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posted July 08, 2012 11:22 AM            

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So many people don't believe in true love. But, there are those people who believe strongly in true love and see and understand clearly what love really is and isn't. In other words, they know how to love, and they know when they are receiving love from someone else, too. They're also good at crushing on all the right people and usually their instincts are right. What aspects might they have? A lot of people also believe in love at first sight. What aspects might they have?

Have you noticed any patterns that you'd like to share?

I was thinking maybe people with a natal venus-pluto aspect, whether that be a square or a trine or whatever. But, I am not sure.
Maybe it's venus-neptune? Even if it's a minor aspect like the quincunx and semisextile? I have the quincunx and I strongly relate to the venus-neptune descriptions.

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posted July 08, 2012 06:48 PM            

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Venus Neptune as the non believer? I have Venus trine neptune and am idealistic..

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posted July 08, 2012 07:15 PM            

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I have Sun/Venus square Pluto/Karma and I'm really good at choosing people who I know will be good for my soul growth. Really good. I know immediately upon meeting them we're going to have a "something". But I also have Neptune in the 7th which makes me idealize it and wish it would keep going when it should probably end.

I'm not sure if the Ve/Pl aspect accounts for that though, but I often wonder if Karma asteroid on my Pluto means I am only ever going to have intense relationships which never end in marriage.

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posted July 08, 2012 07:44 PM            

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Haha I just posted about Venus conjunct Chiron.

I have Venus conjunct Chiron opp Saturn, Uranus, Neptune

I wouldnt say I pick bad partners but there is usually some difficulty attached.

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posted July 08, 2012 07:54 PM            

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venus/pluto sucks, i have it natally. also moon/pluto, and moon square venus. i blame these as the culprits that cause women to respond to me so hatefully

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posted July 08, 2012 08:22 PM            

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For an unevolved person, Neptune in the 7th house

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posted July 08, 2012 08:54 PM            

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^^^^^ I like to think I'm somewhat evolved but I tell you, Neptune in the 7th is a real B*tch. My mind can know it, but my feelings have their own ideas. Having said that, I think that other aspects can help to balance it out. (Thank you Taurus Moon)

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posted July 08, 2012 09:32 PM            

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Venus in aspect to Neptune knows how to love everyone. Even people who are bad for them.

I'm bad at picking people. Venus in Pisces square Saturn and Uranus. I also have Neptune in the 7th.

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posted July 08, 2012 09:33 PM            

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Neptunian hugs for you amowls

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posted July 08, 2012 09:35 PM            

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I think my Venus trine to Jupiter makes me the former. I've always attracted sweet and loving partners.

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posted July 08, 2012 09:40 PM            

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i have my descendant ruler in the twelfth, so i guess that would be similar to neptune in the seventh.

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posted July 08, 2012 09:51 PM            

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aquaguy91,

I also have ruler of 7th in 12th (*and* Neptune in 7th) That's a really foggy double whammy with myself.

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posted July 08, 2012 09:54 PM            

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So Sand, are you saying that your Ve/Ju aspect helps you to find partners who are good for you in general? My experience is that I find partners who are good for me but it still usually ends with me feeling heartbroken.

Do you mean that at the end of relationships you generally feel okay about them being over?

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posted July 08, 2012 09:54 PM            

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I have the ruler of 12th in 7th! Dunno if that translates to h7 Neptune. Something doesn't add up to me there..

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posted July 08, 2012 10:09 PM            

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Originally posted by Sorcha:
aquaguy91,

I also have ruler of 7th in 12th (*and* Neptune in 7th) That's a really foggy double whammy with myself.

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i also have saturn conjunct the descendant ruler, with that and all the affliction to my venus , i'm seriously thinking a romantic relationship is not in the cards for me.

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posted July 08, 2012 11:11 PM            

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I am the absolute worst at this, I chose the worst people over and over and never seem to learn...Or it just keeps happening. I have venus square neptune and venus parralel pluto.

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posted July 08, 2012 11:17 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
i also have saturn conjunct the descendant ruler, with that and all the affliction to my venus , i'm seriously thinking a romantic relationship is not in the cards for me.

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Aw I don't think that's true Aquaguy you'll meet someone...

But yeah I agree about Neptune in 7th. I have Neptune conjunct my descendant in Cap, along with Saturn in my 7th house conjunct Sun and NN. I've only been in one "real" relationship and it was with someone I really shouldn't have been with and I stayed in the relationship for way too long. But I'm trying to have better judgment for the future...

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posted July 08, 2012 11:21 PM            

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Originally posted by FireMoon:
Aw I don't think that's true Aquaguy you'll meet someone...

But yeah I agree about Neptune in 7th. I have Neptune conjunct my descendant in Cap, along with Saturn in my 7th house conjunct Sun and NN. I've only been in one "real" relationship and it was with someone I really shouldn't have been with and I stayed in the relationship for way too long. But I'm trying to have better judgment for the future...

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maybe. wasn't trying to be negative, just thinking maybe i'm meant to be a bachelor for some reason, but who knows.

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posted July 08, 2012 11:38 PM            

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Originally posted by amowls**:
Venus in aspect to Neptune knows how to love everyone. Even people who are bad for them.

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I have Venus in Capricorn conjunct Neptune in Capricorn, and this is so true for me!

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posted July 08, 2012 11:40 PM            

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Expressing love is difficult for me. Outside of Kittens and puppies....ok any baby animal. Venus opposite Uranus and semi-square Pluto

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posted July 08, 2012 11:46 PM            

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Originally posted by cappy1277:
For an unevolved person, Neptune in the 7th house

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What do you mean evolved vs. unenvolved influencing Neptune's effects? You mean the evolved person will receive the more romantic, positive sides of Neptune?

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posted July 08, 2012 11:52 PM            

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i cant relate.

but, i have this guy friend and this sounds like him.

he has venus opposite uranus
and moon square jupiter and neptune....

but, maybe these aspects have nothing to do with it.

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posted July 09, 2012 12:42 AM            

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I think people with saturn or pluto sextile or trine Venus or the moon are pretty good at choosing partners.

People with Saturn, Uranus, Pluto or Neptnue square or opposite their venus and or moon (if they are men) are not very good at choosing partners.

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posted July 09, 2012 01:21 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
So many people don't believe in true love. But, there are those people who believe strongly in true love and see and understand clearly what love really is and isn't. In other words, they know how to love, and they know when they are receiving love from someone else, too.

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I'm susceptible to falling in love with some easily and basically doing everything in my power to prove how much I love them. I'll buy them little gifts and write poems about them, yet I constantly feel under-valued in all my relationships, like I put all the effort in and nothing in return. Maybe its my Venus - Saturn opposition gleaming out, but jeeze, its irritating.

I've come to the conclusion that being single is maybe the best for me, although I get lonely at times, I do have Pisces Moon and I need passion being a Leo Sun, Sag. ASC and Aries Mars. But that's what friends with benefits are for

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posted July 09, 2012 02:55 AM            

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Originally posted by Belage:
I think people with saturn or pluto sextile or trine Venus or the moon are pretty good at choosing partners.

People with Saturn, Uranus, Pluto or Neptnue square or opposite their venus and or moon (if they are men) are not very good at choosing partners.

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that fits him somewhat.
hoping that saturn in scorpio changes things for him, otherwise, he will be a very miserable person for the rest of his life.

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