posted April 04, 2012 08:17 AM            

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Originally posted by sand:
i think scorp influenced people can be like that. same amount of love except in the totally opposite direction. happened to me but not with a partner.

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YES!!! That's why I am terrified of Scorpios. Born in Novemeber? Bye bye. I'll stick with Virgos, Capricorn, Taurus.

posted April 04, 2012 08:24 AM            

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Originally posted by RegardesPlatero:

If someone REALLY cares about you, they will actually want to talk to you, spend time with you, be around you--if they care, you will matter. If not, you will only exist when they feel like it. Simple as that.

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posted April 04, 2012 08:39 AM            

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Originally posted by lilithpluto:
YES!!! That's why I am terrified of Scorpios. Born in Novemeber? Bye bye. I'll stick with Virgos, Capricorn, Taurus.

No offense to any sexy Scorpios out there..

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oh if only it were that easy lol!

posted April 04, 2012 09:10 AM            

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Originally posted by sand:
oh if only it were that easy lol!

me, born in november? hellol!

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Of course, you have Mars, Saturn, Pluto, Ascendant in Scorpio.

posted April 04, 2012 09:20 AM            

With friends, even though I care, I don't always show it in a "conventional" way. Usually I don't feel the need to see people in person to care for them, which is the weirdest thing and many people don't get it.

I can go months without seeing friends and feel completely normal about it, and in my mind, I still care for them. Writing them a message from time to time is sufficient.

With that being said, I truly think it has *nothing* to do with being a Scorpio; it's probably Saturn in the 11th for me.

I have a Scorpio friend who is the complete opposite, she needs to see people otherwise she feels like they don't care. I guess that's how the majority of people are.

posted April 04, 2012 10:07 AM            

It's okay to feel hurt and used and angry when someone you invested in, didn't invest much back.

But don't regret what happened. It's happened and you can't change it. Consider it a lesson learned. Consider it the risk you took. Yes, you may have lost, but don't you wonder "what if I didn't go for it?"

I don't regret all that happened. I was very true and honest with my feelings. I opened up A LOT. A helluva lot. I told him things that I never spoke out loud.

The positives are that he didn't repeat them. They are safe with him. Another positive is that I shared MY FEELINGS with him, and I can say "I was true to me" and it makes me feel good.

I believe I am powerful, i am strong. I overcame heart break.

This is completely different than how I was nine, six, three months ago. I was completely dead inside. I was going to kill myself. Lots of negative, pluto grazing over ascendant type stuff.

He invited me to a game. Saw that I responded, then disappeared again. I know now what he's doing, and I am in the power seat, as I am not sitting on baited breath waiting for his next move.

posted April 04, 2012 06:55 PM            

Yeah I'm also one for no regrets. I do things bc I HATE the nagging 'what if' thoughts and seriously, I think those are the worse. I'm so glad you're seeing clearer now. Some people stay in denial bc of love and it's so difficult to see =(.

posted April 04, 2012 07:10 PM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
He throws your crumbs to see if he still 'has you.' The fact you responded and then messaged him again suggests that you still are right where he wants you =/... So now he's smug that you're still 'there' and he can go on to play around with other women some more and then come back to you whenever he feels bored or needs an ego boost or two.

Been there, done that. It's a tiring pointless game he's playing. Be the one to step out of it.

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