posted April 17, 2012 10:02 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Faith,

I went to kindergarten with him. I knew him since I was three years old.

I came back from overseas military training tan and buff. Imagine me coming back to my girlfriend to see her tummy? How crushed I was?

The temptation to take him out was great, but two factors came into play: (1) my tremendous love for God, (2) my continued love for the girl despite what had happenned.

No. Nobody beat him up. He got off scott free via lawyer and hush hush money. The world is evil, but money is a cold reality. Money does buy the way out for sleazeballs.

I took the selfish easy way out. I finished my military service and embarked directly for America to begin a new life. In a way, I felt guilty and selfish for something which I didn't even have a part in.

However, I had my whole life ahead of me and I was super ambitious. My childhood dream was to have my own family, and I wanted to do everything properly. In the whole scheme of things, I ended up bailing out.

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Ian,

This is the kind of story I never forget. Maybe it will comfort you to know a virtual stranger is now carrying part of your burden.

Although a similar kind of betrayal did break my heart early on (a "good" friend seduced my "soul mate" and I lost him over it), I've never had a disaster of this magnitude. But, I feel I can empathize.

Your story demonstrates the DUAL nature of Capricorn. Mainly, everyone just sees the mountain goat, sees that we climb every ladder, never give up, place a premium on success.

Is it some kind of "inside secret" amongst Capricorns, that we are actually very, very sensitive? That fin has been in deep water, and now we have to drag it up a hill!

So I am not surprised that you still think about this long-ago ordeal and wonder if you did the right thing, even though no one in their right mind would fault you for it.

'Just how Caps are.

And frankly I like that about us. I take comfort knowing some people never forget.

posted April 17, 2012 11:05 PM            

I am a
sun libra in the 5th
moon sagittarius in the 7th
mercury libra in the 5th
venus in the 5th libra

mars scorpio in the 6th
chiron in the 5th
ascendant gemini

Our synastry was great too. Our composite had
Sun in the Fifth House *Sun Conjunct Moon *Moon in the Fifth House *Venus in the Fourth House *Venus Conjunct Pluto,etc. At the time we both played sports together and were both group leaders, etc. But he liked the prettiest girl in our grade named Patrica so I didn't really exist in his mind as a potential other than just a friend. Something ironic is that all of my crushes they always have venus in aspect to uranus/neptune or pluto! His venus conjucts uranus and neptune---which I don't know many people who have that aspect. I have venus square uranus and neptune!

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"Peace, love, happiness!"
-Anonymous

posted April 18, 2012 02:30 AM            

My first true loves were Cap Sun, Taurus Moon, Venus in Scorpio, Mars in Cap & Aqua Sun, Libra Moon, Venus in Cap, Mars in Aqua. I was actually torn between these two, the Cap being my first love and the Aqua being the first I've felt a soul connection with.

I am a Sag Sun, Mercury and Mars, Pisces Moon, Venus in Scorpio. I have noticed that I'm attracted to Saturnine and Scorpio/Plutonian energy, and vice versa.

It is weird, as those are the neighboring signs to my Sun. Weird also that all three of these past flames, were born in the same year and their planets connect with my Moon and Venus, as Moon conj Pluto and Venus conj Venus trine Moon.

posted April 18, 2012 05:29 AM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
Ian,

This is the kind of story I never forget. Maybe it will comfort you to know a virtual stranger is now carrying part of your burden.

And frankly I like that about us. I take comfort knowing some people never forget.

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We learn valuable lessons and make the most of the rest of our lives.

posted April 18, 2012 07:26 AM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
We learn valuable lessons and make the most of the rest of our lives.

Misery over here doesn't love company, but you are unique and special, and I totally cherish knowing that there are wonderful people such as your good self

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Thanks Ian!

Sorry if I sounded a little maudlin there. Moon was transiting my 8th house moon last night, if that's any excuse. And I get terribly sentimental sometimes. Especially on "first kiss" threads

Anyway, it's true, Caps have a long memory. I like that about us.

posted April 18, 2012 08:09 AM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
Thanks Ian!

Sorry if I sounded a little maudlin there. Moon was transiting my 8th house moon last night, if that's any excuse. And I get terribly sentimental sometimes. Especially on "first kiss" threads

Anyway, it's true, Caps have a long memory. I like that about us.

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The internet masks the sensitive side of me, and that is not readily apparent.

posted April 18, 2012 05:55 PM            

First kiss: Cancer Sun, Virgo Moon, Gemini Venus

First real relationship: Aqua Sun, Leo Moon, Pisces Venus, Cancer Ascendant

Person I’m interested in now: Cancer Sun, Aries Moon, Gemini Venus

posted April 20, 2012 08:56 AM            

My first kiss was at 15 with my first love Sag Sun/Taur Moon.

I'm a Sun Scorp/ Moon Gem

posted April 20, 2012 09:06 AM            

I am a
Sun Libra 5th
Moon Sagittarius 7th
Mercury Libra 5th
Venus Libra in 5th
Mars Scorpio in 6th

posted April 20, 2012 09:16 AM            

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Originally posted by inthemisosoup:
I have no idea about my first kiss, but my first love was a Gemini Sun, Pisces moon. I'm a Saggi sun, Pisces moon, Aqua ascendant. Our moons were conjunct. We had a very tender relationship. We just started talking again about about a year or so again and I am still very glad we spent the time we did together.

My other 2 serious relationships were a Scorpio sun, Virgo moon and a Sag sun, Libra moon, Leo rising.

The dominant pattern I see in my relationships are lots of oppositions, and aspects to my Ascendant and/or Venus/Pluto conjunction.

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What a great chart. I love you and I don't even know you.

posted April 20, 2012 09:58 PM            

Puppy love: 5/6/7 Sagittarius/Pisces. When we spoke as adults, they rejected this. I think I know what I remember. That and people teased us about it. Plus my pMoon was in Pisces in those days, and theirs would've been in Gemini - my sun sign.

First Attempted Lover: Scorpio/Virgo. It was awful. We were too young for anything "real" to happen. This one was lazy and selfish. Mars exactly oppose my Venus in Taurus - I'd do my bit & when it came time to reciprocate...a real disconnect.

First Lover: Sagittarius/Gemini. It was fun, the sex. Off the bed we collided a little to often for my liking. But I've noticed this pattern, collisions, between myself & persons born on the 1st, 10th, & 19th days of the month.

First love: Pisces/Taurus. It was late and all I could think about was getting home and freshening up. Then Pisces invited me to hang out. They were new in town so I said yes. On the outside I was having a blast (lifepath conjunct lifepath). On the inside I prayed they won't get too close as I wasn't feeling so fresh. It was such a thrilling afternoon.

First Attempted Adult Relationship: Libra/? I suspect a Gemini moon. It was awful. Too many secrets. Too many lies. Too many made up stories. Too many taboo subjects. It was terrible. In my family I gravitate towards the Libras. In romance, I run away from them. Odd.

posted December 05, 2012 12:59 PM            

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Originally posted by paulflo:
i wouldn't kiss her now..

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lol

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1st kiss, 1st bf --- Sag Sun/Leo Moon - no clue his ascendant

I just remember being terrified of his braces~
&
that he had rrrrrrrrrreally soft lips.

everything else about him was forgettable.

posted December 05, 2012 01:12 PM            

He is a Moon Pisces Cancer Sun Libra Rising
I am a Moon Taurus Cancer Sun Capricorn Rising ¢¾

posted December 05, 2012 01:16 PM            

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Originally posted by FireMoon:
First crush (nothing ever came of it): Aries Sun, Scorpio Moon, Gemini Venus

First kiss: Cancer Sun, Virgo Moon, Gemini Venus

First real relationship: Aqua Sun, Leo Moon, Pisces Venus, Cancer Ascendant

Person I’m interested in now: Cancer Sun, Aries Moon, Gemini Venus

I’m a Cap Sun, Sagittarius Moon, Aqua Venus, and Cancer Ascendant. Apparently I seem to be attracted to Cancer suns and Gemini Venus’s even though they are both very complicated placements, and they’re not exactly known for their stability or faithfulness! Not to mention Gemini is in my 12th house, but I guess I’m drawn to the challenge… Haven’t quite learned my lesson yet lol

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My only two romantic interests were Venus in Gemini lol!