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Gem-Gurl
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posted May 28, 2012 11:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gem-Gurl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Im just lookin for general info, tips, suggestions and the like!! Just your observations. And also, the best way to catch him

Incase you are curious, or if it matters very much, he is a Sagittarius sun, Leo moon, Scorpio mercury and Leo mars!! (Lol im also a Leo mars )

Thanks you guys!! I wanna figure this guy out!!

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posted May 29, 2012 12:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
They're sexy, possessive, intense. I love'em. Actually, i love everything scorpio.

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posted May 29, 2012 12:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Gem gurl, your siggy says you are scorpio rising. You should instinctively know how to get a man with Venus in Scorpio. If his Venus trines your ascendant, it's in the bag.

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posted May 29, 2012 12:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I meant if his Venus CONJUNCTS your ascendant, it's in the bag.

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posted May 29, 2012 12:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gem-Gurl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well whoohoo!! Yeah i just go with my gut when im with him. Just... i want to know MORE about it all.

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posted May 29, 2012 04:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Interestingly, the ones I know are quite submissive in relationships.

They are very magnetic, can attract pretty much anyone they want.
So there may be competition!

But the fact that your rising is also in Scorpio, as Belage pointed, probably creates some attraction and ease. It doesn't have to be mutual or very strong, but there can be a pull. He probably finds you attractive, if his Venus is close to your ASC.

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posted May 29, 2012 05:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Swift Freeze     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If you search the forums then you can find a huge range of topics about Venus in Scorpio men. Either way, I happen to be one. Some people say that Venus in Scorpios are not too great because Venus is in its detriment in Scorpio.

It depends on which house it falls into as well as the angles and aspects it makes. With your guy, it looks like it may very well square his Leo Moon and Mars. This could lead to some conflict between how he expresses himself physically and how he expresses his aesthetic likes, and his loves and passions.

Venus in Scorpio can be a relatively quiet Venus not necessarily expressing everything they're feeling. That may lead to the impression people have of us being mysterious. I feel that perhaps Venus in Scorpios' are very guarded about their feelings and a little more hesitant about jumping straight into a relationship. This depends on the rest of the placements, Leo Moons can be quite expressive, along with the Mars this may lend a more expressive open Venus in Scorpio.

One thing that Venus in Scorpios love is emotional honesty and honesty of feelings at any point. I know this is something that probably all signs like. From my experience as a Venus in Scorpio I really don't like when people play false emotions/feelings and end up hurting someone.

With regards to being magnetic, i'd agree with Doux Reve. All the signs have their own magnetic quality.

Aries - Radiate that quiet confidence.

Taurus - Radiate that quiet stability.

Gemini - Radiate that open friendly nature.

Cancer - Radiate that nurturing familiar feeling.

Leo - Radiate that light and majestic nature.

Virgo - Radiate a I can help you in anyway nature.

Libra - Radiate that quiet personable friendly nature.

Scorpio - Radiate that quiet emotional and carnal nature.

Sagittarius - Radiate that quiet free spirited honest nature.

Capricorn - Radiate a solid reliable nature.

Aquarius - Radiate a friendly easy going nature.

Pisces - Radiate an empathetic understanding.

The magnetic thing with Venus in Scorpio is probably that quiet air of mystery and underlying carnal tension. Those who are in touch with their Venus unconciously radiate those carnal signals that people pick up on unconciously. And someone who radiates that low key sexuality would be attractive to those that unconciously pick up on it. A lot of people talk about the "famous" Scorpio looks, which is probably one of the most apparent ways Scorpio radiates that sexuality with those, 'I want you eyes'.

I'd agree with Belage, that most would be sexy, possessive to some degree, and intense to some degree. Of course this differs person to person.

Doux Reve's comment on the ones she knows being submissive in relationships is interesting. I can say that I like a strong willed woman, not necessarily to over power me but at least to challenge me. I'm more than happy to be submissive if wanted... I don't have a problem being more dominant either, whatever they want really.

I'm sure there are more questions you have. Hope any of this helped.

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posted May 29, 2012 06:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RegardesPlatero     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm a Venus in Scorpio woman (Libra sun), but I think that a lot of things that apply to the women can apply to the guys, too, so here's some of my experience. Not sure exactly what you're digging for, but I hope that it helps.

--I HATE it when someone is falsely nice to me. I can't deal with insincerity.

--We're more sensitive than we let on. We care very deeply, but tend to be screwed over a lot, so some of us are guarded. We have to really trust you before we will open up (alternately, we may open up if we don't feel any threat by doing so--I've opened up to people when I felt like things were so bad that there was nothing left to lose, one of the few times I was very direct with a person).

--We are intense, which at least in my experience people do not like. They find it unsettling and uncomfortable. It's something that I've learned to bury and I try not to show openly how I feel or what I think anymore.

--I personally don't feel secure with others very easily, and even when I do feel secure, something small can break that sense of everything being OK. Feeling safe with others is a very, very fragile state with me. I tend not to be trusting or hopeful that it will last, because it usually doesn't.

--Being a Libra sun/Mercury, I feel a great deal of tension between wanting to be open and not being allowed to, and wanting to hide. I feel a great deal of frustration over not being able to please others no matter how hard I try. If I'm too intense and emotional, I'm written off. If I'm too aloof, I'm written off. It's a delicate and mentally/emotionally exhausting balancing act to be a Venus in Scorpio if your sun is in Libra.

--I personally don't consider myself very sexy, but lots of nasty, trashy types hit on me. Yuck.

--I tend to like to have an upper hand in a relationship, more so when I feel helpless, powerless, or otherwise tuned into my darker side.

--People matter to me, and I would like to matter to them, too. It doesn't work that way, though. More and more, I act considerably colder than I actually feel.

--I personally don't feel much of a need for a romantic relationship. I daydream about it sometimes, but honestly, it's a dream that I don't want to come true, if that makes any sense. In real life, it would be a nightmare for me and laden with problems, or else bore me. I do, however, have a strong desire for friendship, but it just never works out for me.

--I do agree that we love emotional honesty/honesty of feelings, though with the stipulation that I do not like people asking me out, hitting on me, or saying anything of a sexual nature to me. Flirting has to be done very, very delicately with me. 99% of the time, it makes me feel VERY uncomfortable. So, certain kinds of feelings, I'd rather not be expressed. However, other kinds of feelings, that could make me feel like someone trusts me or respects me enough to seek advice from me/confide in me, and that makes me feel honored. Also makes me respect the person a little more.

I have Venus in the 12th house, conjunct Pluto.

Hope that this was helpful!

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posted May 29, 2012 07:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gem-Gurl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you guys!!!

@Swift Freeze
Haha this boy sure does have a mysterious quality! Which is good, cuz just talking to a guy for five mins and having figured him out gets boring.... i think i need to work on channeling my inner venus in Aries. Be more honest n opener, blunt lol. When he looks at me.... i can imagine the sound of my panties flying across the room. Thats me n Josiah for you.... ha but were good teens i think right now were just having fun secretly, yet not secretly flirting with eachother when we see eachother..... lol which works fine for both of us, me being a gemini, he a sagittarius!!!?

@ RegardesPlatero
Yes its perfect!! All of it! I just wanna learn as much as possible

Well i hope you find what you need. Sounds to me like you need a really good friend who just understands yoy, is there for you and where you dont have to 'try' to be something. Just be you!!!! *hugsies*


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posted May 29, 2012 08:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Desiring Shadows     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted May 29, 2012 08:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Desiring Shadows     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
They wont tell you theyre into you until the perfect moment. Theyll let you know theyre attracted by their actions but they won't be overt about it if they're not sure of your feelings.

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posted May 29, 2012 08:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gem-Gurl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Desiring Shadows:
They wont tell you theyre into you until the perfect moment. Theyll let you know theyre attracted by their actions but they won't be overt about it if they're not sure of your feelings.


Omg. . . . .*as the heavens open up* so many things just clicked.....

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posted May 29, 2012 08:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Desiring Shadows     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Omg. . . . .*as the heavens open up* so many things just clicked.....

Well thats wonderful for you then, I suppose.

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posted May 29, 2012 09:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Blind writer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am with RegardesPlatero here. I have a Sagittarian sun, with Venus in Scorpio. This is how I work personally, and though I'm a woman, I feel there may be points that can carry across the sexes.

The dynamic between the Jupiter-Sun and Pluto-Venus is like night and day. The Sun wants to have fun, be laid-back, and brush everything off the shoulder under public scrutiny. Sagittarians want to have fun with everybody, experience it all, and that perceptive know-how we have about interacting with others means we instinctively "hide" that Scorpionic energy. Even those we consider close might still be shielded from the deep and fathomless intensity brewing deeply inside.

What RP said is absolutely correct for me; that intensity tends to frighten people who lack similar Plutonian energy in their charts - those who just don't "get" it. People rarely get a glimpse of that side of me, because I do not want to burden others with that heaviness, and would rather continue having a light and fun time.

Once we develop a true and plain trust in a person, that is when things start flooding out, and you will have to be prepared, for despite the appearances of iron-skin Sagittarius, Scorpio is in fact very sensitive to mishandling of their feelings by others.

When Scorpio-Venus decides to fall in love, they have made a huge and incredibly important decision. It might seem like it's fast and hard emotion, but this is a consistent and even flowing energy under everything we feel. It's normal to us. Once we love, we love without reservation, and sometimes it might even seem obsessive.

Be prepared for jealous streaks, suspicions borne from insecurity, and an unvoiced, intense need for regular reminders of your feelings toward Scorpio-Venus. Scorpio-Venus craves reassurance from time to time, but would rather keep it on the down-low. They aren't the type to openly demand attention.

On the lighter side, Sagittarius adores fun. If you can maintain a playful interaction, with a few interjected "moments" with just you two, you'll have an entertained Sag-Sun, and a pleased Scorp-Venus in your palm.

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posted May 29, 2012 09:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for IndigoDirae     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Blind writer:
... that intensity tends to frighten people who lack similar Plutonian energy in their charts - those who just don't "get" it. People rarely get a glimpse of that side of me, because I do not want to burden others with that heaviness, and would rather continue having a light and fun time.

-raises hand- Yo, yo, yo. 'Similar Plutonian energy in their charts' in the hizzouse. (ZOMG-Scorpio, Pluto-Sun, etc.) And, for some reason, I just felt the needless insistence to jump in here and say that. Really serving no other purpose except that I admire that fact that you CAN, and DO pull back. This is a skill I've only recently learnt - perhaps, due to seriously harnessing that 0* Sag Mars - and realising, as you have, that SO many just can't take the intensity. And when they CAN, we tend to become rather fast friends.

Speaking of, while I've NO idea the actual date - damn. Almost two decades. Not too shabby. Not too shabby at all.

It's really, really great having you 'here', too. I've never REALLY had the unbelievable fortune of having someone who I trust so completely, and know SO well - my soul-sister - be able to research and compare and contrast and BS and muse and brainstorm on this, one of my lifelong passions.

It makes a it a LOT less lonely, SO much more exciting and meaningful, and very special. <3

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I am with RegardesPlatero here. I have a Sagittarian sun, with Venus in Scorpio. This is how I work personally, and though I'm a woman, I feel there may be points that can carry across the sexes.

The dynamic between the Jupiter-Sun and Pluto-Venus is like night and day. The Sun wants to have fun, be laid-back, and brush everything off the shoulder under public scrutiny. Sagittarians want to have fun with everybody, experience it all, and that perceptive know-how we have about interacting with others means we instinctively "hide" that Scorpionic energy. Even those we consider close might still be shielded from the deep and fathomless intensity brewing deeply inside.

What RP said is absolutely correct for me; that intensity tends to frighten people who lack similar Plutonian energy in their charts - those who just don't "get" it. People rarely get a glimpse of that side of me, because I do not want to burden others with that heaviness, and would rather continue having a light and fun time.

Once we develop a true and plain trust in a person, that is when things start flooding out, and you will have to be prepared, for despite the appearances of iron-skin Sagittarius, Scorpio is in fact very sensitive to mishandling of their feelings by others.

When Scorpio-Venus decides to fall in love, they have made a huge and incredibly important decision. It might seem like it's fast and hard emotion, but this is a consistent and even flowing energy under everything we feel. It's normal to us. Once we love, we love without reservation, and sometimes it might even seem obsessive.

Be prepared for jealous streaks, suspicions borne from insecurity, and an unvoiced, intense need for regular reminders of your feelings toward Scorpio-Venus. Scorpio-Venus craves reassurance from time to time, but would rather keep it on the down-low. They aren't the type to openly demand attention.

On the lighter side, Sagittarius adores fun. If you can maintain a playful interaction, with a few interjected "moments" with just you two, you'll have an entertained Sag-Sun, and a pleased Scorp-Venus in your palm.


I have to ask - because you speak to some things that are ringing bells for this Aqua woman who has FALLEN for a Sag Sun/Libra Mars/Scorpio Venus man (Taurus Moon/Aqua Asc)...

How the heck can you know when they MEAN it?? There is a part of me that absolutely needs my own space and so loves his explorative side - his part of himself that will drift away for a month or two (mostly with nothing more than a text message - I'm very self-sustaining); and there is a part of me that wonders (despite understanding him and admiring/respecting his nature) - why isn't he here more?? But he always returns, in the most romantic of fashion - and says the most meaningful things. We definitely connect. He once drove over 3 hours in the middle of the night to come see me when I told him I wouldn't have time for him...he just slept in his VW campervan outside my house until I did. So romantic - who does that??! Then other times, like when I tell him I am in his neck of the woods - I get nothing but the echo of my own voice (er, text message)...

A truly baffling combination. Beautiful, vibrant, full of life - and absolutely mysterious. Whomever finally captures his heart will be the luckiest woman on earth I am sure.

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I didn't have a wonderful time with my Scorpio Venus(conj Pluto!) ex, but let me give you my 2 cents on it.

He was very insecure. The prospect of me talking to another guy, even if it's his own friend, would haunt him. He didn't like to hear me talk about other men either.

He was clingy & needed constant reassurance.
Expected me to text him in my free time!
If I didn't reply to a text, he'd get annoyed. If I had missed his call & didn't bother to text/call back later,...PHEW!

He was very outspoken(Sagittarius Mercury). If he didn't like something, wanted me to do/not do something, was hurt, etc, he'd tell me to my face.

Though we shared the same Mercury sign, he'd often misinterpret my words. It was his hypersensitivity that made him extremely defensive about everything. It's important to think before you speak(esp. if your Sags Mars' conj his Moon).

He was very possessive. Wanted me to tell him everything, like where I was, with whom, when I'd be back, etc. Once, I went out for lunch with a Cappie ex. I told him about it at night & got blasted for not informing him beforehand itself.

I don't know what in me attracted his Venus. My Jupiter was conj his Venus. Lolz, nothing more than that.

All fire signs like to laugh.So crack him up.

Keep your dates exciting & playful. As a Sagittarian, I prefer trekking over bowling. If he has a lot of Uranus aspects/11H placements, he may prefer group activities over one on one.

If you are going out to eat, suggest something exotic, something he's never tried before. However, make sure you don't choose a cheap place. Leos are image conscious. If you decide to try out an oriental restaurant & don't know how to use chopsticks perfectly, then drop the idea. This can embarrass him.

Look feminine & sophisticated all the time. If Saturn aspects his desc, Venus or Moon, don't overdo! Saturn hates too much of make up & accessories.

Don't praise other guys in front of a Leo.

Pass genuine compliments, that will stroke his ego.

Working out/playing sports helps. If you don't, then read about some sport that he likes & talk about it. One ex(Scorpio Sun, Aries Moon, Leo asc) was passionate about cars, WWE & Wii.

His Leo Moon won't mind if you take the first step. But that doesn't mean you lay all your cards before him at once. Keep him guessing(Scorpio Venus likes it that way).

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posted May 30, 2012 08:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RegardesPlatero     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Desiring Shadows:
They wont tell you theyre into you until the perfect moment. Theyll let you know theyre attracted by their actions but they won't be overt about it if they're not sure of your feelings.


VERY true.

And sometimes not even then (as in, sometimes we won't reveal our feelings even if we are sure).

I personally feel VERY uncomfortable saying "I like you"/"love you"/"care about you" unless I really mean it. I don't even like to call someone a "friend" casually: it's not a word that I throw around easily. To me, it carries obligations (on my side, too), so it's something that I reserve for those who have a particular closeness with me, which these days isn't really anybody. I do have some people with whom I would like to become friends, but I don't quite feel there yet with them.

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posted May 30, 2012 08:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RegardesPlatero     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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The dynamic between the Jupiter-Sun and Pluto-Venus is like night and day. The Sun wants to have fun, be laid-back, and brush everything off the shoulder under public scrutiny. Sagittarians want to have fun with everybody, experience it all, and that perceptive know-how we have about interacting with others means we instinctively "hide" that Scorpionic energy. Even those we consider close might still be shielded from the deep and fathomless intensity brewing deeply inside.

What RP said is absolutely correct for me; that intensity tends to frighten people who lack similar Plutonian energy in their charts - those who just don't "get" it. People rarely get a glimpse of that side of me, because I do not want to burden others with that heaviness, and would rather continue having a light and fun time.

Once we develop a true and plain trust in a person, that is when things start flooding out, and you will have to be prepared, for despite the appearances of iron-skin Sagittarius, Scorpio is in fact very sensitive to mishandling of their feelings by others.

When Scorpio-Venus decides to fall in love, they have made a huge and incredibly important decision. It might seem like it's fast and hard emotion, but this is a consistent and even flowing energy under everything we feel. It's normal to us. Once we love, we love without reservation, and sometimes it might even seem obsessive.

Be prepared for jealous streaks, suspicions borne from insecurity, and an unvoiced, intense need for regular reminders of your feelings toward Scorpio-Venus. Scorpio-Venus craves reassurance from time to time, but would rather keep it on the down-low. They aren't the type to openly demand attention.

On the lighter side, Sagittarius adores fun. If you can maintain a playful interaction, with a few interjected "moments" with just you two, you'll have an entertained Sag-Sun, and a pleased Scorp-Venus in your palm.


--I have a Sagittarius ascendant, and what you said rings true for me too. Well-put!

I especially relate to the part about others "not getting it". It took me awhile to realize that I'm abnormal and that being cold and frozen is normal (being intense is not). These days, as I said, I act considerably colder than what I actually feel.

I also love how you mention the part about seeming obsessive to others. While some Venus in Scorpios really are unhealthily obsessive, a lot of us just care a lot and pour a lot of energy into relationships, more so than normal people. This misperception is also what makes me act colder, sometimes like I don't care about or even acknowledge someone, because I don't want to be seen as a freak/weird. I'd rather be seen as mysterious, aloof, or cold than be seen as creepy, and I don't want to make others uncomfortable. What makes it particularly hard for me is that by nature, I am a VERY expressive person. I've learned that people don't like that, so, again, I just act cold and I find myself talking to people/writing less and less and less, to the point that I pretty much only express myself here and not with others.

And, too, since I have a Cancer moon plus Libra sun/other placements, I DEFINITELY crave reassurance. I don't assume that someone's good opinion of me will last--I assume the opposite. I assume that people can dislike me very easily to the point that I can't ever fix it, and I feel constant, overwhelming pressure to please so that I don't end up being ostracized. However, if I go too far, that also ends up with isolation. So, again, I just act a bit chilly these days, since I have no idea how else to meet all of the demands and expectations that I am supposed to meet.

To be very honest, I also finding myself feeling resentful at times because I find it frustrating that I have to hide who I am and erase myself just to please other people, yet they never meet me halfway. I hate having to be what they want me to be and yet I still don't get what I really want from people--to be liked and to have friends/companionship.

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posted May 30, 2012 01:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Blind writer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Wild Places:
I have to ask - because you speak to some things that are ringing bells for this Aqua woman who has FALLEN for a Sag Sun/Libra Mars/Scorpio Venus man (Taurus Moon/Aqua Asc)...

How the heck can you know when they MEAN it?? There is a part of me that absolutely needs my own space and so loves his explorative side - his part of himself that will drift away for a month or two (mostly with nothing more than a text message - I'm very self-sustaining); and there is a part of me that wonders (despite understanding him and admiring/respecting his nature) - why isn't he here more?? But he always returns, in the most romantic of fashion - and says the most meaningful things. We definitely connect. He once drove over 3 hours in the middle of the night to come see me when I told him I wouldn't have time for him...he just slept in his VW campervan outside my house until I did. So romantic - who does that??! Then other times, like when I tell him I am in his neck of the woods - I get nothing but the echo of my own voice (er, text message)...

A truly baffling combination. Beautiful, vibrant, full of life - and absolutely mysterious. Whomever finally captures his heart will be the luckiest woman on earth I am sure.


That's probably his Libra and Aquarius energy at work. Both Taurus and Scorpio are deeply and emotionally devoted to those they care about, but highly sexed, and with the wandering energy of Sagittarius, I can understand your concern.

You're right in that Sagittarians LOVE their space - and this is why I adore you Aquarians; you can understand that, in your own way.

Aquarian ASC means that a lot of the time, when the wandering bug hits us, it's completely unplanned, and often we don't even realize we've distanced ourselves until we already are. This happens when Scorpio-Venus is "comfortable", and when the need for reassurance comes, that's when we come back for attention.

Check again.

It's when /we/ need the attention, so when you come knocking out of the blue, Sagittarian energy is usually still pretty high, and we're still distracted by whatever shiny thing is twinkling at us from the distance. Empathic understanding usually isn't terribly high on the current agenda.

As for his Libra Mars, like all air signs, they can seem a bit emotionally detached. His actions [Mars] probably seem contradictory and insensitive to you.

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posted May 30, 2012 02:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hera     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by depth:
I didn't have a wonderful time with my Scorpio Venus(conj Pluto!) ex, but let me give you my 2 cents on it.

He was very insecure. The prospect of me talking to another guy, even if it's his own friend, would haunt him. He didn't like to hear me talk about other men either.

He was clingy & needed constant reassurance.
Expected me to text him in my free time!
If I didn't reply to a text, he'd get annoyed. If I had missed his call & didn't bother to text/call back later,...PHEW!

He was very possessive. Wanted me to tell him everything, like where I was, with whom, when I'd be back, etc. Once, I went out for lunch with a Cappie ex. I told him about it at night & got blasted for not informing him beforehand itself.


I had a similar experience with the crazy Libra, who after we broke up became my stalker. He used to call me with hidden number like 40-50 times a night, especially after midnight because he knew I have to get up early for work and wanted to annoy me. He trashed me (unsuccessfully) on a game site we used to go to together, because he thought I was hitting it off with some dude there.
I like the intensity, the possessivity, but not this silly jealousy game.

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Wild Places
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posted May 30, 2012 11:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Wild Places     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Blind writer:
That's probably his Libra and Aquarius energy at work. Both Taurus and Scorpio are deeply and emotionally devoted to those they care about, but highly sexed, and with the wandering energy of Sagittarius, I can understand your concern.

You're right in that Sagittarians LOVE their space - and this is why I adore you Aquarians; you can understand that, in your own way.

Aquarian ASC means that a lot of the time, when the wandering bug hits us, it's completely unplanned, and often we don't even realize we've distanced ourselves until we already are. This happens when Scorpio-Venus is "comfortable", and when the need for reassurance comes, that's when we come back for attention.

Check again.

It's when /we/ need the attention, so when you come knocking out of the blue, Sagittarian energy is usually still pretty high, and we're still distracted by whatever shiny thing is twinkling at us from the distance. Empathic understanding usually isn't terribly high on the current agenda.

As for his Libra Mars, like all air signs, they can seem a bit emotionally detached. His actions [Mars] probably seem contradictory and insensitive to you.


Thanks for getting back to me on this Blind Writer - it's so true. It is when he needs reassurance that he comes for me. My Venus in Capricorn/Moon in Cancer struggle with that. But on all other fronts: Logically, intuitively (Neptune in Sag), just wholly as a person - I totally get him. And yes, I love that he's out there - living his life, chasing that shiny thing. I'm not even afraid if that shiny thing is someone else. I just need some more expression to feel secure...

We're getting there - slowly and steady as she goes. Just today, (I always know when he's going to check-in with me - sure enough it was today), I let him know that I know him. I care for him. And he can feel free to express himself fully with me.

His response is that he is incredibly grateful for this - and that he already knows. And that it is mutual. Steady as she goes...I should say, as he goes - off on his next, undefined adventure. *sigh*

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posted November 30, 2012 04:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for NowOrNever     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I find Venus in Scorpio confident, combative and serious. Too serious especially in the work place.

However, I am drawn to a Venus Scorpio. Whenever our eyes met it was electric.

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posted December 01, 2012 12:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

I have Scorpio in Venus and what unsettles, and attracts, is when a interest notices things about something.

That really focuses attention on you, may not show it, better believe the wheels are turning.

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