posted May 26, 2020 03:32 AM
Many people do not experience relationships, marriages or sex. Nowadays a longlasting (till death do us apart type) and at the same time satisfying relationship is considered a miracle. Uranus in 7th H by itself doesn't deny relationships and it doesn't create problematic relationships.
In my case I'm always the unavailable (physically) one. The problem I have with Uranus conjuncting my DSC is that all my relationships end up suddenly, out of nowhere and I can't do anything about it because usually it's smth completely out of my control like the death of that person or them moving to another country for a better job etc. I don't "blame" it entirely on Uranus because I have hard Pluto aspects and Saturn in 8th H so losing people I love seems to be a theme. Losing them suddenly and kind of early it's Uranus. What bothers me is that I lose people who are good for me, even from an astrological pov.
If it wasn't for that, Uranus would the coolest of the all. Native or native's partner is authentic, indepedent, adorable weirdo, intelligent, being unavailable (because of too much work/literal distance/being married with another one etc, you choose), foreigners or at least different from you (different language/religion/skin colour etc), a scientist or someone related to technology. The relationship will be unconvetional in some way, long distance/same gender/internet relationships/sleeping in different bedrooms of the same house, anything that is not considered normal at least in your environment. There is much more freedom in the relationship.
I personally love it, I don't see "normal" relationships working better anyway. Trying to make it normal (isually limiting distance or independence) it's a sure way to make it fail.
In problematic relationships one or/and both natives or/and their synastry have Neptunian planets/placements/aspects (leading to disappointment usually due to delusion/deception, one or the two playing the victim or sacrifising for the other or trying to save the other), • Saturnian - dragging the relationship way more than they should, giving practically more than they take, having low self esteem • Plutonian/Martian being extremely dramatic/competitive/violent turning passion-intensity into smth negative while draining each other. • I can't say much about Chiron hard aspects but I think it's understimated a lot and that occured to me from a Chiron transit I had on my Moon, painful emotionally so much that it hasn't healed after many years.
Look somewhere else in your chart if that's a theme for you or if it's the first time something like that happens to you then focus more on transits, progressions, synastry, composite.
Uranus by itself isn't bad in the 7th H unless it's combined with other negative placements/aspects.
Lindaland
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posted May 26, 2020 03:32 AM
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