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Dreaming111
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posted May 31, 2012 12:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaming111     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What are the things that we ought to look for to spot that tendency?

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Doux Rêve
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posted May 31, 2012 01:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm gonna be super original here and say Uranus.

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posted May 31, 2012 01:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for amowls**     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have Venus square Uranus and I boy jump.

eta: For clarification, what I mean is I am quick to get over a guy and start dating someone new once a relationship ends.

I also have Venus square Saturn so I do try to make failing relationships work but once he dumps me, on to the next one.

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posted May 31, 2012 02:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Rosalind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
ALL my planets except Mercury square Saturn and Uranus and I don't jump. Never flirted, never never. Maybe the fixed nature of my chart says all.

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posted May 31, 2012 03:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sunflower-moon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I almost dated a guy like this once. He would be so in love with one girl, and then be on to the next one and so in love with her within a couple days of breaking up. He could never just be alone. Also, I think every relationship he had been in lasted under 3 months.

His chart:
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I'm not advanced far enough in astrology to tell you what aspects to look for lol so I guess you can come up with your own ideas. I always assumed it stemmed from his Gemini Venus.

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posted May 31, 2012 03:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sunflower-moon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Woops, wrong link. http://tinypic.com/r/ieghg4/6

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posted May 31, 2012 03:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PhoenixFire     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmmm the ones I have known to do this were both Gemini Mars, Moon in Libra. Interesting.

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posted May 31, 2012 03:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for crissyx89     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by sunflower-moon:
I almost dated a guy like this once. He would be so in love with one girl, and then be on to the next one and so in love with her within a couple days of breaking up. He could never just be alone. Also, I think every relationship he had been in lasted under 3 months.

His chart:
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I'm not advanced far enough in astrology to tell you what aspects to look for lol so I guess you can come up with your own ideas. I always assumed it stemmed from his Gemini Venus.


I read in a book once that people with south node in 7th house,can have a hardtime maintaining one on one partnerships/romantic.Besides his Gemini Venus most of his planets are in fixed and cardinal signs which like/favor stability.

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posted May 31, 2012 04:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 5Gemini     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus Gemini in 5th House....

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Odette
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posted June 01, 2012 01:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
For men --- Afflicted Cancer planets maybe...

& Sometimes people with Pisces or Sagittarius placements can do this kind of thing as well..

I think it's rarer for other signs.. as far as I've seen in my own life.

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posted June 01, 2012 08:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is how I see a Player Chart.

1. Full 5th House
2. Pivotal House Rulers in the 5th such as Ruler of the 8th and 10th in the 5th.Ruler of the 5th in the 5th, too
3. Some tenderness aspect like Ceres conjunct Pholus, Ceres conj the ASC, a tender water ASC such as Cancer
4. Perhaps, a charm aspect like Moon trine Venus
5. Some dark edge like Nessus in a pivotal point.

Also, the person who is super attractive to one woman, does nothing for the next. The synastry has to line up.

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posted June 01, 2012 10:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RedScorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What I saw the "r/s" part of the title, I assumed that I was some how involved (RedScorp)...


Lol oops.

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posted June 01, 2012 11:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have 2 friends who are libra ascendants,one is a scorpio sun and the other is a leo,they are both the same way,they literally cannot stay single for a day,its almost pathetic.they always have a new girl immediately after and within a week they are telling me"Dusty, i think i have found the girl i want to marry, if we do i want you to be my best man." XD

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posted June 01, 2012 11:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Also slightly offtopic,but this topic reminded me of something. What kills me is how people like me and alot of others try to have only meaningful serious relationships but dont have much luck. And people will try to give you "helpful advice" and say well maybe your coming off as desperate. And im thinking really?!? Im the one who is coming off as desperate?!? Your the one who cant go a day without having a bf/gf, and ive been single for months and doing my own thing,but i am the desperate one,yea that makes perfect sense.

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posted June 01, 2012 12:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aquacheeka     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have four planets in the seventh house and I haven't been single since I was 18. When one ends I usually have another one two weeks later.

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posted June 01, 2012 01:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for IndigoDirae     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
I'm gonna be super original here and say Uranus.

Ha! Love that. I'll throw in Venus and Mars in Aquarius. I've got personal experience with that one. The 'sport sex' type; the kind to have a female best friend to whom he's closer than any of his sexual relationships. The preference for friendship over romance; when sex gets involved, the ideal is for friends-with-benefits over a committed relationship.

Not that it matters, but the one who I'm referencing here is also a double Sag with Eros and Psyche in Aquarius as well. He means no malice by it, either. It's just his way. Just the other day he told me about how he's distancing himself from the last one, because he found out she was engaged. I joked and said, 'But that's just your type!' His response, (cleaned up for PG-audiences) 'The lying kind, deceiving who's obviously been around a LOT longer than me? Uh, no.'

So, he's got standards. Those standards being pretty simple. You don't have to even have anything in common. Just enjoy the thrill of mindless sex, and don't be cheating on anybody while you're doing it.

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posted June 01, 2012 01:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for IndigoDirae     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by sunflower-moon:
I almost dated a guy like this once. He would be so in love with one girl, and then be on to the next one and so in love with her within a couple days of breaking up. He could never just be alone. Also, I think every relationship he had been in lasted under 3 months.

His chart:
<a href="http://tinypic.com?ref=ieghg4" target="_blank"><img src="http://i47.tinypic.com/ieghg4.gif" border="0" alt="Image and video hosting by TinyPic"></a>

I'm not advanced far enough in astrology to tell you what aspects to look for lol so I guess you can come up with your own ideas. I always assumed it stemmed from his Gemini Venus.


AHHH. No, the 'never can be alone' is a predominance of Libra, or an overactive Juno. These people have the NEED to share everything WITH another person. I'm sure other signs apply, but in general, that's what I've seen. Libra.

But ONLY if you're talking about serial COMMITMENT. That's a whole other ballgame from 'bed-hopping'.

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posted June 01, 2012 01:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Aquacheeka:
I have four planets in the seventh house and I haven't been single since I was 18. When one ends I usually have another one two weeks later.


Are your relationships usually long-term then? I find it so interesting that some people feel the need to constantly be in a relationship.

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posted June 01, 2012 01:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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AHHH. No, the 'never can be alone' is a predominance of Libra, or an overactive Juno. These people have the NEED to share everything WITH another person. I'm sure other signs apply, but in general, that's what I've seen. Libra.

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YES! Exactly. All the people I know who have some heavy Libra going on always need to share stuff, be it with friends or strangers. But they usually feel (super) incomplete without a partner.

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posted June 01, 2012 01:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for IndigoDirae     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
I have 2 friends who are libra ascendants,one is a scorpio sun and the other is a leo,they are both the same way,they literally cannot stay single for a day,its almost pathetic.they always have a new girl immediately after and within a week they are telling me"Dusty, i think i have found the girl i want to marry, if we do i want you to be my best man." XD

Cripes, I HATE that. One of my old friends was the same way. I kid you not, at least every other year, she was like, 'I've found him! I just know it! Will you be my maid of honour? Please, pleeeease?'

-eyeroll- It's sweet. It's endearing. The gesture. But ... Jesus. EVERY. Other. Year. Since high school!

Predominance of Libra with some Scorpio. Almost everything afflicted.

I was a seria monogamist for a long time. Since age 16, the longest I was unattached was for maybe 3 years - in college, and then, I was casually dating, while my best friend of that time kinda lived with me, kinda didn't. And we decided it was a good time (at 21) to ditch the virginity thing, so we became each other's first sexual relationship, (since I was NOT having relations with my casual 'boyfriends'). It oddly worked for me, though. Unfortunately, I did NOT see my best friend as boyfriend material, and when I found who would become my college fiance, the whole thing turned very sour, and would take years to sort out. The circumstances also led to my trying other relationship styles, like polyamoury. I wasn't old enough to really understand or be fully capable of it then, though, and considered it a failed experiment.

Returned to it almost a decade later, and have been really happy since. Off-topic'ish, but I'd say that those of us who've opted against serial monogamy, or like being what I called 'monogamish', have unusual Juno aspects, lots of Air, (probably Aquarius) or Uranus prominent (as I do). My mom was the same way for several years in her 30s, too. (Aquarius DSC, Venus in Libra conjunct Neptune, triple Leo. She could never be single; she always had multiple boyfriends. Always.)

One of my good friends - Taurus/Leo, Sag rising, (so, Gemini DSC, there ya go) Venus in Aries, Mars RIGHT on the edge of Aquarius, (29* Cap), Sun in the 5H with Eros-Amor-Saturn. High-end stylist out here in LA, ('stylist to the stars' type deal); she found one man recently who made her wonderfully happy the last 2 years, actually made a commitment, (first since I've known her) but due to circumstances beyond their control, there was no future in it; she's crushed, so is he. Now she's back to her usual, back on Match.com, with her 'no less than three at a time' rule. (If you have three, she says, one is always guaranteed to still be working - even if the other two have become drama.)

She's an interesting chica.

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posted June 01, 2012 01:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cappy1277     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I agree with the Libra concept of always being in a relationship Indigo Rae...I have seen people w/prominent Libra placements always having to be with someone & more in the "committed" realm. As for bed hoppers, Sagittarius especially the moon or Venus.

The funny thing about Venus Aquarius is the fact that we do have standards...lol. my relationships w/men have always been more or less the best of best friends w/benefits but once lying, deception etc come into play, it's hard to keep the same perspective of that person and then they are no longer the person we once knew. Its like they have morphed into a whole new person....

And now back to the subject @ hand...sorry off topic

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posted June 01, 2012 01:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ghanima81     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Moon and NN in 5th house/Leo. Pluto in Libra 7th. I'd say this is true for me.

I have gone for some stretches without a "real" partner, but it was VERY hard.

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posted June 01, 2012 02:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Delilah     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
A friend of mine has Venus square Saturn exact. His relationships can last a long time, but when he's ready to move on he'll already have someone before breaking up with his soon-to-be ex. It's a pattern with him. He'll date a woman for a little over a year, he'll stop mentioning her to friends and on fb, and before you know it he's with someone else.

Also, he doesn't like confrontation. He broke up with one of his ex-gfs through a message on fb and blocked her soon after. He's a great friend, but is horrible boyfriend material. Then again, he always goes for women who try to limit his freedom.

I'd say Venus square/opposite/conjunct Uranus would keep him from staying in a boring relationship. Once things have settled down he becomes bored or starts to worry that something's wrong/lacking so he goes off to find adventure elsewhere.

In short, either combinations could cause this except Saturn might cause the relationship to last long enough so that it can die a more honorable death and Uranus is out the door before the other person knows what hit them.

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posted June 01, 2012 02:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for IndigoDirae     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
What kills me is how people like me and alot of others try to have only meaningful serious relationships but dont have much luck. And people will try to give you "helpful advice" and say well maybe your coming off as desperate. And im thinking really?!? Im the one who is coming off as desperate?!? Your the one who cant go a day without having a bf/gf, and ive been single for months and doing my own thing,but i am the desperate one,yea that makes perfect sense.

I hate that, too. While I was on Boyfriend #5, my best friends were still on either Boyfriend #2, or never having had a relationship at all - the latter, I've known since we were 11. The former has never been desperate; she just does her own thing and enjoys being independent, while keeping private the longing ultra-romantic part of herself. This was a similar pattern for Best Friend #1, until she met would-be husband online and, five or so years later, he's moved from the Netherlands, they're married, and now, planning on kiddo dos. They're a real case of 'this was SO supposed to happen', though, even as we're all still somewhat ' ... eh,' about her choice. Dual Sun-Moon conjunctions; close. Cancer/Sag, Sag/Cancer. You can't argue with that, so, eh, I don't try anymore to these days.

But, somewhat ironically, while Sag/Cancer BF is a contentedly married mom, she's jonesing for a better sex life - which has been the vicinity of Independent Loner / Secret Romantic BF - who's been (safely!) having periodic sexcapades with low commitment, but lots of possibility. She WOULD make a commitment, except that she's been torch-bearing for a very long time for her twinflame, who I'm thisclose to virtually beating upside the head, but - this is neither here nor there, and another story for another time.

I'm still a firm believer in 'it'll happen when it's meant to' and 'when you're not looking for it, and you're doing your own thing, THAT's when it's going to come around' type adages. But likely because it's been true to me in my own life.

I wish I HAD NOT gotten involved with who turned out to be the sort of nightmarish abusive-on-every-level-you-can-imagine because of that college-fiance relationship breaking up. I get that I had a lesson tol earn, but THAT was a HARD lesson. I feel like I was mostly alone with another person for 4 years, and living in a warzone, where one false move could get my head blown off.

I really - REALLY - should have stayed single. I'm not sure how my life would've been different if I had. Every now and again, I have this 'Sliding Doors' moment, but I can never really know for sure, you know? I likely would have still met my husband, as the one whom we both know is the one I met during that particular period in time. I might've just skipped the BS and gone right to dating him YEARS ago. But then would we have moved out here to LA? Better still, if I hadn't gone through everything I did, lost the things I had, been in the state I was, would I have ever met my twinflame?

In that case, I have to agree that all of it was worth it. But still - you have to wonder. Just how much you MIGHT have been able to avoid, if you'd just sucked it up and kept your own counsel for awhile longer.

In that sense, I admire my occasional sexcapading / largely loner BF. She's focussed on building herself. Being the kind of person she wants to be, and having the life she wants, without a man having to be in the equation at all. That's what I tell people we should ALL be capable of doing before we settle down and build a life with another person.

I think it's THE lesson of those of us with Libra strong. Especially if there's some SNode / 12H involvement. We must learn independence first. In my experience, having that of which you can be proud, talents which are yours alone, abilities and skills, things which CAN'T be taken from you, is the best safeguard against some of the more terrible psychological maladies. We develop these things on our own - usually. And, if we don't, THAT's when we THEN need the guidance and support of someone else who can become that safe base for us and allow us to continue the process.

I think those relationships, with companion souls, those particular soul contracts will be absolutely visible in the chart and synastries. Lots of Saturn. Of course, until the Saturn person is willing to understand and pick up the burden, it's going to be a VERY rough relationship. Many of us will probably decide it's not even worth it, and further a pattern of non-committal, never-getting-too-involved, or just intense, powerful relationship which ends in tears, going onto the next before they've even had a chance to dry.

You'll expect to see lunar stuff, 7H stuff, Uranian signatures, Saturn afflictions, prominence of Juno, and, given the karmic flavour, some SNode, 12H/12HR stuff. Signs I see predominating - axes, namely - are Libra/Aries, (independence / commitment), Gemini/Sagittarius, (networking / noncommittal), Leo/Aquarius (romance / friendship), and Taurus/Scorpio (self-indulgence / obsessive-sexuality).

Just to name VERY few off the top of my head.

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posted June 01, 2012 02:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Alma Sun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm guessing maybe strong Venus/Libra, or SN in 7th?


I know a Taurus man just like that. Jumps from one relationship to the next. He would be in complete agony after a breakup but would end up with a new girlfriend in a week or two. Lost touch with the guy, all I remember of his birthday is around early May, 1976.

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