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cherryblossom
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posted June 15, 2012 05:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cherryblossom     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
All these naggings/manipulative talks/accusations/jealousy, etc.... How should a woman handles/reacts to these scorpio mind games? And what kind of affection or reaction she should show him to make him stop when he's doing these mind games? So, she doesn't end up looking weak but still comes up as strong, patient, understanding woman.

1. Play the game? But if she plays the game, how to play the game by not being stubborn, so it doesn't look like she's trying to seek control or dominance in the relationship.

2. Act like you don't care? Don't react to any of these? But how can u not react when they're accusing you something you didn't do or nags at things constantly...

3. Stand on your ground. Tell him in a gentle, soft tone?

4. Just listen, be quiet, and let him do the talking while u're showing the affection as well.

Or.. if there's anything, please do tell me.

My Scorpio friend told me this: Just listen to his routine naggings/manipulative talks/queries/accusations etc...and ignore it for good.... so play it cool.... ---> again.. how to play it cool?

Thank you

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birdy
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posted June 15, 2012 05:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for birdy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Dont act like you dont care. Dont play the games back...doesnt work well(unless youre a scorpio too..lol) or it will backfire on you a lot eventually.. They'll judge you for it. Being really calm and patient are good innate traits to have to deal with this energy. Also just be yourself despite being annoyed. Playing it cool sounds about right but don't act like you don't care. Showing some jealously is fine but subtle about it.

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Belage
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posted June 15, 2012 06:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Be who you really are. Don't let his games define you and your behavior. He will respect you for it and he might even love you for it. Scorpios do not respect weaklings.

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posted June 15, 2012 07:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Absorb him like a Pisces, once he's exhausted...launch a sharp verbal thrust. If he retaliates...absorb and repeat. He will learn to leave you alone.

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Jim
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posted June 15, 2012 09:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jim     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
bless this post

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cherryblossom
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posted June 15, 2012 10:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cherryblossom     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Nine:
Absorb him like a Pisces, once he's exhausted...launch a sharp verbal thrust. If he retaliates...absorb and repeat. He will learn to leave you alone.


I am a Pisces..

launch a sharp verbal thrust. If he retaliates...absorb and repeat. --> care to explain more..?

He was never exhausted. I got absorbed instead and the Aries side in my Mercury, venus and mars arose and, there u go the drama...:P

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aquaguy91
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posted June 15, 2012 10:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
how about not even giving the unevolved scorps the time of day, you cant reason with them,its impossible. but the scorps who have risen above that crap are great.

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cherryblossom
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posted June 15, 2012 10:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cherryblossom     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by birdy:
Dont act like you dont care. Dont play the games back...doesnt work well(unless youre a scorpio too..lol) or it will backfire on you a lot eventually.. They'll judge you for it. Being really calm and patient are good innate traits to have to deal with this energy. Also just be yourself despite being annoyed. Playing it cool sounds about right but don't act like you don't care. Showing some jealously is fine but subtle about it.

I was calm and patient. He loved this.

But he continued these mind games, i finally gave in to the Aries side in my mars, mercury, and venus.

So there u go.. the drama. It didn't stop there, turned around everything I said. I went calm and he continued these naggings and jealousy. Turned around everything i said again... and the circle never ends.

The thing is I didn't realize i got absorbed into his mind games. So, the story repeated itself..


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posted June 15, 2012 10:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by aquaguy91:
how about not even giving the unevolved scorps the time of day, you cant reason with them,its impossible. but the scorps who have risen above that crap are great.

Yes.

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cherryblossom
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posted June 15, 2012 10:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cherryblossom     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by aquaguy91:
how about not even giving the unevolved scorps the time of day, you cant reason with them,its impossible. but the scorps who have risen above that crap are great.

U mean just be quiet about it..? And listen to him?

I agree. U cant win.

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posted June 15, 2012 10:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Joy11     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Nagging, jealousy, manipulations, twisting your words... these are all signs of someone who is IMMATURE. You deserve BETTER than this, CherryBlossom!

So here's the deal: Scorpio is a fixed sign. Most of them would rather die than have someone abandon them. So you give him an ultimatum. Either he goes to counseling AND starts a meditation practice AND reads a pile of quality, relationship books AND starts implementing all of these grow-up techniques, (all of the above, no exceptions) OR you are outta there, done, good-bye, never looking back. That's how to be a strong, reasonable, understanding, compassionate woman. I've been there, I know it's hard, but you have to protect yourself! Hugs!

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ail221
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posted June 15, 2012 10:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ail221     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Keep a poker face.

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aquaguy91
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posted June 15, 2012 11:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by cherryblossom:
U mean just be quiet about it..? And listen to him?

I agree. U cant win.


no , avoid them like the plague

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Desiring Shadows
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posted June 16, 2012 12:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Desiring Shadows     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Confront the situation in controlled manner. *Don't lower yourself beneath your standards.

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Lonake
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posted June 16, 2012 02:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lonake     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Joy11:
Scorpio is a fixed sign. Most of them would rather die than have someone abandon them.

Hehehehe that's why it's best to just leave. Serves em right. This goes for wayward Sun/Pluto types as well.

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