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Topic: Why is everything so hard??!!
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cappy1277
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From: philadelphia,pa
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posted June 20, 2012 01:17 AM
  
thanks ariesdragon...it's been an especially rough day and having hardly any sleep isn't any fun either.  IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
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posted June 20, 2012 01:19 AM
Let's just keep this thread all about you from this page forward shall we?
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Lonake
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posted June 20, 2012 01:19 AM
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Originally posted by Faith:
^ She was actually calling me a stalker before I knew her!  On a sun square Pluto thread, months ago.That's where it all began, with me defending myself from the get-go against stalking allegations from someone I had just met.
And Faith, it still remains, as I wasn't directing my comment to you in that thread in the slightest as it was an offhand remark about a *real experience* of mine, that,
Why would you think that I had you in my mind?
Why would you think that my comment defined you?
Why would you let it get to you? quote:
Originally posted by Lonake:
Leave & pray that they don't stalk you and for them to find peace.
Look at this quote Faith and tell me where you see your name. I had just got out of a relationship with a Sun sq Pluto person and was clearly making a joke *of my experience* which you took to heart, and you've been dragging it on for months. IP: Logged |
cappy1277
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From: philadelphia,pa
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posted June 20, 2012 01:22 AM
Ariesdragon...I have lost all control of this thread lol.IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
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From: Jupiter
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted June 20, 2012 01:23 AM
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Originally posted by cappy1277:
Ariesdragon...I have lost all control of this thread lol.
LOL I know  but it's ok just speak whatever else is on your mind lol IP: Logged |
popcorn
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posted June 20, 2012 01:23 AM
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cappy1277
Moderator Posts: 1113
From: philadelphia,pa
Registered: Jul 2009
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posted June 20, 2012 01:23 AM
and to add I also have to add, I have a sun square pluto too. We kinda carry the kill or be killed mentality without realizing it. IP: Logged |
cappy1277
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posted June 20, 2012 01:25 AM
ariesdragon....when's randall having the LL convention? We need a boxing ring for these two and maybe all will be better then IP: Logged |
cappy1277
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From: philadelphia,pa
Registered: Jul 2009
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posted June 20, 2012 01:29 AM
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
I think its important to get grievances out in the air. People have arguments. There are misunderstandings all the time. That is life.
I agree RAS but on their own thread...lol. Kinda deviates from the situation at hand 
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Lonake
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posted June 20, 2012 01:29 AM
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Originally posted by cappy1277:
and to add I also have to add, I have a sun square pluto too. We kinda carry the kill or be killed mentality without realizing it.
I actually had a pretty neg experience with a Sun sq Pluto man, was just getting out of it, letting off steam about it in a simple joke complete with this guy attached at the top  for emphasis that it was indeed, a joke, and I get a Sun sq Pluto person hounding me about it for months. She can't drop it and is literally obsessed. And it is creepy.IP: Logged |
cappy1277
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From: philadelphia,pa
Registered: Jul 2009
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posted June 20, 2012 01:31 AM
any experience with a sun square pluto person is guaranteed to be a bad experience at one point...lol. We are not easy people to get along with. We are tyrants for sure. IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted June 20, 2012 01:34 AM
I won't go into detail, but I'm sure that you're nothing like him.IP: Logged |
cappy1277
Moderator Posts: 1113
From: philadelphia,pa
Registered: Jul 2009
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posted June 20, 2012 01:37 AM
it's all a matter of perception Lonake...lol. message boards don't make it easy for us because there is no facial expressions to read off of. Tonal affect is lost and people can easily take the things the wrong way. I had to kick in my logical gemini moon a few times hereIP: Logged |
cappy1277
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From: philadelphia,pa
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posted June 20, 2012 01:40 AM
but you know what I live by? what you eat don't make me poop..lolIP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted June 20, 2012 01:40 AM
A simple misunderstanding of a joke doesn't warrant her attention to me for months on a message board. There's no way that Faith's behavior can be justified, especially after I asked her to ignore my posts.IP: Logged |
cappy1277
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From: philadelphia,pa
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posted June 20, 2012 01:42 AM
maybe we can all agree to disagree and let it all go. Shake virtual hands and start fresh IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted June 20, 2012 01:47 AM
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Lonake was actually calling me a stalker before I knew her! On a sun square Pluto thread, months ago.That's where it all began, with me defending myself from the get-go against stalking allegations from someone I had just met.
You do see here that she took my post about someone else entirely and made it all about her.
This is the crux of this issue she has, so she has to learn to detach from it. I don't think she can but in this instance I'd like to be proven wrong. IP: Logged |
cappy1277
Moderator Posts: 1113
From: philadelphia,pa
Registered: Jul 2009
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posted June 20, 2012 02:02 AM
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Originally posted by Lonake:
You do see here that she took my post about someone else entirely and made it all about her.
This is the crux of this issue she has, so she has to learn to detach from it. I don't think she can but in this instance I'd like to be proven wrong.
I understand..hopefully we can all squash this. IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted June 20, 2012 02:04 AM
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Originally posted by Faith:
Edit: This is my final post (granted I am cheating a bit but who will see it?) so I will have to put my reply to future comments here: That's a lie, it wasn't a joke, you obviously had problems with the guy, and only about 5% of our fighting has been about that exchange, anyway. It's more like, I keep talking to people about things that have nothing to do with you, and you pop in and make ambiguous, derogatory comments and DON'T STOP...ie your "some people here are batty as all get out" jab, when it was only ME there to take the insult.
Again, all a matter of perception. Yours is geared to see what I write in the negative and directed solely at you and what can I do to change that? Nothing. And counting what, exactly? Like I said, you seem to think this is a game, and you are keeping score. There is no game. And it's obvious you don't want peace. IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted June 20, 2012 02:13 AM
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Originally posted by cappy1277:
I understand..hopefully we can all squash this.
She's behind the scenes now, editing her post on page 3 with nothing that will help the matter in the slightest. Won't listen to reason & she likes to think that I'm Enemy #1 that she has to fervently defend herself against, in the form of ugly offense. Nothing's changed. IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted June 20, 2012 02:16 AM
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Originally posted by Faith:
Edit again: Lonake, please drop it. Nothing more to say.I don't like you.
You don't like me.
It's final.
I don't know you enough to like or dislike you personally as I never got a chance to know you. I know that your attention to me is unhealthy and that it needs to stop. If you mean what you write here, and that it will, well then it looks like progress.
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cappy1277
Moderator Posts: 1113
From: philadelphia,pa
Registered: Jul 2009
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posted June 20, 2012 02:28 AM
Progress...I like that word lol. Faith, if you see this- I hope you can see that there was no harm intended. Let's just put this behind us and move forward with how Linda would want us to proceed.
Lonake- I can see this bothers you alot. I would like to see this work out the best possible way whether that includes that you all never saying a word to each other again or being cordial to each other in the future. I would really like to see us cooperate on a thread with each other to promote everyone's goodwill & nurturing spirits  IP: Logged |
cappy1277
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From: philadelphia,pa
Registered: Jul 2009
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posted June 20, 2012 11:47 PM
Update:I start my clinicals on Monday....everything worked out because of diligence & perseverance of myself & others who were on my side. Thank you everyone for your support!!! IP: Logged |
popcorn
Knowflake Posts: 2833
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posted June 21, 2012 12:45 AM
Congrats Cappy IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
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Registered: Jan 2012
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posted June 21, 2012 12:57 AM
Yeah! Congrats cappy! IP: Logged |
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