months,that way if the guy is still around she can assume he is genuine and i have to agree.
That seems exhausting. Like, a month in I already know whether or not we're going to date long term. 3 months is a long time to string someone along, especially if you're NOT HAVING SEX. I don't think I've gone that long since I lost my virginity. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 4474
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 28, 2012 06:28 PM
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Originally posted by amowls**:
That seems exhausting. Like, a month in I already know whether or not we're going to date long term. 3 months is a long time to string someone along, especially if you're NOT HAVING SEX. I don't think I've gone that long since I lost my virginity.
haha im not saying you shouldnt do as you please,that was just advice from a book for women who want a serious relationship but want to make sure the guy doesnt see her as just another booty call,but that approach wont work for everybody. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
Knowflake Posts: 4072
From:
Registered: Oct 2011
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posted March 28, 2012 10:08 PM
How about not have sex before marriage, period? Can't have a relationship, don't marry. Can't marry, don't have sex. Don't want to marry, don't have sex. OK? Solves all issues. That way, nobody is anybody's booty call. I married my wife without having sex. She was a true virgin when we got married. I still knew her better than anyone else in the world. It's 20 years coming up, so who would like to say that I didn't know her when we got married? Want to complain about being a booty call, and yet purposely don't want to abstain: that sounds a tad paradoxical to me. IP: Logged | |
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