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posted April 12, 2012 10:28 PM            

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So guys again please, I need some advice. i share my venus opposition his saturn with the guy i adore, and his venus conjuncts mine. It's hard to make a full conversation without one of us getting awkward, that lately we've been avoiding eachother. please how do I get around this. what should I do?

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posted April 12, 2012 10:30 PM            

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Yeah =( see sometimes it does get worse. But nothing communication won't solve!
Sometimes synastry aspects don't come into effect until a few months in, and the saturn hard aspects usually get gradually worse with time. In what way is it awkward? Do you feel like you can't let loose with him?

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posted April 12, 2012 10:37 PM            

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normally i can chew people's ears out, and I talk to eeeeeeveryone. I have no problem with that. with him, I get so awkward and shy and i feel the same from him. we look at eachother, we have this magnetic eye contact. we talked before, at one point he began stuttering. should i push more since my venus opposes his, should I be the one trying harder.

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posted April 12, 2012 10:48 PM            

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Oh my gosh, you're like that with the awkward eye contact too!? haha.
His venus opposes my saturn.
I hate cleaning,cooking,working,etc.. but whenever I'm around him thats all I want to do! The reason I won't tell him I like him is because I don't feel like the family will accept it. Our relationship isn't free and flowing, its tense in a way that cause has effect.So we're slow with it.. If I were you, I'd just let him know you like him-- in a private setting (away from influences.) I don't think you should push, I think you should be your normal self. Try not to let saturn make you something you're not. Fight it and goodluck~

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posted April 12, 2012 11:46 PM            

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Originally posted by curiouswoman:
So guys again please, I need some advice. i share my venus opposition his saturn with the guy i adore, and his venus conjuncts mine. It's hard to make a full conversation without one of us getting awkward, that lately we've been avoiding eachother. please how do I get around this. what should I do?

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you cant get around it, the planets will do what the planets will do. just go with the flow...

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posted April 13, 2012 12:03 AM            

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hey desiring shadows, but how do YOU as saturn feel? what would make YOU happy or comfortable, maybe I can get some ideas.

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posted April 15, 2012 03:13 AM            

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anyone please?

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