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vertiver
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posted May 30, 2012 01:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for vertiver     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I thought my relationship was going smoothly then Venus RX right smack dab on my natal Venus in Gemini and we broke up today. I'm bummed, anyone else experienced shakey relationship?

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Lonake
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posted May 30, 2012 02:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lonake     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow no way. Any chance of getting back together?

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Lonake
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posted May 30, 2012 03:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lonake     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What do you think about the transiting SN having a hand in this?

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Aquacheeka
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posted May 30, 2012 08:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aquacheeka     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes, my boyfriend and I were going along swimmingly and then Venus rx hit us and we had declared ourselves on a break. Now we are working on our relationship but we're still on shaky ground and my approach to dealing with this rx thus far has been avoiding spending too much time with him until it's over and potentially not-so-harmless flirting with a Libra/Scorpio moon.

Venus rx sucks.

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Aquacheeka
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posted May 30, 2012 08:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aquacheeka     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sorry to hear about your breakup, vertiver. Hopefully it's only temporary and things will go back to normal after the rx period is over.

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amowls**
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posted May 30, 2012 09:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for amowls**     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah, this is making me nervous. The relationship with my boyfriend is pretty new and I'm already seeing several red flags pop up. I felt particularly ****** when Venus rx retrograded over my Chiron a few days ago.

I hope all will be well once its over.

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inthemisosoup
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posted May 30, 2012 12:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for inthemisosoup     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm in a new relationship too (about six or seven weeks in) but Venus RX really doesn't seem to be affecting it.

But then again Venus is transiting my fourth atm and I am having a lot of difficulty with feeling the love from my family.

Today and tomorrow Venus will be transiting my natal Chiron. Probably will be some of the worst days. Then it will oppose my Sun. Interesting times ahead.

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Aquacheeka
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posted May 30, 2012 02:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aquacheeka     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Apart from my boyfriend, I've had three people flip their lid on me this month since Venus rx. I am ready to play a hermit until it passes. Everyone is losing their minds.

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vertiver
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posted May 30, 2012 02:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for vertiver     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Lonake:
Wow no way. Any chance of getting back together?

No I need to move on. He actually broke up with me because he realized he treats me like crap and I deserve better.

The odd thing is exactly at this time last year we had a break up, but got back together two weeks later. I'm positive he'll try to contact me or realize he is an idiot. Either way I'm moving on.

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vertiver
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posted May 30, 2012 02:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for vertiver     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Aquacheeka:
Apart from my boyfriend, I've had three people flip their lid on me this month since Venus rx. I am ready to play a hermit until it passes. Everyone is losing their minds.

Yes, I'm not going to try and date anyone until this retrograde is over. It is especially effecting me since its in natal Venus domain in the 7th, and its triggering my Saturn/Uranu opposition.

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SoStellarOne
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posted May 30, 2012 03:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SoStellarOne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Holy Crap! I wasn't aware that the Venus Retrograde began on May 15th. If I did I would've just stayed all to myself until it was over because my newset friend that I've made during my Saturn Return got upset with me on May 20th during our phone conversation. I apologized so many freakin' times before I just decided to give him some space. Jeez Louise, there is really truth to all these Saturn Return and Retrograde Phenomenons. I hope that when this Retrograde is over that he would just forgive me and not throw our friendship away over a mistake.

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mir
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posted May 30, 2012 04:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mir     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
the last couple of weeks I slowly developed an aversion against my new pisces-moon friend. Why? Well, I had spoken into his voicemail 3 times for about 10 minutes each. Well, if I'm worried I'll do that.. but no NOTHING reaction from his side... while in the meantime we just had some phone-talks and our daily late-night txtmssgs continued..
And then at one night I felt he went to sleep without one textmssg. (the first time since long) so I messaged him;
- You're forgotten me, aren't you?
next
- it feels sooooooo cold...
next
- cold cold cold cold cold
cold cold cold cold cold colc
cold cold cold cold cold cold
cold cold cold cold cold cold
cold cold cold cold cold cold
.. etc.

(cumulation of frustration)

Next morning he;

- I don't like it like this anymore,
maybe I'm just moody right now but that 'cold cold cold cold cold..'
I can't take it anymore..
to walk after you like a dog and ALWAYS apologizing and showing I love you..
xxxx kus xxxx srry

*something like that but prob. it was worse as I felt a big threat of THE END*

Ok, to make a long story short;
He didn't contact me for 2 days while I talked again into his voicemail.. NOTHING...some heavy txtmssgs as I felt angry because of the threat ..

Then we talked for two hours on the phone last night and eventually after ONE hour the big surpise; he NEVER EVER listens to his voicemail!! (Yup, those people do exist)

all’s well that ends well (I hope)

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vertiver
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posted May 30, 2012 05:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for vertiver     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What does that have to do with Venus RX?

Speaking of technology. I just went on facebook and my ex boyfriend's status is "perpetually alone." Wah wah, he was the one that broke up with me, whatever.

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mir
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posted May 30, 2012 05:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mir     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus through his 3rd, just shaky communcation ground. No break up indeed, srry.

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Desiring Shadows
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posted May 30, 2012 06:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Desiring Shadows     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'd like to think that VENUS RX were the reason. Hahahahaz...

"Anyone else experienced shakey relationship?"
Yeah, I have.
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How long will it be in retrograde?

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"Time flies like an arrow, fruit flies like a banana." -Groucho Marx

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pisceanscorpion
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posted May 31, 2012 05:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pisceanscorpion     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hmm my boyfriend has venus in gemini unaspected ruling his libra ascendant.

lately we've been having alot of power struggles, broke up then kissed & made up few times. RX venus is just a degree away from exact conj. w his natal venus... so im gonna try to keep my distance this weekend lol.

its so weird because we will fight then have really warm affectionate moments , such a contradiction...

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posted May 31, 2012 07:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aquacheeka     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
More Venus rx horror stories: My friend from Boston's best friend was in a fight with his wife, and jumped out of a moving vehicle today, committing suicide.

His other best friend flew up from Florida to deal with the situation and speak to his now-deceased friend's family, and relapsed (he was six months sober).

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posted June 06, 2012 10:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaming111     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by vertiver:
What does that have to do with Venus RX?

Speaking of technology. I just went on facebook and my ex boyfriend's status is "perpetually alone." Wah wah, he was the one that broke up with me, whatever.


You should like that status.
He'll get the hint. lol...

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posted June 06, 2012 10:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaming111     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Aquacheeka:
Apart from my boyfriend, I've had three people flip their lid on me this month since Venus rx. I am ready to play a hermit until it passes. Everyone is losing their minds.

lol....

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Dreaming111
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posted June 06, 2012 10:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaming111     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Aquacheeka:
More Venus rx horror stories: My friend from Boston's best friend was in a fight with his wife, and jumped out of a moving vehicle today, committing suicide.

His other best friend flew up from Florida to deal with the situation and speak to his now-deceased friend's family, and relapsed (he was six months sober).


man....

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extant_pisces
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posted June 06, 2012 11:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for extant_pisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This interesting interpretation of Venus Rx seems to draw a connection between ways of earning money (Venus) and communication (Gemini). I think this may have something to do with my recent decision to start job-hunting.

As the link also details, the sign on the cusp of the 7th House of one-to-one relationships for me is Taurus, and the May eclipse was 0 degrees Gemini (when all of this job unhappiness started), possibly indicating "...a whole new way of relating to people as a group, or individuals, one by one...changing ‘themes’ in your interactions with others."

My boss has been flipping out for the last three weeks and it's gotten to the point where she just says something nasty and walks away without waiting for/hearing out a response. I'm actively seeking other jobs for a multitude of reasons, but a big one is her conduct (refusal to coordinate, share information or use basic technology, tons of unplanned absences and tantrums) during the past month.

It's strange to think of our interview, when she repeatedly asked me to pledge that I'd stay in the position for "at least five years," adding that she was an "easy-going person" who was "open to new ideas" (neither of these things are true). She's a Sagittarius. I guess you could call it a break-up of sorts.

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vertiver
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posted June 07, 2012 03:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for vertiver     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Nice extant_pisces, its always good to look for new job opportunities. I honestly have been doing the same, I found a job, but its part-time and temporary and it sucks because I still have to keep my old job that I want to quit.

Anyways long story short, tonight I realized there is nothing keeping me in my city, I have no boyfriend anymore, I'm done with school, why not move out of the country? I found this amazing teaching program in Chile that I want to apply to. And do something amazing!

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posted June 07, 2012 03:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for extant_pisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That sounds amazing, vertiver. I have a friend who taught English in Honduras for a year, and the stories in her emails made it sound like something everyone should try. I've always wanted to move to London, but I still definitely have to save up for that first. That's essentially why I took this job in the first place, because it was full-time, but I've realized I can't just live for the future. I have to work on developing myself and my talents, which are integral parts of building a career and a life, really. This period has really been about reconciling my future and present goals, and prioritizing the pursuit of happiness over the comfort of familiarity.

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posted June 07, 2012 11:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
IDK if it's venus rx..
I got mad at fishy, I havent spoken to him for a week.. I was re-thinking everything...
Yesterday, he tried really hard to get my attention and speak to me.. I wasnt rude, but I didnt stop and talk to him... SO he threw a rubber lizard at me... (lol) I turned around and gave him that look, he said what I thought you would scream like a girl.. I said you thought wrong...
But today, we spoke and talked some things through.. We made some arrangements and some plans.. So IDK...

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posted June 07, 2012 11:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Aquacheeka:
More Venus rx horror stories: My friend from Boston's best friend was in a fight with his wife, and jumped out of a moving vehicle today, committing suicide.

His other best friend flew up from Florida to deal with the situation and speak to his now-deceased friend's family, and relapsed (he was six months sober).



OMG.. Thats terrible!
How sad..

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