posted April 30, 2012 04:52 PM            

Not all of us Pisceans are wishy/washy and all over the place.

Granted I've got mars in capricon and I am a cap ascendant

and have saturn conjunct moon in cancer = emotional brick wall.

The key us is to understand that as a mutuable water sign we like to ebb and flow. We need our dreams, illusions, and fantasies as they are where we gather energy, insight, and understanding.

We believe in idealism, rescuing, and we tend to be attract to those is despair.

Pisces men love to find the diamond in the rough when it comes to women.

Love is a struggle and the effort to gain for Pisces men seems to be justifed by the struggle.

The key is understand that most Pisces men are easily wounded but will almost always return once they've had a little time to gather strength.

posted April 30, 2012 05:16 PM            

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Granted I've got mars in capricon and I am a cap ascendant

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Granted!

For sure.

This guy has a Cancer Mars. Not a Capricorn Mars.

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we tend to be attract to those is despair.

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I find that Pisces men are also sexually attracted to those in despair.. so it is not a one way street.

However, as much as they can be the sweetest person in the world to someone in 'despair'... They can also (the bad-egg ones) be complete jerks to someone they perceive as a strong woman who has it all figured out.
This is mostly due to low self-esteem, and trying to passive-aggresively bite at others.

The other problem is that they cannot always tell the difference between a person who is strong and a person faking it... whilst being in despair underneath.
Just as much as they cannot always tell the difference between a person who is genuinely in despair and a person trying to take advantage of them.

Also, although - it is really nice to help the underprivileged... there is no excuse or justification for intentionally hurting other people who are in *your* personal perception (which ^^^ can be flawed, mind you!) - NOT - underprivileged. This is virtually trying to play God..

posted April 30, 2012 05:41 PM            

Just saying. Just telling like it is. For whatever it's worth.

My 7 year old son is also a Pisces and he practically has his harem in 1st grade. Again, with great ease.

posted April 30, 2012 05:48 PM            

My dad has strong Capricorn placements and is a Capricorn rising. He's anything but wishy washy. He's even bigger a Capricorn than I am. A hot tempered focused dictator.

Al Capone was charming but ruthless. John Gotti too.

posted April 30, 2012 07:37 PM            

Again I'm not a typical Pisces.

However, mars in cap, cap rising, and saturn conjunct moon makes me more like a Capricorn more so than anything else.

As for the rest of my Pisces bretheren jsut think of the Looking Glass song Brandy which pretty describes your normal Piscean

" ...my life, my love, my lady, is the sea."
i/e turmoil, vast space, movement, and things associated with sailors i.e wine women and song.

posted April 30, 2012 08:24 PM            

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Originally posted by seaofjoy:
His Venus & Moon = Scorpio & Aries. You're looking at a fella that enjoys an aggressive woman with a bitta depth & romance.

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WOOT WOOO!!!!!!!

(batting eyes)

posted April 30, 2012 09:10 PM            

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Lioness - Your Pisces guy's chart does not scream anything negative to me. When it comes to him being bf-material, I would be neutral about his chart. I wouldn't think he was in the negative or positive extreme... just *Ok* - not too bad, but not exactly the kind of guy who would make you happy either.

This is just about his chart ^.. but, his behaviour, the way you describe it, seems like a flash light. So I'm not sure what to make of that.

I like that he has a Capricorn Venus. This is a mature Venus, nothing like the Pisceans out there with Aries Venus who play 2 year old games. Aquarius Mars is not my fave.... but being a Leo you would appreciate it more than I would. It is still a mature (transpersonal) Mars, so I wouldn't imagine that he would do anything overly unnerving. He probably knows how to be a good friend.

What I don't like about him is the fact that - his behaviour seems to confuse you all the time and it is erratic & weird. I associate this more so with the bad-egg Pisces. But maybe I am just misjudging him. Based on his chart I wouldn't lump him in this category, *only* based on his behaviour.

posted April 30, 2012 09:55 PM            

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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
Just wanted to mention - I do know another Pisces guy who has Capricorn Mars/Leo Moon.. and he was faithful for 30 yrs until they ended up getting a divorce.
Capricorn Mars is one of the most faithful.

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Lioness - Your Pisces guy's chart does not scream anything negative to me. When it comes to him being bf-material, I would be neutral about his chart. I wouldn't think he was in the negative or positive extreme... just *Ok* - not too bad, but not exactly the kind of guy who would make you happy either.

This is just about his chart ^.. but, his behaviour, the way you describe it, seems like a flash light. So I'm not sure what to make of that.

I like that he has a Capricorn Venus. This is a mature Venus, nothing like the Pisceans out there with Aries Venus who play 2 year old games. Aquarius Mars is not my fave.... but being a Leo you would appreciate it more than I would. It is still a mature (transpersonal) Mars, so I wouldn't imagine that he would do anything overly unnerving. He probably knows how to be a good friend.

What I don't like about him is the fact that - his behaviour seems to confuse you all the time and it is erratic & weird. I associate this more so with the bad-egg Pisces. But maybe I am just misjudging him. Based on his chart I wouldn't lump him in this category, *only* based on his behaviour.

Secondly, I don't really like that his Mercury is in Pisces like my own.
I am saying this purely from your perspective... I do personally get along well with this Mercury sign. But, as a Leo with a Leo Mercury - I have a feeling you will just get frustrated as time goes on. Maybe now the sexual attraction overshadows other things. As time goes on though.. communication might just die or get even more confusing.

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Ahh Betty I totally get where your coming from... I cant say for sure, maybe the attraction/ communication will die down. I have thought about this because "astrological" pisces/leo dont understand each other..
I have date other pisces men, I jumped out the bathroom window.. lol
Maybe its our natals that make the difference I cant say for sure..
I have Uranus conjunct Juno in H7, majority of the people in my life even females have Aqua Mars or Cap Mars.
His Mercury/Juno is conjunct my Asc
The Composite Mercury is well aspected.
Not sure if that makes the difference or not.. But Im aware that it may just end one day... I "always" have that in my head with everyone...

As for him, he's very stable, he doesnt drink or do any drugs AT ALL.. I really really like the fact that he doesnt drink.. My ex husband drank alot, like homer simpson tongue sticking out and drooling saying beeerrrrr..
Which is what destroyed our marriage..
He is a good dad, and always there for her..
He's a hard worker, and he's saved money and bought houses.. He owns 5 houses lives in 1 and rents out the others..

The one thing that bothers me most about him, is he is money hungry.. money money money! He's paranoid about money...

Now he's not perfect.. He has one heck of a temper... This is some one you want on your side.. When he gets mad, everyone knows!!
I have heard him going off on people before and he knocks them down with just his words..
They do really pack a punch...
He's gone to anger management to get a grip.. He said you should have seen me at 18 oooo..

IDK what is to come... Believe me I wish I had an ending, or beginning or a story.. But Im stuck here for what ever reason...
Call it karma Destiny fate... IDK...
But what ever it is, I have to let this play out...
Dont worry even though Im crazy, Im still cool... Im being careful, but sticking it out also.. I have this overwhelming urge to go with this... Like its meant to be to go through what ever...
When all is said and done.... I wont have any regrets because I will learn what I need to..

posted April 30, 2012 10:13 PM            

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Lioness - I agree with the fact that you can't just look to planets, it's house placements as well as asteroids! My man is all pisces & gemini. Yes, he is charming, but he is faithful.

posted April 30, 2012 10:20 PM            

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Originally posted by Betty Boop:

Pisces women are golden!
If Pisces men were anything like Pisces women - I would've married one by now.

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posted April 30, 2012 10:37 PM            

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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
It's not Capricorn everywhere - that's faithful.
It's Capricorn *Mars*.
Because that's the exaltation of Capricorn.
Capricorn Saturn can also be good - if it connects to personal planets (preferably with easy aspects).

YTA - Did he have a Cap Mars, and if yes - was it at all afflicted?

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Well, he has a Aries Mars. End of 3rd House. Saturn is also in the 3rd House with Sun in Pisces.

I have a Capricorn Mars.

posted May 01, 2012 04:09 PM              

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Originally posted by Gem-Gurl:
Yes the sag guy. He flirts with all the girls. Doubt he will be interested in havin a gf!! Oooo but how i wish!! But any tips on sag guy would be welcome! But just currently goin with the flow on that one. I need to meet more guys... lol

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My tip on Sag guys is don't bother until they're ready to settle down. Before that, you are wasting your time. If I'd met my bf two years before I did we would not be together today, straight up.

posted May 01, 2012 04:12 PM            

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Originally posted by Thefish:
Lioness is his Saturn in the second house?

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posted May 01, 2012 05:18 PM            

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Originally posted by Aquacheeka:

My tip on Sag guys is don't bother until they're ready to settle down. Before that, you are wasting your time. If I'd met my bf two years before I did we would not be together today, straight up.

The good thing about Sag men is you can just ask them if they want a relationship or not and they'll be honest with you.

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Yeah thats the conclusion i came to shortly after meeting him haha! Well see how it goes

posted May 01, 2012 05:57 PM            

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Yeah thats the conclusion i came to shortly after meeting him haha! Well see how it goes

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My own dad is a Sag, and he's super-loyal and stable.

However, he also has a Taurus moon and was raised by parents who are most likely Taurus-Virgo (they were both born on the day that the sun switched signs, and without birth times, we're not 100% sure if they are Taurus-Virgo or Aries-Leo, or else Taurus-Leo or Aries-Virgo). He grew up with rules, structure, order, and loving parents/extended family. I don't know his ASC because I don't have his birth time, but I would not be surprised if he had a Cancer or Taurus ascendant.

So, with my dad, I'd say it was good parents plus more stabilizing influences.

posted September 12, 2022 09:22 PM            

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Originally posted by Rosalind:
Avoid! Avoid! Avoid! A Pisces with heavy Water element is hard to deal with. Been there done that. The love of my life is a Sun/Mercury/Venus in Pisces, Moon in Virgo (like me) and Mars in Sagittarius. 99% of cases I just want to kill him. He's the type of person you cannot live with or without him. I am a Cancer Sun, we should match, yet, he is very difficult.

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posted September 12, 2022 09:28 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
My dad is a Pisces. For the about 43 years he was married to my mom while she was alive, he had easily 50 women on the side. Yes, you heard me right. He did almost every secretary he had, and he had others: rich and poor, young and older. He's extremely charming and can sell ice to Eskimos. So, he lured women with great ease through success, money, looks, etc.

Just saying. Just telling like it is. For whatever it's worth.

My 7 year old son is also a Pisces and he practically has his harem in 1st grade. Again, with great ease.

Just to be clear, I'm a Pisces rising myself. So I'm smack talking myself too.

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posted September 15, 2022 02:57 AM            

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Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98:
Do you think his Aries Mars was responsible for his unfaithfulness, or more-so his Pisces Sun combined with his Aries Mars?

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