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Topic: Leo moon tips please?
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Odette
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posted May 12, 2012 06:11 PM
  
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Spanking is very effective punishment,my ex girlfriend used to spank me :/ haha
LOL - see my hubby likes to be spanked... That's why I'm with him! hahah
*ok I'll stay out of your thread, so as to not completely hijack*
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aquaguy91
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posted May 12, 2012 06:11 PM
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Originally posted by 12thhouser:
No.
just give it a try,they like being in control. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted May 12, 2012 06:12 PM
aqua - he is serious cat.Do not mess with serious cat. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted May 12, 2012 06:12 PM
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Originally posted by Odette:
LOL - see my hubby likes to be spanked... That's why I'm with him!hahah
*ok I'll stay out of your thread, so as to not completely hijack*
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12thhouser
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posted May 12, 2012 06:12 PM
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Originally posted by Odette:
I'm asking for help on dealing with Leo moon's energy-draining drama, Odette. IP: Logged |
Capriquarius
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posted May 12, 2012 06:12 PM
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Originally posted by 12thhouser:
Which? I listed three possible signs.
yes yes yes
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Odette
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posted May 12, 2012 06:16 PM
I'm just joking around 12houser lolBut in all seriousness... What can any of us advise you about their drama?
There is just not much that you can do. You can try to reason with them, and explain that you would like them to tone it down, because it upsets you. You already did this and it did not work. But you could always try again. Other than talking to them about this or avoiding them (or spanking them -just kiddin-).... I can't see what options you have.. IP: Logged |
12thhouser
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posted May 12, 2012 06:17 PM
extant_pisces: thanks for your feedback. That was helpful.IP: Logged |
12thhouser
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posted May 12, 2012 06:18 PM
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Originally posted by Odette:
I'm just joking around 12houser lolBut in all seriousness... What can any of us advise you about their drama?
There is just not much that you can do. You can try to reason with them, and explain that you would like them to tone it down, because it upsets you. You already did this and it did not work. But you could always try again. Other than talking to them about this or avoiding them (or spanking them -just kiddin-).... I can't see what options you have..
extant_pisces's advice was helpful.
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hannaramaa
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posted May 12, 2012 06:19 PM
You have to listen calmly and rationally because Leo moons are VERY emotional people as you've no doubt noticed. When Leos realize they're the ones looking stupid they'll straighten up quick. They'll also respect you for not flying off the handle at them (their dramatics are also a test of sorts), and you'll get an apology (they're only sorry if they look like the idiot. It's all about how things APPEAR) The more extreme their reaction, the cooler yours should be. That way they know you're not going to be phased by childish tantrums and you want to discuss things like the adults you are.IP: Logged |
12thhouser
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posted May 12, 2012 06:24 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
You have to listen calmly and rationally because Leo moons are VERY emotional people as you've no doubt noticed. When Leos realize they're the ones looking stupid they'll straighten up quick. They'll also respect you for not flying off the handle at them (their dramatics are also a test of sorts), and you'll get an apology (they're only sorry if they look like the idiot. It's all about how things APPEAR) The more extreme their reaction, the cooler yours should be. That way they know you're not going to be phased by childish tantrums and you want to discuss things like the adults you are.
Thanks, hannaramaa.
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Lioness
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posted May 12, 2012 07:22 PM
I have a leo moon, but I'm not sure what u mean by tone it down...
Me drama, not I never  IP: Logged |
Libreo
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posted May 12, 2012 07:54 PM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
I have a leo moon, but I'm not sure what u mean by tone it down...
Me drama, not I never
Yeah me neither, maybe I overreact at times but I cannot stand drama of the water sign type! But yes as Hannaramma said, unfortunately appearance is very important. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted May 12, 2012 08:21 PM
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Originally posted by Libreo:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Lioness:
[b]I have a leo moon, but I'm not sure what u mean by tone it down...
Me drama, not I never
Yeah me neither, maybe I overreact at times but I cannot stand drama of the water sign type! But yes as Hannaramma said, unfortunately appearance is very important. [/B][/QUOTE] Me neither, because it's all subtleties and passive-aggressiveness! If you come at them directly and forcefully, they shrivel up into their cacoons instead of going Saving Private Ryan on your ass and being done with it like Fire signs would. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted May 12, 2012 08:33 PM
Does she mean he's being loud???If so the best way to get a leo to do what u want is through the back door with flattery.. If he's to loud instead of saying be quite or lower ur voice.
Say you sound so sexy when you talk with your soft voice.. It's such a turn on for me..
I betcha his voice will be lower most of the night IP: Logged |
12thhouser
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posted May 12, 2012 08:36 PM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
Does she mean he's being loud???If so the best way to get a leo to do what u want is through the back door with flattery.. If he's to loud instead of saying be quite or lower ur voice.
Say you sound so sexy when you talk with your soft voice.. It's such a turn on for me..
I betcha his voice will be lower most of the night
"Tone it down" meaning tone down the drama. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted May 12, 2012 08:38 PM
What type of drama, what is he doing?IP: Logged |
12thhouser
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posted May 12, 2012 08:41 PM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
What type of drama, what is he doing?
Considering it's involving the moon, what isn't he doing. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted May 12, 2012 08:44 PM
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Originally posted by 12thhouser:
Considering it's involving the moon, what isn't he doing.
I understand if you don't want to air your dirty laundry but perhaps telling us your personal planets (ASC, sun, moon, mercury, venus, and mars) and his as well as a foundation of the situation you're in with him/them - would help us tell you how to operate him better. IP: Logged |
12thhouser
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posted May 12, 2012 08:46 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I understand if you don't want to air your dirty laundry but perhaps telling us your personal planets (ASC, sun, moon, mercury, venus, and mars) and his as well as a foundation of the situation you're in with him/them - would help us tell you how to operate him better.
No thanks. Given the advice you and extant_pisces gave earlier, I'll go with that. Thanks. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted May 12, 2012 08:46 PM
It's hard to give u advice without knowing what he's doing. I have 4 planets in leo, I don't make scenes or like drama... Well unless I'm ****** then yeah everyone will know... LolIP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted May 12, 2012 09:10 PM
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Originally posted by 12thhouser:
Could anyone share some tips on how to deal with those who have a Leo moon, please? Their drama can frequently be energy draining. Some don't even realize (or even care) how their drama affects others. I get along with Leo sun sign people well enough, but Leo moons are a whole other story. Anytime I've asked anyone with a Leo moon to tone it down, it gets worse.
God, you are so right on. #1 don't ask em to tone it down, it's just natural to them, so it's not fair to ask them to change their reactions, etc. I've struggled with this too. Really. #2 only thing that seems to work (for now) is to go out of my way with attention at some point, really piling it on when they're in an UP mood, but then draw a boundary to be able to pay attn to other people/things. It bugs em a bit at first that it's not all on them, but they quickly get the hint, and it quiets them *just enough* to let them know that it's not all about them all the time. The ones I've known are not keen on taking the low road if they're handled well so they quickly get the hint. It clues them in on it in a roundabout manner and it doesn't injure their dignity. I'm sure I could think of a better fix but for now that's that. Oh and I def compliment their appearance if I notice a change, if it's a sincere compliment. If I don't like it, I still let them know that I noticed a change. The worst for them seems to be being ignored or to treat them as if they have no authority, and if so then the dramarama begins. If you're good with kids you'll be good with Leo Moons. They need fun, playfulness, surprises, and good boundaries, ie: recognize when playtime is over. And acknowledge what they're good at, their strengths. In front of other people. It's no good if you 2 are alone. Or it's not as good lol. I just err on the side of caution and always give them their compliments where others can obv hear it.IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted May 12, 2012 09:11 PM
And BTW the above is for Leo Moons that I like. I don't know any that I don't, but if I did then I'd prob do the reverse.IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted May 12, 2012 09:17 PM
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Originally posted by 12thhouser:
Is Leo your moon sign, or is it Capricorn or Aquarius?
She just likes giving BS answers sometimes.IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted May 12, 2012 09:20 PM
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Originally posted by 12thhouser:
which sounds more like dealing with a symptomatic child than an adult.
LOL. Uh huh.
But I can't imagine that they're ALL like that. I bet there are some that are super dignified and mature. Just haven't met them lol.
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