posted June 25, 2012 05:25 AM            

i can get furious when im treated unfairly by somebody...especially my friends and this has lead me to cut off friendships with others pretty quickly

but i usually forgive for those who apologize sincerely

posted June 25, 2012 06:22 AM            

If someone really is sorry and tries to meet me halfway, I can be forgiving on a lot of things. However, there are some things that I will simply never forgive, such as being physically violated. If I cannot trust a person, I won't let that person into my life: if I feel like I have to do that, I will be as distant as possible.

I tend to get upset when I feel rejected, not good enough, excluded, like people don't want to be around me/spend time with me, when I feel manipulated, and when I'm not having enough socialization. I get really upset when people avoid me, especially if I don't feel like I've really done anything to deserve it and even more so if I feel like I've tried to reach out to the person and meet him/her halfway. Being treated unfairly is also upsetting. I also get very, very angry when people make advances towards me (as in, hit on me, and especially if they touch me in a way that is inappropriate/makes me uncomfortable). That's probably the situation that causes the more pure anger for me (as in, anger unmixed with other emotions, other than maybe fear).

On the other hand, though, I can let go of misunderstandings and can also cool off quickly when I'm mad. I've literally forgotten that I had arguments with people before, which made it awkward when I saw them again and they were still mad.

posted June 25, 2012 06:35 AM            

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Originally posted by RegardesPlatero:

I tend to get upset when I feel rejected, not good enough, excluded, like people don't want to be around me/spend time with me, when I feel manipulated, and when I'm not having enough socialization. I get really upset when people avoid me, especially if I don't feel like I've really done anything to deserve it and even more so if I feel like I've tried to reach out to the person and meet him/her halfway. Being treated unfairly is also upsetting.

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posted June 25, 2012 06:52 AM            

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Originally posted by RegardesPlatero:
I tend to get upset when I feel rejected, not good enough, excluded, like people don't want to be around me/spend time with me, when I feel manipulated, and when I'm not having enough socialization. I get really upset when people avoid me, especially if I don't feel like I've really done anything to deserve it and even more so if I feel like I've tried to reach out to the person and meet him/her halfway. Being treated unfairly is also upsetting.

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Where is your moon at?

I feel somewhat similarly, although I don't let it bother me too much, there are rarely people that openly dislike me or even dislike me at all. I was told two days ago, by my assesor in an exam whilst she was giving me feedback, that I had a wonderful personality and was great at building rapport with people. I've always wondered why people are so kind to me and do me favours here and there. I guess thats the reason. Anyway, if someone doesn't like me I just don't spend time with them or near them. I don't want to have negative people in my life trying to bring me down.

I'm not a libra sun, my sun is at 29 degrees Virgo so I guess i'm not far off but I do have a Libra Mercury III and Mars II.

When I feel i've been treated unfairly I do get a little upset but if it continues or I percieve it as a greater injustice I can get very vocal about it. I'm not sure if I would call it angry, I suppose you could but when i've been truly angry I do things that I would never normally consider. I feel very strongly about trying to make things as fair as possible, not just for me but for others also. I'm that typical wanting to promote harmony Libra type most of the time. I'm not against making things a little more interesting though I enjoy joking with people.

posted June 25, 2012 07:29 AM            

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Originally posted by affy:
Swift Freeze, are you a Sag moon?

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Not quite Want a IInd try?

I'll give you a clue, your guess was close but also far.

posted June 25, 2012 11:35 AM            

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Originally posted by RegardesPlatero:

I tend to get upset when I feel rejected, not good enough, excluded, like people don't want to be around me/spend time with me, when I feel manipulated, and when I'm not having enough socialization. I get really upset when people avoid me, especially if I don't feel like I've really done anything to deserve it and even more so if I feel like I've tried to reach out to the person and meet him/her halfway. Being treated unfairly is also upsetting. I also get very, very angry when people make advances towards me (as in, hit on me, and especially if they touch me in a way that is inappropriate/makes me uncomfortable). That's probably the situation that causes the more pure anger for me (as in, anger unmixed with other emotions, other than maybe fear).

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What she said.

I can relate to a lot of statements other Libras here have already made... I tend to get a slow build up of rage when people do these unfair things to me.

a. Unexpectedly cancel plans on me, since it makes me feel like they don't like something about me or don't care for me as much as I thought (in other words, I take these types of things too personally!)

b. Fail to keep up communication and don't call me in a reasonable time frame

c. Make me feel as usual, like I am doing all the giving in the friendship and they are just taking; like I am entertaining them and they are just along for the ride

C. happens to me quite a bit, and I get very upset and even vindictive about it. I can't stand to feel like I am doing all the giving and talking in a friendship and someone else is just there, not giving anything back. I have a lot of Scorpio in my chart so I easily want to get back at friends who have wronged me, or just cut off all ties with them since it hurts me too much to have a half-hearted friendship.

posted June 25, 2012 01:27 PM            

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Originally posted by Gem-Gurl:
When a Libra feels he has been treated unfairly, just how mad do these guys get? Just curious cuz this one guy (Libra) can get ticked off pretty easily. Wondering if that is normal to all Libras if they feel unfairness has been done. Thank you!!

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I know my fair share of Libra guys. If they feel they've been treated unfairly, they just retreat. Or they push your buttons back. They'll do it to petty stuff too, just to prove a point which is irksome considering the slight probably wasn't intentional in the first place. I've seen a Libra girl get mad and she got mad like a Leo would. Loud mouthed, and threatening. Nothing ever came of it though. A Libra usually won't get mad, they'll just get even. They are the scales afterall.

posted June 25, 2012 01:56 PM            

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Originally posted by Swift Freeze:
Not quite Want a IInd try?

I'll give you a clue, your guess was close but also far.

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posted June 25, 2012 02:01 PM            

i think it depends on the rest of the libra especially the mars sign

i can get furious when im treated unfairly by somebody...especially my friends and this has lead me to cut off friendships with others pretty quickly

but i usually forgive for those who apologize sincerely

mars conj pluto in scorpio

Wow , I thought I was the only one who did such.lol.

What really gets me ****** off though are people who wound others/are careless with their words. Or people who tell a joke at another person's expense.

I have Moon square Mars in Libra.Both my Mars and Pluto sit in the 6th house too.

But back to the topic at hand. Yes, I too have noticed that my Libra friends are not patient and forgiving as otherwise indicated by conventional astrology.

But then again, one has his Mars in Scorpio whilst the other has his in Gemini(he is rude and one can never win an argument with him).

posted June 25, 2012 02:16 PM            

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I totally suck at this but umm, Capricorn Moon, maybe? You just seem a lot like someone I know personally, that's why the curiosity

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Gemini Moon

I can be whoever you want me to be. This friend, male or female and what is it about me that reminds you of them?

posted June 25, 2012 02:54 PM            

"Unfairness in general makes me extremely ****** off. I can't stand it when I see people with lesser talent than me win a contest, or even lesser talent than other competitors around me - especially concerning art."
Libras aren't usually the jealous type. Perhaps I'd be a tad bit wounded-- but I wouldn't let anyone know. That's kind of a inarticulate reason to capsize, IMO. (I would rationalize that before it even comes out into spoken word) I personally feel like what goes around comes around. So if they won-- maybe it was something they needed and deserved.(?) You never know.

The way I see it, if a Libra can avoid the unpleasantness, they'll do it. If you've crossed them off, time & time again,(Libras don't usually look for disputes) look to mars placement for how they will finish you.

posted June 25, 2012 04:39 PM            

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Originally posted by Swift Freeze:
Gemini Moon

I can be whoever you want me to be. This friend, male or female and what is it about me that reminds you of them?

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Well the someone I know has a 29 deg Virgo Sun, Libra Mercury & Mars. And the way you put across that opinion made it sound a LOT like him.

posted June 25, 2012 07:16 PM            

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Originally posted by affy:
Well the someone I know has a 29 deg Virgo Sun, Libra Mercury & Mars. And the way you put across that opinion made it sound a LOT like him.

Gemini Moon.. hehe, never met one before

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You never know, I could very well be him but if you've never met a Gem moon before its unlikely.

We're good fun to know

posted June 25, 2012 07:22 PM            

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Originally posted by Desiring Shadows:
"Unfairness in general makes me extremely ****** off. I can't stand it when I see people with lesser talent than me win a contest, or even lesser talent than other competitors around me - especially concerning art."

Libras aren't usually the jealous type. Perhaps I'd be a tad bit wounded-- but I wouldn't let anyone know. That's kind of a inarticulate reason to capsize, IMO. (I would rationalize that before it even comes out into spoken word) I personally feel like what goes around comes around. So if they won-- maybe it was something they needed and deserved.(?) You never know.

The way I see it, if a Libra can avoid the unpleasantness, they'll do it. If you've crossed them off, time & time again,(Libras don't usually look for disputes) look to mars placement for how they will finish you.

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I have a LOT of Scorpio in my chart, and I feel like that's why I act more Scorpio than Libra sometimes, especially concerning possessiveness and a need to get back and justify things. The only aspects my Sun has would be minors ones to Mars in the 8th and Pluto too, which is another red flag.

I think that if you have a lot of Scorpio in your chart, in some ways acting like this will happen every so often, even when you progress to a higher level of spirituality.

posted June 25, 2012 07:22 PM            

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Originally posted by Swift Freeze:
Where is your moon at?

I feel somewhat similarly, although I don't let it bother me too much, there are rarely people that openly dislike me or even dislike me at all. I was told two days ago, by my assesor in an exam whilst she was giving me feedback, that I had a wonderful personality and was great at building rapport with people. I've always wondered why people are so kind to me and do me favours here and there. I guess thats the reason. Anyway, if someone doesn't like me I just don't spend time with them or near them. I don't want to have negative people in my life trying to bring me down.

I'm not a libra sun, my sun is at 29 degrees Virgo so I guess i'm not far off but I do have a Libra Mercury III and Mars II.

When I feel i've been treated unfairly I do get a little upset but if it continues or I percieve it as a greater injustice I can get very vocal about it. I'm not sure if I would call it angry, I suppose you could but when i've been truly angry I do things that I would never normally consider. I feel very strongly about trying to make things as fair as possible, not just for me but for others also. I'm that typical wanting to promote harmony Libra type most of the time. I'm not against making things a little more interesting though I enjoy joking with people.

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My moon is Cancer. The perpetual emo-kid moon position.

I am trying to get to a point where I don't feel things so personally, but I'm not quite there yet. I see the wisdom in it, but haven't acquired it fully yet.

posted June 25, 2012 07:34 PM            

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Originally posted by sweet-scorpion:
What she said.

I can relate to a lot of statements other Libras here have already made... I tend to get a slow build up of rage when people do these unfair things to me.

a. Unexpectedly cancel plans on me, since it makes me feel like they don't like something about me or don't care for me as much as I thought (in other words, I take these types of things too personally!)

b. Fail to keep up communication and don't call me in a reasonable time frame

c. Make me feel as usual, like I am doing all the giving in the friendship and they are just taking; like I am entertaining them and they are just along for the ride

C. happens to me quite a bit, and I get very upset and even vindictive about it. I can't stand to feel like I am doing all the giving and talking in a friendship and someone else is just there, not giving anything back. I have a lot of Scorpio in my chart so I easily want to get back at friends who have wronged me, or just cut off all ties with them since it hurts me too much to have a half-hearted friendship.

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I can so relate to what I posted of your comment!!

Only, for me, I don't feel like I'm entertaining people when they don't talk back to me: I worry that I make them uncomfortable and freak them out. I hate that feeling.

I get really annoyed when people that I communicate with don't respond within a reasonable time (1 week for average people/people online a lot, 2 weeks for someone more busy, and more time for people who are exceptionally busy, like a month or so). I hate how uncomfortable, self-conscious, self-hating, and awkward I feel when that happens. What's worse is when I want a response and never get one. If someone can't get back or needs to think, I don't understand why they can't take two seconds and say that or set up an automated/away message. It's like come on, at least say something, you know? And what's even worse than that is when someone will respond to others (and not close buddies/people in trouble, but like people on the same level that you are with them), but not to you--when people blatantly ignore you. That's the point where I stop talking to a person because that is not cool. That's when I draw the line and give up on a person.

*also, for the record, when I talk about people, I'm talking about people that I like/want to get to know; there are some people that I don't want talking to me, mainly creepy pervs/people making advances

I'm a Libra sun/Merc, but a Scorpio Venus/Pluto (conjunct, 12th).

posted June 25, 2012 07:49 PM            

It pretty much depends upon the situation and how escalated the situation is. My philosophy when it comes to conflicts comes down to the latin saying "Si Vis Pacem Para bellum" which basically means "If you want peace get ready for war."

I never initiate; I always retaliate. Putting up with a conflict (may it be verbal or physical) requires time and energy which can be better used for more constructive purposes. The aggressor usually is way too uncivilized and isn't worth my time . However, if I am left no choice in the matter, I will confront and confront hard! I will try to lessen the damage but inflict just enough of it to make sure that the person never tries something like that again.

However, loved ones are OFFLIMITS! Its an unwritten rule that if there is a conflict between two people, it should be limited to those two people alone. You have a problem with me? Deal with me only.

posted June 26, 2012 03:46 AM            

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Originally posted by sweet-scorpion:
I have a LOT of Scorpio in my chart, and I feel like that's why I act more Scorpio than Libra sometimes, especially concerning possessiveness and a need to get back and justify things. The only aspects my Sun has would be minors ones to Mars in the 8th and Pluto too, which is another red flag.

I think that if you have a lot of Scorpio in your chart, in some ways acting like this will happen every so often, even when you progress to a higher level of spirituality.

That's an awesome insight - looking to Mars to see how Libra will deal with you when you've double crossed her one time too many. I have to admit, due to my Cancer Mars opposing Neptune sometimes I feel really unclear about my emotions towards others, whether they are anger or neutrality - but when the Cancer crab comes out of its shell, it comes out with unrelenting, sometimes too intense force. (My Mars also trines Pluto.) My anger can really take people by surprise and scare them a lot.

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posted June 26, 2012 03:48 AM            

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Originally posted by RegardesPlatero:
My moon is Cancer. The perpetual emo-kid moon position.

I am trying to get to a point where I don't feel things so personally, but I'm not quite there yet. I see the wisdom in it, but haven't acquired it fully yet.

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posted June 26, 2012 05:43 AM            

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Originally posted by sweet-scorpion:

Unfairness in general makes me extremely ****** off. I can't stand it when I see people with lesser talent than me win a contest, or even lesser talent than other competitors around me. I can verbally tear people apart when I'm angry, but that has more to do with Mercury contacting Mars.

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This actually rings quite true, although I always believe I can improve and be better than I am. I absolutely hate to lose to people who I deem worse than me. In that sense I am extremely competitive. I tend to stay away from any games which involve luck, whether they are board games or sports etc.

posted June 26, 2012 06:04 AM            

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Originally posted by Desiring Shadows:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by RegardesPlatero:
[b] My moon is Cancer. The perpetual emo-kid moon position.

I am trying to get to a point where I don't feel things so personally, but I'm not quite there yet. I see the wisdom in it, but haven't acquired it fully yet.

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Um, reminder. Regardes, in REGARDeS to your fear of existing problem, if it helps, everyone is just like you.
Focused on themselves[/B][/QUOTE]

nice word play there

posted June 26, 2012 12:28 PM            

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Originally posted by Swift Freeze:
You never know, I could very well be him but if you've never met a Gem moon before its unlikely.

We're good fun to know

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