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Topic: cancer
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ariesforever
Newflake Posts: 16
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Registered: Jul 2012
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posted July 15, 2012 11:41 PM
  
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Originally posted by Libreo:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by ariesforever:
[b] i feel like its my fault, its hard to let go because he means a lot but i guess i was trying to understand more than he just doesn't like me and no should be done
That's because they are masters of manipulation, making others feel guilty and playing the victim. I apologise to my fellow members who are Cancer influenced, you know I respect you. Admittedly I don't have a lot of Cancer in my chart which may be why the topic of Cancer gets me going so much. I do lack understanding. I just have such a hard time tolerating their mind games. I have a heavily fire influenced mother and growing up I remember her always saying how she couldn't stand sulky sooky men. I don't know why I don't have this issue with Pisces and Scorpio, but then, I have those 2 in my chart.
DON'T FEEL GUILTY! Just back off gracefully.[/B][/QUOTE] mind games, he wants me to feel guilty? IP: Logged |
Libreo
Knowflake Posts: 971
From: Australia
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted July 15, 2012 11:54 PM
I was more referring to Cancerians when they're in a relationship when I mentioned mind games. And as for feeling guilty, I was referring to your post saying that you feel like it's your fault. Don't torture yourself. Whatever happened happened, we all make mistakes and learn. Cancer is not as upfront as Aries but don't waste precious time trying to interpret and analyse what he has said or has left unsaid and second guessing etc. The best you can do is take his word for what it is. "No". It doesn't sound like he is playing any mind games with you in this instance, otherwise you might be getting mixed messages, which your'e clearly not.
I'm no expert but I don't think, based on sun signs alone, that Cancer and Aries are a good match at all. Even if he were interested he's have you pulling your hair out with his mood changes.IP: Logged |
ariesforever
Newflake Posts: 16
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Registered: Jul 2012
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posted July 16, 2012 12:03 AM
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Originally posted by Libreo:
I was more referring to Cancerians when they're in a relationship when I mentioned mind games. And as for feeling guilty, I was referring to your post saying that you feel like it's your fault. Don't torture yourself. Whatever happened happened, we all make mistakes and learn. Cancer is not as upfront as Aries but don't waste precious time trying to interpret and analyse what he has said or has left unsaid and second guessing etc. The best you can do is take his word for what it is. "No". It doesn't sound like he is playing any mind games with you in this instance, otherwise you might be getting mixed messages, which your'e clearly not.
I'm no expert but I don't think, based on sun signs alone, that Cancer and Aries are a good match at all. Even if he were interested he's have you pulling your hair out with his mood changes.
i guess you're right, i have apologized probably more than 50 rimes and its been 8 months, hes hurt me so much and he knows it, i figured he would care a little, but i don't know
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ail221
Knowflake Posts: 515
From: Mary Margaret Blanchard's home
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted July 16, 2012 12:07 AM
Cancers actually have to have some sort of emotional attachment to you before we give someone a real silence treatment. From what you said he may not have been interested. Someone taking that much interest in my life outside of a family member or mentor is a bit un-nerving. Yes Cancers do detach, and some cancers love affectionate people but if there isn't a mutual emotional connection that is a bit creepy for me personally. A guy sending me cute texts and I just met him and/or I have no interest in him romantically makes me want to run towards the hills with a sword handy. IP: Logged | |
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