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Dreaming111
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posted June 11, 2012 04:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaming111     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I read in another thread that one can tell the age he/she would be getting married.

Can we tell how long a relationship would last based on the synastry or composite?

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posted June 11, 2012 05:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cappy1277     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have heard about the theory of using progressed composite & planets in the 12th house with the 12th house rulers aspects.

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posted June 11, 2012 09:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaming111     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by cappy1277:
I have heard about the theory of using progressed composite & planets in the 12th house with the 12th house rulers aspects.

Can you go into more detail?
Thanks

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posted June 12, 2012 12:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaming111     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Anyone?

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posted June 12, 2012 03:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cappy1277     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Maybe this thread can help...
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/202511-2.html

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posted September 21, 2012 01:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaming111     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you Cappy for the link.

I kinda ....don't understand it too well, but it's a good start.

Does anyone have any other info they want to share?

Thanks again Cappy.

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posted September 21, 2012 01:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaming111     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Some interesting article for everyone:
http://www.grreporter.info/en/length_relationship_depends_r elationship_between_moons_male_and_female_horoscope/5241

This is also mentioned in vedic astrology.

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posted September 21, 2012 01:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for C1ND3R     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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It lasts until you kill Tyler Durden.

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posted September 21, 2012 01:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
in theory it won't make sense because those moons will always separate but what about those that have been together 50 years??

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posted September 21, 2012 04:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaming111     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7MaTBSK4Ndw&feature=plcp

Go to time 6:56 for the explanation about the moon.

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posted September 21, 2012 04:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaming111     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The article and the video are different, but deal with the distance of a man's moon from a female's moon.

The article wants you to count the signs in between while the video wants you to count the houses between.

Also, it doesn't take into account homosexual or alternative relationships. Sorry guys, idk what to say.

This was just one of probably many theories as to longevity in a relationship.

I, however, have gone off into this weird tangent. I really wanted to know if there was some way to count with near accuracy the duration of time a relationship will run. There has to be a way with transits. I just am not too clear on it. ..help? hehe

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posted September 21, 2012 04:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaming111     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The article and the video are different, but deal with the distance of a man's moon from a female's moon.

The article wants you to count the signs in between while the video wants you to count the houses between.

Also, it doesn't take into account homosexual or alternative relationships. Sorry guys, idk what to say.

This was just one of probably many theories as to longevity in a relationship.

I, however, have gone off into this weird tangent. I really wanted to know if there was some way to count with near accuracy the duration of time a relationship will run. There has to be a way with transits. I just am not too clear on it. ..help? hehe

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posted September 21, 2012 04:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for anonymidarkness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Read somewhere that positive saturn contacts in synastry makes your relationship last longer but predicting how long it will last based on the synastry would be like predicting how long we will live based on our natal chart.

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posted September 21, 2012 04:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MonicaS     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi dreaming 111, how do u find when will one gets married

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posted September 21, 2012 12:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaming111     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
Read somewhere that positive saturn contacts in synastry makes your relationship last longer but predicting how long it will last based on the synastry would be like predicting how long we will live based on our natal chart.

You know the weird things is, in vedic astrology you can predict when illness falls upon you or when you are under really heavy planet influences. It's called dasha reading. It's like transit reading or progressed chart reading.

Having said that no reputable astrologer will ever tell you the time frame of your death. They will give you warnings so you are more careful during that period.

I know many who have predicted the causes of death using vedic astrology and were 100% accurate. I can't say that for western astrology because I haven't really explored that area. I'm sure it exists in western astrology.

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posted September 21, 2012 12:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaming111     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
Read somewhere that positive saturn contacts in synastry makes your relationship last longer but predicting how long it will last based on the synastry would be like predicting how long we will live based on our natal chart.

Saturn contacts might not make a relationship last longer officially. You may simply have lingering feelings or thoughts about the person, even though you aren't in contact.

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posted September 21, 2012 12:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaming111     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by MonicaS:
Hi dreaming 111, how do u find when will one gets married

Well, I know in vedic astrology one looks at dasha periods for suitable times for marriage.

If you have saturn aspecting your 7th house then you'll have a delay in marriage, which is never bad.

Here is a video about saturn influences on marriage:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bRwsvSVALoc&feature=plcp

Here is a video for timing of marriage:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q-nhvYkw8Z8&feature=plcp

This takes into account the navamsa chart (D-9), which is hte 9th harmonic chart.


In western astrology solar return charts are a good start point. <--Correct me if I'm wrong.

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posted September 21, 2012 12:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for amowls**     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
In western astrology timing of marriage is usually determined by looking at Solar Arcs. You're more likely to get married when SA Venus is conjunct your natal Sun, MC or DSC or vice versa.

As for timing of relationships, I usually look at Progressed Synastry. The time it takes for Progressed Venus to conjunct, oppose or trine the other person's progressed Sun or Mars. Once the progressed planets start separating, the couple will break up unless there are mitigating factors such as being MARRIED (since marriages aren't as easy to get out of) or if there are children.

Obviously this is just a theory.

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posted September 21, 2012 05:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaming111     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by amowls**:
In western astrology timing of marriage is usually determined by looking at Solar Arcs. You're more likely to get married when SA Venus is conjunct your natal Sun, MC or DSC or vice versa.

As for timing of relationships, I usually look at Progressed Synastry. The time it takes for Progressed Venus to conjunct, oppose or trine the other person's progressed Sun or Mars. Once the progressed planets start separating, the couple will break up unless there are mitigating factors such as being MARRIED (since marriages aren't as easy to get out of) or if there are children.

Obviously this is just a theory.


Sorry you're right; it's solar arc.

It was solar something or other...hehe

But thanks for the other info. I'm going through all my charts haha.

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posted September 21, 2012 06:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aquacheeka     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Dreaming111, I found these two resources immensely helpful: http://astrologynewsservice.com/articles/unique-study-links-venus-to-romantic-choices-people-make/, http://www.positiveastrology.com/ANS.asp

It involves comparing the Venus/Mars interactions in Person A's progressed chart to Person B's natal.

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posted September 21, 2012 06:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Slummer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by amowls**:
In western astrology timing of marriage is usually determined by looking at Solar Arcs. You're more likely to get married when SA Venus is conjunct your natal Sun, MC or DSC or vice versa.

As for timing of relationships, I usually look at Progressed Synastry. The time it takes for Progressed Venus to conjunct, oppose or trine the other person's progressed Sun or Mars. Once the progressed planets start separating, the couple will break up unless there are mitigating factors such as being MARRIED (since marriages aren't as easy to get out of) or if there are children.

Obviously this is just a theory.



THIS.

Supposedly I just started the marriage transits, AND the one for pregnancies, and I'll be there for about a couple years.

I'm like, "Things are about to get interesting..."

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posted September 21, 2012 06:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ail221     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by amowls**:
In western astrology timing of marriage is usually determined by looking at Solar Arcs. You're more likely to get married when SA Venus is conjunct your natal Sun, MC or DSC or vice versa.

As for timing of relationships, I usually look at Progressed Synastry. The time it takes for Progressed Venus to conjunct, oppose or trine the other person's progressed Sun or Mars. Once the progressed planets start separating, the couple will break up unless there are mitigating factors such as being MARRIED (since marriages aren't as easy to get out of) or if there are children.

Obviously this is just a theory.


welp it looks like the next 6 years will be interesting

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posted September 21, 2012 08:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaming111     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Dreaming111, I found these two resources immensely helpful: http://astrologynewsservice.com/articles/unique-study-links-venus-to-romant ic-choices-people-make/, http://www.positiveastrology.com/ANS.asp

It involves comparing the Venus/Mars interactions in Person A's progressed chart to Person B's natal.


Oh thanks so much!! This was an awesome read. Now we need a program that can plot a graph like that. hehe

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posted September 22, 2012 02:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aquacheeka     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Dreaming111:
Some interesting article for everyone:
http://www.grreporter.info/en/length_relationship_depends_r elationship_between_moons_male_and_female_horoscope/5241

This is also mentioned in vedic astrology.



Omg, that is so creepy. I just went through this. Same examples, too. I have immense feelings for a Taurus moon man but feel that I have to be the one doing the chasing (though he's very receptive), and I can't stand that and that's why I'm preparing to move on, though his personality is sooo perfect. He's just too passive in his pursuit for me. Very weird!! Must be something to it. The article and especially the video explain everything.

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posted October 01, 2012 02:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lava Flower     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Dreaming111:
Some interesting article for everyone:
http://www.grreporter.info/en/length_relationship_depends_r elationship_between_moons_male_and_female_horoscope/5241

This is also mentioned in vedic astrology.


" 1:8 relationship - the moon of the other falls in the eighth sign.
Such a relationship is marked by the issue of antagonism, hostility, manipulation. In this relationship over time, step by step, partners increasingly want to get into deep contradictions that make them bitter towards each other. At the beginning of such a relationship there is a strong attraction. The other seems so mysterious, so sexy, as if he comes from another universe. Infidelity is common, because it is an ideal occasion for enmity.
When the moon of my partner falls in the eighth (8) sign of my Moon, I feel that he influences me in a deeply manipulative way and I openly oppose it. He can bring me unexpected things which require deep life changes, which I usually do not want, but I have no choice."

Thank you for the article! The above described the relationship with my ex to a T even though his Aqua moon fell into my 7th.

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