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lovehate122 Knowflake Posts: 456 From: Ireland Registered: Apr 2012	posted May 13, 2012 05:02 PM What aspects were in play . Im being reletavily stalked by a CREEP . i feel sorry for him but the first time i met him i couldn't look at him because his stare is so intense and it scares me . i have my venus opposite his mars and my pluto is conjunct his mars its a very tight orb i have a stellium in his 5th house and his venus is conjunct my uranus and neptune and moon and jupiter . ugh i just want him to go away ! IP: Logged
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 6733 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012	posted May 13, 2012 05:26 PM quote: Originally posted by lovehate122: What aspects were in play . Im being reletavily stalked by a CREEP . i feel sorry for him but the first time i met him i couldn't look at him because his stare is so intense and it scares me . i have my venus opposite his mars and my pluto is conjunct his mars its a very tight orb i have a stellium in his 5th house and his venus is conjunct my uranus and neptune and moon and jupiter . ugh i just want him to go away ! Well have you told him clearly that you are not interested? IP: Logged
vickymadness Knowflake Posts: 1137 From: Minnesota Registered: Jan 2012	posted May 13, 2012 05:30 PM yeaah two times : first guy ... A stellium of mine conjunct his sun, also my NN conjunct his sun ... my venus trining his sun Second guy ... His sun conjunct my moon , his moon conjunct my sun, his venus conjunct my mars In both cases I was having neutral feelings, I didn't know their ASCs so maybe there were house-planets interactions that played it to the beat IP: Logged
RedScorp Knowflake Posts: 4934 From: The Sun Registered: Jul 2011	posted May 13, 2012 05:49 PM Oh geez, yeah, I have and it's horrible. Hated it and hated the person. For the last person, the only relevant aspects that I can remember off of the top of my head is their Sun square and their Ascendant trine my Pluto (which fell in their Fifth House)... IP: Logged
Odette Knowflake Posts: 2054 From: Registered: May 2012	posted May 13, 2012 05:57 PM I will post the synastry with the person I consider a genuine stalker. The rest were intense sometimes, but not to the extent of illegally stalking me. :edit: Here it is: IP: Logged
ail221 Moderator Posts: 3484 From: Hanging Gardens of Babylon Registered: Feb 2012	posted May 13, 2012 05:57 PM yes I have been stalked before but I never learned their placements.......their a stalker.....stranger danger. IP: Logged
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 6733 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012	posted May 13, 2012 06:19 PM I was once "accused" of being a stalker, it is kind of funny in retrospect,because the girl accusing me was a friend and i had fallen for her and wanted to take her out, well she said she wasnt ready yet because she had gotten out of a bad relationship,which was true, so i said ok i understand, and we still talked,she didnt put any distance there and she knew how i felt, so i had no reason to believe she wasnt interested in me, so i asked her out to a movie maybe 3 or 4 times over the next 6 months or so and each time same excuse,then all of a sudden she freaked out and said i was a stalker because i had asked her out maybe 4 or 5 times and she never outright said no,each time she made an excuse but led me to believe we may have a future. This is why honest communication is absolutely crucial. Now i realize i sound naive for not getting the hint after the first excuse or 2,at the time i was young and inexperienced,but i wasnt a stalker by any stretch of the imagination. IP: Logged
intriguingineveryway Knowflake Posts: 80 From: USA Registered: Apr 2012	posted May 13, 2012 06:35 PM What makes one a stalker? If you happen to know where your crush at, and you'll go there to accidently "bump" into your crush, does that make you a stalker? I do that. I hope I don't get accused of being a stalker. IP: Logged
Odette Knowflake Posts: 2054 From: Registered: May 2012	posted May 13, 2012 06:38 PM ^^ I just wanted to mention - in my case.. no matter how many times I said no.. he wouldn't leave me alone. He started crying about it and saying that I am basically the worst person in the world for rejecting him, swearing at me, calling me names, sms-ing me really inappropriate things - like the fact that he thinks about me when he has sex with his fiancee (he was engaged!). He called me during school and even came to my school which scared the crap out of me. I was 17 at the time and he was 24. It was just a really bad experience O_O So it wasn't anything like what you described aquaguy! The girl you mentioned was just being silly calling you a stalker. That's why I wanted to draw a line between illegal - serious stalking... and simply pursuing someone. IP: Logged
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 6733 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012	posted May 13, 2012 06:42 PM quote: Originally posted by Odette: ^^ I just wanted to mention - in my case.. no matter how many times I said no.. he wouldn't leave me alone. He started crying about it and saying that I am basically the worst person in the world for rejecting him, swearing at me, calling me names, sms-ing me really inappropriate things - like the fact that he thinks about me when he has sex with his fiancee (he was engaged!). He called me during school and even came to my school which scared the crap out of me. I was 17 at the time and he was 24. It was just a really bad experience O_O So it wasn't anything like what you described aquaguy! The girl you mentioned was just being silly calling you a stalker. That's why I wanted to draw a line between illegal - serious stalking... and simply pursuing someone. oh I'm sorry :/ that is terrible and inexcusable, but I just thought I would throw my experience out there since some of these types of situations could be avoided by honest communication. i IP: Logged
Capriquarius unregistered	posted May 13, 2012 06:42 PM Oh yay an opportunity to brag about how I'm soooo attractive that I got stalked!! hehe Yeah, this guy had a crush on me since we were like 11. The day before I moved, he called me and was in tears and said that he called just to say good bye. I said, "Ok bye" and hung up. Thought that was the end of that, but years later he somehow got ahold of my email and we got back in touch. He told me that at one point, he hired a P.I. to locate my whereabouts! (haha beat that, y'all LL-ers.) The P.I. couldn't find a thing about me...I'm a ghost. Same thing goes for a bunch of officemates who decided to e-stalk me for some reason at one point...they couldn't dig up any of my addresses, birth date, or any other record from one of those sites that claim to have people's personal info. Couldn't even get my age. Anyway, the dude who stalked me has no Scorpio or Pluto influences at all...and nothing in our synastry stands out. All I know is that he's an Aqua Sun/Pisces Moon/Sag Venus/Aqua Mars. Oh and my most recent stalker was this psychotic Libra or Scorpio kid...was born on the cusp. He actually called my parents' house (international! fvcking psycho..) hoping to dig up info about me. He ended up being disappointed cuz the housekeeper picked up the phone and she doesn't speak English haha. Hope that was astrologically helpful!!!!1 IP: Logged
Odette Knowflake Posts: 2054 From: Registered: May 2012	posted May 13, 2012 07:15 PM quote: Oh yay an opportunity to brag about how I'm soooo attractive that I got stalked!! Capriquarius - I think this thread is more suited to your sarcasm: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/213610.html Stalking can be worse than bullying. It is harassment. I can see the funny side of things - but not when the behaviour is completely morally wrong and illegal. IP: Logged
Odette Knowflake Posts: 2054 From: Registered: May 2012	posted May 13, 2012 07:15 PM aqua guy IP: Logged
Pure Knowflake Posts: 132 From: England Registered: Apr 2012	posted May 13, 2012 07:18 PM I've only been stalked/harassed by one person. On first glance the things that jump out to me are their Pluto falls in my 12th house, North Node conjunct my MC, Saturn conjunct my IC, Saturn conjunct my South Node and Sun square my Saturn. I'm trying not to feed their negative energy so I wont be looking any further. IP: Logged
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 6733 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012	posted May 13, 2012 07:20 PM quote: Originally posted by Odette: aqua guy Aww why you hearting me bud? IP: Logged
Capriquarius unregistered	posted May 13, 2012 08:19 PM quote: Originally posted by Odette: Capriquarius - I think this thread is more suited to your sarcasm: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/213610.html Stalking can be worse than bullying. It is harassment. I can see the funny side of things - but not when the behaviour is completely morally wrong and illegal. CAN be, sure. So what's illegal over there yon down under? Sic-ing a dingo on some1? Lols IP: Logged
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 6733 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012	posted May 13, 2012 08:36 PM quote: Originally posted by Capriquarius: [QUOTE]Originally posted by Odette: [b] Capriquarius - I think this thread is more suited to your sarcasm: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/213610.html Stalking can be worse than bullying. It is harassment. I can see the funny side of things - but not when the behaviour is completely morally wrong and illegal. CAN be, sure. So what's illegal over there yon down under? Sic-ing a dingo on some1? Lols [/B][/QUOTE] You are soo irreverent,kind of like a loud fart in church,its refreshing. IP: Logged
Anjellyfish Knowflake Posts: 159 From: AR, United States Registered: Sep 2011	posted May 14, 2012 02:50 AM I had a stalker....it started November or October or something before last (I think it went on for a few months before I started taking notice...so I'd say October because a friend noticed the stalking before I did) because she was best friends with someone who used to be friends with me (how she found out about me) and apparently this person spoke of me a lot (both negatively and positively). So my stalker is the same gender as me (female) and she is bisexual. She would even color her hair the same color mine naturally was (well...she bleached it blonde, not exact but similar to my natural color) since we both have brown eyes. Copied things I wore, etc. then it turned into she would show up at my college campus (she went to the college I used to go in the same town, but didn't get there until after I left) and literally stalk me...stare at me from across the cafeteria...almost broke her neck just about taking a gander at me on the sidewalk. I took off for the fall semester of the next year (this fall, and this spring I took off) so she started stalking me at my house (looking inside windows late at night, parked her car and watch my house from across the street cause there's a park there) and even got a membership at my gym just to presume stalking there (she'd basically stand there and look at me). And those stares were intense. She was also super crazy (when I called her out on it and accused her, she said I'm the one who's insane and stalks her. Even though I hardly know her and do not talk to her and don't know how she even finds out where I live, or my whereabouts or where I'm always at. I would've never known her or given a flip if she had never stalked me). But one night I caught her staring into the kitchen window because I looked dead at her face. And flipped. And ran outside with a golf club screaming I'm calling the police. Anyways...she didn't stalk after that (amazingly) although two more instances with her lurking at the school grounds (aka the park). Anyways, as far as her natal chart? Most of her personal planets and immediate placements are in Capricorn (I don't know her exact year of birth because I think she lies about her age since supposedly she went to a previous college, so either she has Cancer, Gemini or Aquarius moon since I think she's a year or two older than what she claims) and no real Scorp or Plutonian influence. Do not know her time of birth, so I don't know the rising sign or the more awesome chart details that I would get if I had her time of birth (weirdly enough...for the 3 possible birth years....the personal planets and placements are basically the same except for moon sign). Sun sign is in Capricorn. Could extremely heavy Saturn influence possibly denote stalking? IP: Logged
Lonake Moderator Posts: 9347 From: Registered: Apr 2009	posted May 14, 2012 02:56 AM Her face outside your friggin window? That is creepy I gotta be honest. I'd be spooked and I don't spook easily. You had some balls to run out there. Maybe you were just so frustrated with it all? But am glad that it's over (!) IP: Logged
Anjellyfish Knowflake Posts: 159 From: AR, United States Registered: Sep 2011	posted May 14, 2012 03:02 AM Stalking is pretty much defined as constantly making unwanted and unwarranted contact with an individual to the point that it creates extreme anxiety, fear, jeopardizes their safety, or makes them have to change their schedule or routine to avoid the contact. i.e. following someone all the time, staring into their windows at night, harassing phone calls, going through their mail, the crap you hear about in stories or text books? Most stalkers are a person that the victim does not know, or only very casually, and stalkers have no real emotions or feelings of love for the victim (it's just a form of abuse or control or a means to get off sexually). I can kinda relate with Aquaguy because a friend of mine dated a girl who I guess was kindof unstable and she started claiming that he stalked her (he didn't) as a way to get back at him or something because I sometimes see chicks who are emotionally unbalanced say a guy stalks them or sexually harassed them because the guy asked them on a date and they didn't give a yes or no answer, so they asked again or some dumb crap. Anyways, my friend threatened to sue the ex girlfriend for libel or something because of it. I'm going to shut up now lol. IP: Logged
Anjellyfish Knowflake Posts: 159 From: AR, United States Registered: Sep 2011	posted May 14, 2012 03:03 AM I didn't think about it when I ran out there! I was so freaked out though. I haven't been the same sense so now I get a little nervous when I'm up at night and by the kitchen window (it's oveer the sink) IP: Logged
Lotis White Knowflake Posts: 1088 From: USA Registered: Dec 2010	posted May 14, 2012 03:11 AM . IP: Logged
Sashar Knowflake Posts: 334 From: Alternate timeline future Registered: Mar 2012	posted May 14, 2012 07:45 AM I haven't been stalked, but I've done the stalking. Mind you, my way of stalking is to follow them around on the internet and drive past their house a few times a week... they never knew. That doesn't really follow in the traditional view of stalking... but there's no reason for them to be effected just because I had a crazy obsession. XD Don't know the synastry... but my Pluto conjunct my Venus/Mars, if anything effects those strong enough I'll snap. It's happened twice in my life. Wish I knew the birthdate of the first one so I could see if there were any similarities in the synastry... might be a little more helpful to the topic. My way of flirting is to stare until they are uncomfortable then look away shyly. Real adult right there, but can't seem to help it. XD ------------------ Astrology Activism: The constant strive to not just learn the intricate details of Astrology but the desire to constantly find new ways to prove that it exists in a scientific manner. Failure to incorporate the later into your work is akin to learning how to cure cancer but not sharing it with anyone. IP: Logged
Aquacheeka Knowflake Posts: 2494 From: Toronto Registered: Mar 2012	posted May 14, 2012 11:23 AM Cardinal signs def. make their interest known, specifically my Cap ex continued to pursue me off-and-on for 3 years postbreakup, and Libra men love me for some reason... I dunno why. Maybe they love everyone though? It seems like it . IP: Logged
Aquacheeka Knowflake Posts: 2494 From: Toronto Registered: Mar 2012	posted May 14, 2012 11:23 AM No stalking, though. Just intense interest. IP: Logged

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