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Topic: Do You Get Along With Men or Woman More?
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Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted June 08, 2012 11:19 AM
  
How does this relate to your Sun( men) and Moon(woman)? Please, talk about your Sun and Moon and how they are aspected, in particular.
Thanks! I will put on mine. My Sun is very nicely aspected. It has no stress features. My moon is not. It has many painful features. I have much more of an inherent trust of men.Was just thinking about this, today, as I have many wonderful female friends but my guard is up around woman as I am afraid they are going to hurt me. I don't feel this way about men. The charts explain everything imho ------------------
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Milkyshutter
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posted June 08, 2012 11:25 AM
I don't have an aspect between my sun and moon. I'm a male, however, I can easily have female friends around me. My chart points that I am very feminine. Some noticeable aspect is that, I have sun conjunct venus. My moon conjuncting my ascandant trines Neptune, and oppose Pluto.AFAIK, venus and neptune are considered most feminine planets. I think because of my Pluto, I usually push females away down the road, if I feel too exposed. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted June 08, 2012 11:35 AM
What is AFIAK? lol------------------
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Milkyshutter
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posted June 08, 2012 11:39 AM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
What is AFIAK? lol
As far as I know...you seriously don't know? IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted June 08, 2012 12:03 PM
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Originally posted by Milkyshutter:
As far as I know...you seriously don't know?
No. Now I do lol
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ueharaa
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posted June 08, 2012 12:03 PM
this is very interesting to link this with the sun and moon placements, aspects.I have way more female friends than male friends. I tend to be more comfortable around girls in general, and it's very easy for me to be friends with women. However though I do get on well with men it takes me way more time to warm up to them and very few of them are my "friends", they're mostly buddies.
I guess it comes from the fact that I feel very self conscious of my femininity around most men because I know I don't fit in any girly stereotype.
But at the same time I am more wary of women than men. To me women are more likely to stab me in the back and I don't really trust them (except the ones I hold dear) I also dislike how some can have the nasty habit to talk behind the back and say really mean things and then act all "hey sweetie!". And I appreciate how men don't create unnecessary drama. My moon conjunct mercury and descendant in the 7th house. I also have venus in the 7th.
My sun conjuncts uranus, neptune and saturn and opposites jupiter.
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extant_pisces
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From: Chicago, IL
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted June 08, 2012 12:08 PM
Whoa, Ami, looks like I'm about to add another contradictory experience! Perhaps you can shed some light on it. My Sun is well-aspected, and my Moon is pretty stressfully aspected. I have almost always had exclusively female friends. I have a few male friends who I get along with well, but things never seem to gel for very long. It is exceedingly difficult to "get close" and communicate with them when I feel vulnerable in any way. I just don't trust the outcome. Women, however, are easy for me to reach out to. *Sun in Pisces conjunct Uranus in Sagittarius - 8D45 *Sun in Pisces trine Pluto in Scorpio - 6D14 *Moon in Gemini opposite Uranus in Sagittarius - 7D34 *Moon in Gemini opposite Neptune in Capricorn - 6D43 IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted June 08, 2012 12:08 PM
Men definitely, i have sun trine mars. I always get along with the guys but women are another story. I have moon square venus,and moon opposite pluto, as you said i always have my guard up around them and feel like i cant trust them, that feeling usually turns out to be right.  IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted June 08, 2012 12:08 PM
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Originally posted by ueharaa:
this is very interesting to link this with the sun and moon placements, aspects.I have way more female friends than male friends. I tend to be more comfortable around girls in general, and it's very easy for me to be friends with women. However though I do get on well with men it takes me way more time to warm up to them and very few of them are my "friends", they're mostly buddies.
I guess it comes from the fact that I feel very self conscious of my femininity around most men because I know I don't fit in any girly stereotype.
But at the same time I am more wary of women than men. To me women are more likely to stab me in the back and I don't really trust them (except the ones I hold dear) I also dislike how some can have the nasty habit to talk behind the back and say really mean things and then act all "hey sweetie!". And I appreciate how men don't create unnecessary drama. My moon conjunct mercury and descendant in the 7th house. I also have venus in the 7th.
My sun conjuncts uranus, neptune and saturn and opposites jupiter.
Yes, the answers will show up in the charts, always but from what you have said, it doesn't seem to with these particular aspects. Does your moon have any asteroids conjunct it like Medusa?
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ueharaa
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posted June 08, 2012 12:16 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Yes, the answers will show up in the charts, always but from what you have said, it doesn't seem to with these particular aspects. Does your moon have any asteroids conjunct it like Medusa?
I was thinking that maybe both moon and venus in the 7th was one of the reason.
I just checked for the asteroid medusa and it doesn't conjunct my moon. My moon is at 26° capricorn. There are no asteroids that I'm aware of that conjuncts it (but I haven't checked a lot of them) IP: Logged |
sweet-scorpion
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From: PA, USA
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted June 08, 2012 12:18 PM
I get along better MOST of the time, with women. I am extremely lunar, but I am not very feminine in personality. Despite this, I am quite empathetic and can be emotional at my core. I can relate and deal with women with more ease, even though at times female relationships can be very painful depending on the circumstance - Moon conjunct Chiron. I have ZERO aspects to my Sun, growing up I felt I had to be my own authority figure and strength. No dad around, and I've always had a very strange suspicion and lack of trust in a lot of men. I'm not a man hater and believe in equality for all, but I rally for women's rights and feel that many men I have met have been failures. I feel women should be strong and self-reliant, maybe from my own experiences. I wonder if my peregrine Sun is what has made me feel like I have had to 'battle' with men over the years... or maybe retrograde Saturn. I hate when men try to talk over me, condescend to me based on my sex, but not just a little - I become extremely enraged, when a man treats me like I am a delicate weak object. I also have Sun quintile Mars in Cancer, which seems to just add to this. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted June 08, 2012 12:24 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Men definitely, i have sun trine mars. I always get along with the guys but women are another story. I have moon square venus,and moon opposite pluto, as you said i always have my guard up around them and feel like i cant trust them, that feeling usually turns out to be right.
LOL
Makes sense---moon aspect -wise though. I will share my aspects in a bit. I have great ones with Sun. I am so much more relaxed around men. ------------------
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Ami Anne
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posted June 08, 2012 12:31 PM
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Originally posted by ueharaa:
I was thinking that maybe both moon and venus in the 7th was one of the reason.
I just checked for the asteroid medusa and it doesn't conjunct my moon. My moon is at 26° capricorn. There are no asteroids that I'm aware of that conjuncts it (but I haven't checked a lot of them)
How about check Nemesis, Dejanira and Sedna.
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doommlord
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Registered: Dec 2011
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posted June 08, 2012 12:31 PM
always got along with women more most of the men i met seemed childish to me but maybe its the cap asc talking XD sun in libra 9th house square moon+uranus+neptune moon in leo 7th house
trine mars +pluto (strongest planets)
opposits neptune and uranus
square sun
sextile mercury IP: Logged |
inthemisosoup
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posted June 08, 2012 12:32 PM
I have Sun square moon and both planets are afflicted. I get along well with both genders. I take each person on an individual basis. Gender makes absolutely no difference to me. I am a jealous person (Venus conjunct Pluto in Scorpio), so I do feel more *threatened* by women with regards to my boyfriend. But in general gender doesn't faze me in terms of how I will get along with someone.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted June 08, 2012 12:38 PM
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Originally posted by doommlord:
always got along with women more most of the men i met seemed childish to me but maybe its the cap asc talking XD sun in libra 9th house square moon+uranus+neptune moon in leo 7th house
trine mars +pluto (strongest planets)
opposits neptune and uranus
square sun
sextile mercury
Yes DL, you seem very comfy to me, as a man who gets along with woman. Where is your picture  ------------------
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ueharaa
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posted June 08, 2012 12:44 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
How about check Nemesis, Dejanira and Sedna.
so Dejanira and Nemesis conjunct my sun (O° orb and 3° orb respectively) while Sedna trines my sun and square my venus (2-3° orb)
I have a very wide out of sign moon venus conjunction (9-10) orb) I'm mentioning this though I have no idea if that might explain something.. IP: Logged |
vertiver
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From: Firey Jupiter
Registered: May 2009
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posted June 08, 2012 12:56 PM
Women for sure. I think its my Pisces Moon, I connect better with women. I get along with men easily and have male friends, but overall its easier for me to talk to a woman. My Moon only has one harsh aspect - a square to Jupiter. And my Sun (Leo) and Moon (Pisces) are quincunx. They're at odds with each other at times. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted June 08, 2012 01:23 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
LOL
Makes sense---moon aspect -wise though. I will share my aspects in a bit. I have great ones with Sun. I am so much more relaxed around men.
I find it odd and interesting how people all have different experiences in regards to how they relate to men/women, and how men/women respond to them. Some of my friends have very good rhaport with women, but yet their female friends all hate me (yea thats what they say) even though they think the sun and moon sets in my friends ***** ,and the weird thing is me and my friends are alot alike,have same interest,basic temperment etc. women in general are very hateful towards me. One of my best friends since elementary school was engaged to a girl who hated my guts, even though i never said or did anything bad towards her,on the contrary i was very kind towards her. But she said"i hope you die in a car wreck!" but again she had no problem with the other friends ,but hated me,even though im alot like them. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted June 08, 2012 01:27 PM
Aquaguy, find out the sun and moon aspects of these friends. It would be interesting to add them to the mix!------------------
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Ami Anne
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posted June 08, 2012 01:39 PM
What is interesting about this topic( as well as every other in Astrology) is how your blueprint is there when you take your first breath, as a little baby.------------------
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starzy54
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posted June 08, 2012 03:14 PM
I have a sun square moon and moon square mercury.i can't seem to be comfortable with male friends.i have tried and it always gets awkward and the guy starts having feelings.maybe I haven't met the right male yet that I can be just friends with.All my close friends are women. My parter on the other hand has no sun or moon connections and he has about a 50 50 ratio of male and female friends.i am sometimes feel uncomfortable about that,but maybe it's because I personally find it hard to be friends with the opposite gender .he doesn't have that problem though.he treats female friends almost like guys.they sometimes call him a jerk since he doesn't treat them any more special than he would a male friend lol. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted June 08, 2012 03:18 PM
Honestly, I don't really know.
It depends.
I know a lot more women than men, but that doesn't mean that I trust them more.
I like women a lot, and I'd say I like them "better" than men, but still there is a mistrust that's hard to shake.
I am quite distrustful of both genders, and I think it doesn't really have anything to do with gender at all. Just my natural inclination.Both my Sun & Moon are afflicted by Saturn.
Moon is square Mars/Pluto/ASC, conjunct Chiron, BUT makes an out of sign sextile to Venus & Jupiter. Sun sextiles Neptune & Uranus. I kinda have mixed feelings really lol.
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YoursTrulyAlways
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posted June 08, 2012 04:16 PM
Definitely women.I have a respectful working relationship with men but it invariably ends up in a power showdown. I buttheads with powerful men and chomp up weak men, both of which are not desirable. Also, it's not equitable, but I hold men to a higher professional standard and I expect them to step up to the plate and deliver. I tend to be a lot more impatient with men, especially those who can't meet my expectations. IP: Logged |
ShyVirgo1979
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posted June 08, 2012 04:36 PM
Ami anne u come up with the neatest topics lol like just opening line for ur threads lures me in  hmm good topic. I get along better with men. I don't trust many women. Too gossipy and 2faced. Men usually don't create that same drama altho there r a few exceptions. I have sun sq moon, moon sq mercury, moon sq venus. IP: Logged |
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