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Topic: How to attract a Cap Moon?
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blugrey
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posted June 27, 2012 09:28 PM
  
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vickymadness
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posted June 27, 2012 09:38 PM
I would say be yourself, be the best version of yourself, the evolved YOU. Don't let astrology guide you in these matters ... It's not maths.IP: Logged |
birdy
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posted June 27, 2012 09:39 PM
why would you want to? lol
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blugrey
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posted June 27, 2012 10:05 PM
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aquaguy91
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posted June 27, 2012 10:13 PM
just be real stern and talk about money.IP: Logged |
blugrey
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posted June 28, 2012 03:34 AM
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hannaramaa
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posted June 28, 2012 03:38 AM
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Originally posted by blugrey:
He's a Gemini Sun, Capricorn Moon, Cancer Venus, Capricorn Mars.What kind of things can I do to get him to open up? Should I just leave him be and let him come to me first? How can I show myself to be trustworthy or desirable? Can I just ask him out? 
I know two Capricorn moons, one is a Scorpio and one is an Aquarius. For a Capricorn moon to "open up" I've really just seen them vent. Otherwise they keep a lid on it and are somewhat like Libras preferring positivity and such. Gemini with all that Cap sounds like a sourpuss to me. He has moon opp. Venus... hmm. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted June 28, 2012 03:40 AM
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Come on, there's more to them than that!
why so serious? IP: Logged |
blugrey
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posted June 28, 2012 03:41 AM
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hannaramaa
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posted June 28, 2012 03:45 AM
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He's a bit sour, but he's also tons of fun too. He's really funny! I wouldn't say he is positive, but he's definitely reserved when it comes to emotional things or private things. He's pretty much a goofball around friends, trying to make people laugh and stuff, but I always noticed it was kind of an act from the beginning. I have Moon opp. Venus too.  It's kind of interesting, both our Venus are aspected to the same planets - Moon opp Venus, Venus - Pluto, Venus- Neptune, Venus-Saturn.
So do you guys mirror each other in your tastes, mannerisms? Also I wonder if that's a trend among air/earth, or perhaps just gemini capricorn. I have three Gem placements and three Capricorn placements and my extroversion is often an act too. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted June 28, 2012 03:49 AM
I have Cap Moon and Cap Mars as well.. but the BIG question is (before I answer this.....) - does he lack fire in his chart? IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted June 28, 2012 03:50 AM
About Cap Moon in general - just like every other sign on the wheel - they will have friends - people they are neutral about - people they dislike and so on. This depends on SYNASTRY.
Watery people - with Scorpio & Pisces in them will find it easy to get Cap Moon to tell them their life story... easy peasy.. IP: Logged |
blugrey
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posted June 28, 2012 03:51 AM
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blugrey
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Odette
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posted June 28, 2012 03:52 AM
blugrey - quote:
I can really feel the Capricorn Mars-Cancer Mars different. He's cold where I'm hot and I don't really mind it, but it's definitely different in that sense.
A Capricorn Mars man will be ALL OVER a Cancer Mars woman. Great sex! IP: Logged |
blugrey
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posted June 28, 2012 03:53 AM
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Odette
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posted June 28, 2012 04:00 AM
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He only has Saturn and Uranus in Fire those are in Sagittarius.
His Saturn is conjunct my Moon. His Moon is conjunct my Saturn as well.
OK! It's really good that he has those two placements in fire... because Saturn is also the ruler of his Cap planets. I asked because.. men with NO fire - have serious problems initiating. I would say - play feminine... be Cancerian - Don't go all out and ask him out... just flirt and be feminine.
He will DEFINITELY make a move. I'm 100% (although things usually don't happen quickly with this sign... so it may take some time - but it will happen.) You just have to hint pretty clearly that you are into him - but don't say it as such. It is SO important that you are sensual towards him.. because Capricorn Mars is cold. Sometimes they go years with no sex. They can completely channel their energy into work and forget they even have a body.
You need to *ease* him out of this ^ clenched-up - frozen state of being... Think of it like a massage... only in a spiritual sense. Slowly warm him up. Water Mars women are the *best* for Capricorn Mars men. Usually a Cap Mars guy will be OVER the Moon that a woman WANTS him and that she is showing him - through body language/flirting...
This does not happen often to them - even when they are really good looking, simply because they are so shut down on a physical level - that most women are scared to even approach.
So you will make him REALLY happy - if you show HIM that you are attracted & you care... IP: Logged |
Milkyshutter
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posted June 28, 2012 05:00 AM
Capricorns feel extremely vulnerable to share their opinions and feelings. So, what we generally do is we make sarcastic jokes instead, as if we do not care, however, that is the way we convey our opinions and thoughts. That is, these sarcastic jokes come from our accumulated experience. You need to get these suble messeges. Bring them up or remind them later, and they will know that you were listening to them. They will also appreciate your intellegence.They are extremely shy people when it comes to revealing their inner-most feeling. It will take time to build trust with the person. So, be patient. You need to first open up. When I say open up, it doesnt mean become too emotional or weak. Caps do not appreciate those stuff, especially at the initial stage of relationshiop, as they will misinterpret as your signs of weakness. Be honest, and be positive and be direct. If the guy likes you, he will eventually make the move. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted June 28, 2012 05:15 AM
^ Was that about Sun in Cap? Because he is a Gemini..... Sun.... IP: Logged |
Milkyshutter
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posted June 28, 2012 06:04 AM
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Originally posted by Odette:
^ Was that about Sun in Cap? Because he is a Gemini..... Sun....
This should explain any cap placement in general. I havent met many cap females though. I have merc venus in cap as well. I also have friends who have moon cap but we share many things in common. Besides being cold and aloof wiyh saturnine energy statements are too general and that doesnt seem what she wants to hear. Ha I remember when i was in any romantic relationship my moon was domineering. So my explanation of cap w should help you to understand him better. IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero
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posted June 28, 2012 06:09 AM
They really don't like people talking to them, it seems. I'd say maybe let him come to you rather than try to be nice. Any kind of warmth or kindness will backfire and blow up in your face. And above all else, NEVER express your emotions or open up to them. That sends them running. If a Cap moon doesn't feel like you're worth something and valuable, he/she won't talk to you or want anything to do with you, so you'll have to find a way to convince your Cap moon guy that you are worth something. I'm not sure how to go about that, but it seems like the only way to even get them to speak to you, let alone want to be friends (or in your case, more than friends). I have a Cap Mars, and personally, I'm not a touchy-feely person. I tend to be motivated by what will bring security and stability (plus I have a Cancer moon). IP: Logged |
Milkyshutter
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posted June 28, 2012 06:20 AM
One last thing. Peoplr say caps are cold. Thats not really true. Caps are acting cold to protect themselves. Caps are like babies too. They know when they place their trust it becomes unconditional. That is why we value loyalty. Dont force cap to open up. They resist that fiercely. It takes time.
We all have a small chink in our defense though. If someone is smart enough to access that he will be head over heels.
Trust me ha.
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Odette
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posted June 28, 2012 06:24 AM
Ok well since we're listing credentials - I've dated three men with a Capricorn Mars - all still in my life as friends. I have a Capricorn Mars myself and a Cap Moon... and my longest relationship was with my ex (Libra Sun w Cap Moon). IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted June 28, 2012 06:24 AM
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Caps are like babies too.
I can't relate. IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted June 28, 2012 06:26 AM
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Originally posted by blugrey:
It's kind of interesting, both our Venus are aspected to the same planets - Moon opp Venus, Venus - Pluto, Venus- Neptune, Venus-Saturn.
Oh this is good for attraction.
And I've dated a Gem/Cap and he was as you described, on the outside. This particular combo might just be tough to crack. Lemme see if I can remember what helped....don't be phony, even if he seems jokey-blah-blah it's a cover, like you said. What else, well I'll just say what I think he liked, that I was good with people in our social circle, popular, but stuck to my guns about my beliefs/ideals (he always had my back here), that i took my work seriously and could garner a lot of positive attn with it (again, aiding my status in the group), that i spoke my mind plainly and didn't play games, of course similar interests, and also I know that he liked that I saw past his social persona and that there was someone with more depth there who would be interesting to know, the fact that I took the time to break through that exterior. But then again I'm also a mutable Sun with a Capricorn Moon so that might've helped You know as I'm remembering him, I never spoke to him on that level, like friends, I went straight to the heart of him from the beginning, even if it was brief, never really joking around much. He was quite volatile actually. Not violent, but..very....headstrong, perhaps. Very masculine.IP: Logged |
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