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Topic: What are your most favorite synastry aspects?
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VenusDiSirius Knowflake Posts: 5943 From: Registered: Aug 2010
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posted July 01, 2012 12:26 PM
quote: Originally posted by Nine: But with Mars-Asc, the Mars person comes across really hot.
I have seen it working the other way too,where Asc person is sexy. quote: IMO, much in the way Scorpio eroticizes everything it touches. Mars sexualizes anything it touches.
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RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 8139 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted July 01, 2012 01:08 PM
composite venus trine pluto, moon in negative aspect to venus in either synastry or composite -->somebody mentioned this, too  moon conjunct ascendant in synastry --->feeling like old friends right from the start, a "soul kinship" composite sun in cancer -->close and nurturing moon trine uranus in synastry -->sexy and fun sun in aspect to jupiter (preferrably conjunct) -->JOY and happiness abound and for friendships sun conjunct moon <--very nurturing and close I also like sun square pluto in synastry and moon in aspect to pluto in composite -->you find that person fascinating Sun in negative aspect to pluto in composite causes strong attraction but too many power struggles, and too awkward all the time. DW venus-pluto is the love of your life aspect to have -->that one person who changed you forever Venus trine or sextile saturn in synastry is bliss! --->stable relationship, you always make sacrifices for each other without it feeling like a burden. It comes naturally bc u love each other. Very romantic. Of course, composite sun conjunct jupiter and the love stellium are also nice to have -->good composite setup as a solid foundation for any relationship In synastry: moon trine or sextile neptune and pluto are nice, as are sun-neptune DW or sun-pluto DW and most other DWhammies that dont include uranus or saturn, but they are not as nice as the above aspects in my opinion.
Oh and pluto is the planet of depth. If there is anyone in your life who you find it hard to forget and who you would like to stay in touch with, who revives you any time you're with them, I bet you have at least a few pluto aspects with them in synastry or composite. ------------------ Imagination is intelligence having fun. —George Scialabba $3.50 ebay compatibility readings | testimonials | Past readings IP: Logged |
Lotis White Moderator Posts: 1681 From: USA Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 01, 2012 09:00 PM
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Lonake Knowflake Posts: 9672 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 01, 2012 09:07 PM
quote: Originally posted by Lioness: Lonake.. Can u explain more on their mars conjunct ur asc?
It's HAWT. quote: Originally posted by Nine: Confession: I'm not Lonake. Mars conjunct Asc, I find to be a sexy aspect. Venus-Asc adds a pleasant ambiance to a relationship minus the sexual & romantic undertones of Sun-Venus. But with Mars-Asc, the Mars person comes across really hot.
Smize. No you're not me, and I would clarify that comment by: Mars finding ME as ASC person quite attractive and going for me with all he's got. This is personal to me, my list - I was stating aspects I like Lioness  IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 6709 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted July 01, 2012 10:08 PM
Thanks Nine & Lonake... I have experienced this before, but there are so many sexual attraction aspects, its hard to figure out whats what. IP: Logged |
T Knowflake Posts: 11043 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 01, 2012 10:14 PM
Sun conjunct Moon. It can work well either way, but is often best when man's sun conjuncts females moon.That's my favorite.  IP: Logged |
Lonake Knowflake Posts: 9672 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 01, 2012 10:30 PM
quote: Originally posted by Lioness: Thanks Nine & Lonake... I have experienced this before, but there are so many sexual attraction aspects, its hard to figure out whats what.
Yea plus it's funny how they don't always manifest in the same way. For ex their Moon conj my Sun, good for friendship n possibly more, their Sun conj my Moon, they need to get away from me asap cos we will have issuez (!)
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Lioness Knowflake Posts: 6709 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted July 01, 2012 10:34 PM
quote: Originally posted by Lonake: [QUOTE]Originally posted by Lioness: [b]Thanks Nine & Lonake... I have experienced this before, but there are so many sexual attraction aspects, its hard to figure out whats what.
Yea plus it's funny how they don't always manifest in the same way. For ex their Moon conj my Sun, good for friendship n possibly more, their Sun conj my Moon, they need to get away from me asap cos we will have issuez (!)[/B][/QUOTE]You know thats so true... I guess thats why you have to really take the whole synastry and Natals into account.. You can have attraction aspects with one person and not be attracted at all, then you have the same aspects with someone else.. Then your deep in attraction..
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RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 8139 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted July 01, 2012 10:37 PM
Lonake, I love the mars-asc aspect, too  very strong sexual attraction ------------------ Imagination is intelligence having fun. —George Scialabba $3.50 ebay compatibility readings | testimonials | Past readings IP: Logged |
T Knowflake Posts: 11043 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 01, 2012 10:37 PM
quote: You know thats so true... I guess thats why you have to really take the whole synastry and Natals into account.. You can have attraction aspects with one person and not be attracted at all, then you have the same aspects with someone else.. Then your deep in attraction..
LOL That's pretty much what I was going to say to Lonake's post. You really do have to look at the charts as a whole, otherwise why bother? Anyway, yeah, ditto what she said. IP: Logged |
T Knowflake Posts: 11043 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 01, 2012 10:38 PM
btw the Mars-Asc you spoke of, I have noticed with Sun/Mars contacts as well. Particularly the conjunction.  k... be back later maybe. IP: Logged |
lunatic Knowflake Posts: 408 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted July 01, 2012 10:55 PM
quote: Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming: Lonake, I love the mars-asc aspect, too  very strong sexual attraction
I agree! I have seen it and I was the Mars person. My strongest experience for sexual attraction is when their Mars conjunct my Moon. It falls in my 7th house. IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 6709 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted July 01, 2012 11:06 PM
For me personally, from my own experiences.. I have seen the composite more telling about the attraction then the synastry... I dont seem to like hard pluto aspects in synastry, UNLESS Im pluto.. If its their pluto.. nope... Dont like it.. Now with fishy we have a DW moon/pluto Sun/Pluto but its both of us, so Im good! But in the Composite I usually have pluto all over the place. IP: Logged |
Lotis White Moderator Posts: 1681 From: USA Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 02, 2012 08:27 AM
Just curious… I’ve always liked the idea of Venus/Jupiter soft aspects and conjunctions, but I’ve yet to experience one…Is there anyone on this board who has, and what was it like?
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Lonake Knowflake Posts: 9672 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 02, 2012 09:44 AM
quote: Originally posted by T: I have noticed with Sun/Mars contacts as well. Particularly the conjunction. 
o dearie me yes, for me this one works BOTH ways. i get a lil when thinkin back on it. 
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Lonake Knowflake Posts: 9672 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 02, 2012 10:06 AM
quote: Originally posted by Lotis White: Is there anyone on this board who has, and what was it like?
I have....both ways to both my Venus and Jup. Ah-K. LOT depends on the sign (i know you know this but still) since the sign here is gonna be *amped up* in the connection, these are the qualities that will be admired and emphasized. Venus on Jup - OK me as Jup, conj, I was just naturally my fab self, doin my regular thing, but Venus picked up on these so called admirable qualities and I found myself emphasizing that part of my nature - it's JUPITER so of course it's gonna be emphasized (!) For ex my Jup is in Scorp, laughs at the dark side of things, black humor, tends to be ok with sexual innuendo/simmering glances, can be ott with our sexual nature just cos we're so comfortable with our bodies (think of Sharon Stone, she's a Pisces Sun/Scorp Jup like me). It's also said to amp up sex drive. So Venus in Scorp is over here, being the delicious dark quiet specimen that they are, and also with no smiles (Always the venus scorp people I see, so serious) anyway there I am with my raunchy side and their face just BEAMS, they think I'm funny cos I bring up these so-called hidden topics like nothing. I'm refreshing to them and they want to be around me cos I lighten their mood. This is actually not personally a turn on for me since it falls in my 4th, but there ya go. I bring up topics that other people don't usually touch on, with ease, in social conversation, many times in a joking manner but sometimes serious but never guilty or ashamed or afraid, always v.honest with what i've experienced, and that makes em feel at ease. Don't ask me why, it just makes em smile, they like me. They think I'm forward but they're happy with it. Me as Venus them as Jup, conj, Well it's in Cap which strives for success, major biggie for dem Jup Caps. They wanna be TOP DAWG and stay that way. They also have amazing taste and know quality when they see it. Surprise surprise that they see me as possessing quite stand out traits. Surprise surprise that I like helping them in anyway i can with their career, that I admire their ambition, and that I'm quite cognizant of their desire to remain in the know in all things. I am *there* to catch them if they fall in any sort of social faux paus moment (rare, thankfully, but *not* something they're keen on experiencing). We both like the good things in life and love to give each other top quality gifts, huge bonding experience for us. VS. me and Scorp Venus, where we're bonding over the inside info I have on pretty much everyone and everything and letting em in on it in anyway that may help them, and them being *thrilled* about being in the know cos Scorp Venus *in my life* likes a lil thrill added to their lives, of being in on the big secret, and of a special detour they take with their friend/confidant to a secluded place where no one else is allowed. Emphasizing bonding experiences, since that's a big deal with this combo, doing what you can to make the relation (venus) stronger by adding meaning (jup) to it. The trines were nice too. All nice for me. Would write on em but YA PROBABLY already have enough just from my thoughts on my conjs.IP: Logged |
Lotis White Moderator Posts: 1681 From: USA Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 03, 2012 02:33 AM
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Garnet75 Knowflake Posts: 65 From: Registered: Feb 2010
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posted October 03, 2014 12:09 AM
For friendship: sun conjunct moon sun trine conjunct sextile venus. For love:
Also sun conjunct, trine, sextile moon moon conjunct, trine, sextile venus, venus trine pluto(boyfriend and I have this synastry ) moon conjunct, trine pluto(also have this going both ways on our charts. The positive moon-pluto connections are so loving and nurturing that it makes me all warm and fuzzy inside.) Sun conjunct pluto Eros/psyche venus/mars IP: Logged |
socialgraffiti Knowflake Posts: 261 From: Registered: Jul 2013
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posted October 03, 2014 12:46 AM
For anything: Moon trine Moon; Moon/Asc or Moon/angles. Also like Sun/Mars aspects since they're dynamic. For friendship: Moon/Mercury positive aspects, Merc/Merc positive aspects, Merc/Jupiter, Moon/Uranus. 3rd house synastry! For lovin': Venus/Mars hard aspects, Conjunctions to my NN/SN, 5th & 8th house synastry IP: Logged |
wheresthemoon Knowflake Posts: 67 From: Texas Registered: Aug 2014
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posted October 03, 2014 01:11 AM
quote: Originally posted by Aeline: And the question again, lol.  What are your most favorite synastry aspects? 1) For Love 2) For Friendship?
Venus Neptune aspects for either😊 everything is so idealistic and you make so many beautiful plans together. Plus there is just a great sense of compassion and understanding. Idk about the square, opposition or sextile but I've loved the conjunction and the trine. IP: Logged |
next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 2141 From: The Moon Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 03, 2014 02:16 PM
Romantic relationships:I would like to experience sun-mars one day, preferable the easy aspects. Would be such a nice flow of energy, and I have it nattaly so I think it would be great to have in synastry also! Mercury-pluto - Being able to have such deep and meaningful conversations wow…yes thank you! sun-jupiter - someone who is always there to lift you up! venus-mars, venus-venus or mars-mars - these are kinda like obligatory! Moon-venus - emotional understanding and the affection, warm kisses! Sun-moon - Sun-mercury - Moon - neptune - I love this aspect in synastry, love it love it love it! It's like two people who have this aspect (preferable easy aspect plus the conjunction) are able to really appreciate just being the two of them…completely alone! Mercury-uranus - A nice and out of the ordinary communication… no one else has to understand, but they can be fascinated yes! Moon-pluto - Being really intimate isn't a problem with this aspect! You can feel safe with giving your heart and soul  Mars-neptune - nice sex lol! In friendships: Mercury - jupiter Sun-mars Moon-jupiter Moon-venus or moon-moon, sun-venus or moon-sun Moon-uranus, venus-uranus or mars-uranus venus-saturn venus-pluto venus-jupiter Lots of jupiter, uranus and saturn! IP: Logged |
Kannon McAfee Knowflake Posts: 217 From: Portland, OR - USA Registered: Oct 2011
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posted October 03, 2014 04:38 PM
quote: Originally posted by Aeline: And the question again, lol.  What are your most favorite synastry aspects? 1) For Love 2) For Friendship?
1) Any combination between charts of Sun & Venus/Jupiter/Mercury; Venus & Moon/Jupiter/Mercury; a) Moon-Venus aspects of all types are good. That includes parallels and contra-parallels, which are just as Squares and oppositions are not 'bad.' These aspects accentuate tenderness and affection and are perfect for a romantic relationship so long as Neptune/Pluto do not interfere with stressful aspects, but still desirable. b) Moon-Jupiter aspects are probably even better. Again, this includes parallels and contra-parallels. So many of you who don't follow those aspects will have them in your synastry if you look. They encourage optimism, positive feelings of growth and vision for your lives together. c) Mercury aspects to Sun/Moon for communication. Conjunctions, trines and sextiles are best, but you need soemthing. A relationship cannot be all romanticism and no realism. Communication creates and practical exchange in which you can do more than perform plastic roles set out for you by society. 2) Combinations of Mercury will be there almost by default, but generally Saturn will show if the friendship is to have legs. a) Uranus with Sun/Moon. Uranus is the mental connection that transcends mere interests or opinions. If you search out only friends who share you interests or point of view, you will be lacking. This is the 'best friends' aspect. b) Jupiter aspects to inner planets. This is for humor, fun, etc. You don't want conversations and interactions to be pre-determined or activity-oriented. Free and loose interaction is what most of us want from friendship. ------------------ Expert rectification, professional astrology consults http://kannonmcafee.wordpress.com/ Complete desriptions of all Rising Signs: https://kannonmcafee.wordpress.com/rising-signs-2/ IP: Logged |