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Topic: Cap Man Question
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Betty Boop
Knowflake Posts: 3321
From: Betty Boop Land
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 26, 2012 02:23 AM
  
YTA - I really love your story  I think it's the sweetest thing in the world that you were both so sure you wanted to spend the rest of your lives together after just a couple of months.But I don't really think this is typical for Capricorn...
They usually like to take their time and assess the situation. It's pretty uncommon to see a Cappy jumping into something. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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Registered: Oct 2011
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posted April 26, 2012 05:48 AM
Thank you Betty Boop, but it also takes two to tango. It is the union of two very strong headed and assertive people. But even cobras, hippos and crocodiles mate. As far as not being the conservative Capricorn, I have aggressive aspects like Mars Trine Pluto, Sun Square Jupiter and Neptune Sextile Pluto. My wife may be a Leo but has a five planet Virgo stellium. She has Moon Square Pluto. We have stuff like Sun Conjunct Mars and Mars Opposite Venus, all very aggressive. Most of all, we have Venus to Uranus aspects, denoting sudden love, but also the danger of sudden endings. The rest is really academic becuase it's been going on for so long This Capricorn is not an Aries, not to diss I'm five steps ahead of the game plan Don't think that I haven't analyzed the pool water before jumping into the pool IP: Logged |
Faith
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Registered: Jul 2011
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posted April 26, 2012 08:41 AM
^ But I think THAT is common for all Caps. Analyzing the pool water, being ahead of the game.BB, you might be right, but oddly enough I know other Cap men who proposed after a short time: one after two weeks (to a Virgo), the other proposed after a month (to a Leo.) The first marriage is still going after 20-some years. The second marriage fell apart but the couple still seems obsessed with each other. IP: Logged |
Faith
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Registered: Jul 2011
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posted April 26, 2012 08:57 AM
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Originally posted by beccathelion:
Okay, now I do have a question! It's mostly me just splitting hairs, because it seems patience and not pushing anything are working fine. He texts every day. Sends pictures of things I like, etc. Actions speak louder than words; it's a good sign. However, I haven't been asked out again. It hasn't even been mentioned (and I'm not gonna bring it up!) I know he's somewhat busy with work and school, which is beyond fine. Those things come first, in my opinion, but... it's running cooler and cooler, and the one time I brought up our past date, it got shutdown pretty quickly. I don't think I'm being kicked into friend zone though; last night I asked if I could call him a nick/pet name based on a joke we made, and even after admitting he hated them, he approved it (which stunned me). I say, "Good night, [nick name]," and he responds with, "Good night, [nick name]" that he made up for me. Now, duh, this is good, but... is it really going to be this slow going? I'm just trying to situate myself here, prepare myself for the wait. Plus, I'm just fascinated. I mean, he's giving me man signs that he's, yes, into it, but... not pulling triggers. I've never met a guy like this before. It's a killer learning lesson. (I feel so ridiculous and teenager typing this out, haha, but it's really interesting perspectives to gain.)
Don't worry about sounding like a teenager, we all love to do that sometimes around here. Well...at least I do... Anyway your situation just sounds nerve-wracking. I doubt any of us can figure out the mixed messages. I do think Virgo moons take a LONG time to build trust, so that might just be it. (?) And sun square Asc might make him hard to read. Is it too soon to ask him bluntly where you stand with him? IP: Logged |
beccathelion
Newflake Posts: 19
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Registered: Jun 2009
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posted April 26, 2012 11:23 AM
Haha, it's true. Mixes signals abound. And, yes, I think it's a little too early to be blunt. We'll go through the weekend; I'm busy anyway with work and whatnot. If he's all crickets (or partially chirping) after that, I'll absolutely bring it up. He is extremely hard to read. My gut says keep going; I'll do that until it says stop. Thanks, again, Faith! IP: Logged |
lilithpluto
Knowflake Posts: 859
From: pluto
Registered: Dec 2011
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posted April 26, 2012 11:35 AM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
From her standpoint, she likes my Capricorn sense of duty, responsibility, respect, care and most of all affectionate nature. She liked me having a strategic plan for everything (I was surprised that most women don't like that). I was five steps ahead with the career and financial planning. I had investment strategies mapped out by 21 and the home buying part by 25. That was just unique me. Of course, she just so happens to like the business look (and most young women don't). Me being dressed in fine suits most of the time didn't hurt.
Lol... I love guys who are in power suits! They are so attractive. Main reason I love Earth dominant guys is their responsibility, sense of duty, the-I-have-a-plan attitude. Its the main first attraction to me. I love how you praise your wife.. that works so well with Leos.  IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
Knowflake Posts: 2556
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posted April 26, 2012 11:46 AM
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Originally posted by lilithpluto:
Lol... I love guys who are in power suits! They are so attractive. Main reason I love Earth dominant guys is their responsibility, sense of duty, the-I-have-a-plan attitude. Its the main first attraction to me. I love how you praise your wife.. that works so well with Leos.
And I commend your taste in Virgos. . They are very good people. My wife isn't here, but she's a far bigger defender and promoter of me than I am of her. So credit to her. Incidentally, she has five planets in Virgo: Venus, Mercury, Jupiter, Pluto and Uranus. IP: Logged |
beccathelion
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Registered: Jun 2009
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posted May 02, 2012 08:53 PM
Welp! I gave it some time, and after over a week of silly mixed signals from him that were more or less beating-around-the-bush and no mentions of round two, I suggested we should perhaps go out again. Nothing forceful. Just to show interest. I got a yes, but from what I could gather, a half-hearted one. Then radio silence for going on three days now. C'est la vie. The Universe works in mysterious ways. Here's hoping for something even better to come along. Thanks for your help again though. I learned a lovely karmic lesson all in all :]IP: Logged | |
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