posted March 28, 2012 12:08 PM            

Just for fun!: Tell me what you think each guy's sign would be, according to the descriptions

1. Mr. I'm Too Busy: "Gosh you're amazing but I just don't have the time for a relationship right now." If you've heard any variation of that line, know that you've just been warned. That relationship, if that's what you're hoping for, is going nowhere and he's basically told you so. The deal with Mr. I'm Too Busy is that he really ain't too busy. If you believe nothing I ever tell you, believe this: If the guy is into you, he'll find time. Period.

2. Mr. Panderer: This is the guy who has mastered the "game." Typically, he seeks out women who are looking for an old-school/traditional guy. Why? Because (in his mind) that woman can be had by sticking to the old courting playbook. She's not a huge challenge for him-even though the woman may think she is. Not for Mr. Panderer. He knows what SHE thinks before she even thinks it because it's all in the playbook. He says and does all the "right" things as a gentleman all the time. If he seems too good to be true....start looking for clips of him on Dateline.

3. Mr. Mysterious: This guy can be everything or anything. His genius is making you feel as if you know him "well enough" without knowing a thing about him. You probably haven't been to his place. And if you have, you've probably only been there at certain times. He never really answers questions about his life. It's likely he's reluctant to introduce you to his friends or family-and has made mention or attempt at doing so. And he probably doesn't care to meet yours. This guy probably has no male friends either. No best friends? Beware. No matter how sexy or intriguing Mr. Mysterious seems to be, there's something not quite right about him.

4. Mr. Know-It-All: One of the worst. Mr. Know-It-All may initially be impressive. His intellect is alluring, no doubt. Problem here? No one really knows it all. Furthermore, no one wants to be around anyone who thinks they know it all. Even worse, this guy can tend to be overbearing and domineering. He's always telling you what you did wrong, always telling you the "right" way to do things. He has very little regard for other perspectives. His high opinion of his opinions turns your friends off as much as it turns you on. Ultimately, this guy will end up being far more controlling than you expect and that's not good.

posted March 28, 2012 12:25 PM            

2. Mr. Panderer: Cappy.

3. Mr. Mysterious: Pisces

4. Mr. Know-It-All: Virgo

5. Mr. Apology: Aqua.

posted March 28, 2012 01:09 PM            

Now imagine if the men in this forum came up with a similar topic for women.

posted March 28, 2012 01:10 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
i have to disagree with the 2nd one, yea maybe some guys "play" the gentleman,but there are alot of guys who are just being who they are,alot of us especially in the south are raised to be gentleman,give our coat when she is cold,open the door,pay for dates etc.

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posted March 28, 2012 01:12 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
I really do appreciate the opportunity to male bash.

Now imagine if the men in this forum came up with a similar topic for women.

Can we please veer off the hatred??

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posted March 28, 2012 01:47 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
We males shall not stoop to that level, even though we are fully capable of a equi-reciprocal response.

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posted March 28, 2012 01:50 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
bahaha yes we are, we could easily have our list...

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posted March 28, 2012 01:51 PM            

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Originally posted by RegardesPlatero:
Personally, I find it best to be very cautious and to take my time getting to know people.

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posted March 28, 2012 01:52 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
And you are a voice of reason and I applaud you.

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thanks

posted March 28, 2012 02:01 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
No. Please don't start that.

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posted March 28, 2012 02:08 PM            

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Originally posted by RegardesPlatero:
To be fair, though, it's really hard to know when a person is being genuine and when he's just doing it to get laid/in the hopes of getting laid, so it can get confusing for women (at least for me) sometimes. Personally, I tend to have a "guilty until proven innocent" mentality when it comes to trusting people, and especially with men. For me, trust is earned slowly over time, hard to attain, easy to lose: something fragile and precious. I'm careful about who gets my trust. So, that's not an affront to genuinely good guys: it's a way to keep myself safe. If I trusted every guy, I'd be in a lot of trouble. And these days, ever since being sexually harassed by a woman, I'm more careful around women than I used to be in the past.

On the other hand, though, I think that aquaguy makes a fair point here. So, I do appreciate men who have genuine manners and who act gentlemanly without any expectations or strings attached, especially since I'm surrounded by d-bags. Men who are kind simply to be kind and not for any reward are very rare. I wish that they would go and give seminars, honestly. They need to bring up other men to their level. (And, too, women need to stop putting up with bad behavior from guys; if women would not accept bad behavior, men would be forced to raise the bar, so the responsibility falls on both sides).

Personally, I find it best to be very cautious and to take my time getting to know people.

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posted March 28, 2012 03:26 PM            

2. Mr. Panderer: Capricorn

3. Mr. Mysterious: Leo

4. Mr. Know-It-All: Sag!

5. Mr. Apology: Libra

posted March 28, 2012 03:27 PM            

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Originally posted by sand:
that's not a good rule at all tho.. some guys are just predatory. to me you can't really know someone if you haven't had sex with them but that is jmo..

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posted March 28, 2012 03:46 PM            

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Originally posted by sand:
that's not a good rule at all tho.. some guys are just predatory. to me you can't really know someone if you haven't had sex with them but that is jmo..

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Get them angry, and I mean furious. You'll know everything you've ever wanted to know without ever having to touch them... then you can figure out whether or not you want to go for the gold.

posted March 28, 2012 03:49 PM            

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Originally posted by Sashar:
Get them angry, and I mean furious. You'll know everything you've ever wanted to know without ever having to touch them... then you can figure out whether or not you want to go for the gold.

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posted March 28, 2012 05:33 PM            

1. Mr. I'm Too Busy - Sagittarius/Aries

2. Mr. Panderer - Libra/Pisces

3. Mr. Mysterious - Scorpio

4. Mr. Know-It-All - Virgo