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Topic: How Aquarius/Capricorn people express interest
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TrueTaurus
Knowflake Posts: 283
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posted May 24, 2012 03:25 AM
  
The one placement of Mars in Scorpio may just make him more secretive, but as for chasing a girl, he may do it persistently. It's a hit or miss with Mars in Scorpio. Can be loyal or promiscuous. But he seems to be more like the former than the latter.
He may enjoy sex for the fact it's an easier way to release his pent up emotions for him. IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted May 24, 2012 04:06 AM
You can't be dumb.
You have to be someone he respects, be achievement oriented. Doesn't matter what you come from, it matters what you're doing with what you've got.
He is a cool character but don't let that throw you off unless you DEMAND a lot of attn, he prob won't be the kind to be your lil puppy.
Distant and aloof is normal, don't take it as a sign of ANYTHING.
If he pays extra attn to you, helping you with practical things, this is good.
If he clues you in on the things he places value in, this is also good. And a good opportunity to let him know whatever you know on that subject. Never miss an opportunity to impress.
Don't hover, give the man some space. Do your own thing, be your own person.
When it comes time to get CLOSE, don't miss an opportunity to take advantage of the situation. He can be shy but he admires a daring woman.
ANY lil token of affection he gives you, it means something. NONE of this is done carelessly unless other influences intervene. Take notice of it and APPRECIATE it. You knock it down he may not want to give anything further.
He wants to introduce you to his close friends & family = big deal. That means you're v.special to him. Don't screw it up and make him look bad for having chosen you. If you're special then in his mind you're a quality item & he doesn't want to feel like he's made a bad investment. He'll clue you in on when you can drop the act. Just read his signals. It's pretty easy to tell because it'll seem like the proverbial stick has been taken out of his ass (ha!). If he puffs out his chest and takes on a serious tone when in conversation with others = be on your A-game. If he's rigid then that means you whip out your impressive tactics and SANE behavior. If he relaxes then you can relax as well, follow his lead.So just be cool, go with the flow, don't demand anything, play up the mental affinity, friendliness is good, and let it run its natural course. Also this combo can sometimes have intimacy issues, SO, keep that in mind. Push too hard and you won't get anything you want. It's kind of a tricky balance but if you're meant for him you'll be able to hack it. Christian Bale has this Sun/Venus combo. Whatever sign the Moon is in will alter this a bit, so that's another thing to consider. IP: Logged |
depth
Knowflake Posts: 230
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posted May 24, 2012 06:52 AM
Most earth moons/Venus feel nurtured when you cook for them. They like to surround themselves with beautiful earthy things.
Gifts that they can put to some use are better. They are bossy & VERY image conscious. You've to appear well put together in public & know how to eat with the most complicated cutlery(in case he decides to try out a weird cuisine). They don't like bad publicity. So you shouldn't divulge anything negative to anyone, even your best friend. They simply hate it. Treat their friends & family with respect. Act prudent but not miserly/extravagant infront of them. If he tells you to catch the cab, don't tell him you'll take the train!
Most like career driven, hard working, strong women. But remember that strong & manly aren't the same thing. Don't talk about yourself in a derogatory manner infront of them. It shows you lack self confidence. Telling him how you'd love to go bungee jumping isn't a good idea. Wearing a t-shirt with angry birds on the front isn't either. The more feminine & sophisticated you appear, the better. Giggling like a 13 year old, gossiping, biatching, not keeping to your business, acting immature & swearing will only subtract points. SOURCES : Mom, Taurus Moon, Capricorn Venus.
Dad, Taurus Moon/Asc.
Myself, Capricorn Asc/1H Saturn.
ex : Saturn conj Sun, Moon in Cap.
ex : Cap Sun, Moon in Aqua. I don't have an office romance going on but I do have a university romance on. There's this professor who I can't get my eyes off. I think he knows I check him out because he's caught me looking at him several times & my friends made it obvious a few days back. They were all oogling at him. He didn't glance at any of us. He had walked straight with his nose aimed at the sky(arrogant thing!). I'm not doing anything about it for the time being. Will work on Mr. X(I don't know his name) a few days before graduation(after 2 years) because then I'll have nothing at stake. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
Knowflake Posts: 1322
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Registered: Nov 2011
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posted May 24, 2012 08:25 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Lonake:
You can't be dumb.
You have to be someone he respects, be achievement oriented. Doesn't matter what you come from, it matters what you're doing with what you've got.
He is a cool character but don't let that throw you off unless you DEMAND a lot of attn, he prob won't be the kind to be your lil puppy.
Distant and aloof is normal, don't take it as a sign of ANYTHING.
If he pays extra attn to you, helping you with practical things, this is good.
If he clues you in on the things he places value in, this is also good. And a good opportunity to let him know whatever you know on that subject. Never miss an opportunity to impress.
Don't hover, give the man some space. Do your own thing, be your own person.
When it comes time to get CLOSE, don't miss an opportunity to take advantage of the situation. He can be shy but he admires a daring woman.
ANY lil token of affection he gives you, it means something. NONE of this is done carelessly unless other influences intervene. Take notice of it and APPRECIATE it. You knock it down he may not want to give anything further.
He wants to introduce you to his close friends & family = big deal. That means you're v.special to him. Don't screw it up and make him look bad for having chosen you. If you're special then in his mind you're a quality item & he doesn't want to feel like he's made a bad investment. He'll clue you in on when you can drop the act. Just read his signals. It's pretty easy to tell because it'll seem like the proverbial stick has been taken out of his ass (ha!). If he puffs out his chest and takes on a serious tone when in conversation with others = be on your A-game. If he's rigid then that means you whip out your impressive tactics and SANE behavior. If he relaxes then you can relax as well, follow his lead.So just be cool, go with the flow, don't demand anything, play up the mental affinity, friendliness is good, and let it run its natural course. Also this combo can sometimes have intimacy issues, SO, keep that in mind. Push too hard and you won't get anything you want. It's kind of a tricky balance but if you're meant for him you'll be able to hack it. Christian Bale has this Sun/Venus combo. Whatever sign the Moon is in will alter this a bit, so that's another thing to consider.
Thank you Lonake! And you're right, I kinda got that vibe when him and I ate lunch together. It was like a work date! As for intimacy issues, I can see that in him. He's almost divorced from his wife of 13 years (dated since they were 15) so I'm sure he has issues from that. Then he goes after two women who are basically unavailable and can't offer much. One has him on a tight leash though, he's a sucker for her. She's a Capricorn but I don't know her other placements. I'm actually not that bothered if he dates other women and not me. I'm not that wowed by him, but there's something about him that brings out my more nurturing/guiding side. He seems lost.
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hannaramaa
Knowflake Posts: 1322
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Registered: Nov 2011
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posted May 25, 2012 03:41 AM
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Originally posted by depth:
Most earth moons/Venus feel nurtured when you cook for them. They like to surround themselves with beautiful earthy things.
Gifts that they can put to some use are better. They are bossy & VERY image conscious. You've to appear well put together in public & know how to eat with the most complicated cutlery(in case he decides to try out a weird cuisine). They don't like bad publicity. So you shouldn't divulge anything negative to anyone, even your best friend. They simply hate it. Treat their friends & family with respect. Act prudent but not miserly/extravagant infront of them. If he tells you to catch the cab, don't tell him you'll take the train!
Most like career driven, hard working, strong women. But remember that strong & manly aren't the same thing. Don't talk about yourself in a derogatory manner infront of them. It shows you lack self confidence. Telling him how you'd love to go bungee jumping isn't a good idea. Wearing a t-shirt with angry birds on the front isn't either. The more feminine & sophisticated you appear, the better. Giggling like a 13 year old, gossiping, biatching, not keeping to your business, acting immature & swearing will only subtract points.
Well... I don't think I'll have to worry about that with him. He still listens to hip-hop music at 28, so to me he's like an overgrown kid. Also I don't see him using complicated cutlery (lol) anytime soon, so that's a relief. He swears like a sailor too. I feel he's really mellow. You know what's sweet though? I told him (in a humorous way) about the Libra girl at work and something she said to me, and he laughed at first saying it was hilarious. I laughed too, and then he called her an "f-ing b." I was a little taken aback by it, 'cause even though what she did was crappy my reaction wasn't that intense. Still. I felt like "aw, someone's a little protective..."  (I don't experience that often, lol)
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