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posted March 30, 2012 03:40 PM            

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how do you create a healthy relationship here so the planet person doesn't feel done over by the pluto person?

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posted March 30, 2012 04:08 PM            

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Hmm why would you feel done over by the pluto person. Moon-pluto is so nice in synastry

Unless it's moon conjunct pluto, ugh i hate that aspect lol.

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posted March 30, 2012 04:42 PM            

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RAS, Moon conjunct Pluto? What about Moon square or opposite Pluto? Wouldn't that be more difficult?

And to the OP, unless you want to be part of some serious mind games, don't get close to that person. Honestly if you guys aren't mature enough, this will be a tough ride. Sure you may learn a lot from it, but if you want a peaceful, no BS connection, that's probably not gonna be it. Sorry to be so blunt.. but hard Moon/Pluto aspects are no cake.

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posted March 30, 2012 07:17 PM            

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Moon aspect pluto tight always has this love hate quality to it that sometimes does rub me the wrong way. I think it's all about communication and being honest and forthright with each other. Compromise, and learn balance and not resorting to petty fights.

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posted March 30, 2012 07:20 PM            

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I have a both way moon sextile pluto with fishy in synastry but moon/pluto conjuncts in the Composite.
So maybe it makes it a bit easier.

I like it, but yes at times its very overpowering.. The best way to get relief is to take a break from each other.

We dont so much play the head games,at least its not intentional, or really bad..
It only gets bad when one pulls away w/o explanation.. But then we talk and its all better...

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posted March 31, 2012 02:26 PM            

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My boyfriends pluto in his 8th is squaring my moon in my 8th 1*. Do u think he is playing mind/emotional games with me?? There have been no signs yet, but we seem to effect eachothers emotions very powerfully both positive and negative, its like we swing back and forth.
But Im also pluto in the relationship as my almost exact sun pluto conj squares his venus 1*.

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posted March 31, 2012 04:39 PM            

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Perhaps good Mercury aspects might help?

We have Pluto conj. Moon, it's not really an easy aspect (very intense emotions). However there were no mind games or power struggles involved. I think it's because we are able to communicate openly and honestly which gives a strong foundation of understanding.

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posted March 31, 2012 04:57 PM            

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Cake, I think u might be right about that one, his mercury trine my sun 0*, my mercury trine his uranus 1*, my mercury trine his venus and saturn 2*

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posted March 31, 2012 05:19 PM            

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^ That's sounds positive (air sign speaking, love communication).

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posted March 31, 2012 07:15 PM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
RAS, Moon conjunct Pluto? What about Moon square or opposite Pluto? Wouldn't that be more difficult?

And to the OP, unless you want to be part of some serious mind games, don't get close to that person. Honestly if you guys aren't mature enough, this will be a tough ride. Sure you may learn a lot from it, but if you want a peaceful, no BS connection, that's probably not gonna be it. Sorry to be so blunt.. but hard Moon/Pluto aspects are no cake.

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Whenever I had moon conjunct pluto in synastry we both hated each other. We both easily got under each other's skin and not in a good way. I'm not sure I've ever experienced moon square or opposite pluto in synastry though so I can't comment on it :/ But in my opinion conjunctions are always much more intense than squares or oppositions. Have you noticed that?

In composite, i'll take any of the above though. Any pluto whether, conjunct, square or whatever is fabulous to me in the composite <3

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posted March 31, 2012 08:07 PM            

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@ RAS, that's interesting.
I haven't noticed conjunctions to be more problematic than squares or oppositions, but I am pretty sure they *can* indeed behave in a very "tense" manner, the conjunction is a hard aspect, after all.

You're probably quite Plutonian if you enjoy Pluto in the composite
It definitely adds a depth and intensity that is often not present without Pluto involved in some way.

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