posted May 23, 2012 02:45 PM            

For example, Aries/Gemini is very flash in the pan and friendly. Taurus/Aries would probably use touch as an indicator, etc.

Backstory:
There's an Aquarius I like at work. He's got moon in Taurus and Venus in Capricorn. My friend said he likes me but he seems very distant and aloof around me, yet I notice him observing me when I'm not looking. When we are talking however, he has a hard time (re: most of the time won't) look at me. I find this a bit odd as I'm an Aries and NEED eye contact but it also reminds me of my mom's story about meeting my dad (mom is an Aries, dad is an Aquarius with moon in Capricorn) and how she said he wouldn't look at her or would only glance. I was wondering if the whole eye contact thing is more of a Capricorn trait or Aquarius one.

Normally I would take the lack of eye contact and distance as a sign of disinterest, but he's known my interest in him for awhile I think and the other day he ate lunch with me in the break room and we were flirting. Another time we were laughing with some co-workers when my manager interrupted us and kind of scolded me for not being up at the front of the store on time, but the Aquarius interrupted her with a "Who cares?" which I was surprised by.

posted May 23, 2012 02:59 PM            

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Originally posted by TrueTaurus:
I dated a guy who was Aqua/Cap for a short time. He wasn't that initiative. Be careful, they might want to be your "boyfriend" after the first date.
They can move very fast once they made their decision. Capricorn moons are nice if you want a stable, hardworking, funny, and faithful man. At least it seemed like he wasn't talking to other girls.
He was chivalrous but they are stubborn and bossy. If you show a part of your personality that they don't like, or "drama" of any sort [all emotion] they run away. I think this is very true.
I suggest taking it slow and create a bond before showing any emotion.

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Oh that's very true for my Dad, he can't STAND being around my mother and I when we're fighting but he does his best to be a peace maker. They are very surprisingly sensitive, too! This guy has Mars in Scorpio, and my dad has Scorpio ASC, and they're both involved with the law - weird. My dad is the one with a Capricorn moon, but the guy I like has Venus in Capricorn. Is there much of a difference?

posted May 23, 2012 03:05 PM            

I think this is the primary reason I don't fare well with water signs romantically. I don't just want to sit there and gaze into someone's eyes, that unnerves me. Quick, furtive glances for me, that's actually true.

posted May 23, 2012 03:10 PM            

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Originally posted by Aquacheeka:
Eye contact makes me nervous.

Frankly, the less I am looking you in the eye, the more I am trying to conceal interest.

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posted May 23, 2012 03:19 PM            

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Originally posted by Yin:
I absolutely positively ADORE Aqua men. In the most non-sexual sense possible. Felt like sharing, sorry.

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posted May 23, 2012 04:03 PM            

Venus in Capricorn would want a strong woman, career driven, emotional but non-showing esp. in public, strong-willed girl. Wear button down shirts and a pencil skirts.

posted May 23, 2012 04:31 PM            

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Originally posted by TrueTaurus:
Taurus Moons are simliar, but I think worse in terms of showing emotion. With Capricorn Moon, they will eventually open up, although it will take a long time, but with a Taurus, they prefer not to engage in emotional things. My sister is a Taurus Moon and she acts like something doesn't bother her although you can clearly see it does. They are deeply affected, but something in them doesn't want to show it.

I think that's true. I have a Taurus moon and I RARELY show any kind of soft emotion. I'm very much blunt, and a bit of a hardass in person. A lot of people are intimidated by me, but know I mean well. Or I hope so...

I have a feeling it takes a while for Taurus Moon guy to mature in that department. But that just seems contradictory from the Taurus character. It depends on their upbringing but generally I would thinkn they're nonchalant.

He's a mellow dude for the most part, but like I said when you talk to him he just oozes gentility. He bottles up his emotions though, and I'm sure his Mercury in Capricorn doesn't help. His upbringing... uhm, I don't know that much about it other than he LOVES his mama.

Venus in Capricorn would want a strong woman, career driven, emotional but non-showing esp. in public, strong-willed girl. Wear button down shirts and a pencil skirts.

HA! That's what I wore today. I believe that because he used to be into this girl who works in the back and she dresses like I do. Very business like and put together.

He's probably more stable than the average Aquarius. Funny, though, that my sister is a Aqua/Taurus with Venus in Cap. [/B]

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Yes, I think so. He's trying to get custody of his son and just might win. Was going to buy a house but the deal fell through for whatever reason.

posted May 23, 2012 06:12 PM            

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Originally posted by amowls**:
My boyfriend is an Aqua with Cap Venus. Abrasive is one way people would describe his personality lol. He has an earth Moon too (but Virgo). He pursued me in an emotionally aloof way. Like, I could tell he was sexually attracted to me because he'd be really blunt about it (Aries Mars) but at the same time pretend he didn't like me at all haha. Aquas aren't very forthcoming with their feelings (and especially in my boyf's case since he is Scorpio Rising).

I'm an Aqua and I try to keep my crushes under wraps. If I like you, I'll probably avoid you.

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Weird. Yeah I can definitely see "abrasive" in this guy a bit but I think he tried minimizing it around me for whatever reason. The first day he was giving his intro to our group at the store he said he's blunt and doesn't meant it to be rude, but still tries to be nice to shoplifters. (Huh?) I just thought that was funny.

posted May 23, 2012 06:17 PM            

If he "avoids" you, he's not into you. SIMPLE. Ask on any other site other than this delusional board and that will be the unanimous reply.

posted May 23, 2012 08:05 PM            

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If he "avoids" you, he's not into you. SIMPLE

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It sounds reasonable, but experience with Leos say otherwise.

Then, there was this Scorpio w/ Taurus moon who was clearly avoiding me, but I was too besotted to recognize. After I gave up the chase, first they appeared in my dream seeking my attention. Then I got an email stating I gave up to easily.

posted May 23, 2012 08:24 PM            

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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
Guys are simple: if he likes you, he will try to be around YOU all the time, not avoid you.

If he "avoids" you, he's not into you. SIMPLE. Ask on any other site other than this delusional board and that will be the unanimous reply.

If you're on this board questioning whether or not he likes you, it means HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU. Forget him.

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Eh. I know a few guys who have avoided me despite being into me. One particularly comes to mind: he followed me on tumblr but then deleted me on Facebook. Then he started messaging me asking me random questions and then I noticed he had unfriended me. I asked him about it and he said "because I desire you and distance is best."

posted May 23, 2012 08:24 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Weird. Yeah I can definitely see "abrasive" in this guy a bit but I think he tried minimizing it around me for whatever reason.

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posted May 24, 2012 02:07 AM            

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Originally posted by amowls**:
Eh. I know a few guys who have avoided me despite being into me. One particularly comes to mind: he followed me on tumblr but then deleted me on Facebook. Then he started messaging me asking me random questions and then I noticed he had unfriended me. I asked him about it and he said "because I desire you and distance is best."

Everyone's a weirdo.

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That and I never said he avoided me now. Now and then are two different things (to CA)

posted May 24, 2012 02:11 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
I am an aqua sun, aqua ascendant and venus with Taurus moon, also Saturn conjuncts my sun with mercury in Capricorn, so me and that Guy kind of have similar things going on.honestly he sounds a lot like me, I have done/do similar things,and its simply out of shyness, bad experiences, so I tend to withhold letting it be known that I like a girl until I have sufficient evidence to believe there is a slim to no chance of rejection. Who knows maybe he has also. had bad experiences. I am in a similar pickle with a girl at work, I really like her but I keep my distance to. avoid possible awkwardness! Any kind of rejection sucks, but situations where you have to see each other everyday are the worst. I think workplace situations are particularly tricky because us guys know that women have a tendency to talk, so we fear that if we are rejected every last person at work is going to hear about it.

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posted May 24, 2012 02:23 AM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:

Even if you are accepted, everyone at work is gonna hear anyway, and whether accepted or rejected, you'll still end up being the cheese ball. It's a no-win situation. That's why I met my wife at work and married her. . If you like her, have the cajones and just tell her! And if rejected, you'll just have to find another job. Just kidding.

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