posted June 25, 2012 03:56 PM            

Can you tell us the degree of your NN? My thinking is influenced by the book The Secret Language of Destiny by Gary Goldschneider, and degrees are important in that system.

posted June 25, 2012 04:17 PM            

It's 25'59... On some sites I've read it's 27 degrees, but I got this calulation from astro.com

posted June 25, 2012 08:30 PM              

Like the links others have posted this placement means you have to learn to let your walls down and let other people in more to enjoy harmonious relationships. It also deals with marriage and one on one relationships, but since this is the NN it won't necessarily be easy to establish right away (this probably means it might not be the greatest idea for us to get married young?)

Also, my NN is in Cap so that means I'm supposed to be more mature in relationships and less emotional/childish. Since yours is in Leo this could mean you're supposed to be less detached/objective in relationships and more proud, playful, personally involved, etc.

Since Leo is ruled by the Sun you should check what house yours is in and also if you have other planets in the 7th house this should tell you more of what you're supposed to learn in this area.

posted June 25, 2012 08:32 PM              

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Originally posted by ail221:
The North Node in the Seventh House is ruled by Libra and the planet Venus so this hints a the desire for harmonious and right relationships/partnerships with other people. Your NN would being trying to soften the Mars SS- Aries, and consider the other person’s opinions and life moving away from “I". Your North node may be encouraging you to accept the battle that exists between to apposing forces i.e. good & bad, man & women, life & death; human nature. Through acceptance of knowing you can't always maintain a perfect balance you will find peace and possibly move towards a life based around one on one relationships/partnerships in marriage, business, counseling or advising.

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That's a great description of this placement! I've never really heard that perspective on it before but that's very true

posted June 26, 2012 01:25 AM            

But anyway, it does seem to make sense to me that 1st house SNers would be somewhat commitment phobic.

And yes, it does also mean that during this lifetime, we are supposed to form close associations and not shy away from them. It's also about more cooperation and less focus on the self. Kind of like turning more into a Libra and less into an Aries.

posted June 26, 2012 11:03 PM            

Here we go...

I am mostly paraphrasing from the aforementioned book, The Secret Language of Destiny by Gary Goldschneider. According to that book, you are on a "karmic path" that the author calls The Way of Confidence. The main lesson of your life is to overcome insecurity and believe in yourself, so that WHEN you eventually assume the role of leader of a group, which may be very large, you will be prepared.

People born on this nodal axis "knew from childhood that they marched to the beat of a different drummer." You may have been searching for validation from others but never finding it, because you are truly unique. So you have to learn how to self-validate. No matter how much others seem to accept you, they are not touching your unique core.

People on this nodal axis grow up feeling different and lonely and usually have feelings of low self-worth. Strangely enough, the humility stemming from that is what starts drawing others in. You just seem harmless. Everyone likes your harmlessness, so suddenly you find yourself popular and thrust into the spotlight. A major challenge arises then...will you just use this for an ego trip or realize that people actually need you, and become altruistic and heroic to them? That's what the situation will probably call for.

The author says that people on this path need to be "wholly immune to issues of popularity" basically because they are going to get more of it if they don't seek it, and play a major role in others' lives once they attain that position of leader.

He says that people on this path will be so involved with leading groups and moving ahead in the world that their more intimate relationships will probably suffer.

How does this fit with having your NN in the 7th house? Hmmmm!

My guess is, you could become an expert on marriage or partnerships; something could happen with your spouse that propels you into fame; a relationship may be the "crucible" in which you learn to overcome the south node inferiority complex and then branch out to help other people.

What's your guess?

WHEN you attain your position at the center of a group of people, you just have to remember (the author cautions): it has nothing to do with your ego, you are there to serve, and that will bring your happiness.

I always say take all readings with a grain of salt, and this is basically for your entertainment. (And mine, since I love this book and thinking about these things. )

posted June 27, 2012 07:50 AM            

Best wishes!

posted November 05, 2012 05:19 PM            

Ever since i can remember, i always wanted to be in a relationship. But for many years, i mainly experienced pain and disappointment in love.Fortunately everything has changed this year and for the 1st time in my life (im in my mid twenties), i have a loving, long-term bf

But, i must say that before i met him, i worked very hard on myself to figure out the cause of those bad experiences. For years, I did a lot of self work and healing in order to change and be ready for a relationship.

I must admit that i had a lot to learn. I also made a big sacrifice in order to change my life, because i felt that it was the only way for me to have a bf. Of course, this sacrifice was related to my South Node, and fortunately it worked!!

posted November 05, 2012 05:33 PM            

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Originally posted by Dreamy_AriesGirl:
I have North Node in the 7th house.

Ever since i can remember, i always wanted to be in a relationship. But for many years, i mainly experienced pain and disappointment in love.Fortunately everything has changed this year and for the 1st time in my life (im in my mid twenties), i have a loving, long-term bf

But, i must say that before i met him, i worked very hard on myself to figure out the cause of those bad experiences. For years, I did a lot of self work and healing in order to change and be ready for a relationship.

I must admit that i had a lot to learn. I also made a big sacrifice in order to change my life, because i felt that it was the only way for me to have a bf. Of course, this sacrifice was related to my South Node, and fortunately it worked!!

So, it did not come easily at all, but finally im living my dream with my bf

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That's really great to hear

posted August 11, 2015 01:50 PM            

I've never had a girlfriend even though I have more "Balls" in going after them but I just never can seem to get them.

I have Libra on the MC which I think that I might make a carrer with relationships.