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Topic: Do You Get Along With Men or Woman More?
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FireMoon
Knowflake Posts: 136
From: Minnesota
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted June 08, 2012 04:53 PM
  
I have Sun conjunct Saturn and Neptune, sextile Pluto, and trine Mars.Moon trine Jupiter, sextile Venus, opposite Mars I also have Venus opposite Jupiter which I’ve read can indicate troubles with being comfortable with and relating to the femininity in yourself and others.. I guess I have mixed feelings about this as well… I honestly find it easier/more comfortable to trust and relate to guys AT FIRST, so it takes longer for me to let my guard down around girls, but overall I definitely have more close friends that are girls. I know both genders make shallow judgments based on appearance etc, but I guess I’m more wary around girls at first because there’s just more at stake if you mistakingly become close with someone who will end up stabbing you in the back because they see you as competition, as opposed to guys who will just decide whether or not they want to try to sleep with you lol. Another reason most of my close guy friends have been gay… quote:
Originally posted by aquaguy91:
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I find it odd and interesting how people all have different experiences in regards to how they relate to men/women, and how men/women respond to them. Some of my friends have very good rhaport with women, but yet their female friends all hate me (yea thats what they say) even though they think the sun and moon sets in my friends ***** ,and the weird thing is me and my friends are alot alike,have same interest,basic temperment etc. women in general are very hateful towards me. One of my best friends since elementary school was engaged to a girl who hated my guts, even though i never said or did anything bad towards her,on the contrary i was very kind towards her. But she said"i hope you die in a car wreck!" but again she had no problem with the other friends ,but hated me,even though im alot like them. [/B][/QUOTE] I'm sorry this has been your experience with women aquaguy  . I hope you start meeting more genuine/trustworthy girls... IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 2604
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted June 08, 2012 05:20 PM
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Originally posted by FireMoon:
I have Sun conjunct Saturn and Neptune, sextile Pluto, and trine Mars.
Moon trine Jupiter, sextile Venus, opposite Mars
I also have Venus opposite Jupiter which I?ve read can indicate troubles with being comfortable with and relating to the femininity in yourself and others..
I guess I have mixed feelings about this as well? I honestly find it easier/more comfortable to trust and relate to guys AT FIRST, so it takes longer for me to let my guard down around girls, but overall I definitely have more close friends that are girls. I know both genders make shallow judgments based on appearance etc, but I guess I?m more wary around girls at first because there?s just more at stake if you mistakingly become close with someone who will end up stabbing you in the back because they see you as competition, as opposed to guys who will just decide whether or not they want to try to sleep with you lol. Another reason most of my close guy friends have been gay? I'm sorry this has been your experience with women aquaguy . I hope you start meeting more genuine/trustworthy girls...
Ah dont be sorry lol,it is what it is. I have gotten to the point where i dont care, if some people dont like me they can just kiss my ass  IP: Logged |
ail221
Knowflake Posts: 275
From: Mary Margaret Blanchard's home
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted June 08, 2012 05:56 PM
Sun square Mars, semi-sextile Venus, conjunct Jupiter, opposite Saturn, conjunct Chiron. Moon semi-sextile Mars.Personally I am more comfortable around women in general(i.e. I have a very matriarchal family). But at the same time I do have more conflict with women than men probably because of the Moon conjunct Sun. Most men find me to be a contradiction; outwardly I appear passive and calm but once they get to know me I am more dominate than they originally expected, either they love it or hate perhaps its my Sun square Mars. IP: Logged |
Odette
Knowflake Posts: 526
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Registered: May 2012
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posted June 08, 2012 06:25 PM
I'm the same with both. I only care about personality.
pee pee or va jay jay... makes no difference in how I get along with someone
Venus trine Mars! IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 32987
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 08, 2012 06:34 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by FireMoon:
[b]I have Sun conjunct Saturn and Neptune, sextile Pluto, and trine Mars.
Moon trine Jupiter, sextile Venus, opposite Mars
I also have Venus opposite Jupiter which I?ve read can indicate troubles with being comfortable with and relating to the femininity in yourself and others..
I guess I have mixed feelings about this as well? I honestly find it easier/more comfortable to trust and relate to guys AT FIRST, so it takes longer for me to let my guard down around girls, but overall I definitely have more close friends that are girls. I know both genders make shallow judgments based on appearance etc, but I guess I?m more wary around girls at first because there?s just more at stake if you mistakingly become close with someone who will end up stabbing you in the back because they see you as competition, as opposed to guys who will just decide whether or not they want to try to sleep with you lol. Another reason most of my close guy friends have been gay? I'm sorry this has been your experience with women aquaguy . I hope you start meeting more genuine/trustworthy girls...
Ah dont be sorry lol,it is what it is. I have gotten to the point where i dont care, if some people dont like me they can just kiss my ass [/B][/QUOTE]
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RedScorp
Knowflake Posts: 2308
From: The Capitol
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted June 08, 2012 07:54 PM
Women definitely. Ever since I was just a boy, I was always a charmer. I don't know why, but I generally get along and relate better with females. With men, it's just kinda different. It's not as though I do not trust them or anything...but they don't trust me.  Uhhm...Sun square Mars, widely conjunct Venus and Jupiter...Moon conjunct Uranus-Neptune sextile Jupiter. IP: Logged |
Gem-Gurl
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From: Los Angeles, CA
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted June 08, 2012 08:09 PM
I am female and i just get along with guys better. I always have!! I just get them, the way they think..... girls, i mean, i get along with them well enough. But, sometimes i feel uncomfy, like im suppressing myself? There are a quite a few girls im perfectly fine with though!!! *sun trine jupiter
*sun square saturn *moon in opposition with both uranus and neptune
*moon trine pluto ------------------
Gemini Sun
Scorpio Rising
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hannaramaa
Knowflake Posts: 1470
From:
Registered: Nov 2011
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posted June 08, 2012 08:16 PM
I find it easier to befriend women than men, but I like socializing with guys better. My moon is wonderfully aspected with the exception of it's opposition to Pluto, but my Sun and Venus are squared Saturn and Neptune. So really, it extends beyond guys and to people in general although women do trust me. I'm beginning to realize they're not as loyal as they used to be though.IP: Logged |
scorpy_oh
Newflake Posts: 13
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Registered: May 2012
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posted June 09, 2012 12:20 AM
i tend to scare off both sexes, but if i had to choose, it would be women. they just seem drawn to me, but my guard is usually up around them as i've learned from experience how clever they can be. i don't take too kindly to people who try and become my friends for the sole reason of getting with me or to find out information about my sexual/romantic life.men are a different story. i would like to make more guy friends (out of my entire life, i've only made 1) but it just doesn't seem to happen. i don't know what it is. my sun, moon, mars in scorpio are separated by 1-2 degrees and are conjunct pluto. all of these planets square my midheaven. pluto opposes my Taurus ascendant while my venus trines my asc by 1 degree. IP: Logged |
Lazyscarecrow
Knowflake Posts: 145
From: En Cee
Registered: Aug 2011
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posted June 09, 2012 01:37 AM
I get along with both, and have problems with both.With women, I also relate to what Gem-Gurl said. I feel like I have to repress parts of my personality around them. But back-stabbing and stuff...I never had that problem with women. Jealousy sure, but never betrayal. *knock on wood* With guys, ehhh...I get along with them well enough but I think sometimes I have had that problem where they are more interested in me than the friendship. So I tend to have more women friends. But the guy friends I do have, I appreciate and can be myself around. Sun square moon.
Sun sextile mars.
Sun quindeciles Saturn/Uranus/Neptune, but my Moon only trines my node. IP: Logged |
lilithpluto
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From: pluto
Registered: Dec 2011
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posted June 09, 2012 02:26 AM
I get along with men better if you consider telling sharing deep dark secrets. I have many close female friends but there are things I won't share with them. No harsh aspects to sun nor moon, I think. IP: Logged |
Jim
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Registered: Nov 2011
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posted June 09, 2012 03:25 AM
I have always got along better with woman like you can chitchat and joke around , i have few male friends but im kinda close to them , so yeah i get much more along with femalesMy moon is in aquarius some of its aspects are (Leo)Sun opposite Moon orb -3°20'
Moon square Jupiter(Scorpio) orb -2°02'
Moon sextile Midheaven(Scorpio)at very cusp orb +3°24'
Moon conjunction Uranus(Capricorn) orb +9°15 IP: Logged |
popcorn
Knowflake Posts: 2788
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Registered: Aug 2009
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posted June 09, 2012 03:54 AM
I get along with both men and women in the reality. Ive moon,venus,NN, mars in house 11. I like to talk to men more. On LL im not sure anyone get along with me, LOLAC conj sun sextile moon
AC/sun trine MC
Sun parallel AC exactly
SUN PARALLEL VENUS 0-1
Sun parallel jupiter 0-1 moon sextile AC conj Sun
moon square mercury conj uran conj pluto
moon square saturn
moon sextile MC
moon conj 8 asteriod
moon trine destinn conj psyche conj angel conj DC moon parallel pluto exactly
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SoStellarOne
Newflake Posts: 12
From: Charleston,SC, US
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted June 09, 2012 08:47 AM
I'm a guy, but I definitely get along with women alot better than I do with other men. I'm a Pisces male, I'm in touch with my emotions and I express them articulatley all the time. Women love this about me, but some men are not comfortable with that and on top of that, I'm very handsome. So that double whammy makes insecure guys run for the hills when I'm around because they will begin to question themselves. (It's happened many times.) The only time that I could get along with a guy is if he's confident in himself and has a strong sense of who he is, that's it. Other than that? He will struggle with the glamour. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 32987
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 09, 2012 08:58 AM
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Originally posted by SoStellarOne:
I'm a guy, but I definitely get along with women alot better than I do with other men. I'm a Pisces male, I'm in touch with my emotions and I express them articulatley all the time. Women love this about me, but some men are not comfortable with that and on top of that, I'm very handsome. So that double whammy makes insecure guys run for the hills when I'm around because they will begin to question themselves. (It's happened many times.) The only time that I could get along with a guy is if he's confident in himself and has a strong sense of who he is, that's it. Other than that? He will struggle with the glamour.
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SoStellarOne
Newflake Posts: 12
From: Charleston,SC, US
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted June 09, 2012 09:46 AM
Ami Anne,
Sure, no problem. I know my placements from the tope of my head:*Aries Ascendant
*Pisces Sun
*Pisces Moon
*Aquarius Mercury
*Pisces Venus
*Pisces Mars
*Libra Jupiter
*Libra Saturn
*Sagittarius Uranus
*Sagittarius Neptune
*Libra Pluto SoStellarOne IP: Logged |
SoStellarOne
Newflake Posts: 12
From: Charleston,SC, US
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted June 09, 2012 09:48 AM
Ami Anne,
Sure, no problem. I know my placements from the tope of my head:*Aries Ascendant
*Pisces Sun
*Pisces Moon
*Aquarius Mercury
*Pisces Venus
*Pisces Mars
*Libra Jupiter
*Libra Saturn
*Sagittarius Uranus
*Sagittarius Neptune
*Libra Pluto SoStellarOne IP: Logged |
SoStellarOne
Newflake Posts: 12
From: Charleston,SC, US
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted June 09, 2012 09:48 AM
Ami Anne,
Sure, no problem. I know my placements from the tope of my head:*Aries Ascendant
*Pisces Sun
*Pisces Moon
*Aquarius Mercury
*Pisces Venus
*Pisces Mars
*Libra Jupiter
*Libra Saturn
*Sagittarius Uranus
*Sagittarius Neptune
*Libra Pluto SoStellarOne IP: Logged |
vickymadness
Knowflake Posts: 270
From: Minnesota
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted June 09, 2012 11:19 AM
I get along more with men ... I've always enjoyed their company.
Even sometimes women don get my sense of humor the way men do...
I have moon conjunct mars, and then mars squaring my sun. Sun in aries
Aqua AC as well make me extra friendly and ease the interaction with the opposite gender.I would like to say that my energy level is at its best when I'm surrounded or talking with guys However I have to encounter some sort of awkwardness in the beginning, because based on my outer appearance guys are either intimidated by me, feel uncomfortable/ nervous around me or view me as a goddess that's hard to approach. So I have to talk to them first. Another thing, most of my friendships with guys failed because they either wanted more, or the relationship is being in and out of infatuation... or they start to get detached out of no reason and I don't know what aspects always play that out IP: Logged |
MillyX
Knowflake Posts: 87
From: canada
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted June 09, 2012 03:30 PM
I get along better with women. All of my friends are girls, never really had a guy friend. The only guy friends I had were gay guys. I'm really awkward around guys, I never had a father figure or brother in my life. My sun sextiles my moon. [Don't know what it means not really good with aspects]. I also have sun conjunct mars & sextile saturn.
My moon has plenty of aspects, it sextiles my mars & squares pluto. & plenty more aspects that are too long to list. IP: Logged |
IndigoDirae
Knowflake Posts: 407
From: Venice, California, US
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted June 09, 2012 04:29 PM
It's not just a lunar / solar thing. Venus and Mars play a factor, as well as Mercury aspects, whether our charts are naturally more 'feminine' (receptive) or 'masculine' (projective), and so on. Progressions affect this, too.As a young girl, I had many 'boyfriends' (ha, ha) and a handful of girl-friends, too. As I got older, that energy settled down into attracting a coterie of male friends, but fewer girl-friends, with whom the bonds were super-close; sisterly. To emphasise this, my best friend and creative partner (of seven years now) is a guy. I had two bridesmaids at my wedding, both of whom have been my super-close 'soul-sisters' for over a decade. I also had two 'groomsmaids' - one of my best friends from elementary, and my 'soul-brother' and creative collaborator. (The other two, one I've been buds with since we were in preschool, and my ex-partner with whom I've remained very close - were unable to make it.) And that's just super-close inner circle. It's balanced out slowly over time, but for several years it was always a ratio of 2 to 1, with men predominating my social circle. I was also always - ALWAYS - best friends with a guy before I'd even consider dating him; so all of my exes (save for ... two) have remained my close friends. Nowadays, it's a crap-shoot. If I take a cursory browse over my text messages ... best friend / costar (M), close friend / costar (M), good friend (M), niece (F, obviously), close friend (F), soul-sister (F), soul-sister (F), close friend (M), new friend / costar (M), soul-brother (M), groomsmaid (M), good friend, (M). So ... 7 men, 4 women. Eh. Looks like dudes are still in the lead. -shrug- I'm not a very feminine female. Something of a tomboy, not at all 'butch', and still VERY clearly FEMALE. Hard to describe. I don't think like a chick. Never have. I find dramatic emotional displays to be off-putting and silly - and inwardly b*tchslap myself whenever I engage in one, which is only if I'm pushed to a point of extreme stress. This is probably why I have very little patience for the more 'girly' women, and tend to grok men more. As for my chart, I've got a pretty even balance of elements and modes overall, with my major points being Libra X3 (A/P), Scorpio X3 (W/R) Virgo X3 (E/R) and Sagittarius X2 (F/P). There's a lot of Fire inside of the Earth placements, and Air in the Water. It seems to balance the Receptive / Projective energy. Maybe this is why, as I've gotten older, I've gained more female friends than I used to. I'm better integrating. -A.
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starfox
Moderator Posts: 845
From: London England
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted June 09, 2012 05:09 PM
Just about equally the same, though with some women its a problem for me as being friendly with them makes then think I want to bed them when its not the case & I am just being FRIENDLY IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted June 09, 2012 05:18 PM
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lemonkitty
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Registered: May 2012
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posted June 09, 2012 06:37 PM
Women. I think it's because my virgo moon. I don't know. I just feel more comfortable around women. >_<IP: Logged | |
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