posted April 11, 2012 12:50 AM            

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Originally posted by sand:
leo moon, haute leo could work but i read they eat taurus for breakfast and i am pretty much textbook taurus with a teeny bit of scorpio..

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posted April 11, 2012 12:57 AM            

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Originally posted by scrappydog:
I always thought sun conj moon is one of the most Overrated synastry aspects. Sun or moon of one person on the asc/desc of another now thats powerful. Or nodes on asc/desc of another. Or moon conj or trine moon, so much understanding and harmony and comfort. Not to get off topic.

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yeah but son conj moon is pretty awesome too You feel really close to that person and like they really understand you. Very nourishing healing closeness

posted April 11, 2012 12:58 AM            

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Originally posted by virgolotus:
What if you're gay?
I would want a hard-working, SMART, protective, passionate, spiritual man.
passionpassionpassion

Moon in Capricorn

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That is something that irritates me a little about the whole "the Moon is the woman a man will end up with" theory because it's really heterosexist. Where do gay men fit into that equation? Do they choose close female friends who embody the Moon? Or is that even an unconscious process for a gay man?

I do think that SOME men project their Moon on to the women in their lives. Because it is essentially the yin energy, which is receptive and fluid, and seen as female. But not ALL men project the Moon on to their female friends, girlfriends, female relatives, etc. Some men are very much their Moon sign, like me. I feel I've always been in touch with my Scorpio energy but probably because my Moon is angular.

So where does that leave men like this in that whole theory? While a certain Virgo Moon man, out of touch with his feminine side, may be looking for a female to embody the Virgo for him, there may be a Taurus Moon male who's very in touch with this side of himself and IS the Taurus for the mate in his life. So, in a heterosexual relationship, how would this work? Said man would support and nurture his female partner in Taurean ways. This same female might be very Solar and be the yang to his yin, instead of vice versa.

We shouldn't subscribe to such outdated ideas of gender and relationships. I don't mean to rain on the OP's parade because it's an interesting question but it's a little narrow-minded in its scope. I do believe some men "marry their Moon", but all men certainly don't. There are also definitely some rather unfeminine women out there (who aren't lesbians). Not all women are sensitive and feeling. So maybe this same women could be looking for the Moon in her partner (who could be male).

Basically, the Moon is how we support and nurture and what supports and nurtures us; what makes us feel comfortable; and what our intimate zone is. So, it makes sense for ANYONE, male or female; gay, straight, or bisexual, to marry or become committed to someone who embodies their Moon. Just like anyone can be the embodiment of they're Moon, so long as their connected to this side of themselves.

posted April 11, 2012 01:29 AM              

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
define a true uranian gal lol, i have had experiences with aqua influenced women and they are too cold,i want a warm affectionate type woman .

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posted April 11, 2012 01:44 AM            

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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by aquaguy91:
[b] define a true uranian gal lol, i have had experiences with aqua influenced women and they are too cold,i want a warm affectionate type woman .

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posted April 11, 2012 01:55 AM            

& I've never heard more untrue words about the Taurus woman.

Usually we are the shoulders our female and male friends cry on.

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posted April 11, 2012 02:46 AM              

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
it must be a Venus thing.

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@ topic: one guy wants to get married to me... he has Moon in Gemini. But his mother is a Scorpio with Moon in Aquarius. She and I have nearly identical personal planets. Same degree of Moon, Mercury, Venus and Mars. The only difference is that she's a Venusian Scorpio (Sun-Venus conjunction) and I'm a Martian Cap (Sun-Mars conjunction). And there have been some spooky instances when we did the exact same thing...like this one time at a dinner, someone asked if anyone happened to have a ziploc bag. There were about 20 people seated at the table and she and I simultaneously pulled Ziploc bags out of our purses lols.

(The guy says that he perceived his mom as being "very busy" when he was young. The natal Moon placement and aspects reflect how the child perceived its mother, not necessarily her sign.)

posted April 11, 2012 03:29 AM            

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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
Moon is what feels right,but Venus is what feels as tickling in all the right ways That tickling is very powerful lure,and as any lure it is misguiding

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posted April 11, 2012 04:00 AM            

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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
^ Lots of threads get derailed here. If people want to stay on topic then they can ignore me.

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posted April 11, 2012 04:54 AM              

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
was there a gay greek god? Maybe we can use whatever planet ruled him? lol

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Mercury is gender-neutral/hermaphroditic..

posted April 11, 2012 07:43 AM            

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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
The natal Moon placement and aspects reflect how the child perceived its mother, not necessarily her sign.)

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posted April 11, 2012 07:54 AM            

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Originally posted by scrappydog:
I always thought sun conj moon is one of the most Overrated synastry aspects. Sun or moon of one person on the asc/desc of another now thats powerful. Or nodes on asc/desc of another. Or moon conj or trine moon, so much understanding and harmony and comfort. Not to get off topic.

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posted April 11, 2012 09:05 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
yeah but son conj moon is pretty awesome too You feel really close to that person and like they really understand you. Very nourishing healing closeness

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posted April 11, 2012 09:59 AM            

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Originally posted by Lonake:
Venus (as in you) , Coincidence or not: 2 men have fallen head over heels for me at first sight & have been absolutely unwilling to think that I possess any negative characteristics whatsoever & practically kiss the ground I walk on & shower me with compliments = both have Pisces Moon conj my Sun AND both have Capricorn Venus conj my Moon/Venus. Is this synastric magic?

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posted April 11, 2012 10:30 AM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
I thought the "ideal" was, for the woman's moon sign to be the man's sun sign.

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Oh god I hope not! My sun is 29th degree Virgo and I really do not get on with Virgo Moons. My mother is one, my friend's girlfriend is one and one of my other good friends, he has a Virgo moon too. Don't get me wrong, i'm not against Virgo but Virgo Moons just irritate me so much. In my experience they are quite sensitive and not particularly light hearted. They spend a lot of time commenting on things that whoever they are talking to could do, in that kind of way, "you know it would be better if you did it like this", "you should eat some more vegetables to be healthy", "why don't you go out and get some exercise you've been inside all day", "You need to get some work done, go on, go do it."

I don't know whether it is different in Men and Women but my Male friend is a lot more relaxed and less touchy, sensitive, critical than the women I know with Virgo moon. His Chart is Gemini Cancer in the personal planets with the Virgo Moon.

In my chart my Sun conjuncts my Mercury and Mars, squares my moon, Saturn, Uranus and Neptune and Semi-Squares my Venus and Pluto. So any Virgo Mooners will be touching all my planets.

Now slightly more on topic...

I have a Gemini Moon and a Scorpio Venus. I will say that I don't think I would be happy with either one. I think a mix is definitely necessary for everyone. I don't think I could live in a relationship which was typically Scorpio oriented. I enjoy having a lot of fun, humour, roleplay, mimicry, and smiles. At the same time I love the lust, passion, mystery, emotionality, and intensity of Scorpio. I just don't think I could be happy with one or the other. Stereotypical descriptions I know...

When it comes to the physical side, someone mentioned Air Moons prefer slender women, so would Water Moons prefer more shapely women? I will say I do love athletic women, but I am athletic myself if that has any impact. I do like and appreciate curves as well but tend not to go after the hugely curvacious women.

posted April 11, 2012 02:39 PM            

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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
I do hope you exercised the right to see them kissing the ground

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posted April 11, 2012 02:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Aquacheeka:
Men with moon in Sagittarius tend to like women of another race or culture. Of the three Sag moon men that I know, two are in interracial relationships and the third is dating a woman of the same race who was born in Brazil (he's Canadian). Trent Reznor has a Sag moon and he dated outside of his race exclusively for about 14 years before marrying Mariqueen (who is from another race AND culture). I'm just shocked he got married, these men usually don't. lol.

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posted April 11, 2012 03:28 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
My marriage of two similar moons is doing just fine. I don't know what the fuss is all about. Its impossible to lie to each other because we can sniff out BS hundreds of miles away.

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