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Topic: pity magnet
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CrazyAquarian
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posted July 04, 2012 12:20 AM
  
"Can she be extremely and unexpectedly fiery and impulsive in her speech? Releasing torrents of pointed BS on you, that seem to go every which way in her points? I'm saying this because of Sagittarius, it might make her anger scatter her mind"Shes contradictory, cause you can see she has deep insecurities but in a way to cover them up her mind goes completely the other way and blows up her ego. (I guess its similar to repressed memories type of deal) So when she gets angry its like shes talking to herself, as if shes trying to convince herself more than the other person, in fact it wouldn't matter if they were there or not lol she's not paying attention to you anyhow. But she does say really random off topic things in her arguments, usually some kind of compliment to herself and all of her capabilities. Snobby "Excuse me" kind of thing, in fact she really says that lol
She talks sooo much and sort of gets herself angry then starts getting ranting to herself defensively about something/someone that has nothing to do with anything and aren't there. "And yes, you're totally right. My crazy family member claims we are all nuts, but we're not the ones with OCD and fear of zombies, you know??" Oh yes and everyone has a problem but her, but its mostly that the people she has a problem with aren't waiting on her hand and foot and their world doesn't revolve around her. She doesn't understand its not all about her so she can't deal with them. lol zombies
If anything this girl needs more fear, she does some pretty stupid stuff like spending weekends with random guys shes never met in another state.... IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted July 04, 2012 01:28 AM
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Originally posted by CrazyAquarian:
What would make someone a pity magnet? Someone, whether or not they really got many issues/problems always gets pity from people and attention, "aw poor you"There is someone who....omg...can't even comprehend how it pretty much gets her through life...no lie. I have my theories looking at her chart
But just wanted to see what you would say.
Water signs are very good at getting people to feel (For them or others) what they want them to feel. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 3097
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted July 04, 2012 02:08 AM
i have sun in the twelfth and i feel like people pity me at times and i hate it. IP: Logged |
FireMoon
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From: Minnesota
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted July 04, 2012 03:28 AM
I grew up with a Pisces mom ( I honestly haven’t studied her chart enough to know much about her other placements/aspects) but she is exactly the way you’re describing. She literally thrives off of drama and chaos and seems to live for pity and for people seeing her as a victim. If there isn’t conflict in a relationship, she will deliberately create it, and this seems completely normal to her. She treats people like s*** and then doesn’t understand why they don’t want to be in her life and just thinks the whole world must be against her (poor her, so sad).
I agree that the worst thing you can do with someone like that is play into it… It’s like dealing with someone who has an addiction, you can be there for them but if they’re not ready to see for themselves that they’re actually causing/allowing their own problems they’ll just be nasty if you try to point it out to them and they drag everyone else around them down as well… Edit for the rest of my post; should not come on this site if I've been drinking lol
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CrazyAquarian
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posted July 04, 2012 09:07 PM
You should look at the rest her chart. Generally Pisces aren't that bad. But they do play the "woe is me" card alot.IP: Logged |
FireMoon
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From: Minnesota
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted July 04, 2012 09:58 PM
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Originally posted by CrazyAquarian:
You should look at the rest her chart. Generally Pisces aren't that bad. But they do play the "woe is me" card alot.
Hmm I looked it up and the only things that really stand out to me is that first of all she's a fire void so maybe overcomponsating just a little? Then her sun is 0 degrees Pisces so this could intesnsify those traits. It's only aspects are conjunct Saturn and Mercury (her chart ruler) which are both badly aspected. Then she has a T square with Jupiter opposite Neptune both square Venus and Mercury... Anyway sorry you have to deal with that with your family member, it sounds exhausting. Looking at her chart I would say that yeah moon conjunct saturn both opposite Chiron in the 1st would indicate that she had a difficult relationship with her parent(s) growing up. I would guess she really might actually be in a lot of pain and is lashing out at others to prevent herself from having to face the real problem... But I know there is never an excuse for that especially when you're an adult and you're treating family members that way, it is really angering  Also, I have Sun conjunct Saturn in 7th house both opposite Chiron in the 1st and I'll admit I have some self-sabotaging tendencies but I don't treat other people badly and I think the Chiron description of this placement as withdrawing fits for me but as in I just have a hard time letting people in emotionally when I'm struggling or talking about things I've been through/am going through. And I don't use the problems I've had in life (as I know everyone has had and many have had way worse than me) as a ploy for attention or pity or as a way of manipulating people. Growing up around my parents has made me determined never to be that way lol. So us Chiron in 1st house people aren't all bad and aggressive!! But if she hasn't dealt with those issues yet it does make sense for that to be a big factor in the way she's acting... IP: Logged |
CrazyAquarian
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posted July 04, 2012 10:08 PM
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Originally posted by FireMoon:
Hmm I looked it up and the only things that really stand out to me is that first of all she's a fire void so maybe overcomponsating just a little? Then her sun is 0 degrees Pisces so this could intesnsify those traits. It's only aspects are conjunct Saturn and Mercury (her chart ruler) which are both badly aspected. Then she has a T square with Jupiter opposite Neptune both square Venus and Mercury...
I would think Jupiter opp Neptune might indicate some exaggerated delusions or problems. Then squaring venus and mars, that could be bad.
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Anyway sorry you have to deal with that with your family member, it sounds exhausting. Looking at her chart I would say that yeah moon conjunct saturn both opposite Chiron in the 1st would indicate that she had a difficult relationship with her parent(s) growing up. I would guess she really might actually be in a lot of pain and is lashing out at others to prevent herself from having to face the real problem... But I know there is never an excuse for that especially when you're an adult and you're treating family members that way, it is really angering
I try to stay away from her as much as possible, and she doesn't really care. The only thing she is noticing is not getting my attention, so she goes elsewhere.
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Also, I have Sun conjunct Saturn in 7th house both opposite Chiron in the 1st and I'll admit I have some self-sabotaging tendencies but I don't treat other people badly and I think the Chiron description of this placement as withdrawing fits for me but as in I just have a hard time letting people in emotionally when I'm struggling or talking about things I've been through/am going through. And I don't use the problems I've had in life (as I know everyone has had and many have had way worse than me) as a ploy for attention or pity or as a way of manipulating people. Growing up around my parents has made me determined never to be that way lol. So us Chiron in 1st house people aren't all bad and aggressive!! But if she hasn't dealt with those issues yet it does make sense for that to be a big factor in the way she's acting...
My mom also has chiron in 1st, shes got some issues, but not like this girl. Its really annoying, when day when she was blabbing nonstop, whining about her whining to other people. She told me how someone told her that you should remember that other people have it much worse than you. And you know what she said? "I don't care, they aren't me, those are not my problems" Totally missing the point.
Shes uncapable of being grateful :\
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