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Topic: " Tough to be me! " Signed, the zodiac
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Desiring Shadows
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posted June 06, 2012 12:27 AM
  
Which signs,placements,aspects,etc, complain that its tough to be them, and for what reasons?
You may list a personal inadequacy of each sign basing off the personality it is. How it may suffer as a result. You may list a scenario. You decide in regards to what, etc.. --
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Desiring Shadows
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posted June 06, 2012 03:13 AM
Libra cries "tough to be me" when their pleasing nature is faced with a crowd of friends who each long for a different response from the Libra star sign. Libra,attentive to the sensititives of peoples desires, understands this-- but feels overwhelmed from the inability to fulfill every ones wishes.IP: Logged |
naturalbeige
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posted June 06, 2012 03:26 AM
A chart lacking Air Signs (Aquarius, Libra, Gemini)-- With me being heavy in Capricorn and Scorpio I sometimes find myself working too hard, and taking life way too seriously.IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted June 06, 2012 10:21 PM
Us aquas have it rough in a way because we are always/ or atleast try to be our authentic selves and face rejection or ridicule for it. Whereas most people go with the crowd and aren't true to themselves.IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted June 07, 2012 11:12 AM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Us aquas have it rough in a way because we are always/ or atleast try to be our authentic selves and face rejection or ridicule for it. Whereas most people go with the crowd and aren't true to themselves.
Aquas are themselves but in a "cool" way.
I feel that they're eccentric, but in a way that still follows the crowd. If you want to meet someone who gets shunned for being themselves and being weird look at Scorpio, maybe. Or Pisces O_o... oo you're a hippie who doesn't want to buy a car? What's wrong with you? lol ------------------
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RunAroundScreaming
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posted June 07, 2012 11:15 AM
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Originally posted by Desiring Shadows:
Libra cries "tough to be me" when their pleasing nature is faced with a crowd of friends who each long for a different response from the Libra star sign. Libra,attentive to the sensititives of peoples desires, understands this-- but feels overwhelmed from the inability to fulfill every ones wishes.
Can you pretty please explain this? I'm not completely sure what you mean. Why do the friends want a different response from the libra? ------------------
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hannaramaa
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posted June 07, 2012 02:34 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Us aquas have it rough in a way because we are always/ or atleast try to be our authentic selves and face rejection or ridicule for it. Whereas most people go with the crowd and aren't true to themselves.
You say that...
But I see Aquas as kind of people-pleasers. To an extent. A lot of Aquas I know acquiesce, or they seem to say what they think people want to hear, which is odd to me. Anyway, if anyone else has also experienced them like that then yes, I'm sure it is tough to be them. As for me - I think it's tough to be an earth sign. I was going to say Virgo specifically but it lead me to thinking about Capricorn and Taurus people I know, and they also have high anxiety. I think Earth signs process their emotions so slowly that they don't realize when they're about to hit their limit. It just builds (because that's what Cap specifically does right? Rules "structures." Hmm. Interesting.) until they can't handle it anymore, and they end up burning out. They just seemed stressed all the time. IP: Logged |
vickymadness
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posted June 07, 2012 02:47 PM
it's tough to be an aries in two cases:
when you are in a team and everyone is counting on you ... it gets more complicated in business when you're engaged in more than one team work for different purposes and you are the leader of them all , the stress is just unbearable ( I experienced that )
another thing is when people think that you are emotionless and insensitive and they just overlook your inner vulnerabilities only because of your tough outer shell ... and it gets lonely since no one really understands the battles going under the surface  IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted June 07, 2012 04:20 PM
aww vickymadness...
hannarama i totally agree about aquas. And I do agree its hard to be an earth sign 
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aquaguy91
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posted June 07, 2012 07:40 PM
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Aquas are themselves but in a "cool" way.
I feel that they're eccentric, but in a way that still follows the crowd.
If you want to meet someone who gets shunned for being themselves and being weird look at Scorpio, maybe. Or Pisces O_o... oo you're a hippie who doesn't want to buy a car? What's wrong with you? lol
Uh maybe the aquas you are thinking of have something else or maybe my experience is somewhat related to having sun in the twelfth house, but i have faced lots of disapproval for being myself. I sometimes feel like the only individual living amongst a hive mind lol. So most of the time i dont share my personality or my ideas with others, and get labeled as anti-social or awkward and even worse, i have been called "slow" one guy said "you dont have a whole lot to say,are you stupid or something? I think he proved the verse in proverbs true "better to not say anything and be thought a fool than to open your mouth and have it proven." XD
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CosmicKarma360
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posted June 07, 2012 07:58 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Uh maybe the aquas you are thinking of have something else or maybe my experience is somewhat related to having sun in the twelfth house, but i have faced lots of disapproval for being myself. I sometimes feel like the only individual living amongst a hive mind lol. So most of the time i dont share my personality or my ideas with others, and get labeled as anti-social or awkward and even worse, i have been called "slow" one guy said "you dont have a whole lot to say,are you stupid or something? I think he proved the verse in proverbs true "better to not say anything and be thought a fool than to open your mouth and have it proven." XD
Hey aquaguy91 Yeah, I'm with you. Might be a 12th house/n.Sun thing. I've got that, and I've gone through what you described. Someone once told me that people assume I know nothing, because I don't say anything in a crowd of people. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted June 07, 2012 08:49 PM
Aquaguy, what you mentioned has nothing to do with being an aqua. And you shouldnt care what people think ------------------
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aquaguy91
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posted June 07, 2012 09:10 PM
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Aquaguy, what you mentioned has nothing to do with being an aqua. And you shouldnt care what people think
Yea it does, being seen as weird, having a different sense of humor,having ideas that put you at odds with the crowd is very aqua.IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted June 07, 2012 09:22 PM
I know so many aquas they all have tons of friends and find it very easy to make friends everywhere they go. Aquarius is the sign of friendships and groups..of being friends with everyone and loving everyone equally. They treat everyone like their best friend, but dont get too close to anyone, and that's what they mean by aquarius are loners. But not that they have no friends or anything. Quite the opposite, they are friends with everyone but just dont let anyone in too close.Aquarius is an air sign. All air signs are social and gregarious and find it easy to make friends unless they have other aspects in their chart that would make that difficult. For example, your sun in the 12th might be one of those things that makes it difficult for you. ------------------
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aquaguy91
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posted June 07, 2012 09:58 PM
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
I know so many aquas they all have tons of friends and find it very easy to make friends everywhere they go. Aquarius is the sign of friendships and groups..of being friends with everyone and loving everyone equally. They treat everyone like their best friend, but dont get too close to anyone, and that's what they mean by aquarius are loners. But not that they have no friends or anything. Quite the opposite, they are friends with everyone but just dont let anyone in too close.
Aquarius is an air sign. All air signs are social and gregarious and find it easy to make friends unless they have other aspects in their chart that would make that difficult. For example, your sun in the 12th might be one of those things that makes it difficult for you.
You are explaining addition and subtraction to a mathmatician, its not that i dont have lots of friends i do, but as you said,very few are close, alot of people like me until i have a viewpoint or idea that they dont like than kind of shun me.IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted June 07, 2012 10:04 PM
oh lol okay. woops.------------------
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Lioness
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posted June 07, 2012 11:47 PM
I have to say for me.. Saturn conjunct the IC... It was just a tough child hood.. Dont really want to get into the details. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted June 08, 2012 03:16 AM
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Originally posted by vickymadness:
another thing is when people think that you are emotionless and insensitive and they just overlook your inner vulnerabilities only because of your tough outer shell ... and it gets lonely since no one really understands the battles going under the surface
As an Aries, I concur! Or they don't understand the severity of our emotions.
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hannaramaa
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posted June 08, 2012 03:27 AM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
You are explaining addition and subtraction to a mathmatician, its not that i dont have lots of friends i do, but as you said,very few are close, alot of people like me until i have a viewpoint or idea that they dont like than kind of shun me.
I wonder if you feel shunned because most people do not like debate, and often shy away from it because they take Aquarius' enthusiasm for arrogance and are put off by it.
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Desiring Shadows
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posted June 10, 2012 04:33 PM
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Can you pretty please explain this? I'm not completely sure what you mean. Why do the friends want a different response from the libra?
THAT PLEASE IS PRETTYYYYY 
Lol don't post one, just question me! 
It was an example. To elucidate this matter Libras cultivate their better traits to the public because of their inner desires to be liked always.IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted June 10, 2012 11:22 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I wonder if you feel shunned because most people do not like debate, and often shy away from it because they take Aquarius' enthusiasm for arrogance and are put off by it.
Maybe a little. Most of my trouble results from my sense of humor, alot of people just dont get it or take it seriously or think im screwed up. A few people think i am hilarious.IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted June 10, 2012 11:44 PM
It's not really that tough to be an Aries. You get to say and do whatever you want, and get away with it really.IP: Logged |
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