posted May 11, 2012 09:42 PM            

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posted May 11, 2012 09:45 PM            

Venus in H8 could give one an intense sexuality. What could maybe ease the intensity would be to have Venus in an appealing sign like Libra or Pisces which in some cases, is ideal since they are suited for Venus's purpose.

In SOME cases 8H Mars can make one pretty sexually alluring, high sex drive and intensity with romance; but it can also make one have mixed feelings concerning sexuality, sometimes you have the high sex drive but you might feel the need to squelch it, also you could attract the wrong kind of attention and obsessive attractions depending on the rest of the chart.

Venus in aspect to Pluto is a biggie also. Especially Venus conjunct Pluto, which blends the two almost as one entirely new entity: a love nature which blends with the obsessive, passionate intensity of Scorpio. It can make you smolder and it can make some people intensely attracted to you. On the negative side I have read some with this aspect and other stress aspects have attracted stalkers and negative sexual attention WITHOUT trying.

Venus-Neptune harmonious aspects could make one seem compassionate, friendly and loving to another so this does count towards something. Not everything about allure is always sexual. Adding Neptune to Venus positively makes one more inclined to being compassionate and this is attractive to some people.

Venus-ASC people can often but not always be seen as very desirable and beautiful. Angelina Jolie, perfect example of this one. She is considered by some the most gorgeous woman on earth and has a very close Venus-ASC conjunction with 12H Venus.

Also, having the chart ruler/ASC's ruling planet conjunct Venus could sorta be the same but not as immediate. It'd still have some effect in making one seem desirable.

posted May 11, 2012 09:52 PM            

Mercury is close enough to my 7H that I still find brains alluring above all else.

posted May 11, 2012 09:57 PM            

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Originally posted by sweet-scorpion:
Venus in H8 could give one an intense sexuality. What could maybe ease the intensity would be to have Venus in an appealing sign like Libra or Pisces which in some cases, is ideal since they are suited for Venus's purpose.

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posted May 11, 2012 10:06 PM            

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Originally posted by ShyVirgo1979:
The asteroid eros conjunct ur ascendant.

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posted May 11, 2012 10:07 PM            

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Originally posted by Ann7:
Thank you for your input guys and - very interesting! What about pisces moon or ascendent?

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Pisces Moon incorporates the nature of Pisces into the emotional self. So having this could potentially make you very attuned to others' feelings, having a sense of compassion for most people, and being able to sense others' moods. Whether this is detrimental or something helpful is up to the rest of the chart. Depending on the placement the Moon's nature will change. Pisces Moon H8 could lead to one with mediumistic abilities, being able to contact the dead. I've talked to someone with this before.

This moon sign could make you alluring because you are full of love, unless the moon is afflicted by Saturn for example. To some people, this is very important; they want a partner who they feel is emotionally understanding and accepting of their feelings, and comes off as a softie almost. This is all possible with a Pisces Moon. But I'm sure some with this will be extremely sensitive and even moody also. This can bother both the person with it and their partner. But alone, this doesn't make one more SEXUALLY alluring. The emotional appeal in some cases is there, though. It all depends on what the other person is searching for.

posted May 11, 2012 10:20 PM            

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Originally posted by Lonake:
I've seen the Ve/Ne sq work for sure (!) The only poss downside is being lost in a haze sometimes, your vision of your own attractiveness might be foggy, you might be bashful to admit your charms preferring some modesty/mystery. Allure strengthened when either is angular. That's just isolating this aspect.

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posted May 11, 2012 10:22 PM            

Anyway, I don't think I am sexually alluring, but I have 8H Pisces moon and Venus conjunct Neptune 5H (whole signs). Would the conjunction do it? I don't want to make an example of myself but the conversation was just going in that direction.

posted May 11, 2012 10:43 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
So yay for me!

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posted May 11, 2012 10:44 PM            

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Originally posted by sweet-scorpion:
Pisces Moon

This moon sign could make you alluring because you are full of love.

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Yeah for sure. I fall head over hells for someone so fast and am willing to give as much love as possible.

posted May 11, 2012 11:00 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
You are SO wise beyond your years, sweet-scorpion. You remind me of my niece, I think you two are the same age.

Anyway, I don't think I am sexually alluring, but I have 8H Pisces moon and Venus conjunct Neptune 5H (whole signs). Would the conjunction do it? I don't want to make an example of myself but the conversation was just going in that direction.

I do feel that I've gotten more attention from men (and some women!) in my life than my appearance warrants.

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Why thank you Faith! That is very sweet of you to say. Yes, I am 17 going on 18 right now. Writing is what makes me feel like I am intelligent beyond my years. Usually when I write on an online forum people believe I am in my late 20s!

Hm... Venus conjunct Neptune seems like it could be good for the emotional appeal. People would feel like they could pour out their hearts to you without feeling awkward. Or maybe your sympathies and affections for others are easily roused; it could go both ways for this one. I DO know that people with a strong Venus-Neptune are often very drawn to relationships... they often have elevated expectations or see something mystically desirable about being in a partnership. It's an inexplicable desire to give oneself to another that can over take them. So I believe in your case, perhaps since the conjunction landed in your 5th, your romantic partners and people interested in you could be hit hard by this conjunction on their end as well.

You say you've garnered unwanted sexual attention before? I think having the 8H Moon could really do this for you too. I was reading up on it and it seems that people with this placement could have messy emotional entanglements by being easily seduced or seducing others, in sometimes destructive or Plutonian relationships. Maybe this is why some people have tried to seduce you, and come onto you, more than you would ever want. The Moon here could make you feel like boundaries are being infringed upon when this happens, maybe? Just a guess though.

posted May 11, 2012 11:04 PM            

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Originally posted by Planet Queen:
Yeah for sure. I fall head over hells for someone so fast and am willing to give as much love as possible.

Also I've heard Mars-Neptune is an alluring aspect. I've got this. I definitely get a lot of attention. I could have anyone but I like smart and goofy boys.

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Mars-Neptune, huh? I have Neptune opposite Mars in the 8th. What do you guys think about this one? Reason I ask is because I am VERY prone to getting unwanted and sometimes discomforting sexual attention. When a guy notices me, he REALLY notices me, sometimes to the point of an infringing obsession where it's very all or nothing between us and it hurts me a lot. Such things happen to me A LOT... also much older men are often interested in me as well. I only look a few years older too, so it disgusts me.

Anybody else deal with such a problem? Maybe it's Mars-Neptune in a hard aspect that makes this for me, combined with 8H Mars....

posted May 11, 2012 11:09 PM            

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Venus in aspect to Pluto is a biggie also. Especially Venus conjunct Pluto, which blends the two almost as one entirely new entity: a love nature which blends with the obsessive, passionate intensity of Scorpio. It can make you smolder and it can make some people intensely attracted to you. On the negative side I have read some with this aspect and other stress aspects have attracted stalkers and negative sexual attention WITHOUT trying.

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This is so true. I have venus opposite pluto in scorpio, and I have to deal with men literally following me around every single day. It still frightens me at how obsessive they are.

posted May 11, 2012 11:16 PM            

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Originally posted by Astra:
This is so true. I have venus opposite pluto in scorpio, and I have to deal with men literally following me around every single day. It still frightens me at how obsessive they are.

In addition to that lovely venus-pluto aspect, I also have venus trine neptune, mars opposite neptune, venus sextile mars, venus trine ascendant and neptune conjunct ascendant. These aspects make my life um.... interesting to say the least.

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Mars opposite Neptune!? High five! LOL just kidding. I have the exact same thing and it has caused me a lot of weird confusions in areas of sex and relationships due to Mars being in the 29th degree in H8, and Neptune in H2. It's made me feel like my romantic self and the gifted, artistic self I am comfortable sharing are two different people. It's also made people have serious misconceptions about me and who I am as a sexual being I believe. I think based off of the way I dress and sometimes act, men are expecting me to act like a mature older woman they can connect with and take home - only to find out I am barely 18 and very cold. Yeah....

Venus trine ASC can actually be quite lovely. But this is most likely why the Venus-Pluto opposition is intensified for you. It's directly affecting your outside image to other people...this is why men are literally following you around. You're subconsciously projecting this aspect in your rising sign. I feel for you. Maybe the Neptune aspect is what makes them so enticed with you, with this image you have without trying - key there, is the without trying part! - and are swayed by lust and the heart while unable to use logic of the mind. Neptune adds fog to whatever it touches so maybe that's why men can even get further obsessed with you - something about that outside image you portray just fascinates them since there is a touch of alluring mystery to it.

posted May 11, 2012 11:37 PM            

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I like the word alluring Venus/Neptune for this one. The siren beckoning.

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posted May 11, 2012 11:39 PM            

Are you a bona fide genius? You can tell us.

You just made me tear up because you hit the nail on the head so perfectly.

(Edited for brevity. She told it how it is, no point belaboring the issue. )

posted May 11, 2012 11:49 PM            

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Originally posted by Lonake:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by hannaramaa:
[b]So yay for me!

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posted May 12, 2012 12:09 AM            

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Originally posted by sweet-scorpion:
Usually when I write on an online forum people believe I am in my late 20s!

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