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Topic: How do you feel about the moon sign being represented this way?
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hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 1750 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted June 28, 2012 03:08 AM
As the way people care about you, or how easy/hard you are to care about, or for?IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 2931 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted June 28, 2012 03:14 AM
well i am a taurus moon and people like to feed me when i was a baby that was one of the first phrases i said.IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 1750 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted June 28, 2012 03:20 AM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: well i am a taurus moon and people like to feed me when i was a baby that was one of the first phrases i said.
Haha, that's pretty funny. I'm a Taurus moon and people like feeding me too! Whether it be intentional or not, mama bear always gets fed lol! I also think (from my experiences with people, and my mother) I'm hard to care about emotionally. That's not to say i'm not likeable but liking and caring are different levels of friendship. Because as stable as a Taurus moon can be, I think they're also stubborn in the way we express ourselves. We have a set way and rarely change it.
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Odette Knowflake Posts: 652 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted June 28, 2012 03:22 AM
hmm I don't know. I feel like people care about me in a warm proactive way - that does not suit Capricorn. The people around me are not as practical as I am - usually. I would prefer to be cared for through physical things - like - Buy me a new vacuum cleaner when mine breaks down! (that would be nice)... But nope. No luck. They're lovey dovey huggy types. I'm surrounded by them lol IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 2931 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted June 28, 2012 03:24 AM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: Haha, that's pretty funny.I'm a Taurus moon and people like feeding me too! Whether it be intentional or not, mama bear always gets fed lol! I also think (from my experiences with people, and my mother) I'm hard to care about emotionally. That's not to say i'm not likeable but liking and caring are different levels of friendship. Because as stable as a Taurus moon can be, I think they're also stubborn in the way we express ourselves. We have a set way and rarely change it.
yes, and i can be needy for affection.
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aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 2931 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted June 28, 2012 03:26 AM
quote: Originally posted by Odette: hmm I don't know. I feel like people care about me in a warm proactive way - that does not suit Capricorn. The people around me are not as practical as I am - usually. I would prefer to be cared for through physical things - like - Buy me a new vacuum cleaner when mine breaks down! (that would be nice)... But nope. No luck. They're lovey dovey huggy types. I'm surrounded by them lol
haha i would buy you new vacuum cleaner, most of the new ones really suck! lmaoIP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 1750 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted June 28, 2012 03:30 AM
quote: Originally posted by Odette: hmm I don't know. I feel like people care about me in a warm proactive way - that does not suit Capricorn. The people around me are not as practical as I am - usually. I would prefer to be cared for through physical things - like - Buy me a new vacuum cleaner when mine breaks down! (that would be nice)... But nope. No luck. They're lovey dovey huggy types. I'm surrounded by them lol
proactive though - Capricorn is a cardinal sign, isn't it? IP: Logged |
blugrey Knowflake Posts: 923 From: Portland, OR USA Registered: Nov 2010
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posted June 28, 2012 03:37 AM
quote: Originally posted by Odette: hmm I don't know. I feel like people care about me in a warm proactive way - that does not suit Capricorn. The people around me are not as practical as I am - usually. I would prefer to be cared for through physical things - like - Buy me a new vacuum cleaner when mine breaks down! (that would be nice)... But nope. No luck. They're lovey dovey huggy types. I'm surrounded by them lol
People probably figure you have the practical stuff handled so they might want to give you the other.
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blugrey Knowflake Posts: 923 From: Portland, OR USA Registered: Nov 2010
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posted June 28, 2012 03:38 AM
I have a Sag Moon.. I don't know what people give me. hehe Companionship?I just like to experience things with my lovers/friends. I'm not too picky. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 1936 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted June 28, 2012 03:38 AM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: As the way people care about you, or how easy/hard you are to care about, or for?
Very hard to care for. Saturn opposes my Moon, which is in Virgo. So that makes things quite difficult, I am very withdrawn when I'm upset and usually don't let people get close to me. Unless I'm feeling needy.. which happens.
I usually feel like no one cares for me, even though people ask me how I'm feeling. It must be the Saturn (plus Moon conjuncts Chiron).
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blugrey Knowflake Posts: 923 From: Portland, OR USA Registered: Nov 2010
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posted June 28, 2012 03:44 AM
quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve: Very hard to care for. Saturn opposes my Moon, which is in Virgo. So that makes things quite difficult, I am very withdrawn when I'm upset and usually don't let people get close to me. Unless I'm feeling needy.. which happens.I usually feel like no one cares for me, even though people ask me how I'm feeling. It must be the Saturn (plus Moon conjuncts Chiron).
My mom has Virgo Moon square Saturn. She doesn't feel loved easily. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 1750 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted June 28, 2012 03:47 AM
quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve: Very hard to care for. Saturn opposes my Moon, which is in Virgo. So that makes things quite difficult, I am very withdrawn when I'm upset and usually don't let people get close to me. Unless I'm feeling needy.. which happens.I usually feel like no one cares for me, even though people ask me how I'm feeling. It must be the Saturn (plus Moon conjuncts Chiron).
OH doux reve! There was a thread you posted of mine in the Personal Readings section. I went back and asked a question on it. Do you mind taking a peek? I don't think you'll need to see the chart to answer it or anything. I was just curious. Also, Moon opp. Saturn? YEESH. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 1750 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted June 28, 2012 03:48 AM
quote: Originally posted by blugrey: I have a Sag Moon.. I don't know what people give me. hehe Companionship?I just like to experience things with my lovers/friends. I'm not too picky.
Do they give you your space without you needing to tell them? Like you just naturally find people who respond that way? IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 1750 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted June 28, 2012 03:49 AM
quote: Originally posted by blugrey: My mom has Virgo Moon square Saturn. She doesn't feel loved easily.
Interesting a lot of Moon/Saturn people are posting here. I have moon trine saturn, I find it hard to let people love me. I often don't translate their actions into love but more as trying to control me. Maybe that's a mercury problem or Venus square Saturn. IP: Logged |
Lazyscarecrow Knowflake Posts: 198 From: En Cee Registered: Aug 2011
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posted June 28, 2012 04:13 AM
My moon is in Aries.People give me tons and tons of space, even when I'd like the company. Aries moon paired with Leo sun is said to be an isolated personality, according to the astro.com description. I never understand when I hear a person (Usually an Aries/Sag/Aquarius) complains that they feel suffocated and want freedom, because I feel like I have more than is comfortable. (If I didn't answer the question correctly, let me know)
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hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 1750 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted June 28, 2012 04:19 AM
quote: Originally posted by Lazyscarecrow: My moon is in Aries.People give me tons and tons of space, even when I'd like the company. Aries moon paired with Leo sun is said to be an isolated personality, according to the astro.com description. I never understand when I hear a person (Usually an Aries/Sag/Aquarius) complains that they feel suffocated and want freedom, because I feel like I have more than is comfortable. (If I didn't answer the question correctly, let me know)
No you did. The Ice Man (famous hitman for the mob) was an Aries with a Leo moon... so yeah, that astrology site is pretty spot on. I have a Taurus moon and no one ever hugs me or touches me. Like, rarely. I have to ask for hugs from my mother...
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Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 1936 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted June 28, 2012 04:28 AM
I just replied to your post in PR, Hanna. *
On topic, again, Moon/Saturn is probably one of the worst combos to have. The hard aspects, especially.. A lot of people with eating disorders and other mental illnesses have it simply because the feeling of loneliness is overwhelming. Even when people tell you they love you, you just can't accept it, at your core. Something feels broken, inside. It really can be depressing. I guess it gets better with time but the deep-seated wounds don't heal easily..
Anyway, I'm off topic and this is getting real sad! lol. So, moving on!  IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero Moderator Posts: 3158 From: Storybrooke, Mr. Gold's Shop Registered: Sep 2011
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posted June 28, 2012 04:54 AM
quote: Originally posted by Odette:
I would prefer to be cared for through physical things - like - Buy me a new vacuum cleaner when mine breaks down! (that would be nice)... But nope. No luck. They're lovey dovey huggy types. I'm surrounded by them lol
That actually sounds very Capricorn, I think  IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 1750 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted June 28, 2012 04:55 AM
quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve: I just replied to your post in PR, Hanna. *
On topic, again, Moon/Saturn is probably one of the worst combos to have. The hard aspects, especially.. A lot of people with eating disorders and other mental illnesses have it simply because the feeling of loneliness is overwhelming. Even when people tell you they love you, you just can't accept it, at your core. Something feels broken, inside. It really can be depressing. I guess it gets better with time but the deep-seated wounds don't heal easily..
Anyway, I'm off topic and this is getting real sad! lol. So, moving on! 
But you speak the truth!!! I always thought it was Venus sq. Saturn or Sun sq. Saturn, who knew a TRINE could make me feel the way you just described! Moon/Saturn aspects are numbing in my opinion. I think it makes me doubly stubborn... my mom literally asked me the other day if I had a mental illness because I didn't feel well enough to try on clothes while we were shopping. In my defense, I hate shopping. (We have moon opp. pluto, thank you, *curtsey*) IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero Moderator Posts: 3158 From: Storybrooke, Mr. Gold's Shop Registered: Sep 2011
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posted June 28, 2012 05:01 AM
I have a Cancer moon.I am not a physically affectionate person. Hugs do not make me feel cared for or liked or anything. They often feel awkward and weird to me. Sometimes, they make me VERY uncomfortable. And when people make advances towards me, I don't feel flattered. I feel threatened and very angry. I need a hug once in awhile, but it has to be when I feel like it and when it would not make me freak out and feel icky. I don't really feel cared for a lot, but when I do, it's through communication and shared experiences. Words and time spent together. Words are very important. Doing stuff for me, while I feel grateful, doesn't necessarily make me feel loved exactly. I don't feel like I'm lovable or easy to care about; there are some people that care about me, but it's hard for me to feel closeness and connection. Aspects: moon trine Venus and Jupiter, square Mercury, opposition Mars. Involved with a grand trine and a t-square. (I don't remember, but I may have said recently that I had Moon trine Pluto--if I did, that's incorrect). IP: Logged |
Gem-Gurl Knowflake Posts: 1100 From: Los Angeles, CA Registered: Mar 2012
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posted June 28, 2012 05:08 AM
quote: Originally posted by RegardesPlatero: I have a Cancer moon.I am not a physically affectionate person. Hugs do not make me feel cared for or liked or anything. They often feel awkward and weird to me. Sometimes, they make me VERY uncomfortable. And when people make advances towards me, I don't feel flattered. I feel threatened and very angry. I need a hug once in awhile, but it has to be when I feel like it and when it would not make me freak out and feel icky. I don't really feel cared for a lot, but when I do, it's through communication and shared experiences. Words and time spent together. Words are very important. Doing stuff for me, while I feel grateful, doesn't necessarily make me feel loved exactly. I don't feel like I'm lovable or easy to care about; there are some people that care about me, but it's hard for me to feel closeness and connection.
I am also a Cancer moon and truthfully... im the exact opposite!!! Im the one giving all my friends (who dont care for hugs much) all those uncomfy hugs you speak of lol im sure it has a small bit to me being a Gemmy sun though lol I find my moon affects me in a 'i dont share or tell my feelings' way. I like them in my shell thx so much!! It takes awhile, and a special person to get in there.... really, theres nobody there now exept maybe my bros and dad.... my mom is a Pisces moon. She feels the need to have 'share share every feeling you have ever had!!' Sessions -.- ummm noooo. Lol so thats my 2¢? Im not to close with mummy... ------------------ Quote i like---> "A collection of rare thoughts is nothing less then a cabinet of intellectual 'Gems' " - William B. Spraque with slight editing by me!! IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero Moderator Posts: 3158 From: Storybrooke, Mr. Gold's Shop Registered: Sep 2011
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posted June 28, 2012 05:22 AM
quote: Originally posted by Gem-Gurl: I am also a Cancer moon and truthfully... im the exact opposite!!! Im the one giving all my friends (who dont care for hugs much) all those uncomfy hugs you speak of lol im sure it has a small bit to me being a Gemmy sun though lol I find my moon affects me in a 'i dont share or tell my feelings' way. I like them in my shell thx so much!! It takes awhile, and a special person to get in there.... really, theres nobody there now exept maybe my bros and dad.... my mom is a Pisces moon. She feels the need to have 'share share every feeling you have ever had!!' Sessions -.- ummm noooo. Lol so thats my 2¢? Im not to close with mummy...
I don't usually tell my feelings to people unless I'm close to them/feel like I have to/am in a setting that makes me open up. However, they're definitely there. As for hugs, my family is not huggy-kissy, touchy-feely. So, I didn't grow up with lots of hugs. The only person who gives hugs voluntarily semi-regularly in my family is my dad. My mother and brother rarely hug. With my mom, I would always have to ask for a hug most of the time. That's awkward. Hugs coming from a stranger, someone that I don't like, someone that I don't know, or else hugs that are of an inappropriate variety make me really upset. It's funny when I give a hug. Someone has their arms open and I sort of robotically put my arms around them in the way that touches them the least. I back away if I really don't like the person or else if I do like person, but I feel uncomfortable being touched. I really hate it when people try to touch or pat my back--I've snapped on people for that one. Again, I have to be in the right mood for a hug, and I have to like the person and trust them/feel safe and OK with them. IP: Logged |
Gem-Gurl Knowflake Posts: 1100 From: Los Angeles, CA Registered: Mar 2012
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posted June 28, 2012 05:27 AM
@ RegardesPlateroGem-Gurl has gone to bed and shall reply at a later date. She bides you a fond goodnight without any hugs or back patting. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 1936 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted June 28, 2012 05:28 AM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: But you speak the truth!!! I always thought it was Venus sq. Saturn or Sun sq. Saturn, who knew a TRINE could make me feel the way you just described! Moon/Saturn aspects are numbing in my opinion. I think it makes me doubly stubborn... my mom literally asked me the other day if I had a mental illness because I didn't feel well enough to try on clothes while we were shopping. In my defense, I hate shopping. (We have moon opp. pluto, thank you, *curtsey*)
Oh so you're Saturnian yourself! Actually Sun & Venus to Saturn is very harsh, too. Heck, anything to Saturn is harsh! My Saturn touches all my personal planets, except for Mercury but they're parallel anyway lol so I probably have a harder time than other people with *just* Moon/Saturn or Sun/Saturn, etc. I hate shopping too! And my mother gets frustrated when I don't want to try on new clothes, too. We have a crappy relationship. * Actually all the Cancer Moons I know are quite reserved and get uncomfortable with outer displays of affection, they get so awkward! But they are very sensitive though. Just not into physical affection, it seems.
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RegardesPlatero Moderator Posts: 3158 From: Storybrooke, Mr. Gold's Shop Registered: Sep 2011
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posted June 28, 2012 05:32 AM
quote: Originally posted by Gem-Gurl: @ RegardesPlateroGem-Gurl has gone to bed and shall reply at a later date. She bides you a fond goodnight without any hugs or back patting.
good night! sweet dreams  IP: Logged |