posted April 29, 2012 12:11 AM            

"Near Relatives: We were considered the “black sheep” of my mother’s family because she “married beneath herself.” (You’ve all met Mom’s sister, my mean Aunt Bernadine.) It would be an understatement to say that my father’s family was problematic. On both sides, there were lots of alcoholics and lots of secrets no one talked about. No close connections on either side, major feelings of shame."
http://skywriter.wordpress.com/2010/06/20/viewing-the-3rd-house-through-the-lens-of-neptune/

Moon/ Pluto?

Those with Moon/Pluto aspect often have a dark childhood. Dark here does not mean it is just naturally bad, but the way they experience their childhood, their home, family, roots and mother is the different the those with say, Moon/Venus , Moon/Jupiter harminous aspects. Here, the mother could be a devouring figure, and the family atmosphere can be so tense. This is because the child is more " sensitive " to the underground vibes that are inherent in the family. If the family has many children then the child with Moon/Pluto might as well be the blacksheep, the scapegoat.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20110921234847AAUKUNF

Pluto in h4,h8, h12?

"The black sheep of the family becomes the cause of sorrow at home and may even be shunned completely. The astrological signficators for family scapegoating and being labelled the black sheep of the family can vary. Sometimes it is seen with Pluto in the water houses 4th, 8th, or 12th and may be an implication of past complexes left over by family members that have been left unresolved for many years. The water houses represent things moving unconsciously through the family psyche. Pluto in the 4th house is often left to deal with a family fate of some kind, but they may be the agents of family change and transformation, and so there can be positive aspects to being the black sheep if it brings healing to old conflicts."
http://theastrologyplace.blogspot.com/2011/08/family-scapegoat.html

posted April 29, 2012 03:24 PM            

When it did come to school, I was made fun of very often because I was such a bizzare socially clunky child. I was very friendly and talkative, I just didn't do it in a way that other kids received well. I was just too different and it was often pointed out to me.

My father and I are WILDLY different people, and he is/was not very tollarent of those who are different then him. I am quite different from that side of the family. If my father and I ever agree on something and our family is around, most of the time someone will say something like "...wait a second, are they agreeing on something?! This is national news worthy!". I take it in good stride.

Interestingly, I have an absolutely WONDERFUL relationship with my mother. Me and her are actually soulmates. We've figured this out through many different means. We have had so many countless lifetimes with each other that it is so rare that we are ever apart. We currently live 2500 miles away from each other and that is very hard. We manage though. We're extremely close. I think a major reason why our relationship is so good is that despite my moon/pluto conjunction, both are well aspected with no nasty aspects.

I also have neptune in the 3rd. My father has kept many secrets from me, and still does. Little does he know that I have since figured them out through many different means. He feels it will change my opinion on him. It hasn't at all, it's actually caused me to respect him more. Yet, I can never tell him I know because he would simply not understand how I feel the way I do.