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Stars_Melody
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posted April 29, 2012 06:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stars_Melody     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It's a very long story but, basically, two years ago I had a male friend who liked me and I liked him. He was a Taurus (I'm a cappy) and we often just talked on the phone or texted each other. We knew each other in person, but he moved a couple hours away and nothing ever came of it. We were just friends.

He had a best friend (the scorpio) who had a crush on me, and we all knew it. It was never an issue though, since they lived a couple hours away. A couple months went by without us talking, and for some reason one day I got a text from him and he was really different. He started talking to me in a much more "affectionate" way. Texting me everyday. He brought up his best friend a lot more. Something just seemed off, but I didn't think anything of it at the time. Even when we'd talk on the phone, his voice was different, but he'd always say he had a cold or allergies or whatever, and the rest of the convo seemed like normal him.

One day, I had caught him in a lie, and he hung up on me. Things just weren't right. This was NOT something my friend would do. I talked to a mutual friend of ours, and she had told me that he gave his phone to his best friend, the scorpio, and that the scorpio was supposed to tell me that and give me his (the taurus) new number.

So long story short, this scorpio, who was 27 years old pretended to be my taurus friend, completely decieved me, and then when I confronted him about it he confessed and told him all he wanted was to be with me. He called me CRYING, saying that I was "heartless" and other rude things because "all I cared about was looks." I told him that he was creepy and to never contact me again. In the following weeks, I got texts from him or unknown numbers calling me names and the whole bit. He kept trying to add me on FB after I had denied him multiple times. So I changed my number, blocked him from everything, and the last thing I heard was that he was dating some girl from my FB friends list ( I didn't know her very well) to "get me back."

That was two years ago, and I woke up this morning to an e-mail in my personal e-mail account from him saying " Hey how you been?" 0.0. I cannot even express how creeped out I am, and how he could think this is acceptable. I guess what I'm asking is, how do I deal with this? Do I continue to ignore it, or tell him to leave me alone some more? I'm really at the point where I'm creeped out if he is STILL thinking about me after all this time. He obviously has some boundary issues among other things, and I don't like the way he is when he is angry which makes me wonder if I should even reply. HELP!

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Nyah
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posted April 29, 2012 06:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nyah     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
woah, that IS creepy behavior!! I'd say don't respond at all. Just ignore it. If you respond he will continue talking to you. Just ignore him and hopefully he'll give up. Good luck!

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posted April 29, 2012 06:32 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Do I continue to ignore it,

Yes. It's an innocuous email. Just block him.

If he sends threatening messages or shows up at your doorstep, you can get a restraining order.

And if he violates that restraining order, then you can press charges and get some money out of it too, maybe. There, that'll teach that Scorpio the meaning of 8th House and OTHER PEOPLE'S MONEY.

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posted April 29, 2012 06:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RedScorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow, uh, GET THE POLIZZI INVOLVED IF IT GOES TO FAR. That's seriously just...no, an astrology forum isn't really the place for this. You need a help with life forum. Srsly, though, I've had a stalker or two before. NOT FUN.

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posted April 29, 2012 06:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stars_Melody     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by RedScorp:
Wow, uh, GET THE POLIZZI INVOLVED IF IT GOES TO FAR. That's seriously just...no, an astrology forum isn't really the place for this. You need a help with life forum. Srsly, though, I've had a stalker or two before. NOT FUN.

Well, I'm not really in fear since I do know that he has moved to the east coast (I'm on the west coast). I'm really just at a loss of words. Why would he think this is ok? He seemed like a normal person before he did any of this!

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posted April 29, 2012 06:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RedScorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Stars_Melody:
Well, I'm not really in fear since I do know that he has moved to the east coast (I'm on the west coast). I'm really just at a loss of words. Why would he think this is ok? He seemed like a normal person before he did any of this!


Oh, well in that case, you could always just block him on everything and cut him out. I've done that before,

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posted April 29, 2012 06:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stars_Melody     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
[QUOTE]Do I continue to ignore it,

Yes. It's an innocuous email. Just block him.

If he sends threatening messages or shows up at your doorstep, you can get a restraining order.

And if he violates that restraining order, then you can press charges and get some money out of it too, maybe. There, that'll teach that Scorpio the meaning of 8th House and OTHER PEOPLE'S MONEY.[/QUOTE]

That's what I think I'll do.

He lives on the other side of the country now , so I don't think that will happen unless he's really gone off the deep end 0.0 . LOL at the last statement xD. What the hell will make a scorpio go away?

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posted April 29, 2012 06:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stars_Melody     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by RedScorp:
Oh, well in that case, you could always just block him on everything and cut him out. I've done that before,

And you haven't had any problems with that?

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posted April 29, 2012 06:43 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Uh...why are you even worried about someone who's two timezones away?

Just block him. He's just whining and saying hi, that's all.

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posted April 29, 2012 06:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stars_Melody     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
Uh...why are you even worried about someone who's two timezones away?

Just block him. He's just whining and saying hi, that's all.


Well, he makes visits because of his friends here, but mainly because he's obviously crazy 0.0.

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posted April 29, 2012 06:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Diana     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Does his friend, the taurus, know? Maybe he can tell him to chill out.

Good luck getting rid of a scorpio who has decided to stalk you. They're a fixed sign, so it won't be easy. I agree with others to just block him and not respond and see if that works.

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posted April 29, 2012 07:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stars_Melody     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Diana:
Does his friend, the taurus, know? Maybe he can tell him to chill out.

Good luck getting rid of a scorpio who has decided to stalk you. They're a fixed sign, so it won't be easy. I agree with others to just block him and not respond and see if that works.


Thank you for the advice. They stopped being friends two years ago, and we don't talk anymore either. So. That wouldn't really help. Lol. Do you think it would be best to ignore, though? I'm wondering if he'll give up or just find another way to contact me 0.0.

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posted April 29, 2012 07:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Diana     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes, it's best to ignore because then he has no contact with you and may find someone new to focus on.

If you ignore him, and he keeps it up, you have a problem.

Can you post his chart? Your chart if you don't have his. Composite etc.

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posted April 29, 2012 07:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stars_Melody     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok, thank you for the advice .

I don't remember the year he was born. His b-day is October 30. It might be 1983 or 1982. I'm not sure.

Here is my chart:
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/003066.html

What can you see from this?

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Diana
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posted April 29, 2012 07:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Diana     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Pluto is on the cusp of your 5th house which is sex, love etc. It indicates pluto-type things in that realm, so yes, stalking can be one of those things.

Neptune is on your moon, which rules your 11th of friends, so neptune is making your friend act delusionally towards you, thinking he loves you -- or whatever he thinks. Neptune is also unrequited love sometimes.

Saturn is square your 5th ruler, sun.

Pluto is also sextile your moon, ruler of 11th. Pluto can indicate stalking and obsession.


Honestly, I wonder if your ex (taurus) and scorp are up to some scheme here. I thought of that immediately. Why would he give him his phone to give you the new # and not do it himself? Something's off here. Did you p&ss off taurus? I think they may just be trying to freak you out.

Option 2: Taurus has no idea he's doing this, ie, he's stealing his phone w/o his knowledge.

Option3 - He really is stalking you & thinks he loves you.

Personally, I'm betting on 1 or 2.

Post taurus's chart & tell me what happened between you two. Composite would be good too. No asteroids please, makes it hard to read.

ps- sorry this is so brusque but my show is coming on soon.

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posted April 29, 2012 08:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stars_Melody     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Diana:
Pluto is on the cusp of your 5th house which is sex, love etc. It indicates pluto-type things in that realm, so yes, stalking can be one of those things.

Neptune is on your moon, which rules your 11th of friends, so neptune is making your friend act delusionally towards you, thinking he loves you -- or whatever he thinks. Neptune is also unrequited love sometimes.

Saturn is square your 5th ruler, sun.

Pluto is also sextile your moon, ruler of 11th. Pluto can indicate stalking and obsession.


Honestly, I wonder if your ex (taurus) and scorp are up to some scheme here. I thought of that immediately. Why would he give him his phone to give you the new # and not do it himself? Something's off here. Did you p&ss off taurus? I think they may just be trying to freak you out.

Option 2: Taurus has no idea he's doing this, ie, he's stealing his phone w/o his knowledge.

Post taurus's chart & tell me what happened between you two. Composite would be good too. No asteroids please, makes it hard to read.

ps- sorry this is so brusque but my show is coming on soon.


Thank you for that insight. I wish I could remember the details of the Scorpios b-day now 0.0.

Well, I don't think the Taurus has anything to do with it. We were on very good terms, and he was always very sweet to me. I asked him the same thing about the phone and he just said he didn't think that Scorpio would have a problem with sending a couple people his new number seeing as how he was giving him a free phone. He apologized to me after he heard everything that happened, and even confronted him about it in front of me one day because he was so mad at scorpio. The scorpio moved, and the Taurus is a couple hours away from me still. I've known the Taurus for a few years, and he doesn't strike me as someone who would do that to me for no reason. I initially felt like this was more like the scorpio getting back at the Taurus because he was always jealous of him. Everything the Taurus had, the Scorpio wanted and it was very apparent to me.

I'm not familiar with composite charts, but here is the Taurus's chart:

Don't know how to get it without the asteroids. Sorry!

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posted April 29, 2012 09:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Diana     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh, so he gave scorpio his old phone? That explains why he always had his phone.

Then I don't need to see Taurus's chart.

I would just ignore him & see if that helps. You said it's been a few yrs. since you've heard from him until recently, right?

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posted April 29, 2012 09:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stars_Melody     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ya, I found out from our mutual friend that the Taurus gave the Scorpio his phone because he was getting a new one.

Yes. It's been about two years since I've heard from him. Everyone I've talked to says to ignore and block him. If he contacts me anymore I will probably say something. Thank you for all of the wonderful advice Diana.

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posted April 30, 2012 06:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RegardesPlatero     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted April 30, 2012 06:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for YoursTrulyAlways     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I would drop both guys like a hot cake and report to the police. If it goes any further, file a complaint and get a restraining order. Uninvited stalking is borderline criminal activity and cannot be tolerated. This is for your personal safety. I've dealt with crerps before, and yes females are capable of being creeps (not to beat up on Scorpios but it just so happened to be one). Capricorn male here.

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posted April 30, 2012 07:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for earthypisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Never underestimate a Scorpio...ever.

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Ewww stay far, far away from this freak. Im a girl and I have sun conj pluto almost exact natally plus a scorpio stellium and moon in the 8th h. I Attract stalkers! I have one right now, a man a dated casually for a very short period of time. I havent seen him in over a year and a half and he is still stalking me! He is violent and sick and has even threatened to rape and kill me. He calls me the most horrible names anyone has ever called me and its just because I dont want to be with him.
He has venus, mars, jupiter conj in scorpio and pluto squaring his cappy sun/mercury conj. Also that scorpio mars is opp saturn 0* Dangerous sicko! And yes I have reported him to the police. Twice!

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Ewww stay far, far away from this freak. Im a girl and I have sun conj pluto almost exact natally plus a scorpio stellium and moon in the 8th h. I Attract stalkers! I have one right now, a man a dated casually for a very short period of time. I havent seen him in over a year and a half and he is still stalking me! He is violent and sick and has even threatened to rape and kill me. He calls me the most horrible names anyone has ever called me and its just because I dont want to be with him.
He has venus, mars, jupiter conj in scorpio and pluto squaring his cappy sun/mercury conj. Also that scorpio mars is opp saturn 0* Dangerous sicko! And yes I have reported him to the police. Twice!

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posted May 01, 2012 11:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stars_Melody     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by earthypisces:
Never underestimate a Scorpio...ever.

Seriously -_-

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