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Topic: Scorpio starts and Stops
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maddi
Knowflake Posts: 132
From: New Jerzee
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted April 03, 2012 07:09 PM
  
My Scorpio love interest stopped talking to me due to his confused emotions. Scorp Mercury, Libra Venus, Capricorn Mars. After nine months of absolutely no contact, he invited me to play a game of Words with Friends. I accepted the game, and played back. After a day of him not responding to my next move, I sent him a smiley face in the chat section. Still no word from him.
P.S. I found out via Twitter that he's leaving the country TODAY  for a month. The word he played was "JET"
Why start a game, then go away for a month? What's your guess? IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted April 03, 2012 07:27 PM
What's his Moon?
And, nine months of no contact? That's really weird.
I don't think he's that invested emotionally.
What's the story? Were/are you guys romantically involved?
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maddi
Knowflake Posts: 132
From: New Jerzee
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted April 03, 2012 07:45 PM
His moon is in Gemini.I think we were moving too fast. Ergo the confused excuse he gave to break up. And nine months is a VERY LONG TIME...to me. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted April 03, 2012 07:49 PM
Why am I not surprised he's got a Gemini Moon.. ahem.
They're not exactly the stable type.
Unless other factors *strongly* mitigate it.
Honestly, nine months is a very long time for anyone, especially for someone who has feelings for the other person.
I think you should move on, he really sounds like he doesn't know what he wants.
Find someone who truly values you and wants to be with you. IP: Logged |
maddi
Knowflake Posts: 132
From: New Jerzee
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted April 03, 2012 07:54 PM
I have moved on. I did the whole joining a gym, taking some courses, losing weight, reading positive excerpts...The only thing I couldn't bring myself to do was date again. I tried, but couldn't shake him off, and felt it wasn't fair to the new person. Anyway, why the "heads up" about him leaving? He hasn't involved me in any of his life since the split. His Moon conjuncts my Venus EXACT. I can't help but like him a little  IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted April 03, 2012 08:01 PM
I honestly don't know.I don't find it very logical so I can't tell you why he did that. Too bad it didn't work out, Moon Venus is really nice. How about you ask him? Like send him a message kindly asking what's going on? And if he doesn't reply, then you can be sure that he's not worth a second of your time. IP: Logged |
maddi
Knowflake Posts: 132
From: New Jerzee
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted April 03, 2012 08:08 PM
Well at least I know that for a month I won't hear from him. Instead of doing the whole "why isn't he calling" thing.IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted April 03, 2012 08:12 PM
I think you should try to get some closure, because otherwise you may always wonder what happened and what went wrong, etc.Unless you are really ready to move on and leave him behind. Either way, good luck! IP: Logged |
maddi
Knowflake Posts: 132
From: New Jerzee
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted April 03, 2012 08:17 PM
Thank you. I don't mind him contacting me before his big trip. He obviously is thinking of me. It's a nice feeling.I just wonder what he meant by that. Maybe (my thought) he wanted to make sure I wasn't mad at him before his trip. That maybe he doesn't want to go on a trip where he may have an enemy if he doesn't make it. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted April 03, 2012 08:20 PM
How old is this guy? His mental games are ludicrous. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted April 03, 2012 08:20 PM
You're welcome.Hmm well you may be right.
If you're naturally an intuitive person, then it may actually be it! IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted April 03, 2012 08:23 PM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
How old is this guy? His mental games are ludicrous.
Kind of what I was thinking, too.. IP: Logged |
maddi
Knowflake Posts: 132
From: New Jerzee
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted April 03, 2012 08:24 PM
neptune 12 and some other placements help me be intuitive.What makes him Ludicrious? He's a bit older than the Twitter group, definitely. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted April 03, 2012 08:46 PM
I think at some point people just get tired of games and want something concrete and stable.It doesn't seem to be the case with this guy, and that's probably why YTA reacted that way. IP: Logged |
maddi
Knowflake Posts: 132
From: New Jerzee
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted April 03, 2012 08:49 PM
So this is yet another game?Gosh. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted April 03, 2012 08:52 PM
Maybe, maybe not.Even if it isn't, what's good about it?
Imagine enduring that kind of treatment all the time? If this is how he is, then I say better let go because the guy's not ready for a stable, commited relationship. IP: Logged |
maddi
Knowflake Posts: 132
From: New Jerzee
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted April 03, 2012 08:56 PM
yeah, you're right. I couldn't go through that again. I just couldn't. IP: Logged |
maddi
Knowflake Posts: 132
From: New Jerzee
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted April 03, 2012 08:57 PM
I mean look how much I've obsessed over this one thing. Look how hopeful I got over nothing. Maybe it's just saturn in Libra trying to make me choose wisely this time around. IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted April 03, 2012 09:24 PM
He has venus square mars by sign. Usually that causes alot of issues and people with it have difficulty being very consistent.
In combo with gem moon? Eek.
The guy disappeared on you for nearly a year. I wouldn't have even messaged him back. I would have left him in the dust, and headed onto better things =).IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted April 03, 2012 09:28 PM
He throws your crumbs to see if he still 'has you.' The fact you responded and then messaged him again suggests that you still are right where he wants you =/... So now he's smug that you're still 'there' and he can go on to play around with other women some more and then come back to you whenever he feels bored or needs an ego boost or two.Been there, done that. It's a tiring pointless game he's playing. Be the one to step out of it. IP: Logged |
maddi
Knowflake Posts: 132
From: New Jerzee
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted April 03, 2012 09:46 PM
Gosh, I am so dumb not to have seen that.I was definitely caught off guard with the game invite. I waited overnight, then thought, hey why not. The smiley was after 24 hours. That's when I found out about the trip he was taking. Figured he was letting me know something. I thought it was deeper than some stupid game. Silly me.
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maddi
Knowflake Posts: 132
From: New Jerzee
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted April 03, 2012 09:54 PM
mintgirl, really, someone who supposedly loved you can be so cruel? There isn't anything more cruel than to play with the matters of the heart. IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted April 04, 2012 03:19 AM
Yeah that was just a small part of what the guy did. But hey that's life aye? Some people just don't play by the rules. And don't beat yourself up hun! When you're in the middle of it, it's hard to see clearly. That's why we seek an outside perspective =). And you have had moon conjunct venus exact! It definitely would have been hard to just get over him aye?
He's a jackass, and you deserve WAY more than this excuse for a man. Hold ya head up and don't let him toy with you anymore. It's no longer a game if the opponent ain't playing anymore right? Good luck! Stay firm! IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted April 04, 2012 04:35 AM
mintgirl 
Maddi, don't be so hard on yourself, I think we've all been there and it's hard to see clearly when you're so emotionally invested.
But now that you do know, don't make the mistake of going back to him again, even if he once loved you, he is no good for you.
Stay strong, and let him go.
Someone who treats you well will eventually come up and this guy will become a mere memory. 
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sand
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posted April 04, 2012 07:01 AM
quote:
Originally posted by maddi:
mintgirl, really, someone who supposedly loved you can be so cruel? There isn't anything more cruel than to play with the matters of the heart.
i think scorp influenced people can be like that. same amount of love except in the totally opposite direction. happened to me but not with a partner. IP: Logged |
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