posted April 25, 2012 07:50 AM            

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Originally posted by Nine:
This guy is not complex or insecure. He's a gentle, passive soul.

He loves you and doesn't want to hurt you. But he's given this relationship all he has to give. He's trying to tell you, but you won't listen to him. Where he was once sweet he's turned bitter. It's a hope, a prayer, a wish you will spit him out. But you won't.

Hear what he is saying to you. Release him.

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Having a decent amount of Scorpio and Plutonic influence myself, I once dealt with a someone who was the 'negative' version of all of those energies, acting as what she as described.

But in my experience, when someone has gone cold on me, become bitter...etc, it is while I am there that they feel this way. When I do actually 'release them'--the story changes. Decide now, whether a) you want to 'release him' and let go, AND b) if you are ready and, or willing to play a back and forth round. Because based off what you described, this will not be a 'clean split' so to speak.

He seems a little uncertain. I don't know that I would call him a "passive, gentle soul" but he seems very unsure of what he wants from you. Yes, Scorpio/Plutonic people can be passionate and all consuming, but they are not always sure of how or why this passion and desires burns them from the inside out. Some people do not even begin to know what it is like to want something/someone so bad, that the feeling of being apart from them breeds a sort of madness within you. It sounds crazy, but I've seen it happen before and nearly eat someone alive.

posted April 25, 2012 08:22 AM            

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Originally posted by Wild-flower:
I wonder,
Are any of his planets in his 12th house? are any of your planets in his 12th?

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I didn't think of this!!!!

posted April 25, 2012 12:02 PM            

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Originally posted by cherryblossom:
How do i know this? I have our charts with me, but i can't tell which one's the 12th house...

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posted April 25, 2012 11:54 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
This sounds too much like my friends mom's on again off again boyfriend, he picks fights,will criticize and belittle her,bring up her past and hold it over her head, then when she gets tired of it and kicks him out,he will start calling and say baby i cant live without you ,and then they are back together before you know it and its fine for a week or 2 then he starts up his crap again,its an endless cycle.

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It is sad how often this happens. And while I haven't experienced anything this extreme, I did experience and on and off again dynamic with someone who happened to be a Scorpio sun. It was way too exhausting. When I 'really' walked away, I never looked back--complete severance. And sometimes, I almost feel like we are 'tested' to see when we will stand up for ourselves, our hearts and our integrity and choose joy over sorrow when it comes to such things. But, it is all individual choice and we have our lessons we must learn.