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Topic: How do you feel about the moon sign being represented this way?
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hannaramaa
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posted June 28, 2012 05:34 AM
  
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Oh so you're Saturnian yourself!
Actually Sun & Venus to Saturn is very harsh, too. Heck, anything to Saturn is harsh!
My Saturn touches all my personal planets, except for Mercury but they're parallel anyway lol so I probably have a harder time than other people with *just* Moon/Saturn or Sun/Saturn, etc.I hate shopping too! And my mother gets frustrated when I don't want to try on new clothes, too. We have a crappy relationship. *
Oooh yes indeed. It's good to know there's another member who understands! I have Saturn, Uranus and Neptune all in Capricorn and all in my 8th house (if I use whole signs. 7th otherwise.) they might all be trine my Moon, but that's a lot of action going on with my moon and my Sun and Venus only get Saturn bullying them. quote:
Actually all the Cancer Moons I know are quite reserved and get uncomfortable with outer displays of affection, they get so awkward! But they are very sensitive though. Just not into physical affection, it seems.
I know two Cancer moons and they're both pretty feminine guys. One is gay and the other is straight but they're both deeply attached to their mothers (actually three now that I think about it. And yes he's attached to his mom. Still financially dependent on her. All of them are.) IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted June 28, 2012 05:50 AM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Oooh yes indeed. It's good to know there's another member who understands! I have Saturn, Uranus and Neptune all in Capricorn and all in my 8th house (if I use whole signs. 7th otherwise.) they might all be trine my Moon, but that's a lot of action going on with my moon and my Sun and Venus only get Saturn bullying them.
Yes! Oh my, that must be one heck of a mess! Outer planets in the 7th.. I bet your love life is chaotic! But the Moon trines sound good. And Saturn gets better with time. 
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I know two Cancer moons and they're both pretty feminine guys. One is gay and the other is straight but they're both deeply attached to their mothers (actually three now that I think about it. And yes he's attached to his mom. Still financially dependent on her. All of them are.)
How stereotypical! I only know one guy with Cancer Moon and not that well either. He's very quiet and shy.. a bit awkward, too. Overall I think they're nice people but it can be hard to get to know them, cause they're usually so cautious.
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depth
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posted June 28, 2012 09:20 AM
My m0on's in Virgo and the only people who eat my head off asking me to eat either less or m0re(depending on whether I'm keeping my health c0nscious m0on or glutt0nous sag venus happy) are my parents. We talk about fo0d everyday. They hide junk fr0m me because I overeat.
B-) They kn0w I'm too lazy to go for fo0d shopping when they're around.
They are em0s. My scorpio m0m and her love dialogues. My gem dad still feeds me s0metimes, oils my hair 0nce a week, pats a lot and his own set of dialogues.So this is what I learnt . People are always ready to help me out of trouble. They buy me stuff without having to ask them. They call up everyday and we talk for min. 1 hour. I love to talk. 8-) An Aries friend spoke to me for 6 hours straight, trying to cheer me up when I was depressed. My scorpio friend called me every hour to keep me busy. This taurus friend shouted at my hostel warden because she tried waking me up. Lolz. She stands by my side every time I rebel. A cancerian tries to be my m0ther. Don't do this, don't do that. She handles my m0ney as I'm bad in math and m0ney. Many around me seem germ phobic. This aqua girl I hang out with, "did you see with what he scooped out the ice cream. It's unhygienic. You shouldn't eat it." -.- Then there's this leo who criticizes me atleast three days a week and tries bringing me on what he thinks is the right track. His merc in virgo is a bit too practical. It's really easy to care for me but it's equally difficult to have me care for you. As a human, yes. M0re than that is tough. I've been trying to make my heart m0re accessible with a little success.
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freebrainstorms
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posted June 28, 2012 01:42 PM
Moon in Virgo - i have the opposite, people are always asking me for help and confiding in me and telling me their problems. I can hang out with someone who I haven't seen in 5 years and within the hour, they're pouring out their heart to me about all their issues and worries - it's kind of odd sometimes. I've always been the counselor, the peace-maker, the advice-giver, the honest person who tells people like it is, not what they want to hear. Growing up, guys were always coming to me with their insecurities, about themselves, their lives, and girls. That as well as obviously all my female friends. It got a little annoying, having guys you liked always telling you about how much they liked your best friends all the time, and asking for advice about how to approach them, etc. etc.I'm so chicken when it comes to intimacy and relationships, but people are constantly asking me advice about their own. I think that's because i understand the logic behind it, but not the emotions, thereby making me a good person to go to, but not a good person for actively having one myself. I'm good at helping others, but **** at accepting anything for myself, help, compliments, flattery, etc...It just makes me feel uncomfortably. IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows
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From: UNITED STATES, BABY
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted June 28, 2012 08:17 PM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
On topic, again, Moon/Saturn is probably one of the worst combos to have. The hard aspects, especially.. A lot of people with eating disorders and other mental illnesses have it simply because the feeling of loneliness is overwhelming. Even when people tell you they love you, you just can't accept it, at your core. Something feels broken, inside. It really can be depressing. I guess it gets better with time but the deep-seated wounds don't heal easily.. Anyway, I'm off topic and this is getting real sad! lol. So, moving on! 
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Desiring Shadows
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posted June 28, 2012 08:24 PM
. Yeah buddy.
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Gem-Gurl
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From: Los Angeles, CA
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted June 28, 2012 08:30 PM
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Originally posted by RegardesPlatero:
I don't usually tell my feelings to people unless I'm close to them/feel like I have to/am in a setting that makes me open up. However, they're definitely there.As for hugs, my family is not huggy-kissy, touchy-feely. So, I didn't grow up with lots of hugs. The only person who gives hugs voluntarily semi-regularly in my family is my dad. My mother and brother rarely hug. With my mom, I would always have to ask for a hug most of the time. That's awkward. Hugs coming from a stranger, someone that I don't like, someone that I don't know, or else hugs that are of an inappropriate variety make me really upset. It's funny when I give a hug. Someone has their arms open and I sort of robotically put my arms around them in the way that touches them the least. I back away if I really don't like the person or else if I do like person, but I feel uncomfortable being touched. I really hate it when people try to touch or pat my back--I've snapped on people for that one. Again, I have to be in the right mood for a hug, and I have to like the person and trust them/feel safe and OK with them.
Well to each their own!! Im the same about letting ppl in and feelings and stuff.... hey what is your sun? Mine is Gemini... prob why im more open to hugs and all? IP: Logged |
Despina
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Registered: May 2012
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posted June 28, 2012 10:58 PM
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Originally posted by Odette:
hmm I don't know. I feel like people care about me in a warm proactive way - that does not suit Capricorn.
The people around me are not as practical as I am - usually.
I would prefer to be cared for through physical things - like - Buy me a new vacuum cleaner when mine breaks down! (that would be nice)... But nope. No luck. They're lovey dovey huggy types. I'm surrounded by them lol
Ha! I have a Capricorn Moon too and am often faced with the same problem. I like people to show their love for me in practical ways, ie. helping me do the dishes... I'd enjoy the company and the help, it might even be romantic (honest!!). But no, they want to hold my hands, stare deep into my eyes, and go on and on and on about something or other while all I can picture is that pasta sauce hardening in the kitchen sink. I have the opposite problem sometimes too, though. Every once in a while things get too much and I just want a hug, but people don't pick up on it... Probably because I squirmed out of it the last five times they tried ;-) IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero
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From: Storybrooke, Mr. Gold's Shop
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted June 29, 2012 04:23 AM
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Originally posted by Gem-Gurl:
Well to each their own!! Im the same about letting ppl in and feelings and stuff.... hey what is your sun? Mine is Gemini... prob why im more open to hugs and all?
My sun is Libra. My family isn't huggy-kissy or touchy-feely, so that also could be a part of it. I didn't grow up in a physically demonstrative family. Plus, I'm more of a verbal and shared experiences kind of person. IP: Logged | |
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