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Topic: Leo moon tips please?
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12thhouser
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posted May 12, 2012 05:13 PM
  
Could anyone share some tips on how to deal with those who have a Leo moon, please? Their drama can frequently be energy draining. Some don't even realize (or even care) how their drama affects others. I get along with Leo sun sign people well enough, but Leo moons are a whole other story. Anytime I've asked anyone with a Leo moon to tone it down, it gets worse. I would appreciate feedback, thanks. IP: Logged |
Capriquarius
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posted May 12, 2012 05:18 PM
Ignore them. They love that.IP: Logged |
12thhouser
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posted May 12, 2012 05:20 PM
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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
Ignore them. They love that.
Tried that. Doesn't seem to work. Thanks, though. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted May 12, 2012 05:25 PM
I usually like Leo Moons. I know a Libra atm who has this Moon and he is a fun person. But I can see how they can become annoying to a more laid back individual.
They are very energetic and don't seem to have an "off" button. quote:
Anytime I've asked anyone with a Leo moon to tone it down, it gets worse.
A lot of people have a shaped (well-defined) personality by a certain age -- after their teens/early 20s -- so they won't simply change overnight because you asked them to... (unless they have a lot of mutable influences). IP: Logged |
Capriquarius
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posted May 12, 2012 05:29 PM
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Originally posted by 12thhouser:
Tried that. Doesn't seem to work. Thanks, though.
Keep ignoring them! They love it, can't get enough of it.
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12thhouser
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posted May 12, 2012 05:31 PM
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Originally posted by Odette:
A lot of people have a shaped (well-defined) personality by a certain age -- after their teens/early 20s -- so they won't simply change overnight because you asked them to... (unless they have a lot of mutable influences).
In my opinion, an individual's personality doesn't seem to be shaped by then; seems more like they're discovering it. Asking someone to tone it down isn't asking them to eliminate it, but simply tone it down. Seems like a simple enough request. IP: Logged |
12thhouser
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posted May 12, 2012 05:33 PM
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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by 12thhouser:
[b] Tried that. Doesn't seem to work. Thanks, though.
Keep ignoring them! They love it, can't get enough of it. [/B][/QUOTE]Is Leo your moon sign, or is it Capricorn or Aquarius?
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aquaguy91
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posted May 12, 2012 05:34 PM
my sister is a cancer with a leo moon,she is the most dramatic person i have ever met -_-IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted May 12, 2012 05:35 PM
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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
Keep ignoring them! They love it, can't get enough of it.
You're like my hero.  Back on topic, if the person you're talking about has a Leo Moon and they like drama, there's pretty much nothing you can do. Leo is a fixed sign and they are very set in their ways, so if you can't handle their personality and the way they lead their lives, you're probably the one who's gonna have to compromise or give up. But if they have mutable placements then it may be easier.
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Capriquarius
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posted May 12, 2012 05:37 PM
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Originally posted by 12thhouser:
Is Leo your moon sign, or is it Capricorn or Aquarius?
yes
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12thhouser
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posted May 12, 2012 05:37 PM
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Originally posted by Doux R�ve:
You're like my hero. Back on topic, if the person you're talking about has a Leo Moon and they like drama, there's pretty much nothing you can do. Leo is a fixed sign and they are very set in their ways, so if you can't handle their personality and the way they lead their lives, you're probably the one who's gonna have to compromise or give up. But if they have mutable placements then it may be easier.
Sorry, but I won't be compromising on anything. Leo moons will simply have to seek another stage.
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Odette
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posted May 12, 2012 05:37 PM
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there's pretty much nothing you can do. Leo is a fixed sign and they are very set in their ways,
Exactly  IP: Logged |
12thhouser
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posted May 12, 2012 05:38 PM
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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by 12thhouser:
[b] Is Leo your moon sign, or is it Capricorn or Aquarius?
yes[/B][/QUOTE]Which? I listed three possible signs. IP: Logged |
FireMoon
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Registered: Mar 2012
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posted May 12, 2012 05:44 PM
Haha my life seems to be filled with Leo moons. I always become friends with them and have dated one too. My moon and mercury are in Sag so maybe that's why I don't mind as much even though I have a lot of earth in my chart...As has already been said, there's really no way around the drama. They need to know that their needs are being acknowledged, and will only become more upset if you trivialize what they're making a fuss about. If you really want to move past it you'll have to acknowlege what they're upset about, and how it affects them, so that everyone can move on to a new topic. Capriquarius, you are funny  IP: Logged |
12thhouser
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posted May 12, 2012 05:51 PM
So far, reading feedback like, "nothing you can do..." and "needs are being acknowledged," which sounds more like dealing with a symptomatic child than an adult. I'll wait for more feedback. Thanks.IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted May 12, 2012 05:58 PM
Ok. ^ Spank them! Hard. IP: Logged |
12thhouser
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posted May 12, 2012 06:02 PM
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Originally posted by Odette:
Ok. ^ Spank them! Hard.
That may be your way of dealing with their drama. It wouldn't be mine. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted May 12, 2012 06:04 PM
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Originally posted by 12thhouser:
That may be your way of dealing with their drama. It wouldn't be mine.
Spanking is very effective punishment,my ex girlfriend used to spank me :/ haha IP: Logged |
Libreo
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posted May 12, 2012 06:04 PM
My moon is in Leo (Libra sun) nooooo don't ignore! Drives us literally crazy but not in a good way. But if we must be pushed aside do it tactfully. Reassurance is good.
I actually hate this about my moon, always needing reassurance, I don't so much need attention, we are happy to sit and observe rather than participate just as long as we know we are still valued. There's a lot of pride in there. IP: Logged |
12thhouser
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posted May 12, 2012 06:05 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Spanking is very effective punishment,my ex girlfriend used to spank me :/ haha
As I said, it wouldn't be my way of dealing with their drama. IP: Logged |
extant_pisces
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From: Chicago, IL
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted May 12, 2012 06:06 PM
Remind yourself of all their good qualities and esp. all they've done for you (usually this is a lot, they're generous souls) and make them aware you're grateful. Sister is a Cancer Sun/Leo Moon, and we're very close with the exception of the fact that she basically can't take any criticism, ever. Usually smooth over disagreements by re-affirming why I appreciate her so much (she's older) etc. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted May 12, 2012 06:07 PM
Odette! 
@ OP, well if you don't like what the Leo Moon is all about, what can we do for you? We all have certain traits and it so happens that Leo Moon is quite the "child" par excellence.
Either take it or leave it! IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
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posted May 12, 2012 06:08 PM
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Originally posted by 12thhouser:
As I said, it wouldn't be my way of dealing with their drama.
haha maybe they could spank you,do you think that could be a possibility? ,Who knows,you might like it. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted May 12, 2012 06:10 PM
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it wouldn't be my way of dealing with their drama.
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12thhouser
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posted May 12, 2012 06:10 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
haha maybe they could spank you,do you think that could be a possibility? ,Who knows,you might like it.
No. IP: Logged |
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